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hi guys,
im planning to buy my first ever sex toy, but the problem is, i want them to ship it in the middle east, i have a US address and from the US address it will be shipped in the middle east with my name on it. do you think im going to face a problem? i know sex toys are not allowed here, but what the heck, its not like im smuggling drugs or whatever.
I am 55, straight, and have been enjoying my Aneros Helix and the Naughty Boy for about a year now. I always enjoyed ass play from when I was very young, and occasionally pegged with my wife, but now mostly use my toys when masturbating on my own. (I still enjoy great sex with my wife.)
Over the last year or so I have developed an enlarged prostate and have BPH, with moderate-to-severe bladder/urinary symptoms. (I think in the long run I will probably need TURP surgery to resolve my bladder symptoms.)
I have noticed recently, and most strongly just today, that after a session with my Naughty Boy my prostate was really sensitive and I had some pain for the first time. I should emphasize that I am very gentle with myself and use plenty of lube; I would consider myself pretty experienced with ass play and my own body, so I am not injuring myself out of ignorance. I have skirted the edge of the super-O path with the Aneros but mostly really enjoy the Naughty Boy and find it intensely pleasurable.
I have also recently had some feelings of very slight fever and feeling flushed after prostate play, and am wondering if prostatitis or just the stimulation of the prostate could cause this. I just saw my urologist last week and he ruled out any sort of infection, though he just tested my urine and did not extract prostate fluid or test that. He did a DRE which was normal (though the prostate is moderately enlarged). Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this – I am not expecting medical advice from reddit.
Tried the Vice last night. Was very frustrating. Got really nowhere. The only highlight of the evening came in the first 15 minutes after inserting it. Wow, could really feel that the prostate was being touched.
But that's as far as it went. Tried doing nothing, fiddling with my perineum, moving around. Nothing went anywhere. Maybe my body just wasnt ready. During the day, I hadn't really felt horny for a Dry-O experience since two nights ago when I had a great experience with the Helix.
Also, even though I think the lubes are working great, and I have enough, after 45 min, my rectum was feeling uncomfortable. Like the Vice was too big. Even though you could feel it passing the prostate, it wasn't generating pleasure. After an hour, I did feel some prostate buzzing and some small involuntary movements – maybe heartbeet movement twiggles on my prostate.
But at that point, was done, so took it out. Tried some straight perineum massage that usually always works right away, but nothing there either. It felt like the strong sensations from the Vice were again flooding out the smaller whispers of feelings from the Perineum massage.
I'm now using an all vegetable gel to pre-lube the aneros, and a mixture of pasteurized coconut and shea Butter oils intjected internally )1.5 tsp(. So far am happy w the veggie oil mix to pre-lube. After 45 min, I pulled out the Vice to check it, and it was still moist all over from the lube stiking to it. Previously using Vaseline for pre-lube, the Vice was always mostly dry when I pulled out to check.
Hi guys,
As a guy entering his latter 60's, I do not masturbate much anymore. My urge to masturbate was greatly lessened when my last job was ending more than five years ago when I was living under great stress. At the same time, I suffered acute erectile dysfunction.
Aneros restored my sexual function, I am happy to say.
But as a guy in his 60's, I may masturbate once or twice a month.
Some weeks ago, in late April, I was up fairly late viewing penis pics and scenes of gay sex on Tumblr. Horniness struck me like a brick that night. Not only had I an erection that wouldn't quit, but I was masturbating. It was almost like old times. I found myself riding or surfing the edge of ejaculatory inevitability, over and over again! However, I must have edged for a good two hours! Finally I ejaculated a huge of load of semen, but I had a very sweet orgasm which permeated my whole body, even my consciousness, a good five plus minutes! I attribute much of this to my nearly three years of Aneros sessions. Now I am incorporating "edging" into my Aless and Aneros sessions. The sky is the limit.
Take care!
Hi guys,
Earlier this morning I had a session that lasted about 2.45 hours. One could say that it was heavy duty, but it wasn't because all my Aneros models filled me with pleasure, and afterward produced the afterglow of continuing, vibrant Aless!
I need to get back to Eupho Classic more and more. It penetrates deeply and reaches along the entire length of my prostate and even around it. Also Eupho Classic dances when I Aneros. However this morning, it was perhaps more aggressive then usual.
