Lots of pleasure initially but it fades quickly. Advice?

Been using my helix syn very irregularly for about 6 months. I live with other people and usually like to make a big thing out of it when I do use it so that makes it difficult.

Normally it’ll feel amazing when I first insert it after prepping and lubing everything up. I’ll get hard instantly, produce precum, and have involuntary contractions.

Then like most guides say I try and relax. Still usually feels good at this point. Do this for about 10-15 minutes.

Here is when everything starts to fade. It’s been inside me for around 20-30 minutes and no matter what approach I try (porn + contraction or no porn/do nothing) I lose most feelings of arousal. Sometimes I’ll still produce precum but I can’t say I feel any pleasure. What should I try/do?

Superabundant Aless –> Wednesday morning session, 8/10/16 –> Oh, that sweet Aless!

F–k, short Aneros login times again, I lost another blog post! 🙁

Yesterday morning I laid off having Aneros sessions altogether. For a week before yesterday, I been having nearly daily sessions with close to five Super-T attempts in the late evenings. With that kind of schedule, I didn’t want to full into utter sexual depletion nor to become an Aneros addict! Moderate Aneros use suggests that you have sessions with days set apart for recovery and relaxation. This approach is analogous to a weight training regimen. Lifting weights every day actually impairs muscular development, so also with the Aneros. Plus one’s body knows what it wants. Pay attention to your body when you use Aneros. You may save yourself from serious injury.

Masturbating your penis with an Aneros inserted is the heart of the Super-T, but also anal contractions are called for in this pursuit. The coveted goal of the Super-T is an intense, sustained orgasm coupled by a monumental ejaculation of semen! Guys on the Aneros Forum have reported to me that Super-T’s hence are exhausting. Many avoid Super-T’s as much possible and concentrate on achieving Super-O’s and MMO’s. That has been my approach from the outset of my sessions leaving my penis out of the Aneros equation. However right now, I feel the unfulfilled, unrequited goal of the Super-T which has revved up even more so my Aless. Read more »

“Are Energy Orgasms Real?….You Bet!

After dosing on some binaurals for sexual energy, I decided to remove the headphones and just relax. I started to perform some light kegels just for fun. This action quickly changed into what I like to call “thought contractions”. This is really directed tantric energy towards my rectum and eventually, my prostate. Well, it didn’t take long before these thoughts became “swirls” of energy starting with my anus and SLOWLY working its way up towards my rectum. When it hit the part of the rectum that abuts my prostate, I felt an extremely pleasurable “quiver” with every “touch” of energy near my prostate just like I would during an Aneros session! This was unreal but VERY REAL! (I did not have a lot of time during this “session” but I experienced several Mini-O’s throughout.)
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I have heard the term “energy orgasm” and have seen it demonstrated on some videos. But the best teacher of all is your own body! Here is a portion of a relevant article I discovered online:

“Sexual energy is available to men twenty-four hours a day, but most men starve themselves because they believe they can satisfy sexually only during a few minutes of intercourse. The most liberating thing for men is to realize that they have total access to and control of their sexual energy at any time.”

Think about it! This sexual energy is available to us men 24/7. We should take advantage of it! Being able to orgasm at will is a powerful, mind-blowing experience! Try it!
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Oh that Aneros feel! Early Monday evening session, 8/8/16

Hi guys,

Once again I had that irrepressible hankering or horniness for an Aneros session, a mere twenty hours after the previous one, very early Monday morning! Oh my body wanted it and I was happy to oblige. So early last Monday evening prepped in order the following models: Progasm Jr, Maximus, and Progasm Ivory.

I cannot tell you all how much I have come to value Progasm Jr. Although it has Aneros “slippery” Ice material, it locks into place when I ride him. Progasm Jr has joined my team when I engage my attempts for a Super-T shoot. But last evening, I rode him just because I just like his feel as he massages and exercises my anal canal and musculature and also my prostate. Likewise I did the same with Maximus also part of my Super-T team. I performed sets of Kegels and Reverse Kegels on Maximus last evening.

