I would like to know if the do nothing method is the best for people with untrained prostates and can’t feel much pleasure to begin with. Should I take a different approach?
Tag: Do nothing
Some observations
Hi everyone – quick update on my journey these days.
– while aless has helped, I do find that being away from a massager has hindered my progress. I also notice that I need to ride more than a few times a week. Never really had consistent pwaves and definitely no super o or pgasm.
– whenever I feel like I may get a pwave I find that my breathing gets shallow instead of how other describes their experience as heavy breathing. I find the reason I do that is because I don’t want to lose that feeling of almost there. Does that resonate with others?
– because I haven’t really experienced pwaves or the super o. Question for the group. When you get either, is it only your cock twitching or does your whole pc muscle system contract like a real orgasm? If that’s the case, do your muscles clamp down on the massager? If so, you start with do nothing and end with total muscle clenching?
– lube method. I switched from using a lube injector because I find its a lot of clean up on the shooter as well as yourself. So I’ve read and started to use the condom method. Get the largest condom because you want the aneros to have rooms to move freely. The issue has been how to crimp the opening of the condom so lube doesn’t leak out. Now yesterday I had a surprise find. I ended up buying lamb skin condoms from Trojan just to see if there’s a difference. These condoms actually have a string that is used to secure the condom. Problem solved!
I don’t believe this is real anymore.
Been at it for weeks. Tried different positions. Porn, no porn. Traditional stimulus, no traditional stimulus. Contracting. Do nothing. Soft contractions. Hard contractions. Rapid ones. Slow ones.
You know what I feel after weeks of this? Like I’ve got sonething in my bum. That’s it. The infamous “p tab” doesn’t do anything. There are no “twitches”. It doesn’t feel like its “going in and out on its own”. There are no orgasms of any kind.
Every now and then for like 3 whole seconds I’ll feel like it’s pushing somewhere and im feeling _something_… aaaand then it’s gone and I’m back to just laying there with something in my butt. Literally anything shoved up my ass would create that much sensation because _it’s in my ass_.
I just don’t believe this is real anymore, I think a lot of you are full of bologna and a lot of others are chasing placebos. I’m typing this message while using my aneros because it’s not like it does anything at all to distract me in any way. I could perform surgery with this thing in my body.
Total waste of time and money.
“Dissociation”
I haven’t gotten to a super-o yet, but I think I realized something interesting and was wondering if others have experienced the same.
I started using Aneros about 3 years ago. I started with the basic advice: relax and do kegels. I could feel it hitting my prostate, which felt good, but it never escalated into anything.
Then I did some reading, and found what seemed to be two contradictory techniques. One was the “do nothing” technique, which didn’t work for me, and is honestly a pretty frustrating set of instructions unless you are one of the lucky people for whom it actually works. The other was the technique that focuses on the two-different-muscle-group kegel contractions. After some practice I was able to get muscle spasms going pretty reliably, but I ran into a dilemma. Maintaining the spasms required concentration and slowly made my whole body tense up. This did not sound like the effortless, out-of-control experience it was supposed to be.
Then I tried combining the strategies: getting the spasms started, then mentally backing off and “letting the aneros do its thing.” When I did this, the spasms would keep going on their own, for a bit, but they always slowed down and came to a stop when left to their own devices.
Will this position hinder my progress?
So I’ve had the most success by far using the do nothing method while laying face down on my belly. Usually laying in this position with the toy inside me will put a slight pressure on my dick, making it get hard (I make sure to point it down between my legs). This pressure kickstarts slight pleasurable sensations on my penis, which in turn trigger pleasure waves and multiple dry o’s radiating from my prostate.
I’ll admit the sensations in my prostate are definitely mixed with some penile pleasure (let’s call it 80/20 or 70/30), but these orgasms have never resulted in ejaculation, they’ve always been dry. Since I know some people swear by the rule of not stimulating your dick in any way during the rewiring process, I’m wondering if I should maybe focus on other positions or whether I can expect to make good progress in my journey to super O’s despite the penile sensations.
I think I finally did it!
