Prostate massage noobie looking for guidance

Hey everyone. So a little background: I am no stranger to anal play (I own some dildos, plugs, etc) and have bottomed numerous times. However, I am new to this prostate massage thing.

I found out about the Aneros on some reddit thread about male sex toys, and have been pretty intrigued after finding out about it.

I am wondering about what model to buy, first and foremost, and any additional things to buy along with it.
I do like the feeling of girth and fullness, but it seems as if a midsized model would work best for a beginner. I am a bit split between the Helix trident and the MGX trident.

Another thing I’m wondering about is what to expect my first few sessions, and how to go about it. Not sure if I’d lay on my belly, back, or what.

Any advice, guidance, or anything would be super helpful. Thank you!

What are involuntary contractions supposed to feel like?

Position: Right/Left side, one leg straight one bent
Aneros Model: Progasm

Haven’t had an O yet or P-Waves for that matter… but involuntary contractions happen common for me. It doesn’t feel pleasurable per se, but it does feel pleasant, like a notch below how one would feel actively jacking off normally.

Anyway, is it normal for the contractions to be light and rapid? Picture yourself anxiously tapping your finger on a table, that’s how fast and light the contractions feel for me, minus the anxiousness.

Letting it go on, my body eventually holds a contraction as strong as it can while still having just enough to continue the fast tap rhythm. It feels like an orgasm is building… but once I feel like I’m maybe about to cum, I don’t know how to explain it, but it feels like my prostate swells up and the fast contractions cease… then it feels like the prostate swells back down and then I have to start the manual contractions to initiate the involuntary ones again. By this point there is a lot of precum and my prostate feels “hot”.

Again, it’s not pleasurable per se, but it does feel nice enough to where I like doing it.

What phase of the rewiring would you say this is?

Weed vs no weed, tips?

I’ve had the most success so far after taking edibles. Any advice to improve the experience when sober? It’s not bad without weed, but I have a harder time getting prostate O’s, the sensations are just duller.

A string of prostate orgasms followed by my first super O

I am not sure if this happens normally before someone has a super o, but I felt like for a minute or two, I would have repeated prostate orgasms maybe 10 seconds apart. I am still kinda in a daze.

I started out watching porn without any sound on then decided to put sound on too. I also at this point had a pull from my dab pen. One I started feeling the aneros moving by itself inside me , I would close my eyes and just listen. I think I had one or two prostate orgasms, lasting about 20 seconds each, before the string of them. I think I took another hit from my pen between the separated prostate orgasms and the string of them. But I am not sure since some time has passed now.

Then came the super o. I had the prostate orgasms and it felt really good and then it kept building and building. The whole time I had my eyes closed and it felt like I was spinning in space and the whole time I just had them most amazing feeling, I cant really describe it. I had trouble thinking of anything else and had to try to remember to keep my breathing. I had porn on my phone that was going the whole time and it lasted almost 10 minutes. There were waves to the super o I feel like. I’m not sure if it ever really stopped but there were times it felt more intense.

Interdimensional orgasm

This is a story of an experience I once had and how I had the most insane mind-blowing orgasm of my life. This has resulted in a ritual I’ve been following ever since. My normal orgasms haven’t been the same ever since, they’re way stronger.

This adventure involves LSD. I find that it helps be to be very aware of the physical sensations that I’m feeling but also puts a weird spin on them. The physcial and emotional feelings are amplified by LSD.

Before my LSD trips, I like to take a break from masturbating so that I have a bit of excitement leading into the trip. The added sensitivity will make the experience significantly better. I also make sure that I’m physically at my peak. I make sure that my strength and fitness are on point. What follows is a very physical activity.

The trip adventure starts for me in the early morning. I’m generally a morning person, so I had gone to bed early and woke up early at around 6. I immediately eat a little dark chocolate and then put 3 tabs under my tongue. While I wait, I do a quick enema and take a nice hot shower. The hot shower relaxes my muscles and gets me all nice and warm.

My particular toy is the Helix Syn Trident. I’ve never really used it while sober. I think I prefer to save it for these special occasions. It helps me to forget the magic after enough of a break between sessions. I have to say the the prostate is amazing. I had no idea that such intense pleasure was possible.

