Tag: Kegel Exercises

24 yr old male First post, would like some outside feed back on my prostate/anal orgasm journey

LONG POST ALERT*****

Im gonna try and keep this shorted possible, but will make other detailed posts about my journey later on. So i’ve been experimenting with anal for about 2 years. I started with Aneros and since i’ve gotten 6 other models, a dildo to ride, a pure wand a hismith sex machine. Early on in my journey with the Aneros Helix, i think i’ve had some p-waves whereas i would feel strong sensations that would originate from my pc muscles and then spread throughout my body. For a while this was all that would happen, which was amplified when combined with nipple play. Then a big milestone (in my opinion) happened. During a few of my sessions, whenever I felt a big wave coming i also felt like i might ejaculate (which is not what i’m going for, i want dry orgasms) i would stop, scared i would cum or lose my self in please, but one day , during a session i let it happened because why not? If i ejaculate id get an amazing orgasm, so it’s a win. so I let myself go and too my pleasurable surprise, i squirted! it was clear and it was a lot ALOT. Like i thought i peed but it wasn’t and it was sooooo pleasurable (idk if i’d say orgasm tho) but i was laughing so much after out of pleasure. i believe this happened a total of 5-6 times in my journey. Read more »

New User, Aless Better than Aneros?

New user here, trident syn

My experience has been very suprising to say the least…

Have used a few times now, longer sessions, with 420 help…when in, feels good, gets the vibes going. I feel like trying to build toward something, but then either I try too hard, or flex too much and the cycle just kind of repeats…eventually I feel a little too much pressure on the prostate and it boarders on uncomfortable, nothing major…

The amazing discovery is after the session… sometimes next day, sometimes next smoke sesh, sitting in the same chair/position, etc…I can feel my prostate and have the awareness/awakening. By doing light kegels and flexing/clenching I can build myself to INSANE, mind altering, rolling dry orgasms. It’s almost incomprehensible that my body can do this without any major direct stimulation…

My question is…has anyone else had a similar experience where the aneros feels good and can build some waves, but the real experience comes after, aless…

In researching before buying I really didn’t see much of a scenario like my own where the first super-O/MMO’s come aless before getting there with the device.

aneros getting pushed out?

Been at this for a couple years with some success but no super O. Had a sort of breakthrough where I really tried to embrace the urge to pee feeling and actively did “reverse kegels” and “pushing out”, basically as if I was actually trying to pee. Result was really intense sensations/contractions and WAY more precum than typical sessions. But the toy itself also wanted to come out, and did a couple times. I also realized why people feel the need to do an enema before a session vs just taking a shower.

Is this maybe a pelvic floor muscle isolation thing, and I can learn to let precum flow more freely while also not pushing the aneros out? Maybe I just need to dial back the pushing, or maybe I should try a different toy or lube (using coconut oil)?

Prostate porn videos make it look easy..

My head is a mess with all of this.

I’m told I need to relax and do nothing…which can result in amazing feelings but no orgasm, it feels amazing.

I’m told I need to clench down via my kegels and anal contractions… Which feels amazing but no orgasm.

I see videos of guys fucking themselves and they cum in minutes, sometimes seconds!

The guys that are fucking hard is that a simple prostate orgasm?

Is the Aneros designed for a super O?

Asking for a friend……

Finally making some progress

I have been thinking of posting here for a while. This is going to be a rambling post so TL;DR

I bought a Helix Syn in September of 2019 after seeing Aneros orgasm videos on the web for years. Decided to finally try it for myself. Used the Syn about twice a week for around one month and got bored with it and stopped. I found that it felt okay but after squeezing my PC muscles for about 10 or 15 minutes I would either doze off or decide to watch gay porn. The Syn did seem to enhance my penile orgasms but not so much that I felt like putting it in just for the enhanced penile orgasms. BTW I have a major, major addiction to gay porn. Or had. I’ll get to that later. Anyway, I would only pop the syn in every now and again 3 or 4 months at a stretch. That changed in January and it was the strangest thing. I got up to go pee one night around 3:30 AM. When I got back in bed I was just laying on my side and was just sort of sleepily squeezing my PC muscles (which I don’t usually do) and I began to think what if the pleasant sensation of peeing occurred further back in my prostate. Then I started to imagine what that would feel like while still squeezing my PC muscles. And that is when it hit. My muscles just started spasming on their own and I had this curious, very pleasurable tingling sensation from around my prostate. It only lasted maybe 5 to 10 seconds but I guess I got hooked. Mind you my Syn was in my dresser drawer, not even in my butt. Decided to start using the Syn again the next night. I’ve been trying to figure it out like a puzzle how to get those same sensations again and I am making real progress. Last night I went for about an hour and ½ and had the involuntary contractions + feelings of impending orgasm and that happened four or five times. With practicing deep breathing and kegels I feel that a progasm is within my grasp. Weirdly (again) about two weeks ago I suddenly lost interest in porn. Not altogether but it is much easier to just shrug it off and not watch any. Something does sort of concern me though. Around the time my interest in porn fell off, it seemed like maybe my libido fell off too. When I try to have penile orgasms now, they aren’t very satisfying almost like I’m not even climaxing. Also, it feels like there is a sort of congested feeling in my prostate. Read more »

Had a breakthrough last session

About 2 years into my journey, not much progress since i started. Last session i decided instead of using kegels firmly to just barely squeeze them and relax my butt. I also was watching lesbian porn but mostly just for the audio. Rubbing my nipples gently as well.

