For the last 3 years or so I've been experimenting with solo anal play, and recently have gotten a aneros after reading some reviews. I was also diagnosed with low testosterone 2 years ago and have been on injections for it ever since. I read online that the sensations are related to the prostate being swollen when aroused but when I feel it with my finger when aroused I can't really feel anything, I've tried the aneros and some other toys and I don't really feel much. I also read that as men age their prostate gland gets larger so does that mean I need to be older before really experiencing the height of this pleasure?
My sexual awakening
Why is it I don't want to stop my pleasuring sessions? Well work pulled me away from my session that I consider to be the best yet. I wouldn't have stopped as I really am loving my new sexual self. I have changed within and really am embracing my rewiring with Aneros. After 2 1/2 hours I decided to induce a TO massaging by the fold under the tip of my penis as I have been abstaining from touching. Well I found that the TO took away from the high of the session and drained my energies. Very important lesson for my rewiring don't touch. I have switched to Shey Butter from Vaseline it really works better and last longer. In short sessions are getting to feel so good. I love it. SoFunLoving…
Hanging on to Syn
Saturday night and home with the Mrs. Feeling sexual anyway and decided to insert the Helix-Syn and go to bed for the night. Love the growing feeling in me. I feel like a flower blossoming inside. I finally doze off and awoke with a blazing hard on that was very strong. The Helix had me in it's grips. Wow. Anyway a great feeling. Knowing I was not going to get lost in the strength of my sexual energy because the wife was sleeping next to me but satisfying just to keep the rewiring program on fast track. Always good to have my Aneros friends around. SoFunLoving…
I’ve just had the strangest session yet
I spent almost 80 minutes aroused, about 55 minutes in I added some lube and was back there very shortly, maybe even a bit higher for brief moments.
There was no orgasm though, not even a glimpse of it. I'm getting more confident in how to do this but still don't know how to push it past the threshold (I tried some contractions and angles but nothing worked).
It felt nice, I feel relaxed and soft now but also understandably unsatisfied. I don't want to ruin it by masturbating either. I'm not worried that it would prevent me from doing it again soon as my orgasms were always about a day or two since traditional orgasm so my worries are actually exactly opposite (now is day 3).
How often do you masturbate or have sex and how do you think it affects your prostate orgasms? Do you experienced people ever have such sessions or you just learned how to turn the intensity up?
Steady progress / Lube Observations
Making consistent steady progress its seems – can work the pleasure up within minutes and with nipple stim plus thrusting/rocking, can ride the mini-Os within 30-45 min consistently. I am treating this like a milestone since I can sense more can come with more time and practice. Usually finishing off with a super-T but the occasional hand-free wet-O happens )probably due to nipple stim?(.
Switching from a medium/light store purchased to a powder Cobeco solution later this week. I have definitely noticed the thicker lubes feel better, ride better and last much longer. So with the powder, I can mix to my desired thickness.
Happy hunting.
Pee-hole stim continues…
Had an A–Less session last night and two this afternoon.
My prostate was heated up still from last night and I hadn't crapped yet today, so it felt swelled up and I could get electric charges easily with nipple stim.
The rest of todays sessions also include nipple stim.
I spent maybe 10 min warming up more with some kegels till got electric tingling from my prostate all the time. I could go into Dry–O's quickly, just by clenching my legs together and doing a kegel, so I did maybe 5 min of that till I could feel my prostate all the time. Then I went into pee–hole presses and tickling and had a couple of rolling intense Dry–O's during 15 min.
Then got a phone call I had to take! #%$$@$ Spent a half hour helping my nephew…
Went back and found I was still all heated up, so had another 1 hr session. Started up again where I left off. This time the Dry–O from pee–hole stim grew into very intense with thrashing around and bouncing. Very strong thrusting. Had one that felt like an ejaculation orgasm, because of the thrusting grating movements, but was totally dry. Really got into a sweat with the workout.
Then did one using my pointer and indexed finger on either side of the base of the penis, massaging the base and each side of the base of my scrotum and crack between my legs and scrotum. Very intense.
My body doesn’t allow initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.
Very recently (within the past 3 sessions), my body doesn't even allow me the initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.
For the past few times, I've inserted the Aneros when I can feel my prostate begging for it. I'll be sitting in a chair or on the couch and start to feel things twitching at a more rapid pace than I've ever experienced. It's as if I'm sitting on the railroad tracks as a train is approaching.
So when I feel this begging, I begin a session but my body immediately starts going crazy…not Super-O crazy, as I've yet to cross that threshhold, but my PC muscle, sphincter muscle and everything in between just starts this crazy dance of pleasure. It will get pretty intense, which forces both my PC muscle and rectal muscles to involuntarily contract all the way. After each extreme contraction, it seems that the involuntary dancing that's going on gets less and less intense until…….nothing. Well, almost nothing– once in awhile I'll have a minor twitch, but that's about it. It's almost as if my session is going in the reverse direction of how it's supposed to.
My question is, should I try to stop my body from those extreme contractions, or does this have nothing to do with the "calming down" of everything? Is it that my body becomes used to having something in there and the initial shock of a foreign object creates that crazy dancing? I usually give myself around an hour or so of not doing much of anything after the twitching stops.
Mouth dries out during Super O
I've been addicted to the Aneros since I've reached the Super O. It's literally out of this world, but I've noticed my mouth gets extremely dry after sessions. Is this a common thing? I'm always really thirsty even if I have a brief <60 min session.
Dry–O Joystick
My prostate felt pretty full this morning and during the day, so figured I'd do a session this afternoon with my Helix.
I spent the first 15 min warming up without the Helix with PC contractions and low ab breathing till I felt my prostate getting electric tingles and starting to feel present. Then I inserted the Helix and spent like 30 min with nipple sims and slow/fast contractions and had a couple Dry–O's, but nothing extraordinary. Did a little with couple fingers on my upper corona with nipple stim and it really jumped the prostate into high gear. By this time my prostate was fully aroused & swollen so I could always feel it, and every contraction I made gave at least a small electric charge.
)I included nipple stimulation as an integral part during the rest of the session!(
So I figured I'd see what I could do with my penis again, same as the other night. I started rubbing the very tip of my glans at the pee–hole, and after a couple min, some lube oozed out, and made it easier to keep rubbing. Within a min or so started a Dry–O for a few min then ebbed. I waited a few minutes to recycle, then started again, and had another longer Dry–O. Ended up having like 10 over the next 30+ minutes. Some were short, some were very intense – double up pleasure.
I found the “Sweet Spot”, and a question
I highly recommend getting a Hemorrhoid cushion, and just sitting.
Really, that is all you have to do. It puts just the right pressure where needed. Besides, the cushion really is needed, because otherwise, sitting is some positions can cause a lot of discomfort, or outright pain.
Over time, the prostate get more and more sensitive, and the body seems to automatically seek the most pleasurable sensations.
Really, I think that is the most basic programming of ALL life.
Seek out pleasure. Ovoid anything that is not pleasurable.
It takes a while, but it slowly gets better and better, over time eventually the O hits. But it keeps on going. It still takes a little while, but much sooner the second O comes, the third even faster, the forth faster, until pretty soon it is almost constant orgasms.
At this point, it is nearly impossible to concentrate on anything other than the constant pleasure.
I've found a sort of solution to the concentration problem.
Try to stop the orgasms. It isn't easy. Then gently manipulate the position you are sitting in. I call it the Sweet Spot. It is not as intense as the O. But it is damned good. And it never stops. Anyway it is easier to concentrate on something else. Even then, it is very easy to slip back into the constant orgasms.
And now for a question. How long is it safe to leave this thing in?