Tag: Perineum

I Get Help With a Personal Problem

One of the benefits of spending so much time on the road for work was that it required between 8-10 room nights in hotels every month, this allowed me to have frequent sessions in private. As a result in 2013, in a given week on the road I would do at least two Aneros sessions, a fair amount of sexting and some camming. To say my libido was on overdrive at the end of a week like that was an understatement. As you all know, an Aneros session leaves you hornier than a he goat.

It was in May of 2013 that I was in Washington DC for a week. Needless to say the warm weather, girl watching on the hill and a night at a gentlemen’s club as well as my normal activities on the road mentioned above left me with an erection on friday that was really hard to subdue. One of the challenges of my expanded libido at the 9 year mark was the reality that I found self masturbation to be minimally pleasurable and very unsatisfying; so although I had a wooden erection that friday morning I woke I didn’t even bother to tug one off.

Setting out on the road north, I saw a number of massage parlor billboards along the road. The first one I saw piqued my interest and got me to thinking. By the time lunch time hit I was near one of the establishments advertised. Exiting the highway I figured I would grab lunch and cruise by the place to scope it out. I grabbed some fast food and followed the directions the billboard gave me. Read more »

Gentle Sensations Progressing

Hey r/aneros!

Tl;dr: relaxing into the sensations and letting go has resulted in my first gentle orgasmic sensations; thanks in no small part to the guidance I’ve received from all your fine posts.

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I’m a long-time reader, first-time poster; here because I’m starting to experience orgasmic sensations (I but not fully sure what they were). I’ve decided to try and create a habit of writing (both here and offline) about my experiences as I think it will help me build more awareness and tune in to what’s happening in my body. I’m excited to share my progress with you and also say thanks for everything you guys have posted that’s helped me along so far.

I bought my first aneros (Helix Syn) in late 2017, and I’ve been using it on and off since; but more regularly for the last 6 months. I’ve had my fair share (more than my fair share imho) of frustration along the way, but I’ve been experiencing more and more consistent sensations and progress recently.

When I first started my sessions consistently (save for the odd dud session) progressed in intensity BUT; all that intensity was in my body’s reaction; not in sensation or arousal. It was as if my body was progressing in its journey faster than my mind was. I had sessions that involved loud moaning; spasms, tingling, muscle-clenching and even strong full-body shaking, with little or no localized pleasure. It felt erotic, but not pleasurable. Read more »

past week +

Things just went side ways.

Friday 1/18 I some how buggered my neck at work, cant tilt to the left at all. Tried heat, cold, even tried a muscle relaxer from back when I pulled my back. nothing worked. I couldn’t get out of bed Saturday, ended up rolling off the bead as any movement made my head scream in pain. I went to the walk in clinic, they gave me a few shots & some pills to help.

Saturday 1/19 night tried the Jr just for s&g. I got nothing, almost couldn’t tell I was joined w/ him.

Sunday 1/20 I went ahead and did a full double release to restart my cycle,

Monday 1/21 tried some edging, it was like my cock was numb. I could feel myself stroking but got no sensations and only got half hard. Once I did get something it was to late and I just blew if you will, was an ultra lame orgasm/ejaculation. It was a waste of time. May as well give up till I stop the pills. You would think taking a muscle relaxer would work the same way as weed but seems not so much. Read more »

“No Set Schedule On The Horizon”

Introduction
My Aneros sessions are rather sporadic lately. But that is not necessarily a bad thing. Since I regularly practice semen retention (SR), I have found that my sessions can be more intense and positive if I delay them. They are not on a set schedule. Of course, I never know which model I will choose. Generally, I get a sense of that when I get close to the session.

Kudos to @BigGlansDC
A special shout-out to my buddy @BigGlansDC. His recent blog post was spot-on! I think one thing that is overlooked with wearing jockstraps and cups is the stimulation the hard cup provides for the male perineum. Of course, the P-tabs on the Aneros models do this as well. It is that pressure that provides the external stimulation of the prostate which feels so good!

