After reading the Njoy reviews I was anxiously waiting for it to arrive, really excited about some of the claims made. When it did I quickly lubed up and tried the smaller end first, it was ok nothing special. Then I tried the bigger side. Being new to this device it took a long time to get it in, at times I was gasping from the effort and it really felt when it was nearly in that I was going to rip my asshole open with it. Then I finally got it in and I was a little disappointed. I expected everything from 10 x pleasure than with the Aneros to male squirting.
All I got from the few hours I was using it however was a need to be truly satisfied, I realised even then I was on the cusp of something but I couldn't quite get the release.
Hence I do what I always do when I want to experience a Super O or an otherwise mindblowing orgasm, I bought some mj.
First I inserted the Eupho, got some decent orgasms, but nothing really out of the ordinary in my years of Aneros use, if anything it was quite a tame session… until I brought out the Njoy box.
The second time it was easier sliding the bigger side in, the third time was even easier..I just bend over and squat down on it then it just slides in.
Anyway, before I used the mj I didn't properly understand how to use the wand, perhaps I was overthinking it or I was using it in the same way I'd use the Aneros. With mj however it's like you instinctively know how to use it to get best results, namely as a probe. Yes I'd read that's how it was categorized but I hadn't realized how apt that description was. Also some of the reviewers were saying how heavy it was, which to me showed the didn't know how to use it, a red herring when I first started using it, but things became completely clear with mj. It's not heavy, it's a probe that you guide thru your anal channel using your fingers while the ball on the outside stimulates the outer perineum. So unlike the Aneros your manually guiding it to all the pleasure points along your anal cavity and then, like with the Aneros, you hold it on a pleasure spot and intensify it by stimulating it. And while your doing this you can use the outside ball to stimulate your outerprostate, i.e. perineum
IMO this very simple design, that could have easily been around in Egyptian/Roman times is the future of anal/prostate/g-spot stimulation. No problems with it being the wrong size or the p-tab sore on sweet spot etc. There's nothing high tec about it but it more possibilities than you can imagine
I don't think I could use it as often as the Aneros though, it really takes a lot out of you and it's really going to make you scream with pleasure
Rewiring
I had a session last night that was hopefully another step in my rewiring.
I didn't have as much alone time as my last mind blowing session, so I knew it was going to be a H-Syn overnight session. It is always a nice feeling to have my Syn in me. I had a couple dry O's before I went to bed and some pleasant feelings throughout the night.
I think it was a step in rewiring though, because when I had my usual A-less session in the car on the way to the gym this morning, something new happened. I was able to have a Super O sitting in the parking lot waiting for the gym to open! I was listening to some relaxing ASMR, and the waves started rolling over me, my leg and butt muscles were contracting, and it felt like I was coming over and over. Nice way to start the day!
How it started
This is about how things started. PreAneros. My wife and I found a prostate stimulating probe. Cheap. Looking back she was not interested in this but wanted me to have fun on my own.
It was small, black, and it vibrated. It was not enough to get me off but it was fun.
The next was a cheap knock off. We were involved in foreplay and mutual masturbation. She had an orgasm and fell asleep. After 10 minutes of feeling horny, I got waves of pleasure. They didn't stop for 20 minutes. I was breathing heavy, having contractions, giggling, and crying. She was asleep by this point.
This toy never "produced" again. It was impossible to clean and it was tossed out. I was hooked and went searching for something that would last. Aneros.
Care and Feeding of Vaginas for Guys
When I saw a picture of a vagina for the first time I knew I had to get one. When I actually did get my first one, it was love at first sight. But I had a lot to learn after I got it. So with my own lessons learned I thought I would share some insights I learned over the years of keeping a vagina happy to help you get a vagina that will be a loving and loyal friend.
The first thing is that if you are going to bring a vagina into your house, keep in mind that it is attached to a woman; many guys lose sight of this simple fact. When you get up close and personal with your new vagina, there will be a lot of excitement, without a doubt. In the excitement, the cute furry vagina will hopefully drool all over you as it gets to know you; this is a good thing but keep in mind that this initial enthusiasm can be transient. when you enter into your vaginal relationship you do it with total commitment and a willingness to pay attention to all of its needs. Each vagina is different, just as each woman is different, and the same vagina on the same woman can behave differently depending on many factors. So you must learn to understand your vagina before you make too many irreversible mistakes with it. Treat your new furry friend with respect and trust and it will return your investment many fold.
Life Before & After Aneros
I'm sitting here with a ranging hard on while my clear love juice seeps from the head of a throbbing dick head thinking of how a year ago I was so in the dark sexually. Yes I was sexually active and had boy friends and lovers but none of theme have brought me to the sexual momentum that I am at now.
I had boyfriends who only really cared about them selves getting off and just leaving me to handle my self. Or if they did please me they did it roughly or incorrectly to were it was not enjoyable or sensational enough. My one boyfriend did not give head and the other one just like fucking me in the doggy style position. The fact that I loved them was the real reason I staid but sexually there was nothing there.
