Tag: Porn

What the actual fuck

Holy shit man

Bought a progasm yesterday, tried it last night and was disappointed. Today, it was different. I was in my bathroom, with the shower running I was watching porn for like an hour and getting nowhere and so:

I got in the shower, leaned forward against the wall and stuck my butt out and then **holy fucking shit**

Never in my whole life have I ever felt anything like this. I literally felt like I was having a seizure, I actually saw stars. Dude it looked like I was tap dancing like everything was shaking. I’m lucky I didn’t slip. Everything just was spasming and boom

It HAS to be a super-O

Here’s the batshit part about this:

Immediately after this orgasm, I turn around and start violently vomiting. For like 2 minutes. Did this ever happen to ***any*** of you? Honestly worth it tho. My theory is maybe that literally everything in my body clenched up and contracted in that moment. Maybe including my stomach? Lmao.

It wasn’t what I was expecting. That said, I’ve felt high all afternoon. Holy shit I expected to take months to get to this. 3 hours later I still feel like I’m having little mini orgasms here and there. I’m twitching like I have tetanus. It’s insane

I didn’t even understand what happened

Hey guys, today I had an experience that I have no idea if it’s normal. It was half scary half mind blowing. I’m hoping someone experienced to help me understand what happened. This will be on the longer side of posts but I have to describe what happened as I’ve never seen anything like that in videos.

That being said, I am really new to all sensations, spasms, twitchs and whatever else a prostate massager may give. It’s a whole new world for me. I don’t even know if I had an orgasm (if it was it was several). I didn’t ejaculate for sure. But I don’t know what it was. Here it goes:

I was laying on my back, then I decided to clench my butt and held like that. When I contracted both my PC and sphincter (for what I initially expected to be no more than 30 sec) I started having spasms and my head was trembling (like a time lapse of someone sleeping). Because my butt was clenched I didn’t feel as tired and I could hold my muscles for longer. Soon my whole body was twitching and my hands were shaking vigorously. It felt really good.

but then things got weird. Read more »

Advice for a noobie

Hi, I have been using Aneros Helix Syn for months now, attempting for a handsfree orgasm – yet so far unsuccessfully. I practice kegels regularly, work out a lot, eat healthy and still not there… Basically, I can feel some sensations when I focus on flexing my prostate, but I am clueless about what to do to actually reach the O. I tried so many tactics on this, relaxing my prostate, flexing my prostate(on various speeds) for 10%, 30%, 50%, 100%, holding it on 100% for 20s(kegels), repeatedly. I abstain from masturbation, I tried using enhancing substances, watching porn, listening to ASMR porn… so it is not about me not being horny enough, my testosterone is through the roof…I just try to follow the sensations whenever they start feeling a bit better but they last just a while before disappearing, but I simply cant reach the end.

Also, I have grade 3 bilateral varicocele clearly visible on both testes, so that might affect my endeavor, too.

Will be glad to hear any advices from more skilled than me and from the pros as well

Thanks a lot

Getting and staying turned on without porn or masturbating

I just got my first aneros. So far I haven’t been able to get anywhere, I mostly just lay and clench the muscles am with very little sensation. From the sound of it it seems like I need to be turned on before starting but shouldn’t masturbate or use porn. For the time I was turned on when I started, I ended up just being in meditative state and relaxed (and not turned on any more) as I focused on my breathing, muscles and body sensations.

Any advice would be great

Just sayin hi (/I’m not dead…lol)

Hey guys.

I’ve not been on the sub for a while. Covid blahs have really hit my libido.

I was initially going to take a couple of weeks away from prostate play to see if it was some kind of post cum hangover from awesome pgasms that was affecting my mood. 6 weeks later and it’s fairly safe to say that my mood was tanking from, most likely, the months of lockdown and loss of my normal routine.

So, on a positive note, that means that pgasms are back on the menu once I’ve figured out where the fuck my libido has fucked off to…lol.

U/Pantsyr made a post recently about state of mind being key to PGasm success. I totally agree with that and am living proof. You can’t fit a square peg into a round hole. If you ain’t in the right mental space then it’s really not worth the frustration of trying.

Ontario is hopefully coming out of lockdown in a couple of weeks so I could be in a gym in about a month 🤞🤞🤞🤞. Here’s hoping that the boost in endorphins, testosterone and self image will kick start my libido again.

I’ve not even been interested in porn…wtf????

Anyway, just wanted to say I’m still around. It was good to learn that it’s okay to take a break. It’s also a relief to know that pgasms weren’t responsible for fucking up my mood. Read more »

Is this super o related? Or Mindgasm? I can have like almost an orgasm ONLY by literally thinking it just feels like I’m gonna have a normal orgasm but instead of ejaculating my pc muscle clenches hard and then it’s over? Is this a dry orgasm?

