Tag: Do nothing

I’m 20 years old and I bought the Aneros about a month ago

I first got the Aneros because I feel like my penis is getting less and less sensitive due to jerking off too much so I want to experiment with prostate orgasms (i heard of it from somewhere). Little did I know, I stumbled upon a tool to get MMO (Im already aware of this from Mantak Chia but I never thought a toy could enhance/facilitate the process)

My first session was great. I felt the peeing sensation and even had a bit of precum.

My second session I dripped a lot of precum while humping something.

My fourth to sixth (session today) have been stagnant.

I want to know if maybe my sphincter and PC muscles are too strong hence it takes forever for them to quiver and tire out?

Ive always had some good feeling, even small orgasms from urinating way before my purchase of the Aneros

Today in my 6th session, I turned on meditation music and tried clenching 60 seconds at a time. But my muscles never seemed to tire out.

I tried the relax and do nothing approach and breathe deeply but I end up losing my grip of the Aneros.

Im not frustrated, I might be chasing the orgasm too hard maybe. But I’m getting increasingly frustrated not just because I cant get to the orgasm, but it seems like my first few sesssions were good and my progress is reversing. Read more »

I’m 10 months in with some very nice pleasure and interesting, new sensations, but no pgasms yet – would really appreciate advice.

Hello everybody!

As the title says, I’ve been at this for almost a year. During that time I’ve learnt that my body is capable of a decent bit more than I ever expected and that is amazing, but I’m wondering where I go from here.

My sessions go like this – I try to get aroused, but I don’t touch my penis beforehand, I use a lube applicator about three times, then use plenty of lube on my toy (eupho syn trident).

I essentially try to follow the do nothing method – conscious clenching doesn’t seem to do much for me. My muscles down there are quite twitchy in response to arousal or even just the presence of the toy, so that usually kicks things off. I try to follow those contractions, I used to let my muscles clamp down, but I realised that was a mistake and killed the sensitivity. So I allow the clench then back off on clamping down, this results in a light teasing of my prostate – building the sensitivity up. It can really feel nice after an hour or more of this. I don’t know if this sounds like I’m interfering with the process, but I feel like I’m actually encouraging a more passive approach ironically, stopping my body trying to clamp down. It definitely feels better to do this, so I feel a bit like following _exactly_ what my body ‘wants’ isn’t necessarily the answer for me. Read more »

Progasm Anniversay Onyx edition.

Have been meaning to post a bit of a review on this but wanted a few rides on the clock before doing so.
So what’s different? No base nub. Narrower lower body. Same size at head and mid section. So you can sit down if you want. And it moves more while still having the girth to keep in contact with those sweet spots.
Sometimes though it can move too much and exert too much pressure so gentle contractions or do nothing seem to be in order with this.
That said the better mobility allows laser like targeting of the bits that feel good so overall that’s a plus.
Overall I don’t think there’s a massive difference between old and new progasms – they’re both good and both quite large/girthy.
I do find that I can go a bit longer with the new one simply because the pressure on my prostate can be lightened easier with the new.
The orgasms are still progasm like – IE Intense and near non stop.
I think if you don’t have an old progasm the new is worth the investment. If you DO have the old one, there’s not a huge difference but those differences that there are make it a subtly different ride.

First true Super – O

Hello everyone,

ive waited now till the next morning now to write about my experience.

So i was watching some porn for the extra arousal, but i was aroused before. Then i went into my bedroom and inserted the helix trident (plastic version) as i dont like the syn version.

Like always after 5mins everything was feeling already good and buzzing around my prostata..i had some small – o’s. I tried to relax and and breath slowly and totally enjoy it.

Then it happend, something felt different this time and i had wonderful warm feeling in my prostata and then it spread around my body. My head felt it was spinning, i was floating, i had such a rock Hard on and it felt like was pumping and cumming but more internally. Idk for how long this continued but it seemed like an enternity…like wow i couldnt believe it. Even when my mind wandered around and i opend my eyes it got back to this sensation.

After that i stayed with these wonderfull feelings and had some nice smaller dry-o’s with some oozing of precum/prostata fluid.

For the method i used the Do nothing and just enjoy the feelings…

And holy… while typing this i had a small O….

Idk if i can get back to normal sex lol

Do wet prostate orgasms have refractory period? I just had the most INTENSE ORGASM of my life. But it was sadly a wet one :(

I was using an aneros. NOthing else at all. Literally just laying there doing nothing.

I’m wondering wether wet prostate orgasms have refractory?

I think the question would be wether it’s a normal orgasm though or just prostate fluid right?? Because from what I think is that if it’s prostate only fluid then it can be done multiple times?? But if not then I can’t?

It was ridiculously intense tho seriously Whole body was shaking

It was the same orgasm type I get when I manually use something to prostate but this is the first time I done something hands free.

I mean technically tbh I’m not unhappy lol but it’s just how come I can only seem to have these ones?

