Not Hitting the Spot

Not entirely new to prostate play (wife has been helping with manual stimulation for the past few months). I wanted to see what Aneros was all about, so I ordered a Progasm Jr. I thought the shaped looked like what I wanted. It arrived yesterday and I was excited to give it a go.

Inserted and waited for the magic to begin. I was sitting on the couch relaxed and trying to just experience the sensations. Played with varying muscle contractions.

After an hour or two, I can honestly say it is not really hitting my P-spot. I did find that I can push/pull the P Tab down a half inch or so and get it in the right place, so I think it is just a bit too deep for my anatomy.

I haven’t tried other positions, but I was really hoping for the hands-free pleasure that I have been reading about.

Am I missing something?

Total n00b to all this ass play, but I think im a natural. Did I set some kind of rewiring record?

I had intense euphoria my first use of the Helix syn starting from the first inch being inserted. kept up for an hour plus some minor O’s that took my breath away and made me a clear believer.

Next session a couple days later used a program Jr instead of the helix syn. Dry orgasms started coming repeatedly within 10 minutes of trying different positions. These happened over and over again for over an hour till I couldn’t take anymore. Found some positions paid off more than others.

3rd night the prograsm Jr again. within short order i went from nonstop O’s to full on Super Os that came in waves and made me hope my wife didn’t come downstairs because I looked like I was having seizures while moaning dirty talk to my self like a freak in heat lol. always found porn dirty talk kind of corny but I was talking to myself and the aneros like I was a bitch in heat I was so overwhelmingly turned on. at 45yo, never been this turned on in my life. thinking about nothing but my own body sensations. This goes on for 2 hours, some Super Os leaving me breathless and contorted… it’s exhausting lol.

4th night felt good but didn’t really
stimulate the same for some reason.. no orgasms. wondering if I overdid and numbed things so I took a one day break.

What if I masturbate before a session (without Cumming)?

Hello.

Until now, I’ve made some progressions, but I still see the orgasm pretty far away… Somehow I cannot get there hands free. Last time I had to masturbate after two hours of playing with my Aneros, in order to get closer and cum (it was quick tho). I still need the penile stimulation to get there.

Until now, all my sessions I’ve avoided touching my penis, maybe just in the last two minutes after a long session to empty my fluids. But I always avoid masturbating before and during the exercise.

But someone told me here, that it is ok to masturbate while enjoying the Aneros, or even before that. And now I am confused about it… I thought that using my penis would difficult my rewiring, also when I don’t masturbate and I caress my nipples they are really sensitive. However, only when I masturbate my prostate gets sensitive enough that I reach the orgasm.

So… I’m wondering what would happen if I masturbate and edge two or three times without getting to the orgasm, then wait a couple of minutes, and start the prostate play. Do you think it could be a good idea? Maybe tonight I’ll try this.

Thank you.

Not sure if this was a breakthrough or setback

So I’m pretty accustomed to the aneros world so far. About two years in and I’ve used four different kinds along with a few other different types of anal toys. Basically, I’ve learned how to make my prostate feel stimulated a couple different ways. The first time I had a breakthrough was with the njoy pure wand. I had been using dildos and an aneros when I was just starting out and I couldn’t figure out why it didn’t feel sexually stimulating. The idea of cumming hands-free was really interesting to me and I had seen gifs of trans girls doing it here and there, and I wanted to learn. What I learned was that slamming my ass like a porn star wasn’t going to get me anywhere. I could milk my prostate, but it wasn’t an orgasm. So I slowed down and learned that if I insert the njoy and lie on my stomach and thrust into the ground, the leverage it caused on my prostate would slowly bring about a pelvis-melting orgasm. It was unlike anything I had ever felt. Unfortunately, even with a pillow supporting my stomach, that position really hurt my lower back, so I stopped.

I GIVE UP

I got my aneros helix syn trident a bit less than a week ago, so far I’ve had 4 sessions, all of them were the ‘Do nothing’ technique that lasted more than at least 2 hours. All my sessions were a failure and had to end it up using my hand to masturbate, orgasm and ejaculate. After each session my body got more and more familiar with aneros inside me but I still couldn’t tell if it hitted my prostate or not, but my orgasm and ejaculations felt better and stronger so it had to touch my prostate. The only time I was certain I could feel was when I ejaculate. Eventually I gave it a rest and kept it away for a couple if days. Now on the next night of my 5th session, I was in a very good and relaxed mood, before I slept I thought I might give it another try. I was on my side lower leg straight upper leg up to my stomach. Before minutes nothing amazing happened I was just relaxing and paying attention to my whole body. I then started to feel the aneros pressuring the prostate which faded faded gradually in 8 seconds. This feeling occured about 12 times in the span of 40 minutes. The next 10 minutes were the same thing but accompanied by warmth all over my body which grew warmer and warmer as my heart starts pounding harder and harder. It feels like the aneros was literally attached to my anus and can now feel it without losing it. I just let it happened whilst keeping my composure even though I felt like something big was coming up as my feelings grew intense. I took 2 very deep breaths that i held for 8 seconds each. The next feeling was something I’ve never felt before, I felt like cumming and the aneros pressed on my prostate harder than ever before, I felt like cumming so I intentionally use about 5 to 10% of my sphincter muscle to rub my prostate, my cock was throbbing like hell this intense feeling happened only 4 times in a span of less than 1 minute. I couldn’t feel anything anymore for the next hour so I gave it a stop and ended my session again by masturbating. I don’t know if I experience mini P wave or something like that but that feeling was better than masturbating it didn’t even compare. Now I don’t feel the need to achieve super O, I give up, that feeling was enough and I’m grateful for it. I learned 4 important things.

