Tag: Dry Orgasm

The elusive Super-O, but even more fantastic results

Since my last post, I've almost exclusively used the 'Slingshot' to get things going. I have found that the ab crunch that involves this technique seems to kickstart my involuntaries which previously took 30 to 45 minutes. I am getting involuntaries within 5 minutes of insertion and after doing a couple of minutes of the 'slingshot'.

I may be wrong, but I feel that I'm on the verge of the elusive Super-O. I also get the feeling that I may never get the Super-O. That being said, my level of satisfaction in experiencing the multiple sensations that I'm getting is more then enough to say that I'm a very satified Aneros user.

Most of my sessions have been entirely on my back with my feet flat. I can encourage changes by shifting my feet up or down and/or widening or narrowing the distance between my knees. I am getting best results by just tring to keep the unit in a stationary position as opposed to clinching and releasing. In fact, I have found that instead of focused clinching and releasing, I get better results from putting more or less weight on my feet. I think that this serves the same purpose of clinching as by pushing down on my feet, I am probably clinching the posterior muscles. One important note is that any of these elements are usually very small scale changes (es. ever so slight pushing down with my feet). Read more »

Questions along the way

First time poster here and a little background. I am a 49 y/o newbie. I purchased my first Aneros about a month ago and am very happy with my toy(s). First 3 or 4 sessions even after reading quite a bit of the forums and blogs, were fairly uneventful, but also a lot of fun! After about a week I had a series of what I will call body shakes that would last for several minutes at a time. I was on my back with my feet flat and my legs begin shaking. It would alternate between my knees flapping side to side, to huge shudders; all great feelings, but I still don't know how to define this within the Aneros glossary of terms. It wasn't a sexual feeling, but a new and different sensation that I enjoyed exploring.

I found out that when I'm interrupted in a session, it is fairly easy to get back on-track without having to go through the initial relaxation phase.

Back to more and more reading of the great posters on this forum and even more exploration and experimentation of these 'body shakes'. Like many others, I decided to order a couple of other products. I chose the Helix and the Peridise starter kit.

I love the Peridise starter because without the p-tabs, I can insert and sit comfortably in my recliner and practice late at night without others even knowing. I can easily shut down if interrupted and have found it fairly easy to start back up. Both of these guys have allowed me to continue play with increasing results. Read more »

Eupho-magic

Having sampled the Helix and its unique character and joys, I/we next tried the Eupho. I have read about its mobility here since joining Aneros, BUTT – none of that had really prepared me for how different and how varied things can be and feel with a Eupho!!!

I tried it solo and included one of my favourite things to include in solo session: stair climbing and descending – what a great gentle grind. I recently started using my small trampoline for a bouncing walking in place that is its own special variation! The Eupho has picked up and amplified the prostate/muscle-wall auto-contraction sensitivity and muscle memory. WOW!

Later, mrs. a and I had an exceptional couple of hours with me adding the Eupho in after some preliminary fun. It boosted my dry-Os during our still times, prompted more variation in the erection strength (more returns to full hard), that Eupho got around to more rectal territory and nerve responses that I had thought possible. We are incorporating more of the still times, energy jolt tranfers and other tantric-inspired techniques. I think the Eupho is a Tantric Magic Wand…

This was another flavour of Tantric Body Banquet extraordinaire."

This Eupho now has a very special place in my arsenal!

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3d session

Before I describe my new very good session, let me tell you what happend last night when I went to bed. I was almost sleep when suddenly I felt very pleasing tingles in my anus. Also I think that I`ve got one P-wave.

Today my session was better of all. I woke up this morning and did a light enema. Then wached some porn and jerked my penis off without ejaculation. After 30 minutes I lyied on my bed and inserted my new friend with a lot of lubrication in my ass. Immediately after the insertion I felt one or two involanture contractions. It was so good. Then I relaxed about 10 minutes and started the contraction. This time I had a lot of pre cum falling down from my cock. After approximately 40 contractions my body suddenly started to shake, my hеart strated beating faster and I felt very veryyyy good. I had the feeling I`ll almost ejaculate for a few seconds. It was sooo good, so I think I`m on the right way to my first dry orgasm. I`m very very horny now and I`m watching porn again and jerk my cock off. I have to do some work after 30 minutes but I will make second session for today because I feel that my anus wants the aneros in again. I`m very addicted to my new toy and think only for this. I`m a gay man and I`ll be happy if someone of experienced users make a lesson video for new users just like me 🙂

Early Post of Youth Experiences

For me, Aneros and KSMO quickly became almost inseparable in my practice. Here is my almost year-old introductory post in the KSMO Forum, quoting from a thread posting I had made to a thread here that was subsequently removed for other reasons. As promised recently in current threads here, I am placing this background in the blog. Hope this is helpful.

"As a newbie here, and relatively so in the Aneros Forum, I am energized and curious about combining these two practices. A little like Pan, I have chronic pain and yet have been able to develop a number of techniques to override or evade it to a degree.

I am married for almost 40 years and we have two sons in their mid-20s. Now empty-nesters, my wife and I are exploring our post-parenting sex interests and that has included a successful voyage into her ejaculatory orgasm potential and the flowing waters of the goddess. We have just begun listening to the 4 CD KSMO library and are in very early practising of the KS. We will do some posting in the Couples chat area when they are focused on mutuality.

