Does anyone have prostate orgasms without involuntaries?

Hi everyone,

I first tried using an aneros product a few years ago, I don’t remember what model I had. Long story short, I got a little frustrated with it and got rid of it during a move. I recently got back into prostate play and bought an Njoy purewand. I had some good feelings with that, which I think were p waves.

I was enjoying prostate play enough that I decided to buy another aneros product, this time the MGX Trident. I think I’ve read just about everything I can find, but I’m still struggling to cause involuntaries.

The MGX trident always feels great when inserted. I often just lay there for a good 20 minutes before I try to use any muscles. I just had a break through where I found that if I alternate my pc muscles and sphincter muscles almost in a rolling motion, I would feel the warm, tingling pressure and an amazing feeling prostate for about 10 seconds. I’m thinking this is a p wave, but I’ve read that maybe that’s the start of a prostate orgasm which get stronger in succession.

Onto my what I think is my big issue, I can’t seem to get involuntaries. Does anyone else get prostate orgasm but never involuntaries? I thought involuntaries were almost a prerequisite for a prostate orgasm. I’ve tried lightly holding my pc muscle, but I don’t feel like I will ever get tired so the muscle never fails. Maybe I’m thinking about this all wrong. Any insight would be appreciated. I’m hoping I’ll read something that will give me a mental “click”. Thanks!

What to do after getting involuntaries?

I’ve been trying to explore more feelings with my Progasm Ice. I seem to be able to get to a point where I’m feeling pretty relaxed and able to manoeuvre the Progasm around handsfree. I am able to trigger some involuntary spasms in doing this which I believe to be a step in the right direction. It feels ok but I can’t seem to break through to anything further.

After a while I get either bored or it starts to feel onerous in continuing moving my kegels. Then I find it tricky to maintaining flexing kegels and therefore can’t relax.

I sometimes feel like I’m getting some tiny flecks of pleasure, but I think this is more of a kind of placebo effect, I’m expecting pleasure so constantly looking out for it.

Can anyone help me move on from getting involuntaries?

Exciting afternoon

Apologies in advance for the lengthy first time post – I’ve been reading other’s experiences for some time and would like to share my own.

I’ve owned a helix for about 5 years and have enjoyed occasional solo sessions, although never feeling like I was progressing to anything like involuntary movement. These sessions always end after an hour or so with me having a very pleasurable orgasm by stimulating my penis. I suppose I’d never really found the time to dedicate trying to develop the techniques suggested by other users.

I also use the helix with my (female) partner. She enjoys watching the pleasure I get from inserting it, and we find it tends to give me a harder erection. It certainly excites me to wear it and know that she knows I’m being stimulated by it. Cumming inside her always feels great with the helix in and it’s enhanced by the feeling of the helix moving while my muscles contract during orgasm.

Lockdown over the past four months has put pay to the solo sessions (everyone at home all day), so I thought I’d dedicate the time to focusing on my pelvic muscles and understanding the feelings in my anus and prostate.Also been following the threads on here and enjoying reading about other’s experiences. Very exciting to read knowing I had to wait to get my helix back inside.I’ve been practicing clenching, holding and releasing my pelvic muscles while lying in bed, sometimes last thing at night, sometimes in the morning, experimenting with different positions. I feel I’ve come to be able to control them a lot more than before, and hold varying levels of clench. I’ve had some very good feelings after 45 minutes or so of playing around where my muscles seem to twitch and I get a warm feeling around my anus/prostate/base of my penis. This has all made me really excited to get the helix back inside.

Involuntaries and super os

I recently got the aneros helix trident and I have been getting a lot of involuntary movements in my butt and legs. Is this separate from a super o or a precursor? Is there something I should be doing when I get involuntaries to get a super o. I don’t know if what I am currently getting are just waves. It feels really good so I’m not complaining. Just gonna keep practicing but just wondering

Aneros Newbie

I have been on this journey for almost 3 months now, no super o’s as yet but in the last 2 weeks the feelings have ramped up a lot ,just sitting down i get pleasurable waves and if i start to give my erogenous zones some attention along with gentle contractions i find i can get the involuntaries going,am i on the road to Aless orgasms ?

Am I on the right path here?

Hello everyone,

I bought my first Aneros, a Helix Syn, about 1-2 years ago. In the beginning I was very unfamiliar with anal play (straight guy in 20s) and was just fooling around a bit. I remember that inserting into my butt made me uncomfortable. I also didn’t really get any good feelings from it at the very start.

After a few sessions I bought a different model (can’t remember which one exactly) and ordered poppers, seeing that many people have had better results with them. In the next sessions I had a nice feeling of pressure inside me, especially after a sniff of poppers (I guess that was the aneros pushing onto the prostate). I also felt some very slight involuntary contractions: I involuntarily contracted some muscles down there and it felt nice, but after a few seconds the contraction would stop and that was the end of it. I only got those contractions with the MGX Trident and Maximus Trident.

After that, I didn’t get any further for a long while, I even tried using the Aneros while on a light-medium dose of LSD, but the experience with the Aneros didn’t change while tripping, it was the same as sober. Because of the lack of progress, I stopped using the Aneros massagers for a while.

First time experience and some problems.

Whats up guys.

Short backstory:
Im a 26yo straigt male and already experimented with buttplay in my puberty, had some experience with plugs and always found it nice during masturbation.
My last gf tried fingering me but… It wasnt that nice (Situation was kinda whacky).

So last month i stumbled over this sub and got really curious.
Like damn i wanted such a toy that brings me to an incredible high. Maybe even involve it in the bed with my gf.

Some talk later she was also curious, cause we read it can lead to even harder boners, longer intercourse and shorter refractory periods. In the past she didnt like the idea of a man with something in his butt, but suprisingly she was open to it.

So i ordered a Helix syn trident, my gf was at work and i have holidays so i got into it. Got clean, lubed and relaxed, did evrything right imo.
I first tried the doing nothing method, Browsing thru gone wild and stuff to get me horny.

I was horny but my butt was like: meh, thats not doin anything.
So intried to force involuntaries by clencing as long as possible.
And after some time of my muscels spasming it hit me!

A warm intense pleasuring wave goin from my prostate through my stomac. After it got a lot more intense it felt like i was close to go over the edge.

Advice on keeping Progasm in place

I have a Progasm and last night I had the best session I have ever had. It lasted about an hour total. There were multiple periods several minutes in duration where it felt like I was in the middle of an orgasm that just kept going. I was quivering and having involuntary contractions.

The problem was that sometimes my abdomen would strongly contract involuntarily. My cock would stand up and feel like something was going to come out. Every time that happened the Progasm would be pushed part way out. I would have to reach back and push it back in.

I was on my back with legs closed. I tried spreading them and I tried lying on both sides but it did not help. I can’t do on my stomach because of bad knees.

I’ve tried more lube (that made it worse) and less lube.

Is there anything else I could try or could a different model of Aneros work better?

Thank you

Just wanted to say thank you for all the helpful tips. Bought a helix syn last month and love it. First experience was body shaking for an hour and a half thanks to putting all the tips to use. Haven’t had as intense of an experience again until last night.
Got in bed, slipped it in and got ripped on some indica. Just chilled out and dozed focusing on relaxing and the pressure of it against my prostate. Eventually it stirred more and I held kegels lightly for a bit and involuntaries took over. No idea how long I was awake for but the whole experience was about 2 hours. Massive pleasure and shaking for so long. Pretty awesome. Love this new world 🙂
Thanks for all the helpful suggestions, everyone.