Tag: Involuntaries

Major progress!

I’ve been playing with the Aneros for about a year, reading in and learning a lot from these forums, but have never contributed. Sorry in advance for the lengthy post, but after yesterday’s amazing session, I just have to share a few useful things I learned. 

First, some background. Before yesterday, I’d had a lot of great sensations, some involuntaries, but no dry or prostate orgasms. Most sessions ended with a sort of supercharged penile orgasm, sometimes HFWO (always a thrill.) Yesterday was my first truly mindblowing, holy shit experience. Here are few reasons I think it was successful. 

The house was empty. Especially during the pandemic, I almost never have time totally to myself. Yesterday, my wife was out of town, and kids were busy all afternoon. I had the house to myself and could really relax and let go, with no time pressure at all. 

Smoked weed. I took three or four deep hits off the vape. It helped a lot, in terms of relaxing and really feeling my body. 

Edged. In the days before the session, I’d watched a good amount of porn, so I was already super turned on and ready to go. 

Exercised. Before starting, I did several sets of pushups, and some long, deliberate yoga poses, with deep stretches and very slow, very deep breathing. It made my body feel alive and really got the blood flowing. Then I got in bed, on my back with knees up, and inserted the Helix. Almost immediately, I started feeling a tickling and a warmth spreading through my pelvis. Within minutes, the first in a seemingly endless series of mini-Os, which had me moaning, stomach clenching, thrashing.  Read more »

any favorable position other than lying on back?

So, I had a interesting session yesterday. Sorry for the long post, but I feel like it is important to describe it in detail.

TLDR: ass in the air made me feel pleasure. VR Porn helped.

I was listening to Mindgasm lesson 2 again with earphones in (connected to the Quest2 VR headset I was wearing) while the Helix (the white one) was inserted. I was using Pigasus VR Player, it’s the only player so far that supports odd viewing angles and images and comic-files (hentai/furry one-pager are kinda working mostly).

As mostly I was getting involuntary contractions kinda early, but i tried to relax everytime the audio told me so. The contractions stop everytime at that point. Aside from the contractions (despite trying to concentrate on it’s feelings) I got no pleasurable feelings from it. I was on my back, pretty much spreadeagled. After the file ended I switched to some 2D porn that got me decently horny, and I noticed a buzzing. Though while it felt nice for like 20mins nothing changed. In between I also closed my eyes for minutes, but the porn wasn’t too distracting I think (just some repeating cowgirl-riding stuff, nothing with alot visual change). Read more »

Aless-session with Mindgasm files

Hi, I had a interesting aless session last night. I couldn’t sleep and put the 6th Mindgasm file on my earphones. Despite the file tells you to relax completely while feeling for those fluttery feelings, I felt involuntary contractions. After a while I got into warm tingly feeling territories but I noticed I kept tighten the belly muscles kinda hard despite trying to stay completely relaxed. Breathing in deep and relaxing those muscles and the feeling was gone.

So far I can easily get involuntary contractions to start. But even while being horny I can’t find a way to get into the pleasure zone….

Another thing about the Mindgasm files: I still can’t find that imaginary “top” muscle above the penis. Any secrets to share? It really drives me nuts to read that people who got this, can reach orgasm easily and far more important repeatedly and prolonged.

Oh and btw: shivers down my back (like if it is cold, but without low temperatures) are a kind of pleasure wave or not? I had that a few times in different sessions at normal room temperature. Just wondering if that could be atleast the beginning of a pwave?

My Progasm ate my weekend. And other news.

Well it ate all of Saturday and 1/2 of today.
The thing is that once it gets going it is always in contact with my prostate, so attempts to stop coming are almost futile.
An NJOY Wand I can shift off the spot. My Progasm I cannot.
So 0600 to 0845 Saturday spent pretty much non stop orgasming, 1130 to 1350 (ish) the same. Rest of day dealing with aftershocks and involuntary ALESS mini O’s. Rather distracting.

And in other news – I have had the house to myself all weekend. I have learned to take a bottle of water in with me, because moaning and screaming dry’s me out something terrible.

Sunday has been a slightly milder but same story. At least I made it to gym.

Hope others weekends have been similarly and happily eaten.

Difference between finger and toy

When I have a finger inside me and I attempt a come here motion I can hit my prostate and get a nice sensation almost instantly. Is it correct that you shouldn’t feel this with the toy inserted? Even when having involuntary contractions I don’t feel prostate stimulation the same way I would if I was rubbing my finger against it. Can someone comment on this or am I doing something wrong that’s causing the toy not to hit the prostate?