Thats when i felt a build up. My heart started racing and all of a sudden my head felt like it was spinning around and that lasted about a minute then stopped.

I dont know if thats a normal sign but ill take it over nothing lol

Interesting Sensations

So I’ve been on this aneros train on and off for about 6 years now, but only really in the last year have I given proper thought and effort to exploring this. I own two aneros products — the helix syn and the progasm.

After reading through various posts, it appeared to me that doing kegels were important, but mindfulness was more so than anything else. So yesterday, I tried something slightly different — I came into my session as relaxed as possible, and adopting a “curious” mindset to anything I felt during the session rather than trying to force anything. I started off by inserting the helix and scrolling Reddit for about 10 minutes to just get used to it in me. Then, I lay down with my knees up, feet flat on the bed and listened to some calming music/binaural beats.

In past sessions, because I’ve seen videos of guys basically flopping around on the bed, I thought that I had to try and imitate that kind of movement and deliberately squeezed/moved to try and emphasise that. Well, that would give me some feelings but it would often exhaust me and feel discouraged at the end of the session. Tonight’s session on the other hand, I really just focused on relaxing as much as possible and letting my body move when it wanted to. I focused on my breathing (5 seconds in, 5 seconds out) and tried to leave my body as relaxed as possible. Read more »

I have personally blocked a certain user

Hello guys.

As you may have noticed over the past few days, there has been a certain user on this sub who’s “feedback” leaves something to be desired.

On a personal level this user has weaponized my history of addiction against me (quote: “You are addicted” Quote: “You are obsessed’). I shared that history openly and without shame on this sub in the understanding that we respect each other and support each other. and i thank those of you that stood up to this users comments by downvoting him in such instances.

He has also been threatening (Quote: “You have been warned, I am watching!”)

He has also been sexist and misogynistic (Quote: “You would write great chick-Lit”)

On a general level he has been trying to scare other users with something called “Kundalini Syndrome”, which, as far as i can tell, is something to do with the East Indian Mystical Tradition. This sub is about the Aneros Prostate Massager and Prostate Orgasms and has nothing at all to do with ones spiritual awakening.

Do not get me wrong, i am not discounting the truth of “Kundalini Syndrome” or of any spiritual practice. we are all entitled to believe whatever we choose. But, to state it again clearly for the record: THIS SUB IS ABOUT ANEROS PROSTATE MASSAGE AND PROSTATE ORGASMS. Read more »

A mental trick?

Hey brothers!

I’ve responded and commented a couple of times to others about how the journey to prostate orgasms and discovery of prostate pleasure in general can seem difficult at the start because we, as men, are not taught about this as we grow up. In those posts i compare it to regular masturbation, an experience that we all pretty much had no problem at all figuring out.

Stick with me here…

We all know what to do with our dicks. We figured out at (most likely) an early age that it feels REALLY good when we touch, tug on, stroke and caress our dicks and when you do that enough you get to the really good bit and cum!

We do this for years and we build up our arsenal of various techniques and know what we need to do to get the job done quick or done slow. We are probably soooo familiar with this that we can mentally recall ALL of the sensations from our various techniques.

Stick with me…

With prostate play and prostate orgasms we are learning how to masturbate a totally new sex organ. For me i think i have just realized that it helps to think of the PWaves generated by kegels like you would think of stroking your dick when jacking off. This seems especially helpful at the start when things are more consciously controlled (until the involuntaries start). For the last few days i have just been working on ALess sessions to hone in on the sensations and i found that i could really amp up my arousal by really, literally, thinking of it as masturbating my prostate with my PC just as i would focus on my helmet and shaft if jacking off. Read more »

Progress, and question regarding frequency of practice and sex in general

I’ve been an Aneros user on and off for a while now. Recently got back into practicing with my helix syn. I have a Progasm ice which imo feels better but isn’t nearly as manoeuvrable.

So each day this week I’ve been slipping in the helix and relaxing for around an hour at a time (sometimes longer) to see if I can make some progress toward p waves etc. I’ve avoided masturbating all week while I do this in an effort to build up my prostate as other allude to.

I seem to get the involuntaries by flexing/contracting my PC muscles (kegels?) to around 50-70%. Any less and there’s no effect, any more and the effect subsides and it’s hard to maintain. First question is, do I basically just need to stick at it by holding that position? I sometimes feel like I get flecks of pleasure, although I often wonder whether I am convincing myself of this as some kind of placebo. What can I do to step on from this? It feels ok but after a while my kegels get tired or I lose interest. I know that ‘chasing’ things is counter intuitive!

Secondly, back to frequency of masturbation / sex etc. I have a gf, she knows I practice with the aneros, she’s very accepting of all that luckily. We normally have sex at least once sometimes twice a week on average, I’d typically masturbate another two or three times in between. Does ejaculating, or indeed penile stimulation set back progress? Does it become more difficult to acquire P waves the next day or even two days after ejaculation? Read more »