Tag: Perineum

Dry prostate orgasms (help)

have already experencied handsfree wet orgasms by prostate play, but I’m looking for dry prostate ones..

After reading a lot I decided to do the basics: abstain from cum several days before a session, relax my whole body, forget about my dick, try the do nothing method + some slight pc and anal contractions.. and I had the best session so far! Very pleasurable, horny as*, and after a while I felt things getting very intense to a point where I called a “climax”, when I felt a very subtle contraction centered in the prostate, but that was all.. this repeated for 3 more times (and were getting even more intense), but I couldnt manage to feel a full on orgasm.

Here are my questions:

1- do dry orgasms usually start like this for begginers? Very subtle “peak” feelings. If so, they get stronger with time and practice?

2- do you feel strong pelvic contractions when you have a dry orgasm? Like in a regular penile wet one. I ask this because I have yet to find dry orgasm videos with regular perineum throbbing..

Thanks a lot!

My Second Tryst

Part 2
With my eyes closed I grasped the head of my erect cock; it felt hot and smooth in my hand. Anticipation of sucking his penis had forged mine to iron hardness. I love sucking cocks and swallowing rich creamy semen. Placing my middle finger in the sulcus underneath my cock head I began to gently massage it. I did not rub hard enough to encourage ejaculation but rather just firm enough to edge myself and keep it rigid. The deep cleft that sculpts my crown was slippery from my profuse precum. Aneros practice has increased my precum flow manifold. I was pleased I was already hard for him, I wanted it to be erect, or at least firm when he saw it in person the first time. I am relatively large erect. I like showing my size to male and female partners when I am aroused; I like to flaunt my sexuality as I am an exhibitionist at heart. My fingertip began to make little circles in my cleft as I slowly swung my pelvis back and forth. I imagined I was dancing in an erotic performance for spectators; as I saidf I am a closeted exhibitionist. Looking in the mirror over the desk I opened my eyes to admire the lewd dance I was doing and the sexy image I made. I imagined that he was watching the lewd show of my sexuality. The thought of him in particular watching me made my cock ache with need. Ever since rewiring, mental imagery has played a huge role in my prostate orgasm sessions and my arousal. Read more »

Near Continuous ALess Pleasure

I’ve been working on my re-wiring (and enjoying every step of the process) by repeating a simple meditation 5 or 10 times a day. I draw attention to each segment of the male pleasure canal that runs from the rosebud to the cockhead. I pause and focus on the rosebud, inner sphincter, chute (rectum), PC muscle, inner jockstrap (the “top” pelvic floor muscle in MindGasm-speak), the prostate, penis bulb (root, deep in the groin) and cockhead. Each pause sets up tingling and tickling sensations. Involuntaries often spin up spontaneously, and if so I sometimes give them a boost with a manual contraction. If convenient, I press a finger on the rosebud and cradle the perineum in my palm – that always gets involuntaries going strongly. Then I just ’em do their thing and go about my other activities.

I’m finding this routine produces subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) residual sensations of pleasure up and down the canal. At things point, I’m feeling some degree of pleasure during most of my waking hours. Sometimes I wake up with involuntaries going in synch with PC contractions linked to morning wood. Sometimes I wake with zero sensation in the anal region, but bringing attention to it activates the pleasure circuits.

Greatest pleasure I have ever felt and improvements in my life across the board.

I am a little over a year on my aneros journey and damn this shit is intense. Honestly have never had such sexual pleasure in my life. I have had some good penile orgasms in my life, but the intensity and duration of prostate pleasure is phenomenal. You have to be in the mood, but when they hit they are as crazy as people say they are. Its changed my whole perspective and understanding of sex and pleasure.

I think I am rewired so to speak. Within seconds upon insertion, I feel pleasure as my ass sucks the aneros into place. I exhale and immediately start breathing heavily. I then get these insane erections and the throbbing begins. Shortly after I get these pwaves that feel like orgasms in themselves over my pelvis and perineum. I then start to feel my prostate to start spasming similar to when you are ejaculating.