I just love the feel of Progasm Ivory as well which, I believe, is a happy marriage between the sleek feel of Program ICE and the rugged feel of big bruiser, Progasm Classic. I rode Progasm Ivory for over thirty minutes last evening, also performing Kegels and Reverse Kegels with him. Progasm Ivory felt so good and I felt so relaxed that I fell asleep. When I came to, it was already 9:10 p.m. past dusk. So I brought the session to the end. Read more »

A couple of GGringo’s perceptive comments worth treasuring

I have enjoyed my interactions with GGringo on Aneros.com of late recently. He became an Aneros member in February 2016.

He has given me permission to copy the text of his Forum post last week. It is entitled: “Pushing Edging to the Edge.” He describes his masturbation and edging practice how all this relates to his Aneros sessions and Aless. I treasure his perceptive words and when he gave me permission earlier today, that really revved up my Aless! 🙂

“For weeks now, I was practicing edging or at least I thought I was. I would masturbate and when I felt I was getting close to climax, I would squeeze my PC muscle as hard as I could and stop ejaculation. I was proud of my progress but I never experienced any real orgasms in the process. It felt good and I was thinking, it will come with time and experience.

“In the last few days, I changed my process and finally discovered my way to multiple orgasm without ejaculation! I masturbate, sometimes aggressively and go as far as feeling the coming of eminent ejaculation and then I squeeze the base of my penis as hard as I can and at the same time, push in my perineum just as hard to suppress ejaculation. The first few times, I did not really feel the orgasm as I was more preoccupied with averting the spill. And then, with practice, I get the full orgasms on every set of strokes but without the spill! In one session, my prostate leaked some fluid but it was not semen and still no refractory. I can now achieve this several times (4 to 6 so far) per session and now I give myself at least a few sessions per day. It’s getting easier and with no refractory period, I am not drained of energy. In fact I feel more energetic all day! Read more »

Aless and Kegels in a jockstrap and an athletic cup

Hi guys,

Like many baby boomers, I have worn jockstraps for sports and leisure wear since 1963 when I had to get one for 7th grade PE. In those years, a jockstrap was an essential part of a boy’s gym uniform. When I slipped on a jock for the first time in early September 1963 not only did it feel real good, but also it produced a sexual awakening for me. A traditional jockstrap has as its components a mesh pouch to contain and support men and boys genitalia, specifically a male’s penis and scrotum as well as two one inch leg straps and a 2.5-3.0 inch waistband. Jockstraps as well know them know were first manufactured in 1874 to protect and support bicyclists genitalia as they rode over cobblestone or brick streets of Boston, MA. In those years, they were called Bike Jockey straps. Soon they evolved in the BIKE athletic supporter, the archetypal jockstrap, with the bike wheel logo on the label on the waistband label. The BIKE Athletic Company manufactured millions of jockstraps for athletes worldwide for a 145 years. BIKE was purchased by Russell Athletic a good six years ago. Russell Athletic ceased to manufacture BIKE jockstraps in 2015. Soon these jockstraps will be rare collector items. Read more »

The Trouble With Holidays

After my last session with achieving a super-o, the school summer holidays have begun. Having the kids at home is going to prevent daytime sessions in which to carry on my exploration. A couple of opportuninies have presented themselves however, so I am grabbing any chance I have for Aneros action.
The first was on the Friday evening which unfortunately ended up being interrupted after 30 mins. The second was one the following Monday. Again this only was a half hour session. Both were pleasurable and I managed to oragsm in both, however in some ways they were not fully satisfying as I felt that both sessions had so much more to offer.
They were clearly both pleasurable experiences but I feel that certainly for me sessions need to be longer. The Progasm needs to be given time in order to gain full benefit, but no session is ever wasted as something can always be learnt.
The next challenge is that we are going on a camping holiday. I will pack my Progasm but I’m not really sure how using it in a tent will go.

