What do you think about during a session?

I’ve been using the Progasm for a while and getting some pleasurable sensations, but I find that it’s kind of difficult to stay “aroused” and in the mood for an extended period of time, especially if the session drags on for a while.

I’m just wondering what other people think about during an Aneros session… do you think about something erotic? Do you imagine you’re in the act? Or do you treat it more like a massage and just concentrate on the pleasurable sensations?

As a gay man, it’s always tempting to think about anal sex, but there’s only so long I can keep myself “turned on” for if that makes sense…

First Time Faux-Pas?

My Progasm is arriving today and I’m super pumped for it!I’ve read through the wikis and forums a bit and have a general idea of how to get started, but I want to ask you all what were some things you did your first time using an Aneros that you’d advise against. I have experience with anal play, so that won’t be a problem.

Thanks in advance!

4 years and still no dice

It’s been four years since I got my Helix Syn. During that time I’ve also bought the Progasm.

On this journey there have been ups and downs. During a bad session I get nothing. During a good session I’ll leak precum and get some moderately good sensations. I mostly lie on my back with a pillow under my hips. Although I have tried most other positions as well.

I have tried using a lot of lube (coconut oil + water based) and I’ve tried using little. I’ve tried abstaining from orgasm a few days before and I’ve tried the day after an orgasm.

I usually start by doing nothing for a while and then clenching softly. Holding the clench and breathing. I usually play with my nipples during sessions.

Do you guys have any suggestions for me? I see a lot of guys recommending weed as an aid but that’s out of the question for me. I’ve never felt this disheartened about the Aneros, there was always hope but now I feel I’m loosing that hope.

Please help me.

Long time since my last entry

Been a very long time since my last entry. Some really good some really bad.

I have been going through lots of stress at work for the last 2 months so my sessions have been lacking explosiveness and full body involvement but felt good none the less. It didn’t matter if I was joined with Miss Helix, her best friend Miss Mgx or my boy Progasm Jr. I did take some solace in feeling Jr snuggled up against me, filling me and sometimes making slow love to me even if there was not much in the way of pleasurable sensations. Miss Helix didn’t really want to play in my current state but Miss mgx tried like hell to make me feel better.

I ended up loosing my job 2 weeks ago and had to get another but once this happened almost all the stress I had been under dissipated. A few days later after loosing my job I joined up with Jr, he gave me a night full of wonderful full body orgasms for several hours. My head swimming in bliss, my body tingling like a vibrator and my cock straining for release that never happened even though it felt like I had cum a gallon but not a drop came out. I was relived to return back to this place of intense pleasure that I hadn’t been able to reach for what seemed like decades.

Too deep?

I have a helix, progasm, hugo, njoy wand.
And a few dildos.

Helix does feel good but only very mildly.
Progasm feels good in a girthy way.
Hugo buzzes too hard, numbs everything.

I’ve only gotten intense feelings from what I think is my prostate by using the njoy wand and longer dildos. It seems to be a spot that the progasm also stimulates but not directly on the head, slightly further in.

Rocking the toys on the spot doesnt get much pleasure.

What works is pulling it out and thrusting it into the spot. But I can’t ever keep it up long enough to climax due to the awkward angle and its quite easy to lose the right angle to hit it.

Coming back after almost 4 years

For a whole multitude of reasons I hadn’t used my aneros toys for almost 4 years. However, a little while ago I finally delved in to the depths of my wardrobe and freed them from their boxes. I prepped myself, had a shower and turned up the heating so I was nice and cosy. In front of me were my helix, eupho and progasm. I opted for the helix since it’s been a while, and got myself nice and relaxed before inserting. And after an hour… nothing. The feeling of having it inserted was nice, but there were no pleasurable feelings anywhere else, no buzz, no excitement.

I tried it again the next day. More of the same (nothing!) I remembered having trouble with it before, so did a bit of research and wondered if it was too small for me, or if it didn’t quite ‘fit’ right. The best feelings used to come from my progasm but it was looking a little intimidating after such a long time away. So I hopped online and bought a Progasm Jr. Best. Decision. Ever.

As soon as I got it I was incredibly excited. I’d already prepped myself and my room before it arrived in the post, I tore open the package, gave it a good clean and jumped in to bed. This toy is beautiful, black, shiny and elegant, in my opinion it’s much more attractive than any other Aneros toys I’ve had. Any of the prostate toys in fact.

New highs.

Things keep getting better. Tired of posting this repeatedly but, it’s the truth. This was my first session in almost a week.

Wife had to be out of the house this morning at 0800. Knowing morning sessions are better for me I took advantage of the opportunity and had some solo fun. Well, this was a session to beat all the others. Amazing where I’m at with SO intensity. I’ve learned to manipulate the Progasm to a small and highly sensitive area and work it back and forth. I had been tightening up and pulling it in further as the O built pulling it off this area but now I’m resisting that impulse and hitting that little spot. I was actually physically exhausted after this session today! I’m going to be sore tomorrow. I’d consider today’s intensity with my pulse elevated a good aerobic workout.

Had another twenty minute session this afternoon. Not near as good as this mornings.

Nipple O’s keep getting better too. I’ve learned to stop trying to force them and just let them happen.

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