When I get horny now, its not just my dick, my whole pelvic region starts to tingle. My ass and prostate area get filled up with energy. Honestly sometimes just the thought of it makes me so aroused. There is this newfound desire to occupy my ass. Similar to the desire of wanting to bust a nut, my body now “wants” anal/prostate pleasure. Read more »

My New Helix Syn Trident

I just received my new Helix Syn Trident and Progasm Ice to replace my first two original massagers.
Last night was the night to try the HST and I wanted to share the experience but first, it’s important to describe the packaging and the unit itself. It had been a few years since I last opened up an Aneros massager box and it’s easy to forget about the efforts the company has invested in presenting their products. The attractive package will impress anyone fortunate enough to receive it as a purchase or a gift. It is extremely well made, very colorful and the flap magnet separates it from the average packaged box. Several years ago, I used to store my first 2 units in their original boxes but eventually, with several more toys added to my collection, I keep them all in a hardwood box so the original packaging were chucked.

Pulling out the HST from it’s formed nest, the feel is quite a bit different from it’s HS Classic version; it feel more velvety and maybe a little less fragile compared to the original. When compared side by side, the new one is slightly smaller and shorter. The angle from it’s axis also seems a tad less pronounced. My overall impression while looking at it in my hand was, feels nice but how can a noticeably smaller and less aggressive unit possibly yield better results than the previous company’s flagship version? Intrigued, I was anxious to try it. Read more »

Aless Extraordinaire

My last full Aneros session was on Feb 25 in anticipation of a sigmoidoscopy procedure scheduled for March 4th. I’ve been riding on the Aless wagon ever since. This hiatus gave me a chance to try new ways of achieving prostate pleasures including the use of reverse Kegels and other methods.

Last night, my Aless session involved rubbing my perineum vigorously while diddling my nipples coupled with deep diaphragm breathing. Towards the end, I fully engaged my penis for an extended period of edging and then reverted back to my perineum/nipple play. I was very surprised as to how pleasurable the entire experience was.

After doing this for a few hours, I retired to bed (at midnight). As I lay in bed beside me very sound asleep wife, I was enjoying the tingling of my prostate area. Not asleep yet but drifting, suddenly, a massive wave of pleasure engulfed my entire body. This was undoubtedly an orgasm but not an earth-shattering one. It was more like calm seas but it lasted several minutes. The feeling then subsided only to return several minutes later but with even less intensity.

This had happened several times before but I was never sure if they were in my dreams or reality. Last night, however, confirmed that they are real and very pleasurable. So parts of my body could be asleep while others are busy at work!

Life is truly wonderful.

THE MOST SCARY AND INTENSE ORGASM EVER!

I’ve been a very good boy recently so I decided to treat myself to some new toys, a set of Guyon sounding rods. Although these sounds look fairly severe it’s like any of these kind of medical toys in the right hands using them safely and sensibly becomes second nature.

My first attempt with these crazy looking sounds was a bit of a non-starter, I was rushed for time and sounding or come to think of it a session with Aneros’s is never good when rushed. I had pleasurable sensations but nothing too dramatic, my second attempt was a completely different affair.

This was a long and protected session lasting almost three hours, I’ve recently purchased a VR headset, an Oculus Quest 2 if anyones interested. You’re able to download 6K VR porn directly to the device, therefore not relying on Wi-Fi when out on business, particularly handy for the likes of me especially when I’m in the back of beyond. I have to say the optical quality is really good and once engrossed in the glory of the scene its easy to get sucked into it (pun intended) anyway I digress….

