Just bought a Helix trident and have no idea what i’m doing. Any tips to put me on the right track?

So I just bought the helix trident and tried it out this evening. I Got some nice water based lube and got cleaned up and smoked some potent weed and then did some experimenting. i’ve messed with putting stuff in my butt but this is the first prostate massager i’ve ever used so I didn’t know what I was doing but I did my best to find it.

I flipped on my side and inserted it and then sat on my back and tried doing some contractions but wasn’t really getting anywhere. I then sat up a little bit with my tailbone on the floor and used my arms to prop myself halfway up to push the toy a little further in and then I started contracting again and it started feeling really good but then I got tired. I tried using the mindgasm site for timing on flexing my muscles but it only lasted 5 minutes and my goal is to achieve some waves eventually so I assume that may take a lot longer.
Thanks for the words of encouragement!

Trying to hold the progasm in is the best part

Keeping it mid clenched and trying to hold it was the best thing ever. I was already warmed up from my helix and eupho. the minute I slipped in the progasm I was leaking cum right away. I decided to sit on the couch , back down with pillows under my legs so they were angled up trying to get comfortable as possible. I could feel nice contractions starting to come alive. there’s a point where your clenching and releasing and you hit that point where you don’t feel the contraction but only the release and waves. Your energy starts to centre mid point and I can feel my prostate throbbing as the progasm beats it over and over pushing me to the top. I had to check the progasm with my hand because the contractions were so strong, it feels like I’m pushing it out but it’s still siting perfectly. I can feel the small squirts of precum being released as it hits my leg in a steady stream . I start to move my hips a little and I can feel pleasurable sensations as the progasm hits a little harder on the way down. I can feel strong waves from my prostate and all my energy is flowing out of it which kinda feels like I need to pee. This feeling lasts for a bit and then retreats. I feel amazing as the sensations back down but I still am hungry for more. My second time using it.

Progress, and question regarding frequency of practice and sex in general

I’ve been an Aneros user on and off for a while now. Recently got back into practicing with my helix syn. I have a Progasm ice which imo feels better but isn’t nearly as manoeuvrable.

So each day this week I’ve been slipping in the helix and relaxing for around an hour at a time (sometimes longer) to see if I can make some progress toward p waves etc. I’ve avoided masturbating all week while I do this in an effort to build up my prostate as other allude to.

I seem to get the involuntaries by flexing/contracting my PC muscles (kegels?) to around 50-70%. Any less and there’s no effect, any more and the effect subsides and it’s hard to maintain. First question is, do I basically just need to stick at it by holding that position? I sometimes feel like I get flecks of pleasure, although I often wonder whether I am convincing myself of this as some kind of placebo. What can I do to step on from this? It feels ok but after a while my kegels get tired or I lose interest. I know that ‘chasing’ things is counter intuitive!

Secondly, back to frequency of masturbation / sex etc. I have a gf, she knows I practice with the aneros, she’s very accepting of all that luckily. We normally have sex at least once sometimes twice a week on average, I’d typically masturbate another two or three times in between. Does ejaculating, or indeed penile stimulation set back progress? Does it become more difficult to acquire P waves the next day or even two days after ejaculation?

I can’t get back to PGasm Land! HELP!!!!!

The last couple of times i’ve had a session i just can’t seem to get things started.

I’m about only 2 weeks into my success with PGasms but i initially had several really great sessions and thought i had it down until my prostate felt a bit tender and i gave it a couple of days break.

Now it’s like i don’t know how to get it back!

Has anyone else had this happen and gone through this fear and dread?

Now, admittedly, i have jacked off normally this past week and, as i have commented on previous posts, my refractory period is awful, so maybe i am not horny enough?

I need some reassurance and advice!

POLL: has having multiple prostate orgasms given you the ability to have multiple ejaculations?

Hey guys.

As you may or may not know, the refractory period is the amount of time after ejaculating that you have to wait to be horny enough to ejaculate again. This varies from guy to guy and can often diminish with age, drug abuse etc…

I was chatting with u/themaskedpornstar who, since discovering PGasms, has pretty much eliminated his refractory period. I am hoping that this awesome journey can help to reduce my own personal ABYSMAL refractory period.

That lead me to the great idea of sending out the question to rest of the brothers here!

NOTE: we are talking specifically about multiple ejaculatory orgasms here. PGasm horniness is a separate beast!

Vote your truth and, as ever, share your experiences! We all benefit!

LET THE POLLING BEGIN!

