Hi im new to aneros and i just cant relax to get the orgasm. The main issue is that i feel like i am going to shit all over the bed so i cant really get that out of my mind.. should i try a laxative and empty my stomach first??
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Sleeping with the Helix got me results!
After unsuccessful attempts with the Aneros Helix I decided to try keeping it in over night in the hopes of it triggering and waking me up. It didn't do that but i barely remembered I put it in till I felt a tingling, so I worked on my breAthing and felt it start to build. I finally got my first male orgasm, even if it was brief!
What the hell was that!?
Ok so I used the Aneros syn a couple times and it didn't really do anything. Except that one time where I masturbated with it in, I noticed the next time I inserted the Aneros it was a lot better, so I decided do it again.
Instead I get a completely different situation. During masturbation I could feel the Aneros hitting against my prostate, and for the first time I think I felt direct prostate stimulation. The weird part came when I ejaculated.
All the sudden the Aneros started vibrating, which is weird because it's non-electric. Very localized where the Aneros was. Overall it was an unsatisfactory orgasm, which I'm not complaining, but I added it for details.
Can anyone tell what that was?
Seasons of My Sexuality
As you can read from the previous posts my sexuality is a complex thing. Like the seasons it transforms itself within the measure of a year, each season bringing its unique conditions, qualities and sensibilities. The torrid heat of desire for a woman and the vulgar intimacy of being with a man each bring their own memorable pleasure that resonates in the moment but lingers as an echoing memory; both harden my cock and make it ache with need. The calming chill of ecstasy and the urgency of arousal also speak to the sense of sexual seasons that I experience.
Homoerotic desire is one of those seasons that swings in and out of my life like the much anticipated chill of fall in the end of a sultry summer. Yet at the beginning of a summer with the anticipation of bathing in searing feminine sexual lust fantasies of sex with a man seem like a distant activity like raking leaves would seem in June.
The thought of male intimacy ebbs and flows. When it surfaces it finds me like a butterfly seeks a bloom. It is silent. I never know when it will land on me. The desire for male intimacy is so mysterious and secretive that one night as I lay naked in bed it lands on me, seeking my sticky male stamen. It finds me with grace and elegance that belies its masculine character; it alights on my wetted swollen cockhead which is exuding the sweet nectar of my arousal.
All is not lost… coconut oil discovery
Have not blogged a while but have been learning and working the craft. Not there yet, lots of tributaries of experience and pleasure.
Switched from a glycerin/water lube to pure coconut oil – that helps a ton! Less "locking in" )but still happens( and easier to feel/move the aneros…
a new tributary to explore!
First use – did I do something wrong?
Alright, this was my first time using the Aneros Helix Syn. After cleaning it, I lubed it up to a good amount, and inserted it. I'm not sure if I had it in wrong or not enough but I didn't really feel anything.
I used my muscles to control the toy but it felt like it was just going to fall out. I'm unsure if I didn't have it in all the way. After about 15 minutes I took it out after feeling nothing much.
What was I doing wrong?
Amazing Session!
I don't want to come off as Bragging (even though I kinda am) but I have had three of the best sessions of my life the last 3 nights. I go in spurts, I wont do it for a week or so and then bam like 5 nights straight and I am in the middle of one of those streaks and it has been a wild ride. Before this week I could only ever Super-O on my right side and it took about a half hour to get the first one and I would usually have 3 or 4 in an hour and a half or so. But this week I have come on my back, doggy style, even standing up leaning against a wall and I swear each one is better than the last but what happened last night blew me away. I started on my side as I always do and the first came on in no time, I mean like 4 or 5 minutes and they kept coming for like 30 mins every 4 or 5 minutes I wanted to switch it up so I laid on my back and same thing they just kept coming rolled over onto my stomache with all my pillows under me so I was propped up and had 45 or 6 more and they last one was so strong I couldnt beleive it was real, One for the history books. after coming down from that one my progasm slipped out and I just laid there in a heap breathing deeply completely satisfied for awhile I didnt want to jerk off and ruin the afterglow so I rolled back over onto my back with my knees together and flipped on the TV (GOT!) but as I was laying there my ass was still just buzzing away which felt awesome so I started squeezing a little bit and it got stronger and stronger until I full on Super-Oed without The aneros Inserted! Which I thought was a myth, I was only able to get one but it was awesome, it was about 2 in the morning at this point so I cleaned up and fell asleep. If you havent gotten there yet you will and you will love it, Sorry for bragging 😉
Weird
Things get weirder and weirder, in a nice way.
My last 4 orgasms have been interesting. They haven't lasted long. Each time I start to orgasm I feel my pleasure ramping up rapidly but I don't have time to enjoy it much because I feel something building that I have to concentrate on. It's a very deep almost unbelievably powerful pleasure, maybe just another super-O I'm not sure. It sits there and I have no option but to feel it build, my whole body convulsing uncontrollably, but with anticipation rather than any realised pleasure. Each time it gets stronger and it's driving me mad that I can't have it. Each time it seems to get closer I think it's starting to spread and then it stops, and eventually I have to give in because the pressure is starting to get uncomfortable and I have to stop. I try relaxed observation, I try just enjoying it and feeling the pleasure building, but it's like my body just can't quite accept it yet and give in to it, it's too powerful for me.
Somehow if feels like a super-O building, but in other ways it feels different, even more powerful. I will only know once it hits me and I can't wait because it's going to be good.
Cock Craving
Over the last few days I have come to the conclusion that I am a guy who binges on cocks. It’s kind of like it is with wet orgasm itself. Immediately after ejaculation your libido drops like a rock. Depending on your age and sex drive it can build back up in ten minutes or ten hours. With me and cocks my craving reaches a pinnacle of arousal ending in sating it with a tryst with a guy; there upon my desire for male – male sexual intimacy drops like a stone; weirdly though my recharge of desire for erect cock and cum takes months or years to build back up. In between I would classify myself as interested – intrigued. Typically the thing that is the “thresh hold” between intrigued and aroused is some male porn, especially things that I like to do with guys.
Admittedly I am no expert in male – male sex as I have only had 3 partners in 5 years. I am an anal virgin, which is fascinating as I was transformed by my rewiring through prostate or anal orgasm. My sex life with men started out as fantasy with no reality. Gradually with the first guy it became a little less fantasy and a little reality. The second guy added more reality and a little less to fantasy. Having been with my 3rd guy about 3 months ago reality is slowly gaining on fantasy. Also my nervousness is diminishing with each experience. As my nervousness dissipates it leaves more room for my arousal to fill the gap.
Anticipation
Planning my first session for tomorrow evening….keeping my expectations low but still excited. Have downloaded a number of erotic soundtracks to play while I experience my first session. Schedule a workout and an massage right after work to relax me before experiencing.
Aneros shipped device today instead of yesterday just delaying and building the anticipation…so glad I paid for overnight shipping