When it comes to sounding I’d say I was fairly experienced by working my way from a basic set of Rosebuds to a set of ‘J’ curved Van Buren sounds, up to this moment in time they have given me the most rewards. I should really explain that once past the initial squeamishness of the physical act of sticking metal rods deep into your dick there’s a world of deep and dark wonders to behold from sounding, and let me tell you it gets easier with practice. Just remember to never force anything and keep everything super clean, start slow and do your homework before diving in. Read more »

Super 0 the next level

So I’ve been meaning to make a post about this advanced technique for quite a while, because its seriously just so good I had to share. I’ve started mucking around with prostate masturbation maybe 12 months ago, and read up as much as I could in the search for the magical Super O. I started with the Aneros Helix Syn Trident, and have added so much along the way and haven’t looked back since. I also have an Aneros Progasm, and I honestly couldn’t tell you which I prefer, they’re both different but equally amazing. This post is to share the precise steps and techniques I use to achieve the most ridiculous mind blowing Super O’s to date. There is what I consider to be an absolute game changer below, I hope others try it and let me know if it works as well for you. Please note my technique also includes the use of marijuana which may not be legal in your state or country so please disregard if that is the case. This list of items used is at the bottom for quick reference.
I start by clearing my schedule, turning off my phone, and making sure I wont be interrupted for at least two hours, and preferably more. This is a marathon not a race!
You must take a dump beforehand, and then douche until properly clean. Don’t skip this step! I like to wait at least half an hour afterwards before attempting anything further with my ass, to ensure my sphincter is relaxed again.
During which time I get set up, which I’ll admit is extensive, but so worth it. I’ll put a towel on the bed to ensure it stays clean. Room temperature must be pleasant. I play white noise (or pink noise, its better) on loop through a speaker, it helps with concentration.
I get the toys I plan to use out, along with the suitable lube/s. For the Helix Syn Trident I use an oil based lube as you cant use silicone lube and it lasts far longer than water based. For any non-silicone toy I use silicone lube, it’s the best and no reapplication. I put maybe 5ml into a lube syringe.
Other items I get ready are porn on the bedroom tv, and, the game changer: a little handheld EMS (Electrical Muscle Stimulation) machine with two adhesive pads. I discovered this when I was using it for a sore shoulder, and I put two and two together when I thought “hang on, if the key to prostate orgasms and specifically Super O’s is to reach a point where your PC muscles are contracting involuntarily, and the EMS makes muscles contract involuntarily, then surely I could incorporate this into the process?” I saw there were other anal e-stim toys out there, but I wanted to be able to use e-stim with an Aneros toy and PC muscle contraction.
Ok so on with the process…
I like to smoke a bit of weed (read earlier legal disclaimer) but I don’t smoke regularly so doesn’t take much to get a good buzz on. The reason for this is weed is brilliant for concentrating on certain physical sensations and blocking out distractions and preventing your mind wandering. So yeah, I have a few tokes, turn on the pink noise, chuck the porn on and jump into bed.
Its important to do this next, as any lube will stop them from sticking – I put one EMS pad in the top of my butt crack, and the other one behind my balls on the perineum. These locations will make the EMS stimulate and contract the PC muscles.
I don’t know if its because I’m straight, but as soon as anything goes into my ass I have no chance of getting a hard on, so I have to make sure I’m hard beforehand as your prostate is mostly engorged and open to stimulation when you’re aroused.
I lie on my side with my top leg towards my chest, then lube up my ass and the lube syringe, insert it and push the lube at around the depth of my prostate. If it feels good you know you’re on the right track!
I lube up a finger and slide it in, then a second, keeping the pace and stretching slow because I’ve found staying relaxed is key. Then I lube either the Helix Syn Trident or the Progasm – the Trident if I want subtle and gentle tapping, or Progasm if I want more intense pressure and pushing on the prostate. I’d say I’ve had more intense Super O’s with the Trident, to the point of nearly passing out. Actually I’ve had nearly as good with the Progasm, so I couldn’t choose just one. I slide the toy in slowly, enjoying it. If my sphincter contracts during insertion I know I’ve gone too fast. It helps to tilt the Progasm forward for easy insertion.
