Tag: PC

Struggling

Hello. I have been lurking various threads on this topic and such and following the tips people have been leaving behind. However my experience with prostate play has been fairly underwhelming so far.

I have been using a helix syn trident and I don’t know if the problem with this toy is that it’s too small to reach my prostate or if I’m using it wrong?

For example. I don’t actually know if the front tab is resting on my exterior prostate or whatever you would call that area. That tab most of the time just kind of hurts and feels uncomfortable and after some shifting or positioning it stops hurting but then just doesn’t feel like anything at all. I don’t think the tab is “massaging” my prostate exteriorly.

And the actual phallic piece of the toy. I get that I’m supposed to adjust at first which I give time for it to move past that “feels like there’s something in your ass” phase. But after that I just don’t really feel it at all. I flex my PC muscle as I’ve heard you’re supposed to do. And I do level exercises while at work between my sessions to get used to that muscle. However no matter how much I flex. If I flex like 25% or as hard as I can possibly flex. I just feel the toy shift and it feels sort of like it’s settling maybe or it’s shifting closer inwards inside me towards my prostate. But I don’t think it ever reaches or massages my prostate? Like maybe it’s just a bit too small? Read more »

Is this Super O?

Using progasm jr, i managed to achieved some kind of good sensation on my penis and prostate. I always play with my nipple to get more aroused and it helps make me oozing tiny flow of precum easily. During nipple play, i contract my pc muscle lightly and it feels so good.
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When it gets more intensed, i hold my pc muscle contraction(erection) for as long as i could while maintaining playing with my nipple(to get more aroused), i can get to the point where the involuntary contraction started on its own.
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The involuntary contraction becomes more intensed sucking the progasm in hitting my prostate as i keep playing with my nipple. If i am not playing with my nipple, it is hard for me to achieved this.
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When my pc muscle contract stronger hitting my prostate during involuntary contraction, my penis becomes very hard and it really does feels good. It can last longer as long as i maintaining nipple stimulation.
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No wet ejaculation, only pre cum that come out.
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My question is, is that super o? Can anyone share their thoughts.

I find that there are at least 2 way to contract muscle

And they seems not the same muscle.

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One is the PC muscle which same as when you are finish pee. You contract it 2-3 times to squirt out your last urine. It’s also same **pull up your dick** when it’s hard.

**This way it’s like a “↑”,** because when you doing this your dick jumps

Another one is like “–> <–” And it won’t makes your dick jump.It’s like to concentrate on 2-3 cm away from the root of balls, towards to anus but not penis.

(It’s like when you finish the pee. You don’t pee out hard which is reverse kegel. But to squeeze muscle from two sides gently. It can still squirt out some urine. )

When doing this your dick might jump up very little. Or you can even do those two movement together or one after another.

About the second way. It’s not fixed. But very dynamic. You can move the concentrate point more away. And even just on the anus.

Try to squeeze the anus and you should feels warm inside.(If you doing it for 5min or more)

I find that second way might push the massager toward the belly but it still pull back the massage which makes it work like traditional way.But I good point is it won’t make you tired.

It’s not same as reverse kegel which is the act of pee. (pee act move pc muscle but my way is to move other set of muscle)

Does anyone pulse their pc muscle?

I know that people contract their pc muscle but I was wondering the rate of the contractions. I found that quickly pressing the outside of my pc muscle got me close to orgasm, so I figure something similar would be helpful for the aneros. However in reality, it seemed like the rate might be too quick and I was focusing too much on the act of contracting. Also for those who pulse, how quickly and how hard are you contracting?

I’m 20 years old and I bought the Aneros about a month ago

I first got the Aneros because I feel like my penis is getting less and less sensitive due to jerking off too much so I want to experiment with prostate orgasms (i heard of it from somewhere). Little did I know, I stumbled upon a tool to get MMO (Im already aware of this from Mantak Chia but I never thought a toy could enhance/facilitate the process)

My first session was great. I felt the peeing sensation and even had a bit of precum.

My second session I dripped a lot of precum while humping something.

My fourth to sixth (session today) have been stagnant.

I want to know if maybe my sphincter and PC muscles are too strong hence it takes forever for them to quiver and tire out?