I would jerk off not to fill that sexual void but just to clean my pipes and then even then I was a quick pumper. Meaning as soon I would put in my favorite porn with in ten minutes i was cumming and not even a lot. Two weak shot of cum would leave my dick head an then i would pass out into a slumber. I was not sexually educated. I was not eroticlly educated. I did not even know the meaning of being erotic til aneros.
Unforgetable Syn Experience!
I was on Day 10 of the 21-Day Challenge, although I was already on day 7 before I ever saw the Forum posts about it. I hadn't had an Aneros session in about a week as well, but had been edging myself and having A-less sessions during this period. Needless to say I was very horny.
I started the session with the Syn, with every intention of moving to my Progasm Ice to rock my world, but the Syn started Super O's within a minute of insertion. I had the house to myself, and I just lay on the floor having orgasm after orgasm. After about 15 minutes, I was able to go upstairs and get in bed, where I went back into Super O's over and over.
As I said, I planned to use the Syn as a warm-up for the Ice, but the Syn just kept rocking my world over and over. I decided to just keep the Syn in since I can sleep with it inserted. After about 4-1/2 hours, I had to make a conscious, or semi-conscious, decision to stop the orgasm cycle or I wouldn't get any sleep! I couldn't believe how easy it was to start Super O's over and over, which I have never been able to do before.
Back To Tantra Practice
The intensity of the Kundalini energy produced by my daily SuperO's is mind boggling, and I need to get it under control.
Tantra practice, for me, is the best way to do that. So I'm returning to the Tantra teachings that I took a course in years ago. I'm back in contact with a teacher as well as a local 'mentor'.
Back in November, unrealized by me, my heart chakra blew open wide. After that happened I fell in love with someone I should never have let into my heart. Breaking it off was devastating for me and made me realize that I need better personal skills to deal with a number of personal issues I'd let go on too long.
It has also made me realize that Tantra is the way for me to continue to have this Kundalini awaken in a manner that is comfortable and manageable.
I know we all have our definitions of tantra, kundalini, etc. I also know there are members here who reel at the suggestion of these ideas.
THAT IS YOUR PROBLEM. IT IS NOT MY PROBLEM.
Hopefully I will keep this blog active with updates about the Tantric practice and how I am adapting to the massive kundalini production.
if you are curious about what version of Tantra I am practicing you can find their website here:
http://www.ipsalutantra.org
I'm Over Aneros Girl
One too many hints she needed money for this and for that. One too many outright requests for money.
So I emailed the guy who introduced me to her. Guess what? He'd been talking marriage with AG for the past 8 or 10 months. He's my friend but I didn't know that part. We both realized she was using him…and using me.
I'm not through with her. Not yet, anyway. But I'm over being romantically infatuated with her.
My friend was pretty devastated by the discovery of her tricks. I didn't like being the one to tell him, but we talked it through and I gave him all the details, including proof of lies, and he realized he'd been duped too.
So, time to move on to the discovery of the Next Wonderful Prostitute Who I Cannot Possibly Live Without.
kids, I don't think I'm cut out for this stuff. But I need the affordable, passionate sex. Spiritual growth does not necessarily preclude this activity, but I sure am seeing the disparity between what my heart seeks and what my dick gets.
Thank god Tantra embraces love and lust and engagement of the senses.
….ok, time to find a new piece of ass……
Afternoon Delight
I got a 30 minute head start this afternoon while she chatted on the phone with a friend. The sounds I was hearing was the AC blowing and the buzz of the Vice.
Relaxing…
I tried it today with just the coconut oil. It absorbs too quickly. Had to re-lube mid session. A thin layer of Vaseline with the oil on top seems to be the answer.
It was a nice session. Hands free. Several mini Os. My prostate was on fire ! It went to new level today with the prostate. The squeezing moved me to whole new level. I liked it and it was hands free !
Around 30 minutes into it she came in and gave me an awesome blowjob and pushed and tugged on the Vice on my already roaring prostate! She stroked me and teased me with dirty talk trying to get me to cum.
I insisted she cum with me. After some back and forth, stroking, sucking, teasing, she finally gave in and got the Rabbit.
Three minutes later we both peaked for a nice climax together ! I am so fortunate to have such awesome wife on this journey !
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Mentally Induced Role Reversal.
He walks in the door from work wearing his uniform. It always turns me on to see him wearing it, the wheels in my mind start to spin uncontrollably. I want to make tonight special for him, we havent done what I'm thinking of in a while. I walk up meeting him at the door, reach up and place my arms around him, and kiss his soft lips. He always gets to me, its hard to let go, I love being near him. After a few minutes of kissing I ask, "How was work?" He simply looks at me and says, "Work." I take his hand and lead him to the dinner table, "Well I'm glad you are home. Dinner is ready." He sat down, I knelt at his feet taking his shoes off. After putting his shoes in the closet I returned, fixed our plates and took them to the table. I sat his plate down, he pulled out my chair )he is always such a gentleman(, I sat with my plate, and he returned to his seat.