due to spiritual risks I may have to stop

I may have to stop my practice of anerosing because I cant decide if what im having is an orgasm or my kundalini stirring. Who knows it may rise anyway but I dont want to poke at it no more. I have found a few of us have had it raise because of this and I dont want to be a victim of it or do my best not to be hoping its not too late.

Yes I know what I have experienced does feel good but im not sure im willing to take the risks involved with it. Its sad because everything I have found so far has its risks and I have not found the glory in doing it just the negative side effects.

I dont really have any questions I guess its more of a rant.

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Helix syn update, no progress and questions

Hey everyone, I don’t want to post everything again you can easily see my other posts through this account. Unfortunately my experience always devolves into me getting lazy, masturbating and I do then feel a bit of prostate “bumping?” I’m starting to believe the syn is not big enough, I have read the same for a few bigger people online. I’m kind of curious to have one of my trans friends give me anal (she is 6′ hard) since she is willing to help me with this.

“Discovering Tantric Sex”

I have heard of the term “tantric sex” but never really knew what it was. Until last night……

My wife and I had a ‘romantic encounter’ that began in the usual way. She spooned me for a while (which felt really good! — I was hard as rock!) and then we changed positions. However, when I ‘spooned’ her, the most amazing thing happened! I suddenly felt no obligation to climax. Instead, I concentrated on pleasuring her and feeling her sexual energy. Let me explain……

This encounter seemed more than just foreplay. First off, I was in no hurry to get-off nor did I want to. When we spooned, I felt a great sense of sexual energy surrounding my wife and I began to completely ‘envelope’ her physically. I was in no hurry. I concentrated on her breathing which, I know now, is the beginning of tantric sex. Without getting too graphic, suffice it to say that I explored every inch of her body. I took my time and I know that she enjoyed the pleasure. At one point, my erection was strong and I demonstrated that to her without saying a word. She got the message!

As I said before, I took my time and I had no intention to climax. All the attention was on the sexual energy surrounding us in that moment. This encounter, it would appear, lasted well over an hour! It probably could have gone on for another hour. Since there was no expectation of ejaculation, the realm of sexual ‘pleasures’ was almost unending. Read more »

“Sexual Arousal Hypnosis: Awesome!”

OMG! Where to start with this ‘session’?

I was up early AM as usual and just searching online for something “new” and came-across a 20-minute hypnosis audio track called “Increase Sexual Arousal Hypnosis” by Walkingtall Ireland and decided to give it a try. I felt very relaxed going into the deep relaxation state. I liked the moderator’s voice: he had a nice Irish accent too! About halfway in, the moderator guided me into a deeper awareness of my sexuality and I believe there were a lot of subliminal suggestions embedded as well. I liked the feeling I was getting and actually began to feel a certain warm, pleasurable ‘feeling’ within my male package. Not really a stimulating feeling, just a nice warmth. Hard to explain – I didn’t even get an erection from this. I thought this hypnosis was a pleasant-enough experience although since nothing else happened (erection, ejaculation, etc.) I thought I would get back to bed to maybe to do a few contractions and see what develops. Well……something did develop…..

I TOTALLY WAS NOT PREPARED FOR WHAT HAPPENED NEXT……AND I AM F*****G SERIOUS!

I am trembling as I am typing this because this upcoming feeling was so overpowering……Please listen to my experience…..I am not making this up! Read more »

Think I had p-waves last night, I can feel this thing really starting to work.

So last night, I went for my aneros for the first time in a few weeks. Did the prep, primed myself with my pure wand for 15 minutes or so, and popped in the helix. I started out just reading some lewd stories, my trigger of choice during play, but I guess I was super duper tired, because I dozed off for maybe 20 minutes. Woke back up, realized it was still in and I wasn’t ready to give up. So I got back into reading, not really totally into whatever the stories were about, just doing it to stay awake. At some point, I started to feel something really strange. It was this intangible feeling in the base of my hips, and all of a sudden, my whole body was flooded with this feeling I’m not going to be able to describe. It wasn’t necessarily sexual, but it felt really really good, like a body high. I wasn’t smiling, I was just totally incapacitated. I didn’t feel like the toy was moving at all, but maybe it was and I just couldn’t focus because of the bodily sensations. I wasn’t sure what to do, but when I’ve had involuntary reactions to the aneros in the past, I tried too hard to keep myself in the mood, like reading faster and faster, as if I’ve got to get to the big climax before the feeling fades. So I just set my laptop to the side and closed my eyes, and tried focusing on other things that turn me on. The feeling stayed for maybe three minutes, before gradually fading away. I was both incredibly happy and devastated. I knew I’d made progress but I was so bummed to have lost it. Read more »

After 2 years of trying i had my first hands free orgasm.

Just sort of gushing here, im really happy about this, so im commemorating it with a post.

I got into prostate play 2 years ago when my gf bought me an aneros (helix syn). Ive used a lot of toys since then, but yesterday i had a session with my aneros first, then the lelo hugo, turned it up and within about half an hour i had one. Never been able to have one with a single toy, but the aneros followed by the vibrations of the lelo made for a really good winning combo.

Happy to answer any questions if anyone has them.

“Eupho Dance & HOWO”

What a session! First, a little background. I had been ‘dosing’ on some penis stimulation binaurals for about 45 minutes so I was hard, wet and horny. Since it still was early AM, I decided to “do” a quick non-stimulating ‘session’ with my Eupho and maybe finish-off with an ejaculation later-on. What could be the harm? As it turned out, plenty! Let me explain……

I lubed-up, got the Eupho where it belonged and turning over on my favorite right side position, I relaxed and waited. Well, about 3 minutes in, the Eupho made up its own mind that IT was going to “finish-me-off” whether I liked it or not. So for the next 40 minutes or so, it was a quiet march for me to the ‘edge–of–the-cliff’! Let me further explain…… Read more »

[Help] Need help, I have a session today and I think i had it

I play with my Aneros today and I try some technique i read on internet, at first I feel very nice pleasure from my pelvis, after like 10-15mins, my hands are getting numb/tingling, and i just keep going until my stomach havr the same feeling ,and then my chest, my arm, my leg, basically my entire body are geting numb, buzzing/tingling, Its keep going about 2-3mins

is this some kind of mini-o?

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Continuous contraction got me to orgasm rather than rhythmic contraction

The typical beginner method that people seem to follow is rhythmic contractions. However, I found I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions. I wasn’t getting *any* pleasurable sensations from the massager and I couldn’t tell whether the massager was even contacting my prostate.

I did some reading and I discovered that the intent of the rhythmic contractions is to tire out the anal muscles so that they naturally spasm. The muscle spasms then result in a positive feedback loop for stimulation, hopefully leading to orgasm.

Since I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions, I decided to employ continuous contraction instead. I kept a continuous contraction going for about five minutes, at which point my muscles tired out and started spasming. I then quickly found myself having a full body orgasm!

I think continuous contraction works for me because there’s significantly less to focus on and it’s easier to control, so I can completely relax. With rhythmic contraction, I found that I had to focus on the contractions in order to control them, preventing me from actually relaxing.

So if you’re having trouble with rhythmic contractions, maybe give continuous contraction a shot instead? I’d say it’s worth a shot if you haven’t been making progress otherwise.