Prostate centred sex has been part of my world since the earliest teen explorations of my body and sexual responses. I used model missiles for anal stimulation and then to massage my prostate as a teen. Parallel to that, I experienced, without any prostate, anal, penile or any other physical stimulation, vigorous, whole body, orgasmic experiences with vivid visualizations that I call Intellectual Orgasms. I described them on the Aneros Forum as follows: Read more »

Rumel's Ruminations – Part I

This Blog is in two Sections : Part II is my periodic blog of experiences (most recent at the top), Part I (this one) is just copies of some of my earliest Forum entries (oldest at the bottom)

12/17/07 : I read in the newspaper today about the death of singer-songwriter Dan Fogelberg at the age of 56 due to advanced prostate cancer, boy did that bring a twinge of pain to my heart. He was an artist that I grew up listening to with a gentle thoughtful style I regularly enjoyed. It certainly gives me pause to think how fortunate I am that my own cancer was detected early enough for effective treatment to commence. I now have a very good prospect of becoming a long lived cancer survivor. To any of you guys who may read this blog entry, I strongly urge you to begin getting yearly PSA tests (especially if you are over the age of 50)to monitor for potential prostate cancer. It is a simple blood test, I would never have discovered my own cancer were it not for that finding of an increasing PSA level. Hopefully, upon conclusion of my own treatments, I can get back to enjoying the wonderful Aneros journey I began back in April. Read more »

My journey to the Super Orgasm

My journey to the Super Orgasm.

I have been suffering for years with prostate discomfort; if I get aroused it feels like something is poking my prostate, ED problems; reduced sensitivity in the penis and trouble ejaculating, and sore testicles.

After years of going to Doctors for various tests, they could do nothing better than prescribe Viagra. Last year I went to a sex therapist who started me with testicle massages, when I mentioned this to my doctor he said “don’t do it, I could damage them”. Well they already hurt, so I felt I had little to lose and continued massaging them. This was very painful but I kept at it for about 6 months and gradually noticed less pain and now have it down to a dull ache. I went back to my therapist in September 2006 and she recommended starting self-prostate massages and gave me High Island Health’s website. I don’t like to order online so I did a search for Prostate massagers and found Aneros’s website, did a search for retailers in my area, and found one 50 miles away that carried the Helix.

So I greased up the Helix and shoved it up my butt, then grabbed my wife and said lets do it. Having something up my butt for the first time during sex gave my penis a nice jumpstart and when I was feeling ready, I clamped down hard on the Helix and came like I haven’t done in years. I was thinking the Helix was great and that was all there was to sex. Read more »

Yesterday's Super O's

Yesterday I had a wonderful session which I had planned for several days. I went four days without an orgasm and did a variety of pelvic exercises when I was driving, in the shop, etc. As I started my prep for my session I had considerable sensitivity in my genital region and my nipples were very sensitive.

I made sure that I would be undisturbed for a couple of hours and made my preliminary prep. I got my bed covered with towels, my tissues ready and my three lubricants preped including loading my syringe.

Next I retired to the living room and popped in my favorite xxx video. Since I am bisexual I enjoy all manner of xxx videos, but I chose a self made compilation of gay orgasms. I have over four hours of great looking guys just as they finish their sessions, so there was semen everywhere.

When I didn't think I could stand not having an orgasm any longer I went to the bathroom and did a Fleet enema, followed by a long, slow sensuous shower. I have a shower head on a flexible hose so I can direct the stream on my anus and scrotum. I then washed my Helix and warmed it up with the hot shower water. When it was nice and warm I coated it with petroleum jelly and spend considerable time inserting it. Hummmm. I then left it in place as I dried myself. As I was drying I had some great involuntary spasms and even started to shake with pleasure. Read more »

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I have been wondering how 'newcomers' could move faster towards achieving a 'Super O'. I now use a variation of the method that I have described above and find that I can now provoke a 'Super O' within a very short while of inserting my Aneros. I recently returned to my MGX and it was after inserting it that I discovered how I could bring about this swift success. Success that persists too (3 sessions so far) with the Maximus that I have just received but more of the Maximus later.
First I ensure that I insert more lubrication than I have used hitherto – about 6ml. I now use ID Glide. I find that the Aneros really has to be able to float freely to create success. As with all sessions it is essential that you are in a sexually responsive state so that you can place your prostate at the centre of your sensate focus. Lying on my left hand side, left leg out – right leg drawn up, I insert the Aneros most of the way in, then contracting my PC muscles, let the sphincter slowly draw it fully in. This for me is a particularly intense sensation and with the Aneros fully drawn in creates a tension in my perineum. I move onto my back and place a pillow to support my lower back and another for my feet – with my legs drawn up as described in earlier threads, but at 'ten to two'. What this means is that the perineum and butt area is over a space created by the two pillows. I ensure that the perineum abuttment tab is situated within the 'million dollar point' and (prior to insertion) that the tab is free from lubricant. I go through a very short period of relaxation making sure that the I am comfortable and the upper part of my body supported and begin contracting my PC muscles. Following two or three minutes of this, now with tension in the perineum, I place my middle finger of my right hand so that sits against the perineum tab and continue my contractions. After about another five minutes with the perineum even more tense and swollen I begin to press my finger into the 'million dollar point', this makes the abuttment tab move further 'in' against the prostate and with a mixture of voluntary and involuntary contractions the sensations are exquisite. I arch my back, raising and lowering my butt from the pillow. My finger feels the involuntary contractions at the abuttment point and I can now press harder (not pressing the Aneros itself though) into the 'm.d.p.' About twenty minutes of this and now able to remove my finger, the sensations send me over the edge and I can maintain a state of many consecutive, then rolling (one on another) Super Os. This 'folding in' or overlapping of orgasms is what makes the experience so delicious for me. Such an experience, that I don't even bother to count numbers any more – moving away from sense of (male) performance – rather, shifting into a more detached (spiritual, perhaps) space that flourishes on the awesome nature of the pleasurable experience. Read more »