I then lie on my stomach, it works best for me but I’ve also had amazing Super O’s on my side. Still no luck on my back, I think gravity makes the toy fall away from my prostate. I relax for a while, tuning out to my breathing and the pink noise for a bit.
Then I start to change my focus to whats happening in and around my ass, the perineum tabs, and the toy resting against my prostate. Its an exercise in subtlety, concentration, and patience. The slightest movement of my PC muscles are what I want at this stage, slowly contracting and releasing every maybe 10 seconds. Because of the weed I’m very focused on the prostate touch. At this stage I like to contract lightly and very smoothly, then as I’m allowing it to relax just as smoothly, hold it just before its fully relaxed, like at a level 1 instead of letting it go to zero. I do this on repeat for a while, and each time it feels even better then I stop the contraction and relax before starting the contraction again because it builds the amazing feeling more each time. I’ve found this is the best and most consistent way of getting the involuntary contractions to start.
At this stage I turn on the EMS to its lowest setting. I’ve tried all the settings and the one I have found by the far the best, is one that smoothly and quickly pulses for 10 seconds then stops for 5 seconds. On the lowest setting it is barely noticeable, but its there.
After a minute I increase it to level 2, and its now sending electro buzzes through my PC muscles. But its enough that I can still mostly control my own muscle contractions, with some involuntary contractions starting to happen alongside the on-off electro stimulation. Its borderline taking over though, and each manual contraction is starting to get taken over by involuntary contraction to the point where its hard to stop them if you really try. Patience!
As it gets more difficult I am starting to shake involuntarily too. I turn it up to level 3, and now I’m at the point where I try to prevent involuntary contractions each time the machine stims for 10 seconds, but by halfway my PC muscles are contracting by themselves and I cant stop it. I try to prevent it but its impossible. Now my body shakes are more frequent too. My prostate is aching and I can so clearly feel the toy and its bumps sliding over my prostate.
Level 4 on the machine is where it all happens for me. The EMS machine causes completely involuntary contractions which squeezes the toy into my prostate strongly, for 10 seconds, and for the 5 seconds its stopped my PC muscles stay contracted entirely on their own until the machine runs for the next 10 seconds. At this point I’m starting a mind and body melting Super O, and I’m a shaking and moaning mess, with non-stop contractions and that beautiful feeling you get in your lower stomach right before you cum, sometimes spreading throughout your entire body. The difference is this can go on for several minutes, relentlessly keeping you at that point of internal orgasm and not letting up. The longest I have kept going for was around 25 minutes and could go no further, I eventually came so hard I nearly passed out and was a zombie for the rest of the day.
Anyway let me know if you do try this and what you think. I hope it works for you as well as it does for me. Read more »

It’s Been Awhile

Well hello strangers!

It’s been awhile since my last blog post, too long.

Life seems to gotten hectic again, all the way through December and January work took off again but recently things seem to have settled down a bit, affording me some free time for me and my Aneros’s.

In December i had a few sessions but they were frustratingly flat with little or no sensations or joy, I put this down to the stresses of the season plus work commitments. I’ve had dud sessions before and have learned to walk away and take timeout, this is exactly what I did, no Aneros play for a month. I still dabbled in my alternate deviant pleasures, sounding and elctro-play, sometimes even a combination of the two. I even invested in some VR goggles, oh my! Now thats what I call an investment.

I know some of you are keen to hear about my journey into sounding and I promise I’ll blog about that later this week.

In the past two weeks I’ve had two really good sessions with my Aneros family, for the sake of simplicity I’m going to amalgamate them into one post.

Both sessions started two or three days in advance with a build up of sexual tension, watching porn, reading erotica and listening to racy podcasts.On the day of a session I’ll always make sure my body and mind are clean and free of distractions, I’ll set aside at least four hours to really get into the zone, the fours hours aren’t necessarily all with the device inserted but the total length of time from having a hot bath or shower to having a short post-session snooze. Read more »