Contracting muscles yes or no

I’ve seen a few different discussion of this but none seem to be definitive. I imagine it is different for each person as well but-

Do I contract my pelvic floor at all or any muscle for that matter?

Or do I simply just relax and breath and regular breathing is want most the Aneros to stimulate the prostate?

Looking for advice – close but never get there.

Hey all,

I’ve been using my aneros toy for about 7 months now. For the most part, it feels amazing, and I really enjoy using it. Unfortunately, I always seem to hit a roadblock and never actually orgasm.

Basically I can feel all the sensations building up and it feels like I’m going to have one, but then my body just tenses up completely, involuntaries stop, and then the feeling just fades away. I’m not sure how I can get around that or how to control this. Any advice would be appreciated!

Thinking of Going Mostly Aless

Thinking of giving up the toy use and sticking to mostly Aless (no toy) sessions.

Fairly new user, of just a few months. Was super dedicated when I first got my syn model. Same as most here while learning, some decent vibes, some dud sessions, nothing mind blowing. I DID however begin to become more aware of my prostate and the feelings from down there other than the normal dick sensations.

I developed the ability to have multiple prostate o’s by focusing, breathing, flexing…all completely Aless at first.

One night, I had a breakthrough with the toy. The involuntaries/muscle tug-of-war started and gave me my first super-o. I’ve had some of the auto pumping sensations from the toy as well.

Since then, my Aless sessions have been off the charts…multiple o’s, some nights multiple super-o’s, at times almost begging for my body to stop so I can catch my breath only to roll into the next insane peak.

Each time I use the toy, there’s alot of anticipation, planning, buildup. My living situation requires a certain level of descretness, so using the toy takes planning. I feel like by the time I lay everything out and get setup, my brain is just all over the place and I cant fully relax with the toy in.

The toy also feels alot more mechanical where my Aless sessions seem alot more mental/spiritual w/e…that may be a reflection of my mindset when using the toy.

Did I do something wrong?

Hi everyone, I’m very new to using prostate massagers so I’ve got no idea on what’s going on. I’ve done alot of research on them and how they work and I learned about having prostate orgasms and how they could be beneficial. Anyways my aneros helix trident in white came in and I’ve used it for three days so far but on the third day I was really getting into a rhythm that felt very pleasant and I had an wet orgasm from just the toy. At first I was very happy because it was one of the best orgasms I’ve ever had! But after reading a little bit the next day I realized that you’re supposed to actually have a DRY orgasm. Now I’m not sure if I was using it correctly. Does this mean anything? Any help would be appreciated 🙂

Cumming from aneros

I’ve been playing with my aneros not so long, this was my fifth session or something. I was really horny before and watched some porn to get me going for like an hour or two but never ever touched my dick. Then I shoved that piece in and started to do some contractions and it felt really good. A feeling just kept on building up (thinking I’m might be getting somewhere) and my cock started to get hard but then I end up cumming. It just dripped out and after that you know I wasn’t keen to keep going.

Ive spend some research here but never have I ever seen someone else mention this. I guess I did something wrong but what? It just felt like an normal orgasm. I’ve had an history (and still do) with premature ejaculation so I can cum pretty quick when masturbating but this time I didn’t even touch my dick.

On the other side this was my first ever hands free orgasm so that’s kind of cool, but not the orgasm I was looking for

Humping the aneros

So I notice for me on my back or side . It takes Super long to get going with feelings to build . But if I get into doggy style with the toy in. I immediately start having interesting sensations . a rush comes my heart starts to race with body starting to tense up with pleasure . My lower half starts to hump uncontrollably. The wider I spread my legs the more intense it gets . Feels good then fades . I wait couple mines and do it over and over again .
Now I’m hot and bothered . But don’t want to touch my penis .

I sit on a chair while the toy is in . The motion starts to happen like on doggy style . Except I feel the toy hitting the spot that’s intense . I start to auto hump feels good . My penis gets partial hard with the tip feel sensitivity builds . I try to relax and not clench but it’s hard . I soon feel orgasm but it’s slow and tons of cum comes out . I still feel horny after but I never keep going . I’m tired . What do you think is happening ? Any tips .

I’m giving up

After a few years of trying with sort of Aneros toys (Helix, Maximus, Eupho, Progasm, MGX) i’m giving up… My prostate was probably not made for playing… Never anything more than twitching, at the end and because of kegel excercises twitched a lot of muscles close and far from my anus. Maybe I made my nerves too sensitive so now I’m fearing that I damaged them. So bye bye Aneros…

I didn’t even understand what happened

Hey guys, today I had an experience that I have no idea if it’s normal. It was half scary half mind blowing. I’m hoping someone experienced to help me understand what happened. This will be on the longer side of posts but I have to describe what happened as I’ve never seen anything like that in videos.

That being said, I am really new to all sensations, spasms, twitchs and whatever else a prostate massager may give. It’s a whole new world for me. I don’t even know if I had an orgasm (if it was it was several). I didn’t ejaculate for sure. But I don’t know what it was. Here it goes:

I was laying on my back, then I decided to clench my butt and held like that. When I contracted both my PC and sphincter (for what I initially expected to be no more than 30 sec) I started having spasms and my head was trembling (like a time lapse of someone sleeping). Because my butt was clenched I didn’t feel as tired and I could hold my muscles for longer. Soon my whole body was twitching and my hands were shaking vigorously. It felt really good.

but then things got weird.

Do wet prostate orgasms have refractory period? I just had the most INTENSE ORGASM of my life. But it was sadly a wet one :(

I was using an aneros. NOthing else at all. Literally just laying there doing nothing.

I’m wondering wether wet prostate orgasms have refractory?

I think the question would be wether it’s a normal orgasm though or just prostate fluid right?? Because from what I think is that if it’s prostate only fluid then it can be done multiple times?? But if not then I can’t?

It was ridiculously intense tho seriously Whole body was shaking

It was the same orgasm type I get when I manually use something to prostate but this is the first time I done something hands free.

I mean technically tbh I’m not unhappy lol but it’s just how come I can only seem to have these ones?

It built up REALLLLLLLLLY SLOW that’s why it was ridiculously intense

I’m wondering wether I should of relaxed more consciously to not go over the edge? Then would that be classes as a dry orgasm right? Because I feel like maybe I could of done if I was concentrating enough because it built up so slow

My world is changed forever

Holy shit. What I thought were prostate orgasms this whole time were actually fucking mini o’s. I finally understand completely why people go insane for this. I’ve been using aneros for almost a year and tonight I just came for about 20-45 fucking minutes, at intensities I’ve never felt before in my life. I cannot wait until full body and super o’s start happening. Oh. My. God.