Once more unto the breach!

All the recent activity here has made me feel like I need to get back into the saddle again with my Aneros.

I bought mine a few months ago, and in the first month or so, I was able to get some nice feelings going, but would always start touching myself after a while and finishing off using my hands. This was still very good and satisfying, and frankly, many times better than just using my hands alone, but not quite what I bought it for.

After that honeymoon period, I tried to go hands-free and see how far I could get, but I wasn't able to get back to even where I was before. It just felt flat using it. I'd get a little tingle every now and then, but not much else.

So, I stopped using the Aneros and switched over to using a dildo, which I kind of prefer, because it feels really sexy to ride and I love the physicality of thrusting it deep inside me.

But, like I said, all the talk here has made my butt lust for the Aneros and it's sweet promise of a super-O. So, I am going to go for it again.

I think I've got a few things that I'm going to try differently this time:

1) Use coconut oil – I usually use water-based lubes, but I think that before, it would dry up too fast and I wasn't getting the slickness that I need for the Aneros.

I think I won the Lottery

I got the Helix just yesterday. My first thought at looking at it was that I can't believe I wasted my money on this funny shaped little piece of plastic.

At first I didn't like it. The pressure from the P-Tab was very uncomfortable. I've since at least temporarily solved that problem by using a foam earplug as a cushion. About 45 minutes into my first session, and things started getting interesting.

Then for a couple of hours it felt good, but I just couldn't quite get there.

Started second session. It got interesting much more quickley, and didn't take terribly long before I reached my first O. I wasn't sure that was what it actually was. Then the next won about five minuts later. And then they came quicker an quicker together.

Over and Over again. Nonstop pleasure, interrupted with frequent burst of pure ecstasy.

Thirst session. Almost immediate pleasure quick with the first O.

So I am one of the lucky bastards that can easily use this thing.

Well, I've been getting older and am having problems down there, so I was up to trying options, and this is it.

Damn it has been difficult typing this. It is hard to concentrate on anything other than the pleasure.

I don't ever want it to stop. This is so good, I can't believe its legal.

My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN

I purchased my first prostate massage toy, an Aneros Helix SYN, one and a half month ago and would like to share my personal journey with you. I haven't yet experienced an orgasm with it, but reading the Aneros wiki as well as personal experiences of other users helped me understanding my body better. Questions, comments and suggestions are welcome.

My pre-Aneros experience

One of my favorite things to do (if time permits) is watching porn without touching my penis. I like the warm, pulsating feeling, the feeling of my erect penis rubbing against the fabric of my underwear and I also enjoy the flow of pre-cum. I guess this started when I was a teenager and couldn't whip out my dick in front of the computer. I still do this sometimes until I got quite a bit of pre-cum in my pants. I have never experienced a hands-free orgasm in all these years. At some point I get so horny that I need to jerk off using my hands.

Sometime around 2008 I discovered a video of someone using an Aneros. Interest in Hand-free orgasms and prostate milking led me to exploring my own anal canal and prostate. I had (and have to this day) severe problems finding my prostate with my finger. I did manage to get a flow of pre-cum running, but I didn't find the whole experience very enjoyable. Although I didn't find a magical button that is giving me instant pleasure, I enjoyed getting to know my body a bit better.

My first experience

So my first experience with my new Helix syn was quite something. How it would be classified I'm not sure but god did it feel good.

Time was a bit of a blur so I'm not sure when things happened but I know I was in bed for an hour. I started off relaxing in bed while lying on my side. The first sensations I remember noticing were of the syn sliding out. After checking a couple of times I realised that it had started to move slightly on its own. I then began to concentrate on these feelings while deep breathing and really got into the feeling of the movement inside me. I then noticed a fizzing sensation in a location I can only presume is my prostate. With deep breaths and small contractions I could set off waves of fizz which was highly sensual and got me very aroused. However at this point for what ever reason I lost concentration and as quick as the feelings had started they dissappered. I was able to get back to this stage again but I got no further. At this stage I would say that was a good first session and I was very happy with my experimenting.

Tantric sex

I’m a bit disillusioned with orgasming using the aneros method. I have had some good success but it seems to take hours of effort to get any returns at the moment, probably just me. I have been meaning to read about tantric sex for a while and found some good information this morning; it’s similar to what I am doing but involves direct masturbation or sex and subverting energies away from a normal ejaculatory orgasm, together with energy circulation. What I like about it is the emphasis on meditation and energy circulation rather than the rather vague technique of aneros.

