I’ve been using the helix syn & progasm for almost 7 weeks. The last several weeks, I’ve hit sort of a plateau. I feel like I am SO close, but it never happens. I’ve tried very hard to just let it be, don’t expect anything. When I reach that zen, I will get even closer after a bit. But nothing. Any ideas?
“SR: The 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge”
I decided to “take” the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge. I am now completing Day 8. The first 6 days or so were not pleasant. The hardest part was the “horniness” which was expected. Surprisingly, Day 8 was quite event-free (and horny-free). I don’t believe I had an erection all day which is amazing! I believe my longest previous “record” was 10 days.
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Here is how this challenge works. It is really quite simple. No ejaculation for 21 days. If I experience a wet dream within 21 days, I start over and go back to Day 1. Sex is OK. Masturbation/edging is OK. Aneros with prostate orgasms is OK. Anything else sexual is OK. The only thing that is NOT OK is ejaculation! Simple, right? it probably will get harder as I progress but I decided to take the challenge. I will periodically update this blog to log my progress.
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Is this my prostate?
I am a Beginner to all of this. So I’ve tried a few times and haven really ever achieved what I wanted out of it. Was feeling around in there to get a sense of where it is at and a came across this sort of fat bulge in there. It’s quite large and feels like it almost blocks off anything from going any further in.
Or am I completely off and it might be something different like a hemeroid?
Bating and edging session Sunday afternoon, August 14
Once again I got up before sunrise and I bathed, shaved, and dressed for the day. A high of 94 is forecast for today. It may go higher than that. Got my breakfast food at the neighborhood 7-Eleven and returned here at 7:30 a.m. There is a Bermuda High settled over the eastern third of the USA. Skies are a bright blue and there is direct sunshine. Already it 90 degrees plus in the ten o’clock hour as I type this.
Most Sundays I worship at church four miles away, but not today since I am staying home in the air conditioned comfort of my apartment. Once again, I have donned a BIKE no. 10 jock underneath cargo shorts and an Under Armour T-shirt. The jockstrap cradles my genitals, perfect for Kegeling in. 🙂 I feel youthful and athletic as I psych myself up for a bating and edging session this afternoon.
Bate and edging session at 12:15 p.m. Stripped down buck naked wearing the BIKE no. 10 engaging in foreplay, caressing my jock pouch, especially my knobby glans, all the while savoring my Kegels! I went all the way and then some in my bating and edging session during which I Kegeled quite a few times while riding the edge of ejaculatory inevitability. Finally at 1:15 p.m., I came in a very sweet orgasm and ejaculated a cream load of cum.
Gotta take the Bad with the good!
Lat night, I had a good session with my Progasm Ice and really enjoyed it. After this session I wanted to finish off the evening with a Super-T so with the toy still inserted, I worked ever so slowly on my penis. The climax was good but not exceptional and my ejaculation was surprisingly minimal. It was certainly not a Super-T but rather a dismal-T.
I attribute this failure to my overdoing things; I had 4 Aneros sessions in 4 days coupled with one or two edging session per day over and above my semen retention for two weeks.
This morning, I wanted to test my situation so I attempted one edging session. I struggled to even get a semi hard erection, got to the edge once and held the flow. I considered it somewhat successful but I need to give my body, my mind and my prostate some time off to recuperate. This is a case of ‘The Good, the Bad and the Ugly’ but without The Ugly. Oh well.
“Semen Retention: To The Edge And Back”
OMG! This session turned out to be my first SR “edging” session. Let me explain how it happened….
I was up early and dosing on some erotic music, binaurals for prostate health, etc. I was doing this for about 2 hours but feeling nothing in the prostate; somewhat disappointing. I am now into Day 7 of semen retention and I know my testosterone level is up. I woke up this AM with a very powerful Viagra-like erection and almost felt that I could be heading for a wet dream (if I were asleep).
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I wanted to retire back to my own bedroom and I felt a strong need for a Peridise session. So I lubed-up the large one and inserted it fully (I have found that by doing this I seem to stimulate the prostate as well). Anyway, I rolled-over on my side and just relaxed for about 25 minutes or so. Near the end, while doing some kegels, I felt the beginning of a HFWO and when I felt the tip of my penis, it was wet with precum!
Now, remembering my “power” over my ejaculation while practicing SR, I decided that I would END this Peridise session (much to my disappointment in not ejaculating (it would have been so easy)). But that is not the end of this story…….
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Any one want to Aneros on Skype?
Add me dirty.sandisk. I have a Helix.
Saturday morning session, 8/13/16, with bating and edging sessions following
Hi guys,
I slept well last night and got up at 5 a.m. and promptly bathed and shaved because we are under an excessive heat warning until 11 p.m. tonight in our heatwave which should begin to abate on Tuesday.
Also when attending to my toilet duties, I had a fat erection which I should reward later today in an extended bate and edging session or more. So I sat before my PC looking at erotic pictures on tumblr while Kegeling and bating except my cock was not interested. So at 5:45, I began my session. I used in order the following models, MGX, Eupho Classic, Tempo and Progasm Ivory. I had perhaps the best ride with MGX today to date. This time he was not aggressive at all, but delivered a robust, yet gentle massage which I savored. Eupho Classic and Tempo rode well in their customary ways. I performed sets of Kegels and Reverse Kegels on the first two. I sat with Tempo inserted at my PC savoring his rhythm. I ended the session Progasm Ivory with sustained sets of Kegels and Reverse Kegels with him. The session was so sweet and powerful. It lasted about 1.5 hours.
After the session I donned a Champion cup and jock which is manufactured in Taiwan. The cup is somewhat contoured but has a thick cushioned gasket adding to its comfort. The cup and jock fits my junk perfectly and hence is ideal for the Kegels! This cup covers my groin from my perineum to my glans penis and hence my cock and balls are securely locked. Just awesome for performing the Kegels!
“Semen Retention: Who’s In Charge Here?”
I was just driving today when it suddenly dawned on me: when practicing semen retention (SR), who’s really in charge? I know the answer now is obvious—ME! But with that answer comes a lot of qualifications.
I should be able to decide when to ejaculate. The only time my body will decide is if I need a wet dream!
I should have enough self-control to tell my penis to “behave”! Just because I have an erection is no reason to just ejaculate!
When I get aroused, I will make the decision if it will be leading me closer to the PONR. If it does and I want to continue SR, I will “pull the plug”. I don’t have to give-in to an ejaculation!
I have complete control over my sexuality. I can decide how aroused I want to be.
-to be continued
Porn, an Addiction or Not
I know this topic has been written about many times and there are as many opinions about it as Carter’s got pills so here goes.
Before my Aneros and back door discoveries, porn was my good reliable friend to achieve my pleasurable moments. I reflect on the fact that, probably due to age, my sex drive was forever low. I could always rely on porn to give me back a little of the spark I needed to achieve positive and, what was at the time, my ultimate (but elusive) pleasure.
Along comes Aneros and all the pro & con advises that comes with the Wiki and Forum. The correct answer to this is ‘to each his own’. Now, having said all that, I will outline my own experience.
In my early Aneros sessions, I continued to rely on my crutch and the toy helped expand my pleasures. With limited progress, I eventually realized (referring to forum’s expert opinions for advice) that porn was in fact preventing me from appreciating all the feelings and sensations happening in my lower innards. Pleasure was plentiful but it was mostly externally penile. Eventually, while practicing pornless (is this a word?) sessions, I feel I progressed by encountering feelings I never had before and for me, the proof was evident that my old friend should remain in the past and to be re-invited only periodically for a good masturbate session.