Afterthought
I continue to wear jockstraps either with or without groin cups to bed most nights. Not wearing one just doesn’t feel “right” anymore. Just this morning while wearing my XO ProCup, the stimulation on my frenulum was so intense that I felt literally only a stroke or two away from an ejaculation! I have not ejaculated this way (yet) but that feeling is just too powerful for words. It makes me realize what my “malehood’s” purpose really is! Touche’.

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Nipple diddling, Kegeling, and jocks and cups!

Hi guys,

We are in the midst of winter here in DC, but it is going to get even brutally cold here for the next few days because of blast of Arctic air due to arrive late Tuesday night. Actually these blasts of Arctic air are the Arctic Vortex which breaks out of the north polar region. They are more severe some years than others. Actually we have some mild winters than others. What are Aneros guys supposed to do when such brutal winter arrive. In my case, I suspend my Aneros sessions for a while when milder winter weather returns.

I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s posts. He is so insightful when it comes to his sexuality/sexual experiences, his Aneros experiences, and his seasoned approach to jocks and cups! 🙂 His latest blog post, “Cup or No Cup?” piqued my interest.

Like @goldenboy, I wear a jock and cup to bed most nights. A jock and cup supports and protects my manhood for sure even in bed. Plus a jock and cup enter into my male sexual intimacy in the nighttime. Yes, like @goldenboy, there are some nights when I wear just briefs. They are OK, but nothing can compare to the raw, yet very sweet feel of a jock and cup at night! Read more »

My Eighth Year and the Trinity

Once I crossed the “sexual line” with a guy midyear in year seven, the rest of that year just disappeared into the abyss of forgotten events and experiences. That event overshadowed everything else that might have happened. I can’t recall much. I know I did sessions every time I traveled, which was two times per month. I was gone three – four days for each trip. That translates to somewhere between 40 – 60 sessions per year but honestly I don’t remember any of them. By that time Aneros orgasms were a sweet and savored part of my life, but they had become as routine as sex. Some were great I am sure and some probably weren’t . None the less I continued to learn and savor the euphoric rewards my body was giving me.

In January, the start of my eighth year I reached a significant milestone, that was launching my A Less sessions in my wife’s derriere; this is something that I still do to this day. It happened one night when she was wearing a tee shirt and no panties to bed leaving her bare rear exposed. We happened to be spooning at 4 AM, my “witching hour” for MMO. My morning erection happened to slip into the warm caress of her bottom. Spontaneously unbidden the MMO just started. She was sleeping and I was lodged in her crack as tortuous pleasure made my cock root pulse and impaled my anus. These A Less sensations were subtle but strong, stronger than any other A Less orgasms I had had at that point. Key was laying still and not jumping around or twitching and waking her. Read more »

My lifelong archetypal fascination with jockstraps and athletic cups

Hi guys,

We here in DC have entered upon several weeks of excessively bitter and cold weather along with blustery winds. Meteorologists have given us this forecast to sweep away prospects of mild temps and sunny days. In fact, after some years of mild winters, a cold, blustery and snowy winter is long overdue. I am so grateful for guys who use the Aneros and are outspoken of their experiences, among them @goldenboy who loves wearing jocks and “chastity” cups to bed many nights as well as for his Aneros sessions. He believes that wearing a jock and cup for sessions restrains him from teaching his manhood. However, I enjoy very much how a jock and cup revs up the delicious, sexual feelings of my sessions while keeping my roving hands off my manhood! 🙂 🙂 🙂 The jock and cup also helps me to focus on my sessions.

For some reason all this cold, blustery weather along outspoken, candid view of guys on Aneros Forum and Blog sections have made me horny, randy, and HARD!!!

