Tag: Aneros

It’s Complicated

My first Aneros arrived fourteen years ago this week. I remember it well. I was like a kid on Christmas Eve, waiting anxiously. I had been lurking in the forums (which was all we had here at the time, there was no chat yet). I asked questions occasionally but mainly I read in wonderment until I got brave enough to mail for my MGX.

The seven year mark was a very easy milestone to remember as well as it was the year that I exercised my post rewiring curiosity about M- M sex. As this post says , it was complicated. I have posted this narrative once before on my last blog and I was not sure if I was going to post it again, but it was such a milestone in my Aneros Journey, the story is incomplete without including it. I post it also for all the “curious” guys in the forum who wonder themselves.

In my post rewiring world the sexual man that I was was bent in an arc that surprised me beyond my wildest dreams. In my adolescence I would purchase nudist magazines in Times Square in the “dirty magazine” shops to see both men and women nude. I always had a fascination with nudity of both sexes. Post rewiring this inclination amplified tenfold. Beyond my voyeuristic tendencies rewiring expanded my own exhibitionistic tendencies. My sexual bravado had evolved exponentially. When I joined here that January, Artform told me about Dicknet; he was a member. Dicknet was a forum for guys to share intimate pictures and chat about their sexual proclivities in a chat room and in personal messages. Art and I spent many hours chatting there about many personal things beyond our cocks and sex. Read more »

After two weeks, finally an Aneros session!!!

Hi guys,

This morning I had an Aneros session, my first since New Years Day. It lasted about an hour. I used MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE, perhaps my favorite models. Since New Years, we have had a stretch of cold weather, which should continue till the end of February, perhaps into much. We may have a snowy winter as well. This past weekend we did have a snowstorm that surprised by a heavy accumulation of eight to twelve inches. Fortunately the storm exited our area early Monday morning.

I slept wearing my BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 last night. Sadly Bike Athletic Company ceased to exist in 1995. Bike has not made its BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 since the late 1980’s. I believe that it was one of BIKE’s best products. The cup and its accompanying jock fits my genitalia so snugly almost like a sock. Many mornings I awake with my cock and balls on edge because the BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 is not only perfect to sleep in, but also to Kegel in while I diddle myself. Read more »

Male Chastity “Pointers”

[This blog was inspired by @Pasttime and @BigGlansDC, thanks!]

Introduction
@Pasttime expressed an interest in male chastity and our wearing of “chastity cups”. I thought this would be a good time to express some of my opinions (as a sort-of refreshed “training session”). Here goes…..

Basics
This “chastity play” is always voluntary, and unlike other chastity “devices” where a keyholder allow access to orgasms, this activity is totally under our control. Whether and when we wear a “chastity” jock/cup is entirely up to us. How long we wear it is also up to us.

Selection Process
I have discovered over the years that there is a wide range of “fit” options when selecting a jockstrap/cup. Some are tighter, some are looser. Some cups are big, some are small. I would suggest buying a few different brands since all of them will “fit” differently. (In actuality, there are not a lot of cups on the market). Currently, my favorites are Mueller FlexShield and XO ProCup.

What Do the Cups Do?
{Normally, the jockstraps with hard cups are worn by men to protect the male genitals during contact sports like baseball. Using these cups for “chastity play” is an entirely different use for them. I will explain the secondary use in this blog.} Read more »

The consolations of a jock and cup on cold winter’s nights

Hi guys,

I haven’t had an Aneros session for nearly three weeks now. Activities and concerns distracted me from having one during the holidays. Intense winter cold imposed itself for nearly a week now which dissuaded me from sessions. A snowstorm along with intense cold this weekend will not loosen their grip for at least a few weeks at the earliest.

@goldenboy’s wearing a jock and cup to bed most nights has been a real inspiration for me to do the same. O how sweet it is to wear a jock and cup to bed on cold winter’s nights!

@goldenboy enjoys wearing the Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon Flex Cup along with its jock to bed many nights. He calls it his chastity cup. This athletic cup has nearly the same dimensions as the BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 of which I have quite a few in my collection. The BIKE CUP was a real hit among athletes participating in contact sports the middle to late 1980. Both the Shock Doctor Ultra Carbon Flex Cup and BIKE CUP have nearly thick rubber gaskets which prevent chafing on the groin area of athletes. Hence both cups are comfortable to wear, not only on the playing field, but also during everyday wear, and even in bed at night.

Both athletic cups are especially hot for Kegeling in, certainly in bed at night. It is so sweet to diddle yourself while doing some Kegels in a cup on cold winter nights in bed. Take care!

Pleasure generating pleasure

Recently, the Aneros stroking my prostate has been so pleasurable in itself that I haven’t found the need for audio files like I always do in my previous sessions. The pleasure causes the PC muscles to contract and moves the Aneros to stroke the prostate and the cycle keeps on going.

The pleasure from the Aneros combined with erotic fantasies and circling around my nipples has been enough to tip me over to orgasm. This lets my body determine when it wants the orgasm instead of letting the audio dictate when I should receive pleasure.