After messing around with my aneros for about two months, I feel every session brought me closer to the edge. I normally would either contract my muscle’s, or just move my legs, and let it naturally hit it. The other day, I started like normal, but decided to stop, to see how the do nothing approach would work. Oh my god, you can feel it just shoot through your body. I didn’t have to move, because my body was doing it all for me! It was such a strange feeling, because I’ve never “lost it” like that before. Either I was just laughing like a maniac, or I would have these low moans that turned into a scream. The only problem, is the sensations wouldn’t last long. I felt that mind blowing feel, but couldn’t keep going for longer than ten seconds. But, when I rubbed my nipple’s, it would come back pretty quick. Anyone know how to make it last longer? and does nipple play work for anyone else?
Finally getting somewhere! Here’s what worked for me!
I finally made a huge milestone today! I had several dry orgasms back to back for hours then I had the start of what I think are super Os.
I had been trying this for over a year but have only until recently been consistent (twice a week practice, 2 hour sessions roughly) before I would touch my dick when I’d be frustrated and saw no progress and thought that would hinder my progress but for some reason it didn’t. Earlier today I had a 2 hour long session, using the do nothing method. By do nothing I mean the first 20 minutes just sit there and don’t do anything, no contractions, just breathing. After that I do light contractions with my anus (the muscle you use to pinch off a poop) they were about 20-40 percent strength, then I would do light contractions with my dick (the muscle that cuts off the stream of pee) around 20-40 percent strength until I would almost reach a balance and I’d try to hold both light contractions in place, DON’T let your body tense up all the way and fully contract, that is not how you reach it. I held contractions for about 10 seconds until my body told me it’s time to calm down and try again in a couple seconds.
A little closer to super o….maybe.
Just finished my session playing with my prostate. I still cannot believe the ‘do nothing’ technique works the best for me. Usually, once i put in my progasm jr, i lie on my back and stay relax while imagining sexy things.
I only concentrate on using my pc muscle, just about 5% to 10% only but very rarely. Usually, i try to get hard rock erection by nipple stimulation and this helps, leading to involuntary contraction on my pc muscle which feels very pleasurable.
That good feelings will intensified until i reach a moment where i feel my ass or my pc muscle or my prostate (i’m not quite sure which one)hug the progasm very thight inside of me and it really does feels good. I can feel precum leaking from my penis, not a lot but it is obvious.
Mostly, i use my imagination of getting sensual blowjob to help me stay rock hard, so that, that pleasurable feeling of my prostate(i guess) squeeze hard my progasm last longer. Usually, i can maintain this for almost 2 hours until i feel tired and stop.
I still have not been able to achieve the glorious super o but i think i am getting closer to it. I can feel this ‘do nothing’ technique might be the best way for me instead of clenching my spinchter muscle. For me, lightly and rarely contracting pc muscle helps me a lot in this journey. And of course, need to be highly aroused.
My Journey and Questions
I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have three questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position on my knees with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them because my wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Question: Is this unusual and do you get addicted? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to have uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my next question. I have tried the do-nothing method, but I always end up with involuntary shaking. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it as it makes the Aneros massage my prostate which feels really good. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Sometimes I enjoy grabbing the Aneros and using it to manually massage my prostate harder than just letting it float. It feels good, but occasionally my prostate feels a little sore for a day thereafter. So, my last question is, can I harm my prostate by using more force to massage it? I don’t want to damage it. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!
My Journey
I bought my first Aneros about 3 months ago. I have two questions. I originally purchased a Helix Trident and recently purchased a Progasm. I have not had a super-o yet, but I feel like I am close. I have tried most of the positions that people discuss. My favorite positions are on my back with my knees bent and a pillow under the small of my back, on my left side with one knee bent, and doggie position with my arms on a chair. All three positions work for me and have their advantages. I am married and 67 years old, so it is not easy to find times to use them. My wife does not know about them. I end up using them about once or twice a week, but I feel like I am getting addicted to them. I think about them often and want to use them more and more. Is this unusual? When I am using them, they give me great pleasure, and I have a hard time stopping. My sessions usually last 2 – 2.5 hours. The feelings around my prostate are very warm and pleasurable. It is pretty easy for me to get to uncontrollable shaking, mostly mild, but sometimes more. This brings me to my other question. I have tried the do nothing method, but I always end up shaking, and I cannot control it. Sometimes I try to stop, but the shaking soon resumes, and I do enjoy it. Should I try to focus more on stopping the shaking? I am worried that the shaking may be holding me back from a super-o that I would love to achieve. Thanks in advance for your advice. I really like the blogs!