So all I do is think Lol

And I can’t explain it but I just think and kind of focus on ejaculating like having a normal orgasm but that’s in my like back mind I’m mainly just thinking or can look at porn if I want

Then what I feel is basically like a normal orgasm where it builds from the penis and when it gets really close I can touch my nipples and what happens is my body tenses up and my bouncing dick muscle clenches not bounces it just clenches hard like my whole body is for literally like 4 seconds as a normal orgasm would but this time I’m just not ejaculating I’m just like well

Is this a dry orgasm????

I can do it around 2 times maybe 3 and unfortunately then I can’t do it for some reason. No matter how hard I try

I read something about not trying to go over the edge so maybe I can try that? ALthogh like i say it’s legit the same as a normal orgasm where it builds up and then I get that type of orgasm

And I can do this fairly quick too so idk what I can do but it must be some type of orgasm

It don’t feel ridiculously good tbh it’s okay but if I could keep doing it then yeah it might feel way better ALthogh since I can only do it 2 times max most times and it requires a lot of Damn focus yeah idk if I should keep trying?? Read more »

Achieving the flutter

Hello guys, I have now spent quite some time along the journey.

I do not have much success sadly and I’ve tried a lot.

Different positions, different lubes, porn, no porn, audio porn, do nothing, flex….

While I usually get involuntaries started, they just feel… like nothing really. I can feel the muscles flex and I feeld the aneros move, but there is absolutely no feeling.

However, a few months ago, I had one session, that was really exciting, it was one of my first sessions aswell. While doing nothing and laying on my back, knees apart, the involuntaries became a flutter that was really pleasurable and started to increase in intensity. It was really feeling like an orgasm was building and I was really quite sure that at the end of that flutter, true bliss was waiting. However, the feeling died down eventually, without sending me over the edge, maybe I overthought it.

The aftermath of this session was my prostate tingling/buzzing for a few dadys and I’m pretty sure that was my best session so far.

However I have never been able to recreate this flutter. I will occasionally get some singulare flutters, but they are only ever a single twitch without being sustained.

Do you have similar experiences? How do you create and sustain the flutter? I’m starting to get frustrated and could need some encouragement.

Progress update a year into my journey

First I want to say thanks to everyone who contributes to this subreddit – your experiences and tips have been invaluable in my journey and I finally feel like I made some major progress so I wanted to share with you all since I can’t really share with anyone else.

Bought my first Aneros, Helix Syn, last year during my State’s initial COVID closure in March since I’d be home and finally have time to explore. Hadn’t had a ton of success since then: some involuntaries here and there but nothing I’d describe as pleasurable. That all changed yesterday.

Started off my session as per usual – with a bit of porn, nipple rubbing, took a few hits from my vape pen, the works. I really wasn’t focusing a ton on contractions but rather let my prostate dictate to me what it wanted. In the past Ive definitely been guilty of chasing the feelings, despite having read EVERYTHING to the contrary. There really is a mental shift that has to take place. Not just KNOWING to stop chasing/let it happen but actively forcing yourself to SURRENDER. When I finally got in that headspace I turned off the porn and instead of contracting, releasing, rubbing my nipples, watching porn, etc. I just decided to feel whatever happened in my prostate and to concentrate to extend those feelings as long as possible – regardless of whether those feelings were pleasurable or not. Read more »

Major progress!

I’ve been playing with the Aneros for about a year, reading in and learning a lot from these forums, but have never contributed. Sorry in advance for the lengthy post, but after yesterday’s amazing session, I just have to share a few useful things I learned. 

First, some background. Before yesterday, I’d had a lot of great sensations, some involuntaries, but no dry or prostate orgasms. Most sessions ended with a sort of supercharged penile orgasm, sometimes HFWO (always a thrill.) Yesterday was my first truly mindblowing, holy shit experience. Here are few reasons I think it was successful. 

The house was empty. Especially during the pandemic, I almost never have time totally to myself. Yesterday, my wife was out of town, and kids were busy all afternoon. I had the house to myself and could really relax and let go, with no time pressure at all. 

Smoked weed. I took three or four deep hits off the vape. It helped a lot, in terms of relaxing and really feeling my body. 

Edged. In the days before the session, I’d watched a good amount of porn, so I was already super turned on and ready to go. 

Exercised. Before starting, I did several sets of pushups, and some long, deliberate yoga poses, with deep stretches and very slow, very deep breathing. It made my body feel alive and really got the blood flowing. Then I got in bed, on my back with knees up, and inserted the Helix. Almost immediately, I started feeling a tickling and a warmth spreading through my pelvis. Within minutes, the first in a seemingly endless series of mini-Os, which had me moaning, stomach clenching, thrashing.  Read more »