Not getting the most out of my progasm

Hi lovely folks of reddit,

Roughly a couple weeks ago, I bought the Aneros Progasm. This is my first prostate massager and I am having a hard time getting it working effectively. I have used it pretty much everyday, for a duration ranging from 15mn to an hour and a half.

While it does feel nice, I feel like it is not always hitting the right spot, nor is it stimulating it “hard enough”. I have tried various positions and upon contracting the muscles, none feel as good as when I just slightly moving it by hand or just even walkikg around with it.

Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips on how to get that intense pleasure hands free ?

Testicular soreness

I’ve had my Aneros for about a month and I had my first prostate orgasms. I doubt I had a super-O, I didn’t cum but I’ve never had a better orgasm as I was about to orgasm each time I would feel my heart rate go up and I started twitching and whatnot. Anyway after finishing the session my balls are kinda sore. Is this normal?

Beginner progress – having involuntary contractions – Some questions

Hi all,

So I have some questions, and hopefully you have answers:

Some weeks ago I ordered the Peridise, as I wanted to try out prostate stimulation. It was very cheap so I thought I would get this, and another Aneros toy. I’ve used it for some days, and it’s really “activated” my butt so to speak, with quivers, twitching, and similar. Some low generic pleasure too. Recently I started doing contractions without the Peridise, those meant to be done with the Aneros toys, and I’ve had quite a lot of success: My PC muscle / pelvic floor will at times twitch and “pulsate” quite a bit after a PC muscle hold, and I’ve been toying around with this and sphincter contractions/holds as well.

When the PC muscle started twitching, after some time, my prostate started twitching as well, and these twitches/contractions instantly generated pleasure, so much so that it was close to moan-worthy, and I know that if I could keep it up, it would keep on surging until finally orgasm. But so far I’ve not gotten there.

Today I got the Progasm, which I also ordered, and I have been doing some light sphincter-pc contractions, followed by pc-holds, then relaxing, if/when pc muscle starts contracting, relaxing into that, and see where it takes me. With the Progasm in, it was a bit harder to get those, but eventually it happened. And then the pleasure was quite higher than without the toy. Still, the problem is that after these involuntary contractions start, they seem to end on their own before it takes me to the next level (either that or I’m doing something wrong)

Relaxation vs arousal

I just got an Aneros toy (well, two actually, MGX and Helix), I had a session yesterday and was fairly disappointed. I already had some plugs and enjoyed them, I do feel *something* in the prostate with the Aneros toys but nothing very special. I understand it’s normal, and there’s a learning curve different from everyone and I’m fine with that. But I struggled with something in particular, which is to be aroused and relaxed at the same time.

How do you manage deep breathing and self-touching (not the penis) at the same time? How do you relax and excite yourself at the same time?

Thanks!

Started using a cock ring during my sessions.

So maybe about a month and a half ago I decided to use a silicone cock ring during one of my sessions, and it has changed everything. For whatever reason it has made everything much more intense. I put the ring on around my cock and balls and it fits quite snug and feels pretty great all on it’s own, but then I pop in my Progasm and take a few hits of my vape pen and settle in for the ride.

I usually watch porn music videos during my sessions. Something about the quick edits and music really works for me. I post a lot of my favorites over on r/goonfuel so feel free to look through my post history if you’re curious. Anyway, I don’t know why, but the cock ring makes it much easier for me to feel my prostate being stimulated. That extra bit of pressure around the base of my dick and around my balls is just enough sensation to enhance the pleasure I’m getting from my Progasm rubbing my prostate.

Drugs are not mandatory

I am reading a lot about people not wanting to use drugs, or that cannot / are not allowed to use drugs.

It can be very frustrating to read about other people’s success while using drugs, when you cannot get them, don’t want to use them or whatever. I myself use drugs, so who am I to make this post, but here are things to note:

Do you need drugs to achieve prostate orgasms? No

Then why use them? It helps

Is it the only solution to achieve a definite super-o? No

I have once luckily achieved an orgasm while using drugs, but never since and I am still using drugs. The problem with me is that I did not want to listen too much on what experienced users say, and thought to myself: “My precious LSD will lead the way”.

It’s been 3/4 of a year since my orgasm and I am just now really starting to understand how to definitely achieve an orgasm. I cannot say what leads to an orgasm (just yet), but I can say that it takes way more than drugs to be successful with the toy. It is more important to be open minded, patient and dedicated.

Session while taking a bath?

My body has been killing me this week and I am just exhausted and a bath is the perfect remedy. I haven’t taken one in years so I plan on taking a nice long and hot one with the candles. Since I am already horny and want to play with my prostate, I want to use my aneros while I’m in there.

Has anyone else done this and what were the results?

First time with the Trident Syn

I figured I would share my first experience with you all.

I’ve been curious about my P-spot for sometime and recently have been playing with some of the beginner toy sets. It’s been fun, getting the first P-waves and having my legs shake. After reading such great reviews with Aneros Trident Syn, so I decided to give it a whirl.

I’ve found that taking a bath, smoking some weed, and relaxing beforehand helps get my mind right. Then I drain the tub and have the ability to play right in the bathtub not worrying about getting lube anywhere and some of the beginner toys have a suction cup so it provides a surface for some additional leverage if needed.

So I get in the mood, reading sex stories and watching some videos online. Then slide my new aneros in. Really easy to slide in and no discomfort, almost thought it was two small at first. I started letting it move around a bit, and then it started… my hips were trying to gyrate, legs flinching and heavy breathing. I had a super intense erection, i tried not to touch it but felt like i was going to go mad, forced me to make one grab and squeeze before leaving it alone. As I continue to let it move while I started cumming without really contact. As that happened I caught my breath and decided to revisit this session again later.

How often should I try?

I recently experienced my first prostate orgasm with the Aneros Helix Syn Trident!

I’ve owned it for a while and practiced a lot after getting it, but I was never able to get beyond a few pulses of pleasure from the internal spasms. There’s probably a better way of explaining it, I’m just not familiar with the terminology.

Anyway, a few days ago I was in the right headspace, I was comfortable, had plenty of time, and eventually got beyond the light spasms (p-waves?)

It felt like my prostate was jumping forward, then violently back, then forward again.

Amazing. Never felt that before ever.

But it didn’t last long. Maybe 4-5 cycles, and done.

Tried each night since then without success. Just some pleasurable p-waves that lasted a few seconds and gone.

How long should I wait between sessions? Any advice on how to make it last longer?