I like Helix Classic more because it delivers a more robust, yet a slightly lesser massage action. Helix Classic has become a mainstay in my sessions, also big bruiser Progasm Classic which I adore. Sometimes I Progasm Classic in men who are unavailable [generally] for sex. They are the DILF's = DADS I would LIKE to FUCK, or DADS I would LIKE them to FUCK me. The dads I have in mind are married men and fathers with children. I knew such a one at a coffeehouse I used to frequent, and what I experienced was an unrequited love which caused me weeks of heartache and weeping. I am "older and wiser" now, Progasm Classic continues to teach me important lessons about self-loving and proper care of my body and psyche.
Tempo continues to star in most of my sessions. Tempo, I consider as a pair of dumbbells for weight training and toning of my anal musculature.
Hi guys,
The most wonderful thing about the Aneros is that it has put me in touch sexually with my body like never before. This is one of my great consolations as a retiree at age 66. This is one of the basic benefits of Aneros rewiring which recaptures somewhat the thrill of discovering my body's sexual response through masturbation starting at age 11 when I entered puberty.
I am sure that my dad is smiling down from heaven as I exult in my body and its sexual consciousness both within Aneros sessions and outside sessions in Aless.
It is nearly the middle of May. Here in DC we are emerging from spring into summer. Late last week I turned on my A/C and began wearing my camo shorts since last September. Also last night, I wore my Nutty Buddy athletic cup to bed for the first time in my mouths.
I have recounted to you guys how jockstraps and athletic cups were catalysts that fueled my adolescent sexual consciousness and propelled me toward the thrills of masturbation as centered in my male sexual apparatus.
Athletic cups in the 1960's were the traditional flat variety. They were uncomfortable to wear for long periods of time. Baseball players had to readjust their cups on the field for all to say.
Hi guys,
Next month on June 3, I celebrate three years working with Aneros!
While I have yet to experience a Super-O, I am proud to say that now I seldom have a session that is an outright dud. Most every session is different and has something new to teach me. Every session is "fresh each morning," in most cases laden with pleasure, and after each session [with a few very exceptions] Aless kicks in, an afterglow which lasts for hours, even days if I do not have a session.
Aneros benefits after three years usage:
1. Aneros has gotten me in touch with my body in ways unimaginable because I seldom over the course of my life have had sexual encounters with other guys [I am gay]. I have never been in an intimate, committed relationship with anyone, male or female. Now at age 66, I am truly a confirmed bachelor. Yet, Aneros allows me to celebrate my sexuality all my own.
2. Aneros continues to teach me the subtleties of my body, psyche, and manhood that give me great happiness n my "retirement".
3. The states of pleasure that I experience in my Aneros and in Aless are varied, manifold, and subtle that can prepare me to be a caring and capable lover to any man that may come into my life even in my old age. It is still possible.
TL;DR multiple_o wrote a great post about how to approach a super-o, this post is about how to get the toy into you and enjoy it, because that's step 1 in this crazy thrill ride.
First of all, I've always found that referring to aneros playtime as a journey was kind of corny. I assumed it was some jargon by the aneros marketing team or something, and discounted it…but damn! I couldn't have been more wrong and I couldn't be happier. After a long 10-year "getting to know you" with my ass and prostate, I can finally say that we are no longer in the intro phase and I'm onto some really great things.
From a young age, I've always known that there was more to this whole sex thing than just my cock. I remember getting hard-ons and never knowing what to do with them. Hard as steel accompanied by a faint "ache" from within my crotch. Sometimes it was a subtle ache but other times I could literally feel my pulse within my groin. I obviously didn't know it at the time, but I've been having A-less contractions since high school and it's taken me 10 years to fully understand It.
So why did it take so long for me to finally get a super-o if I started with a leg up? Maybe hearing my issues from the past will help those struggling in the present, and no one else will have to wade through 10 years of frustration.
My SO and I were fooling around last night… I'd bought her a Doxy a few weeks back and she's still getting used to it. I figured it would be as good of a time as any to try using the Progasm I've had for a year or so with her. I'd only previously tried using it on my own and never gotten any further than just the feeling of having really intense masturbatory orgasms with it inserted.
Up until now I've only used it with hand stimulation and never had any actual hands-free orgasms ever. Ever.
Well, last night we get it inserted and she asked how it was supposed to work, natural motion, yada-yada-yada, and I just told her to jiggle it around slightly. She started rubbing me off and moving it around at the same time and there was a moment where I had a disconnect and it was like she was doing two things to me at the same time. I was being jerked off and then there was what was going on in my prostate.
I went through a full cycle feeling of having my prostate massaged and it peaked with an orgasm, and I did not cum. I was just in shock over what happened. My SO was kind of meh to the announcement of what happened "this is normal for girls!" but I wanted to do it again. She was a little non-plussed over this idea, she was more focused on getting me to cum since it was getting late.