Issues With Aneros Products

Tried them several years ago with no luck, but in last few months have purchased several of the latest versions (MUCH more comfortable to use), but still not getting anywhere…

1. While I have no issues keeping in the smaller products, the Progasm Jr, Progasm, Vice 2 won’t stay put for long–seems like the neck is just too wide, so not being retained by the sphincter? I’m wearing breathable leak-proof underwear (had some staining issues with coconut oil), and sometimes, it’s all that’s keeping them from totally being pushed out.
2. With the Helix or Eupho Syn products, I seem to be having some luck…I do get some kinda-pleasant feeling, but it seems more like I feel like I need to shit, rather than being a prostate-based feeling, or feeling like I need to piss. I have tried the pulling & holding for 30 seconds repeatedly until muscle exhaustion, but just seems like I get to a point where I can’t pull any more, but never get the contractions and muscle spasms others talk about.

I’m using Boy Butter as lube, things move easily (I’ve tried other lubes including the Aneros brand, and don’t feel they make things any more slippery. I have no pains or issues internally or externally (new design is to thank for that…I used to end up with a raw perineum), but just frustrated that this isn’t working better.

Any ideas?

Thanks!

Progression and asking for some advice

So I’ve been following this journey for about 3 years now. I would like to get some feedback of my progression so far.

My sessions go along like this: I watch some erotica to get myself aroused but try to not have any expectations. I don’t watch porn since the video itself can be too overwhelming at some point. Then I usually try to follow the “tug of war” method by applying gentle pressure. I will notice some pleasure building up in the prostate area. Then I let go and apply pressure again and this cycle continues. The pleasure from my prostate now expands and I get slight tingle and a lil pleasure in several of my body areas. I guess this is a P-wave? I’m not sure. But this tingling sensation keeps stacking and now my whole body is experiencing pleasure. I can’t really grasp this “pleasure”, but it feels very good. I sometimes lose consciousness and kinda wake back up and notice that I’m having an immense pleasure. I guess this is a mini-O? Then the pleasure declines and I release my tension, and contract my pc muscle again. Then wham, another mini-O and this cycle repeats until I’m exhausted. Interesting part is that I do not have any involuntaries, which is strange…

Beginner Question

I am new to aneros and was looking for some help. I bought an Aneros Helix Syn about a week ago. I have been reading this website, the actual aneros page, etc. I have been working on the pc and anal contractions. However, is there a certain length the aneros should be in? Mine goes in all the way no problem. However, it feels like the top part is hitting my bladder more than the prostate. Is that normal? Should I only have it halfway in?

FYI, I have played with my prostate prior to buying an aneros so I know the sensation.

Thanks for the help.

Not Quite There (Pls help)

So I have had a helix trident for about a 1.5 years. I tried it maybe every 2 or 3 months until last month, where I started using it every week or two. Throughout all my sessions (with one exception) , the furthest I have gotten in pleasure is a mildly pleasant ( Does it count as p-waves) in my perineum when I am contracting my PC muscles (I think). That exception is my first session, where my lower abdomen also felt nice at the end of the session. I don’t feel I am making much progress, if any.

Anyone have any tips/ideas on what I could do to get better results? I think it might have to do with how I contract my muscles…maybe. I do a couple of things. I my focus on my pc muscle or outer anal sphincter (mostly pc muscle); I also will “poop” it (rectal muscle?) out a tiny bit, use my anal sphincter to suck it in , suck it in further with my pc muscle, contract my pc muscle a bit further–rinse and repeat. I think I have had the most consistent pleasure when contracting my pc muscles. Doing that, however, makes my dick hard and I’m not sure its supposed to happen from the contractions. Am I also contracting something else? How long should contractions be? Time and more practice should help, but I want to be sure I am not missing something. This whole process of pleasure is a bit abstract, yes?

tips for a p spot orgasm?

i’ve noticed that i don’t feel much pleasure from my aneros unless i’m jerking off at the same time. is this normal? what do i do to feel pleasure from JUST the aneros?