Recognizing a prostate orgasm?

I’ve had an Aneros — one of the basic models — for years now, but I’ve generally only used it when I’m doing things with my wife. I finally decided “What the hell” and tried giving the HFO a shot.

Until last night, I’ve not had much luck. I’ve been practicing my muscle control but it’s still very difficult for me to clench in a gradual and controlled fashion. It feels nice, but it doesn’t do much beyond that. Plus, for some reason it’s sometimes difficult for me to remain hard when I’m being penetrated: I have to be *very* turned on for that, and concentrating on the aneros makes it difficult to maintain that level of arousal.

But last night, I put it in early and left it in place for an hour or two ahead of time. We had some pot last night, and I was feeling nice and relaxed, and was in just the right mind space to keep myself good and hard. And then something happened. I was convulsing a little, making noises that I don’t normally make, but it didn’t feel…orgasmic. It felt really good, but not nearly at the level of a full-blown orgasm. Nor was it as satisfying as a regular orgasm, not by a long shot.

So, not sure. Am I on the right track, do you think? And what can I do to achieve something better?

Making progress, but still not sure what im doing wrong

I had a session using my aneros helix syn today for around 2 hours. Completely relaxed, I stared to feel things rather quickly, I could feel a light tingling feeling/numbness coming from my prostate and penis. This was on and off rather randomly for an hour and a half I imagine. Eventually I discovered if i pushed the aneros up towards my belly with my muscles and held it there (think this mightve had to do with holding my breath) I could feel a buildup in my prostate and what I thought was in my stomach too. This buildup was slightly stronger than the small feelings I had before and quickly went away. I also put my butt up on a pillow and it didnt seem to become much better.

Im confused to what im doing wrong however. People have told me to relax and just let the aneros do its thing and to not tense up, yet they have also told me to not “do nothing”. I dont know what to do now when i start to feel these sensations building, keep doing the contractions exactly like I am? Try and push the aneros closer against my prostate? Or just stop doing things and let the aneros do what it wants?

Force myself to try longer

So my discipline is really bad, I give in to fast. I only had one session like a year ago were I possibly had a p wave or something that felt awesome. Lately not so much success with aneros, did discover squirting with Njoy wand.
But tonight I’m gonna try to tie myself up to the bed with a time lock. Maybe like an hour?
Only things I worry about:
Aneros slipping out (I will use maximus)
Getting dry, haven’t found the perfect lube yet I think?
Overdosing on weed (I use thc oil, if I have just one drop too many I get nauseous, 🤢) but I think I know how much to take.

Unlocked the gates to endless pgasms

I have an aneros knock off kind of a toy, hard plastic with a p tab and a loop on the back. I think you can find them online under the name Ignite. Anyway, experimenting for about a week. Lots of great feelings and got the building toward orgasm feeling but it was like a wave that never crashed. But last night I did a bit of weed before my session. With the relaxed state due to the weed I found it much easier to just roll with the sensations and not worry about reaching orgasm as a goal. Well, that did the trick. I reached a crashing dry orgasm in maybe 10 mins. The most amazing thing is that after the orgasm I felt myself building to another immediately, like nothing had happened yet. Zero refractory period as with a traditional orgasm. Anyway I stayed in that state having orgasm after orgasm. Probably had 40 in a half hour. I even had two right in top of one another. And I could have just kept going but I was starting to get fatigued. A bit sore down there today. So the oft repeated advice about being totally relaxed is very true. Hope to accomplish this without weed now. If somebody had told me a week ago that there was a way for a man to orgasm over and over and over again, I wouldn’t have believed it. By the way, these were all dry Os. Flaccid, no contact with penis. Felt very similar to a normal orgasm but more internal and much more intense.

Newbie experience a great night !

Hi everyone just thought I’d say I had a great time with the Progasm which is my first Aneros(I had a cheap vibrating massager before but that didn’t work out)

My experience so far:

First time was great I didn’t really know what I was doing but went with the flow. I was worried this was beginners luck after reading the forums.

2nd attempt despite now being really keen, absolutely nothing I couldn’t replicate the auto-pilot my body went into the first time it felt forced and I gave up.

3rd attempt success ! I used the same technique as last time with contracting as I exhaled but this time I stopped trying to control it and focused on sensation and It eventually took on a mind of its own. I felt like I’d lost control squirming and moaning till I could take no more( I never normally make any sound masterbateing) I think “auto fuck” is the closet description with my body wanting to contract harder and harder with no consciouse effort.

This was such a more powerful and full bodied experience than ejaculation a great product 🙂

2 body shaking moments of pleasure but no super O.

Had a good session today where it felt very pleasant from the start and in about 20 minutes I was able to get full body chills and uncontrollable muscle spasms and body shaking, twice, lasting at least 20-30 seconds each. It felt so amazing but it was more the response to the pleasure building, I still wasn’t able to achieve a super O. Note- I have achieved a super O only 3 times in having my aneros helix for over a year.

Wife was out

Knew my wife was out. I got in lubed up aneros. Normally I lay on the bed, but this lifted one leg on to bed a slide it in. Straight away per cum shot out. (This never normally happens) it was very thick thicker than normal. I have to eat it felt Possessed the more I moved it the more came out, the urge to eat more cum, took over me. I put leg down and I could feel small orgasms and more cum it was thicker and sweeter than normal, then a large amount came out enough to fill my hand I had to eat it, taste it, it was like heaven. Not like an orgasm when I Masturbate. I stopped but wanted more. I am still so horny. I feel like I need a bigger one. My cum was ver thick. Does this happen to other people.

Thanks

My path to Super-O

TL;DR:

1. Avoid jerking off watching porn
2. Let go of control
3. Size of toy may not matter that much

Hi there, since a few weeks I got the point I can reliably summon Super-Os. So I thought it is a good idea to share what worked and what did not for me.

Like many of us, I read tons of guides, some of which were contradicting others and kept me confused. Moreover many guides are written by experts who already achieved Super-O and are somewhat harder to interpret by people who are in the beginning of the journey. I hope this will be useful.

2019:

### Jan

Received Lelo Bruno. Manual toys are oldschool and cool kids should get battery powered toys, right?

### Feb

Had around 5 sessions with Bruno while watching regular porn in front of the PC. No luck. Jerking off with vibrator in did somewhat improve orgasm but nothing to write home about. Realized I needed to research more and there is not going to be a delayed gratification thing, again.

### March

Got MGX trident. Tried steps from the wiki (breathing, contractions, CaveOfMystery method, donothing). Absolutely no pleasant sensations whatsoever. I did notice sometimes during exhale combined with some very specific PC contraction there was a “feeling”. It was not pleasurable but not unpleasant either. Motivated by some progress, decided to help my prostate awake by ordering another gadget. We all know ordering stuff online is the way for the win.

I feel underwhelmed

I used my Aneros tonight and I failed, So I tried using my dildo and It was pretty good and then I got my first prostate orgasm but I didn’t feel much so I’m a bit underwhelmed

During sessions, time passes so quickly…

I still haven’t felt super o yet, but I do feel orgasmic waves, and they are still so good. When I begin to feel them, 2 – 3 hours pass by so quickly….

anybody like me ?

Later, I just jerk off myself and of course the orgasm is much much better compared to without aneros