I’ve never leaked from using these

I have a lot of experience with Aneros products. Been using them on and off for about 10 years. I started with the SGX, got an MGX and Helix, and currently use a Progasm JR (I unfortunately lost all the others). Although I’ve had many great sessions one thing that has never happened is the precum leaking. No matter how aroused I get, it just never happens. Sometimes if feels like it will but I wind up having a very strong and intense ejaculatory orgasm.

Is anyone else this way? Or for people who are the opposite way, what is your experience like?

Impulse Control Issues

So I’ve identified a problem I’ve been having. I have a hard time getting aroused during Aneros sessions. So I listen to audio porn. The problem is that I get too excited mentally and more often than not end up stroking myself off during the good parts of the audio.

When I first started with the Aneros this wasn’t a problem but for whatever reason it is now. I just can’t seem to stop myself from doing it. It’s like the lizard part of my brain takes over.

Any tips to work on this?

Constant PC muscles flex is showing some results…

Hi. Until my last session, my prostate play with the Aneros was always being performed in one of this two ways: a) keeping my PC and anal muscles totally relaxed, or b) clenching and releasing intermittently, with a rather fast pace.

Then, user u/shavedyng told me, on this same subreddit, a third approach to prostate play. Flexing my PC muscles just a bit, and holding them for several minutes. Then releasing (breathing) and again, flexing them at 10% and holding it.

A couple of days ago, I did it this way. At least, I tried. First I waited until I was really horny, and then I inserted the Aneros in my butt. To be honest, I wasn’t able to calibrate the contraction at 5 or 10% and I think I was flexing the muscles at 30-40%, but still I tried my best to not clench heavily like I used to do.

Then, I waited… After 20 or 30 minutes, I started to feel good, better than other times, and for just a few seconds I felt, for the first time in my life (after years of prostate play), how my anal muscles started to contract rhythmically by themselves. The involuntary movements. I couldn’t believe it was happening… but I lost my focus and after 3 involuntary contractions, it stopped.

This brought a bit of hope to my journey, honestly. Whenever I read people talking about those involuntary contractions I honestly couldn’t believe it. Now I know it is real, the only question is how long they can last…

I just had one of my best sessions – but my aneros wasn’t even in…

So last night I smoked a joint and got super high. To combat the paranoia I laid in bed and meditated. Then I thought of something arousing and felt some involuntaries. Then I started contracting my sphincter and PC muscles. Instead of focusing on the arousing thoughts I focused on the feelings they produced. This turned into a cascade of good feelings that just took my breath away. I played with the balance of my contractions to try and hold in that sweet spot and that produced more good feelings.

I’ve posted here before about my helix being a little but painful/uncomfortable in my sphincter area maybe due to the fact that I tend to contract real hard. But this time since there was no aneros, I felt no pain/discomfort so I was able to concentrate fully on the good feelings instead of being distracted by the bad.

Even now as I sit here drinking my morning coffee I can get some nice sensations from contracting.

Can someone enlighten me as to what’s happening here?

Tips? New Helix Trident

So I have had experience with plugs and super ts, but never non ejaculatory/super o. About a month ago, I was using an off brand plug shaped like an aneros and started to get involuntaries. I used it like an aneros and started to get mild pleasurable sensations. One of the sessions I got a single p wave that felt amazing, buy most of the time I get to the involutaries that go up and down in intensity and that is that. I decided to buy an actual helix trident as it was designed for the such.

I got it today and used it for about 90 minutes. You know when you get it about half way in and it just pulls itself in? That sensation felt amazing and the involuntaries came immediately. I laid around and had some mild pleasure, but nothing crazy. I also think it will take a few sessions to adjust to the different shape as it felt different. It is pretty snug. Slight discomfort taking it out due to the shape.

I will occasionally get an erection a few times during the session which feels nice, but more like a traditional orgasm feeling. I have only once gotten a p wave which was like a pulse of electricity through the spine and that small taste of p wave was more pleasurable then any single sensation ever.