4th session – small progress but not there yet

Last night I decided to go for my 4th session and listen to Mindgasm tutorial as many of you guys suggested.
– I smoke some weed
– Took a nice shower to clean up and relax
– went to bed
– put on my headset and relaxed while putting Aneros in. This time it felt so good that I thought I would finally have THAT session everybody is looking forward to.
– Session lasted approx 2 hours – 2 hours of multiple failed attempts. Ended up touching my penis and cuming with a regular penile orgasm
– On a positive note, I got a better understanding of the 2 muscles and the type of contractions that can help reach our goal

1) Mindgasm tutorial is really helpful and made realized that I was doing it all wrong. I got to learn about the lower an middle muscles

*** I dont know what is 75% of contraction – even my 100% is not clear. Should 100% be really strong to the point it hurt ? How do I measure 25%, 50%, 75% ?
*** it was really hard for me to keep my PC muscle contracted for 30 sec. I felt like at some point it was just my sphincter which was contracted and had to put more strenght to contract PC muscle. Am I doing it wrong ? At every “big squeeze+hold”, my PC muscle would shake while I’m holding it. Read more »

first poppers session and I got questions

Cheers,

after some time I tried now a different approach on using Aneros toys and used a VR-scene and tried poppers. The one thing I noticed, after sniffing from a ziplockback I got lightheaded after a few seconds, well and I was horny. Got a fuzzy feeling but it didn’t got me farther to anything prostate-orgasm related. After about an hour without many involuntary contractions or anything happening I just grabbed my cock, jerked off, took a sniff and came in the mid of the high. But I can’t say the orgasm was stronger or lasted longer.

So, just for generic orgasm-enhancement: when do you sniff the stuff? Once? Just before the PONR? While cumming?

And for gaining prostate pleasure? When do you use it there? Before you insert the Aneros? After it but before you have any involuntaries/waves? Or after?

Questions from a first time user

Gotta say this group sold me on the Aneros just from reading and decided to try it for myself. I ordered the helix and the progasm red ( couldnt pass up the sale 🤷‍♂️)

I was so excited when they arrived in the mail. Couldn’t wait to use it. I’m sticking with the Helix for now as I’m not used to anal insertion.

So here are my questions.

During my first time using it my body experienced involuntary shakes, is this a P-wave?

What are some of your favorite positions to hit the prostate just right?

How long should you leave it in as you are just getting started? And how often? Daily? Weekly? Etc.

When it was in I found myself tensing my sphincter to kind of help move it in and out? Should I be doing this or is the key to keep it relaxed?

Afterwards I farted a lot…. like a lot and I kinda liked it. I didn’t really see anyone else talking about it and wondering if anyone else out there experiences this and enjoys it as much as I did?

Looking forward to this journey and will update as I continue.

Thanks!

How to progress from involuntaries

Hi there, I’ve been new to this game and over the last 6 months on and off I’ve attempted possibly 10sessions since I first purchased the helix trident syn.

I’ve attempted and tried a number of the tips that are commonly posted here and have made some progress strengthening the PC muscles etc. The stage I am currently at is that I can (without much effort) cause what I believe to be extended periods of involuntary contractions. These involuntary contractions usually lead to periods where I feel very aroused but that is all. If I focus on these involuntaries sometimes (with my eyes closed and focusing on my breathing) I can cause myself to start spinning but not in a dizzying way. These two results of involuntary contractions are the only progress I have made. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong, what sensations I should be focusing on to try and achieve p-waves.

I’ve also considered the toy isn’t working for me. When I have tried or my girlfriend has used a finger inside me it has felt like my prostate was actually being stimulated and besides being a nice feeling using the toy and having the involuntary contractions I don’t feel it actually stimulate my prostate or any sort of build up of pleasurable feelings in that area. Where exactly should the pleasure or p-waves originate so I understand where to focus and cultivate them?

Any help anyone can give would be most appreciated.

Finally making some progress

I have been thinking of posting here for a while. This is going to be a rambling post so TL;DR

I bought a Helix Syn in September of 2019 after seeing Aneros orgasm videos on the web for years. Decided to finally try it for myself. Used the Syn about twice a week for around one month and got bored with it and stopped. I found that it felt okay but after squeezing my PC muscles for about 10 or 15 minutes I would either doze off or decide to watch gay porn. The Syn did seem to enhance my penile orgasms but not so much that I felt like putting it in just for the enhanced penile orgasms. BTW I have a major, major addiction to gay porn. Or had. I’ll get to that later. Anyway, I would only pop the syn in every now and again 3 or 4 months at a stretch. That changed in January and it was the strangest thing. I got up to go pee one night around 3:30 AM. When I got back in bed I was just laying on my side and was just sort of sleepily squeezing my PC muscles (which I don’t usually do) and I began to think what if the pleasant sensation of peeing occurred further back in my prostate. Then I started to imagine what that would feel like while still squeezing my PC muscles. And that is when it hit. My muscles just started spasming on their own and I had this curious, very pleasurable tingling sensation from around my prostate. It only lasted maybe 5 to 10 seconds but I guess I got hooked. Mind you my Syn was in my dresser drawer, not even in my butt. Decided to start using the Syn again the next night. I’ve been trying to figure it out like a puzzle how to get those same sensations again and I am making real progress. Last night I went for about an hour and ½ and had the involuntary contractions + feelings of impending orgasm and that happened four or five times. With practicing deep breathing and kegels I feel that a progasm is within my grasp. Weirdly (again) about two weeks ago I suddenly lost interest in porn. Not altogether but it is much easier to just shrug it off and not watch any. Something does sort of concern me though. Around the time my interest in porn fell off, it seemed like maybe my libido fell off too. When I try to have penile orgasms now, they aren’t very satisfying almost like I’m not even climaxing. Also, it feels like there is a sort of congested feeling in my prostate. Read more »