Ive always had some good feeling, even small orgasms from urinating way before my purchase of the Aneros

Today in my 6th session, I turned on meditation music and tried clenching 60 seconds at a time. But my muscles never seemed to tire out.

I tried the relax and do nothing approach and breathe deeply but I end up losing my grip of the Aneros.

Im not frustrated, I might be chasing the orgasm too hard maybe. But I’m getting increasingly frustrated not just because I cant get to the orgasm, but it seems like my first few sesssions were good and my progress is reversing. Read more »

I just… don’t really feel anything from the syn?

So yes, I’m fairly newish at this and prostate stuff. That said, I feel like I ought to feel… something? I pop the helix in and just don’t feel much of anything at all. I’ve tried doing the PC / sphincter flexes and all, and while I still have trouble getting consistent involuntaries, I just feel like this must not be the right shape for me or something. I feel like I ought to feel *something* just to let me know it’s hitting the right spot, right? Do I need to maybe change to a different toy? Or is this really just inexperience?

Need help reaching HFWO

I’ve had a recent success reaching my first HFDO with my firtst Aneros toy, the new Progasm. I think that my HFDO success was obtained because I just stayed as calm as I could and concentrated hard on not clenching my pc muscles as is customary just before reaching PONR in penile orgasm.

Looking forward, I would like to reach a HFWO but I’m not shure how to proceed. I’m afraid if I clench my pc muscles in hope of reaching HFWO instead of HFDO I’ll just ruin everything. Also, can you reach a HFWO while being flaccid? Any thoughts would be appreciated.

First time user

I used the helix trident, and it felt sooo good when I put it in. I’ve read a lot of tips and advice on how to use it.

I was actually oozing so much pre cum, I got to a point where I was shaking all over with pleasure, the pc muscles are moving gently on their own almost.

BUT when I feel like I’m about to cum, my Pc muscles squeeze hard for too long and the feeling fades away. And when I try to relax and ease the squeeze, it takes me out of it.

what can I do? just even more relax?

Stuck on a plateau? Here’s what finally worked for me, no substances or special tricks needed

Some background: I’ve been using Aneros on and off since November. I’ve been practicing kegels regularly since then, too. In that time, I’ve had one strong prostate orgasm, a few weak ones, and a lot of “close but not there” frustration. The strong orgasm I had happened maybe a month in while drunk and I had very little idea what I was doing or what was working. I couldn’t replicate it at all.

I was frustrated that I had to fantasize hard or really focus on porn to feel like I’m getting “close”, or that I had to drink or be on some other substance. The former is a bit of a strain and the latter is not something you want to make a habit.

Now, I’ve been spending a few hours on Aneros each day since Friday, and I haven’t masturbated since last Tuesday. I think that helped. I use the Aneros Helix Syn with a fairly large amount of lube (I use a lube shooter). I didn’t do any special relaxation technique, nor did I try any nipple play.

What finally worked for me was:

1. Sitting on the bed, knees bent and up, legs kind of spread outward so your knees can be together without them tipping over

2. Listening to music. Any music on youtube that claims to be good for meditating, relaxing, or focusing should be fine. I think it helps keep part of your brain occupied Read more »

I didn’t even understand what happened

Hey guys, today I had an experience that I have no idea if it’s normal. It was half scary half mind blowing. I’m hoping someone experienced to help me understand what happened. This will be on the longer side of posts but I have to describe what happened as I’ve never seen anything like that in videos.

That being said, I am really new to all sensations, spasms, twitchs and whatever else a prostate massager may give. It’s a whole new world for me. I don’t even know if I had an orgasm (if it was it was several). I didn’t ejaculate for sure. But I don’t know what it was. Here it goes:

I was laying on my back, then I decided to clench my butt and held like that. When I contracted both my PC and sphincter (for what I initially expected to be no more than 30 sec) I started having spasms and my head was trembling (like a time lapse of someone sleeping). Because my butt was clenched I didn’t feel as tired and I could hold my muscles for longer. Soon my whole body was twitching and my hands were shaking vigorously. It felt really good.

but then things got weird. Read more »