I hold the aneros in place by tensing my ass and keep there, keep doing this until orgasm. Right before prostate orgasm, my abs tense up really hard and I have to grab onto the bed as I start humping uncontrollably. This has been my past couple of mornings before work. If my asshole is too relaxed then I can’t really use the prostate massager.
Tag: Aneros
For people who have/had sex after having learned MMO
Are you able to stop mid ejaculation and carry out the prostate orgasm like Mantak Chia highlights in his book. Or is the MMO that aneros teaches a completely different skill in itself?
Pro-State by High Island Health (AKA the “PS-New”) – for sale – $45 OBO
Howdy! [This massager](https://imgur.com/a/aDHsn09) was acquired in 2010 (gosh, over ten years ago!) but I decided against opening it at the time due to the aggressive angle of its head. Flash forward to several years ago, I opted for an Aneros product, the Helix Trident and it seems comfortable enough.
Have any interest in this unused PS-New? If so, shoot me an offer via PM/chat and if it’s reasonable, I’ll ship it discreetly via First Class or Priority Mail if you’re in the USA where I’m located. My reputation for selling items online [can be viewed here](https://www.reddit.com/r/PMsFeedback/search?q=enderkg). Payment methods considered: Zelle, Cash App, and PayPal F&F.
Edit: Specifications/details are [on the manufacturer’s website](http://www.highisland.com/pm_prostate.php). The company that makes this has a great reputation. Asking $45 shipped (US buyers) – International depends on location – this weighs in at 3.2 ounces (90 grams).
Another lube question…
I know there have been a lot of posts about lube but they all kind of say the same thing and don’t really answer my questions. How much is the aneros device supposed to actually move?? Are you supposed to actually feel it moving or is it so subtle that you can’t really feel it? I feel like I’m using a lot of lube but I don’t really feel it moving, even during my best sessions. I’ve never tried a lube launcher, are these worth it? Thanks in advance!
I’m 20 years old and I bought the Aneros about a month ago
I first got the Aneros because I feel like my penis is getting less and less sensitive due to jerking off too much so I want to experiment with prostate orgasms (i heard of it from somewhere). Little did I know, I stumbled upon a tool to get MMO (Im already aware of this from Mantak Chia but I never thought a toy could enhance/facilitate the process)
My first session was great. I felt the peeing sensation and even had a bit of precum.
My second session I dripped a lot of precum while humping something.
My fourth to sixth (session today) have been stagnant.
I want to know if maybe my sphincter and PC muscles are too strong hence it takes forever for them to quiver and tire out?
Ive always had some good feeling, even small orgasms from urinating way before my purchase of the Aneros
Today in my 6th session, I turned on meditation music and tried clenching 60 seconds at a time. But my muscles never seemed to tire out.
I tried the relax and do nothing approach and breathe deeply but I end up losing my grip of the Aneros.
Im not frustrated, I might be chasing the orgasm too hard maybe. But I’m getting increasingly frustrated not just because I cant get to the orgasm, but it seems like my first few sesssions were good and my progress is reversing.
Rewiring process
I’ve heard this “rewiring” to make yourself used to orgasming through prostate massage. But how do I rewire myself?
Do I just keep using the aneros even though I haven’t achieved orgasms with it yet?
Also does masturbating traditionally ruin the rewiring process?
I’m asking these questions because I feel like my aneros is working well, but maybe I need to build up the rewiring process to be able to achieve anything beyond p waves.
What makes aneros massagers better?
Obviously, they’re better than cheap ones based on the way everyone in the know swears by them but what’s the difference? I have a cheap massager(under $20) but doesn’t really feel like anything. Aneros massagers look the same but are 5x the price. I don’t know how to ask this without sounding like I’m skeptical of aneros lol. I’m not. I’m just curious as to what the difference is?
Need help reaching HFWO
I’ve had a recent success reaching my first HFDO with my firtst Aneros toy, the new Progasm. I think that my HFDO success was obtained because I just stayed as calm as I could and concentrated hard on not clenching my pc muscles as is customary just before reaching PONR in penile orgasm.
Looking forward, I would like to reach a HFWO but I’m not shure how to proceed. I’m afraid if I clench my pc muscles in hope of reaching HFWO instead of HFDO I’ll just ruin everything. Also, can you reach a HFWO while being flaccid? Any thoughts would be appreciated.
Seeking Guidance
I’m a newbie to Aneros and to anal pleasure in general, but have been frequently exploring for a few weeks now. I’m in a strange place and I was hoping the wonderful butt sherpas on this sub might be able to guide me forward.
My journey started when my wife and I decided to spice things up with a rimming plug for me last Valentine’s day. After a not very successful session, I gave up and it sat into the box until I decided to try again solo a few weeks back. Who would have thought that actually following all of the advice online (lots of lube, loosen things up first, relax, etc… ) would make such a difference. It felt great and I started using it fairly regularly, but every time it felt a little like something was missing from the experience.
Eventually I pinpointed it to a feeling I was getting when I would sit on the plug and rock/bounce. That would make me feel a bit like I needed to pee, but also *really* good. I started thinking of it as my “pre-cum” button because hitting it would make me leak like a sieve ( I know it was my prostate though). After doing this for a bit, I realized the plug was the wrong tool for the job and determined to explore the feeling further, I purchased a vibrating prostate massager with one of those “come hither” rocking arms (this one to be precise: [https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator](https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator)). This one felt good, but I found the best feeling was again if I were to turn off the “come hither” motion, and rock/bounce on it myself. Whenever it did that I would get that “needing to pee sensation”, but at this point I’d experienced it enough to differentiate it and it started to feel more like a buildup of pressure similar to a penile orgasm.
Podcasts???
Are there any podcasts about prostate massage and orgasms etc. I don’t mean sex podcasts that have an episode or two about prostate play or pegging. I’ve listened to many of those and those are all about beginners or people asking if it’s gay to put things “up there”. I’m sure most of us are far past that point by now. I’m surprised there isn’t a podcast about this. I know I don’t have the time to read all the posts on the aneros forums but I have plenty of time to listen to podcasts at work and the drive to and from. I think a podcast could be very helpful to our community and help people find their way.