It built up REALLLLLLLLLY SLOW that’s why it was ridiculously intense

I’m wondering wether I should of relaxed more consciously to not go over the edge? Then would that be classes as a dry orgasm right? Because I feel like maybe I could of done if I was concentrating enough because it built up so slow

First Super-O…my god…

Been using the trident syn for a few months now with mixed results. Until last night had better success and achieved multiple prostate O’s Aless, but I knew there was more to be unlocked with the toy…boy, was I right…

I started Aless with no real intention of inserting the toy (I think this “lack of expectation” that everyone talks about is key). I had a few drinks earlier in the night and smoked some weed. The Aless was going pretty well, but nothing mindblowing, so I decided to take a ride.

Fingered myself with some lube and the toy seemed to slide in alot easier than usual. It wasn’t a crazy active session from the start. On my back, feeling most of what I usually do…some good vibes, things building, trying my best to stay relaxed and not “scare” the feelings away. This went on for an hour or so and I figured I was on my way to another decent but not great session. I decided to change positions and lay on my side on the couch….

The next part is when things got interesting and my mind was blown…let me start by saying there’s alot of talk on these forums about labeling feelings and how to tell a wave, from an O, from a super-O and how to tell where you are in the journey…when you reach the super, you will know…there is no mistaking what my body went through… Read more »

I cannot for the life of me find my prostate

At this point I’m convinced that I was born without it or something.

I have literally tried everything I can think of for years: I started with fingers, then dildos, then Aneros, then vibrating toys, then even poppers, but literally nothing works.

I don’t understand how you guys are able to have these mind-blowing orgasms with just the tiniest toys, when I bought a several-hundred-dollar Lelo Hugo, and I can’t even feel any pleasure. When I go in with my fingers to try to stimulate it, I don’t even think I’ve even ever found it. I feel like there was just some elaborate conspiracy at my birth for removing it or something.

My question is to you guys, what do I do? I’ve been patient, I’ve poured a nice sum of money into this stuff, I’ve tried so much stuff for years. Do I just give up, or do I keep looking for other things? Is there a toy or method that I haven’t tried that you guys recommend? What do you guys suggest I do when the Hugo or the Aneros is in there? Sit there and do nothing, or kegel? The more detailed, the better.

I just feel like I’ve been trying for years on this and have wasted a bunch of money for not even the slightest wave of pleasure. I’m really just taking any bit of advice from you guys.

Thanks.

Been getting different orgasms with different techniques?

So I am getting pretty good at using my aneros by doing the tug of war and the do nothing techniques, pretty damn good orgasms 😝

But lately I have also been thrusting the air after I’m tired/coming to an end of session, and the feelings I get is more full body, and not so much my prostate. I am thinking when I get better at this I will either have a wet orgasm or prostate orgasm. I’ll have to find out haha, but any comments would be appreciated 🙂

Anyone else get different results with different techniques? Also, does moaning help you guys a lot? I’ve recently started doing it into a pillow, but I’m afraid to be too loud haha

Progressing beyond p waves.

Hi there I’ve been using aneros products for over half a year now and I’m wondering if anyone can give me some advice. Frequently in my sessions I reached a point where I would increase rapidly and arousal and this would build and build and completely involuntary contractions would take over but this would not result in pleasureable waves or any kind of notable building pleasure. It would be more like a massive increase building of arousal. Normally (based off the reccomendations online) I would allow the toy to do its thing without any muscle input from myself.

Now recently the same thing has been happening but now I’ve been able to notice pleasureable feelings down there from what I think and assume is my prostate and this pleasure has built in the same way with involuntary contractions building as well and ends up with me being washed over with gentle pleasureable waves for about 30 seconds. This is very similar to the building of arousal and involuntaries but now it sometimes comes with waves of slight pleasure. These sessions sometimes take me 2 hours of a mixture of doing nothing with the toy inserted or light waves of contractions with the pc and anal muscles.

I’m looking for advice on how to either, increase the speed or frequency at which I can reach these states. Or why sometimes I feel pleasure from this buildup and other times it doesn’t come with any pleasure at all and just an increase in arousal. Has anyone else experienced a similar situation to this? Can anyone give me advice on how to progress. Read more »

Achieving the flutter

Hello guys, I have now spent quite some time along the journey.

I do not have much success sadly and I’ve tried a lot.

Different positions, different lubes, porn, no porn, audio porn, do nothing, flex….

While I usually get involuntaries started, they just feel… like nothing really. I can feel the muscles flex and I feeld the aneros move, but there is absolutely no feeling.

However, a few months ago, I had one session, that was really exciting, it was one of my first sessions aswell. While doing nothing and laying on my back, knees apart, the involuntaries became a flutter that was really pleasurable and started to increase in intensity. It was really feeling like an orgasm was building and I was really quite sure that at the end of that flutter, true bliss was waiting. However, the feeling died down eventually, without sending me over the edge, maybe I overthought it.

The aftermath of this session was my prostate tingling/buzzing for a few dadys and I’m pretty sure that was my best session so far.

However I have never been able to recreate this flutter. I will occasionally get some singulare flutters, but they are only ever a single twitch without being sustained.

Do you have similar experiences? How do you create and sustain the flutter? I’m starting to get frustrated and could need some encouragement.