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Multi-HFO Via Nipple Stimulation! How to have 10,20, 30, 40 or more orgasms:

Ok

So many out there usually most likely use dildos or vibrators inside the anus, or something like an Aneros to trigger Hands Free Orgasms, some may use Erotic ASMR hypno audios to trigger HFO dry orgasms.One method is as powerful those (and doesn’t require an enema), is self done Nipple stimulation! One can achieve 20, 30, 40 shuddering body orgasms with no ejaculation. I average 20~45 orgasms myself, they are sooo good, jacking off just doesn’t compare IMO!

To begin to ‘rewire’ one’s brain to get sensitive nipple that induce pleasure wave and dry orgasms, is via relaxation.Laying on your back with legs somewhat bent at the knee feet on resting on the bed is the best position for this!

5 MINUTE PGasm!!

My most intense sensations have come from A-Less so this was by far my most successful ride with an actual toy inserted and my god it was good.

I pre lubed and put my MGX Classic in, gave myself 5 minutes or so to “warm up”, laid on my front in my usual sleeping position. Lights off, phone off, blind fold on, ear plugs in. I focus purely on relaxation and internal sensation when I ride instead of getting “horny” as it seems easier.

My rides usually consist of tingles, p waves, getting “close to something big”, autofucking, my heart starting to POUND fast as if it’s *just about to happen*, and then things fading out without much more happening for an hour or so which means I usually end the session with slight dissatisfaction but hope for the next one. I know you’re not supposed to have expectations, and that you should be happy with anything, because yes it all feels good, but those orgasms are TOO good for me to not be slightly disappointed when they don’t happen haha.

But this time, I felt so inspired after my A-Less Super O on Sunday because now I know it can happen. I KNOW that it’s not a one off, or a coincidence, or a hoax now, I KNOW it’s all real, everything you guys write about. It’s finally happening to me, more and more.

So, this was new!

Since i experienced my first PGasm a couple weeks ago (EDIT: make that a week ago, man, i have totally lost my sense of time) i had been having sessions in some form or another every night (yeah yeah, i know! Too much, but can you blame me???). Anyway, last night i gave myself the night off to give my poor love button a night of rest and recovery and me a decent nights sleep.

That was my intention.

I went to bed at 10 and turned the lights out and laid on my front to drift off and that when i felt it.

I was just laying there, really, totally 100% NOT thinking about PGasms and my butt started twitching. The twitching continued and became rolling contractions that were getting stronger and began kicking off PWaves.

My heart rate crept up and so did the pace of the contractions.

“What the fuck! Uh oh!” I thought as a lil’ mini-O came my way and that was it but seriously, WHAT THE FUCK! I wasn’t doing a thing, not a thing! Usually i have to be on my back and engaging my nips for things to build.

Now, admittedly, most of my sessions have been at night before sleep so my body could be holding onto this routine perhaps? or maybe my prostate was just a little bit peckish? Who knows?

First time experience with Helix Trident. Advice?

I used the Helix Trident (plastic) for the first time this week. I wasn’t sure what to expect because I have never tried prostate play beyond two fingers.

I’m so tight I can’t bottom without pain, but the aneros slid in easily once covered in vaseline and was so comfortable I couldn’t really feel it in me.

Lying on my back, I started doing kegels and experimenting. The only sensation I got was from rubbing my nipples, which produced the same feeling in my glans. Never got hard during the 30 minute session and tried to focus on the prostate. The absolute best I could do is getting that slightly orgasmic feeling when clenching the PC muscles for 10 or 15 seconds.

I usually don’t have precum and I didn’t this time either, which was kinda disappointing. After 30 minutes I wanted to see if jerking off would bring some feeling to the prostate, and it didn’t, so I finished the session by jerking off. I definitely won’t do that again because of the “rewiring” process, but I had to try once.

Overall, I got a lot more prostate stimulation from rubbing it directly with two fingers while jerking off than from the aneros itself. I did get some interesting feelings that’d I’d rate 2/10 on a scale from 0 to orgasm, but I had to really focus on my nipples while holding a kegel at 50% to produce those feelings.

Tips

Hard to put into words, but practice semi-deep breaths. Breathe in through nose and hold breath for cpl of seconds. Release breath slowly through mouth (it helps if you make your mouth narrow, as if to whistle). When you are releasing, fight the urge to contract PC muscles. Fighting the urge to contract will produce small contractions.

Part of the process is developing the ability to detect the minuet feelings your pulsing prostate generates. Focus on the smallest of good feelings it brings and relax, let those feelings build and feel your prostate starting to swell.

Soon, you will be able to feel those contractions more at the base of your penis. Let that build, do not try to force it, but focus on that feeling.

Also, next time you ejaculate, pay attention to the position of yourself (in the context of pushing out and contracting your PC muscles). You don’t fully contract the upper portion. When you ejaculate the contractions are subtle and it feels as though you are pushing your prostate out through your perineum.