Guys familiar with my Aneros blog here know of my intense jock and cup fetish. This fetish began for sure in my puberty and adolescence when our gym class teachers/coaches told us boys that we had to get a jockstrap for gym class. It was an essential part of our uniform. I enjoyed the elastic feel of my jockstrap how it supported my cock and balls and kept them in place. Plus my the mesh pouch of my jockstrap caressed and even massaged my scrotum, cock, and especially my Glans. Slipping on that jockstrap for the first time was a sexual awakening for me. Read more »

Baby Steps

Started the same way as last session – relax, contractions, lubricate. On back, deep breaths, anal massage, introduce device. Anus was slightly more accepting than last time, but it was still slightly challenging. Gently contracted anal muscles to slowly draw the device in, which it did much like last time, but more reluctantly. This might have been due to using more lubrication than before. Will consider amount next time and adjust accordingly.

Gentle, gradual contractions, then release, felt good. could feel the same gentle stimulation around my scrotum, testicles, and this time, anus. Penis remained mostly flaccid, but sexual arousal was quietly simmering in the background. Went a little longer on time to see if I got any additional effects or different sensations – this time, it was more of the same, but nothing new. Minuscule movements of the device felt good – purely using my sphincter muscles. Again, body didn’t want to give up the device. It’s like once it’s locked in place, my body wants it to be part of my body permanently. Gradually used breathing and relaxing to get it out again. Anus felt normal. Same amount of precum produced as last time, and definitely could feel prostate stimulation / “fullness” – especially when pressing on perineum. Again, did not masturbate, did not orgasm.

Wondering about device placement – how far in is a supposed to go? Past the last bulb? Leave the last bulb out? will ask on the forums and see what people have experienced themselves. Still feeling things out, but definitely want to keep going. Read more »

Beating my meat and diddling my nipples with Kegels thrown in : Aneros foreplay, Saturday January 19

Hi guys,

All this talk about “Penis?!?!?” of late has gotten me horny, randy, and HARD!!!

When I slipped on my very first jockstrap for the very first time in early September 1963 before wearing it for 7th grade Phys Ed class was a sexual awakening for me. When Coach Knox, our Phys Ed teacher, told us that we boys had to get an athletic supporter for gym class, it was the first Wednesday, the day after Labor Day, I rushed to the drugstore near our town center after school that day to purchase one. The pharmacist sized me up and presented me a boys large Johnson and Johnson “Coach” Athletic Supporter. The smallish box the jock came in had a drawing of an athletic man naked except for the jockstrap he was wearing. I popped a boner in my white chinos, absolutely excited that in a few minutes that I would be wearing it. I was entering adolescence at the time. My manhood was becoming adult at the time. That means that my young cock was lubing lots of precum. I rushed home, rushed to my bedroom, stripped my clothes, and tried on the jockstrap. The jock fit me perfectly which meant that I had to wear my erect cock up in the twelve o’clock position. I experienced a sexual awakening when I slipped on the jock. The way the jock supported my scrotum, my erect penis, with my Glans scrunched against the waistband caused exultation. I exulted the feelings of awakened sexual delight. From that moment, I developed an intense jockstrap fetish. Athletic cups soon were added to that fetish which continues to this day as an aging man. Whenever I slip on jockstrap or a jock and a cup, I feel young. Indeed these basic athletic items are health promoting! Read more »

Male Chastity “Pointers”

[This blog was inspired by @Pasttime and @BigGlansDC, thanks!]

Introduction
@Pasttime expressed an interest in male chastity and our wearing of “chastity cups”. I thought this would be a good time to express some of my opinions (as a sort-of refreshed “training session”). Here goes…..

Basics
This “chastity play” is always voluntary, and unlike other chastity “devices” where a keyholder allow access to orgasms, this activity is totally under our control. Whether and when we wear a “chastity” jock/cup is entirely up to us. How long we wear it is also up to us.

Selection Process
I have discovered over the years that there is a wide range of “fit” options when selecting a jockstrap/cup. Some are tighter, some are looser. Some cups are big, some are small. I would suggest buying a few different brands since all of them will “fit” differently. (In actuality, there are not a lot of cups on the market). Currently, my favorites are Mueller FlexShield and XO ProCup.

What Do the Cups Do?
{Normally, the jockstraps with hard cups are worn by men to protect the male genitals during contact sports like baseball. Using these cups for “chastity play” is an entirely different use for them. I will explain the secondary use in this blog.} Read more »