I also noticed that my porn consumption has decreased because I realise that if I ejaculate, the session comes to an end. I would rather enjoy a longer and relaxing Anerosession than a rapid masturbation session and worry about ending it too quickly by ejaculating.

Adjusting to a more sane routine

Saturday, January 12, 2019 12:21

So my journey is just a little over a week old, and already I have had incredible, previously unknown experiences. I definitely see this journey lasting the rest of my life, and transforming and aiding many life experiences as well as my orgasmic life.

Obviously, it also has its challenges. This week it has almost entirely taken over my life. Between reading the forums, writing on the forum, having Aneros experiences, and experiencing Aless almost all day long, I can hardly think about anything else. I make my own work schedule and I have a lot of private time, so it can be easy to postpone or procrastinate on other things. I’m very glad I had some appointments this week, or it may have totally lost myself in the euphoria.

I have also had some physical warning signs this week, especially after using the Aneros for any protracted time. Particularly after one protracted and very physical session, I experienced abdominal pain and extreme fatigue, which made me feel kind of dysfunctional. At the end of the session I had probably the biggest ejaculation I have had in a very very long time, so I’m sure that was a factor. I’ve also had headaches after two longer sessions, which I’m quite sure were brought on by the massager. Lastly, I also have some lingering dull pain in my rectum following the longer sessions. I’ve been able to convert these in my mind to pleasure, so they are not much of a problem. I think of it as longing, which actually might be the case. Lastly, the device and the forum have been “robbing” me of a lot of my sleep, so I know I am not well rested. Read more »

Starting Again

Two years ago, I bought the set of four Peridise massagers with the full intention of using them for anal health, pleasure, and prostate stimulation. In my first session back then, I used the second-smallest Peridise. Against all reason, I decided to go to town. Lots of flexing, breathing, and clenching for an hour and a half. It felt good at the time, but the next day, there were awful health repercussions – they were horrific enough that I gave up on any anal use at all; outside of normal bodily functions. It was a bit crushing, as previously, my anus had been a source of great pleasures.

Fast-forward to now. Taking a lot of advice to heart, I decided to go slow in reclaiming my body. For the past year, I’ve been gently reintroducing my anus to stimulation and penetration using my finger or small, smooth toys. Finally, I felt like I was ready to try the Peridise again. It was really nerve-wracking at first, but using yoga breathing techniques helped keep my body and mind at ease.

Read up on the Aneros forums about how to use the Peridise – supposed to start with the largest size, and work your way down as you tone your anal muscles. It looked small enough. Followed the directions in the box (relax, practice contractions with no device in, then lubricate). Used a gloved finger to apply ID brand lube (an old favorite) to outer anus, massaged some around, then eventually inside. Applied generous amount to bulb on largest Peridise, then all over the shaft. Read more »

The Beat Goes On

So looking back to my 7th year of Aneros practice, I can say Aneros made me into a new man. In January 2012, I was 59 years old with the sex drive I had at 30, but I was wiser, more self aware and more patient. When I say I was a new man, my outlook on sex and sexual pleasure had become very open and enlightened. I can objectively say I was made to be a more sensual man. My outlook on life and sexual pleasure became more Zen like. Although my home life was very conventional my career was always just a little outside the box; Aneros made my sex life a little outside the box just as my career was. I really had a more laid back attitude towards success and traditional achievement than my peers and I had a deeper more convoluted attitude towards sex than my friends and acquaintances. I came to enjoy life and my sex life as a result of my shifted mental state.

As for sex, in my seventh year I took the leap to explore male – male sexual exploration with a very safe guy I met on line in a very safe forum. We met once. Like me he was a married – curious guy, but he was 20 years younger than I. It was both our first times. We spent a weekend together in a hotel. That will be another entry. Read more »

Sixth Year Milestone

In the summer of my sixth year, mid way to my seventh year of Aneros the nature of my need for sexual pleasure and my response to arousal had shifted totally as a result of rewiring. Arousing images and fantasies still coaxed my penis to erection but at the same time a sexy woman or male penis porn or an erotic dream or writing my erotica would make my anus tingle and twinge and make my nipples erect.

However as much as rewiring bent my sexuality in an arc that I never would have predicted it also enhanced my sex practices and expanded my existing desires and proclivities.

My sex life began in reality when I was 19; from that date on it was focused solely on penis in vagina sex and masturbation. When I met my wife and we became intimate my prurient focus added oral sex on her. For both of us the most intense and pleasurable orgasms we both have occur during oral sex, whether it is me on her or her on me or in 69. Aside from rewiring and my orgasms I absolutely love my wife’s pussy. Licking her slot, suckling her clit or massaging her G spot with a finger it’s all good for me. Likewise I love to be sucked; the visual turn on is a huge influence on my orgasm and ejaculation. Fucking has been and still is a way for me to feel close to my wife. Like many women she loves it because she loves the fullness that penetration with my large penis provides. She loves the lurching tug of my shaft inside her and the swelling contracting action of my cock head that accompanies pumping of my ejaculate inside her. Having her juice my penis as I embrace her provides a visceral bond that is not available through any other means. Read more »