I tried it quickly and managed to get 2 quick dry orgasm before I accidentally ejaculated. That was quite a good start. I tried again later in the day and managed to get into a continuous state of orgasm with a few small prostate contractions but I was frightened of ejaculating, possibly concentrating on that too much, and of course ended up ejaculating )again!(. I am going to keep experimenting, and try to circulate the energy more, at least I am guaranteed an orgasm of some sort each time I do it, so in many ways it is way better than the aneros technique.

I meditated again today and managed to hold some long periods of a clear mind. I gave up after only 20 minutes because my mind was starting to chatter too much.

Weird

Things get weirder and weirder, in a nice way.

My last 4 orgasms have been interesting. They haven't lasted long. Each time I start to orgasm I feel my pleasure ramping up rapidly but I don't have time to enjoy it much because I feel something building that I have to concentrate on. It's a very deep almost unbelievably powerful pleasure, maybe just another super-O I'm not sure. It sits there and I have no option but to feel it build, my whole body convulsing uncontrollably, but with anticipation rather than any realised pleasure. Each time it gets stronger and it's driving me mad that I can't have it. Each time it seems to get closer I think it's starting to spread and then it stops, and eventually I have to give in because the pressure is starting to get uncomfortable and I have to stop. I try relaxed observation, I try just enjoying it and feeling the pleasure building, but it's like my body just can't quite accept it yet and give in to it, it's too powerful for me.
Somehow if feels like a super-O building, but in other ways it feels different, even more powerful. I will only know once it hits me and I can't wait because it's going to be good.

Cock Craving

Over the last few days I have come to the conclusion that I am a guy who binges on cocks. It’s kind of like it is with wet orgasm itself. Immediately after ejaculation your libido drops like a rock. Depending on your age and sex drive it can build back up in ten minutes or ten hours. With me and cocks my craving reaches a pinnacle of arousal ending in sating it with a tryst with a guy; there upon my desire for male – male sexual intimacy drops like a stone; weirdly though my recharge of desire for erect cock and cum takes months or years to build back up. In between I would classify myself as interested – intrigued. Typically the thing that is the “thresh hold” between intrigued and aroused is some male porn, especially things that I like to do with guys.

Admittedly I am no expert in male – male sex as I have only had 3 partners in 5 years. I am an anal virgin, which is fascinating as I was transformed by my rewiring through prostate or anal orgasm. My sex life with men started out as fantasy with no reality. Gradually with the first guy it became a little less fantasy and a little reality. The second guy added more reality and a little less to fantasy. Having been with my 3rd guy about 3 months ago reality is slowly gaining on fantasy. Also my nervousness is diminishing with each experience. As my nervousness dissipates it leaves more room for my arousal to fill the gap.

Anticipation

Planning my first session for tomorrow evening….keeping my expectations low but still excited. Have downloaded a number of erotic soundtracks to play while I experience my first session. Schedule a workout and an massage right after work to relax me before experiencing.

Aneros shipped device today instead of yesterday just delaying and building the anticipation…so glad I paid for overnight shipping

The Heart Chakra opens, and a super-O!

Woke early and had a good orgasm. I'm sure it was going to be a big one, but my wife suddenly woke up as I was going into it and got out of bed, which slightly threw me and I lost concentration but it was still good.

I was sitting listening to some music before having a shower, I find Angels and Airwaves )probably not everyone's cup of tea( very uplifting and quite 'spiritual'. I listened to one of my favourite tracks and felt very happy and full of life, but didn't think too much of it. I then went into the shower. Out of the blue I started to feel a great sense of being very loved, but more a sense of loving myself more than anything, and a sense that something almost like God )I am absolutely not religious( had given me something very special. I felt energy pouring out of my chest and above all I felt deeply grateful for everything, then I started crying in a very happy way. The pressure I have felt on my upper chest for days vanished and I was able to breathe properly again. The family were around in the house so I didn't allow myself to sink into it too much but I could have probably sobbed myself silly with the feeling of gratitude.

Bit tired

Despite almost being at the point of falling asleep standing up last night I felt turned on and had to try to get a quick orgasm before I went to sleep. I did quite quickly slip into an Aless orgasm. It was a very subdued affair, my frazzled brain was not able to concentrate on keeping it going and it felt a bit like a 'quickie' very nice in its own way, and it ticked a box. I am still amazed how these prostate orgasms are so satisfying despite no ejaculation.

Lack of sleep and long hours at work make it impossible to have a really good orgasm. I just can't wait until I have a week off work next week, catch up on sleep, get some exercise, and feel more normal because then I will be able to actually enjoy some proper super-Os again )well I hope so anyway(.