A Transendence to a New Level

As mentioned in my previous blog, I have just been on a camping holiday. This clearly was going to present a challenge as far as using my Progasm goes as I’m not sure how tents and Aneros mix!
However opportunities did present themselves as although in a confined space, my wife and I were in separate sleeping bags. She is a heavy sleeper so I just needed to be quiet which is quite a challenge when experiencing the kind of orgasm that the Progasm produces.
My first session took me to a whole new level. Firstly I have come to notice that my orgasms come in sections – so possibly multiple orgasms. I oragsm and then about a minute later it happens again. This happens about 3 – 4 times before I feel that the orgasm has ended. Within the session this can happen about 4 or 5 times with intervals of 15 to 20 between them. The final oragsm in this session was something completely different. I can only describe it as a transendence – I moved to a whole new level. There wasn’t the usual shaking, I felt that I was still but it was a whole wave of happiness and when it was over I had a complete feeling of satisfaction and pleasure above anything that I have experienced sexually. I also noticed that I was not in control of the Progasm – my body and the Progasm were working in tandem. I just lay there and enjoyed the ride.
My second session later in the week was similar, but in didn’t quite reach the heights of the first. I think I was just too tired in the end as I did doze off after one extremely strong orgasm.
Another thing learnt was that I really felt for the first time the P-tab working and providing an extra sensation. I’m glad I packed my Progasm but I cannot wait for my next session which will be somewhat more comfortable now I’m back home.

What my body wants, very early 8/8/16 session *

Hi guys,

Late last night, I was chatting with a straight guy, a Midwesterner, who was sharing details of his sexual life. He is like many married guys who still has a sexual verve in his mid age, while his post menstrual wife doesn’t. So he has found a healthy outlet in his Aneros sessions and having safe sex with some of his buddies. He also work outs at his local gym about six days a week which keeps him physically and sexual fit. I discovered also that we’re both circumcised and thus have large cock heads/GLANS. He enjoys JO with his buddies and having his cock sucked but doesn’t reciprocate.

He lit my sexual fire last night becaise he enjoys masturbating with his Aneros inserted and loves achieving Super-T’s. That poured fuel on my sexual ardor. So I quickly prepped for a session just after mid night last night. I used models Progasm Jr, Helix Classic, and even Progasm Ivory.

It was to be another Super-T shoot. Both Progasm Jr and Helix Classic are ideal partners in my pursuit for a Super-T. I used Progasm Jr last night for that. My chat with the hunky Midwesterner gave me an erection which I tried to use with the Progasm Jr. I found the ejaculatory build up but couldn’t maintain that momentum through beating my meat. So I relaxed and reverted to delicate touches and strokes on my still plump cockshaft and bulbous glans. Again sexual sweetness emanated from my pulsating prostate and sexually charged penis throughout my body. Last night I had to break off from my Super-T shoot because it was not working. So I submitted to what my body wanted and settled for usual Aneros session. Read more »

“Semen Retention: If At First You Don’t Succeed….”

Well, the string has ended at 9! Here’s how it happened……

My wife was definitely in the mood last night. We settled into bed and began to watch some favorite programs. All was well for a while. Then, without my prodding, I noticed she had re-positioned herself next to me. She had laid her pillow across my chest and just settled-in. Before I knew it, she had my package cupped and began to lightly stroke my scrotum through my boxers. OMG! I am starting to moan already and she has just started! (Realize it has been 8 days since we did anything). She ignores the moans and just continues on her way. We continue to watch and she continues to pleasure me. At some point, she involves my nipples into the action. By this time, I have a raging erection that would not quit! I must have been ‘up’ for at least 30 minutes or more (I wasn’t timing it).

When she “finished” with me, she asked me if I am going to finish-myself-off? I said that I have been avoiding ejaculations and that feels good to me (I didn’t explain SR). She seemed a little puzzled. So, we cuddled for a bit more. I could have gone another round but she needed her rest. So we said good-night and I settled-in for what I thought was going to be another day into SR (Day 9).

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