Wannabe first timer advice

Hi folks, I’ve been trying to get into prostate play since I want to explore my sexuality and maybe bring it into the bedroom with my gf.
I’ve already located my prostate and did a bit of finger play which felt good but didn’t bring me to orgasm because I was too weirded out by the feeling of it.

I’ve been looking aneros’ website and was leaning on trying a helix trident.

Would you suggest trying anything else before buying a toy? Also general suggestion for a beginner is welcome

Prostate play & involuntary shaking= trauma release?

I’ve been having involuntary abdominal contractions related to my sexual energy experimentation, edging and prostate play. I’ve noticed on these forums that the involuntary contractions are not unusual.

Today I had my first Somatic Experiencing trauma release therapy session (method created by Peter Levine “Waking the Tiger”) it’s talk therapy, focused on releasing trauma stored in the body. During the session I had some of the involuntary contractions in my abdomen and calf muscles. The therapist said it was a fight or flight response.

So I have a hypothesis that the involuntary contractions that some guys experience related to prostate play, could be ambient trauma release from the body. Shaking and trembling are how trauma release often happens amongst animals and humans. Since the rectum/1st chakra is such a storehouse of energy, memories and tension, I wonder if awakening it through prostate play could trigger the trauma release process and shaking.

Has anyone ever considered this before? Or is anyone who’s familiar with Peter Levine’s work ever seen an overlap with their prostate play? Seems like this is a rich and perhaps uncharted area for exploration and discovery.

Prostate Edging

So I had a couple of my best sessions recently. One with my helix and the other with my progasm ice. Both sessions came after what I am going to describe as prostate edging for sake of a better term. Maybe coincidence, but in both cases, I had a couple of short sessions 2 days in a row before a normal session which is for me is usually a couple of hours. These short sessions were probably 45 minutes or so and things were going good with some great sensation and waves of pleasure building but just had to call them short because of things came up that wouldn’t allow me to go for the full time I would have liked to. These short sessions though left the prostate buzzing and wanting more. Then comes the full session the next day and wow, awesome session right from the start. I am now considering if I should do more of these short prostate edging sessions as part of my routine because it sure seems getting the prostate buzzing and wanting more is resulting in some phenomenal rides! Anyone else experiencing the same thing?

3rd session – was I on the right track?

Just had my third aneros session, with a progasm. Yeah I know it’s not the best for a beginner but I liked the size of it. Anyway, my first two sessions nothing happened at all and I didn’t even know if it was hitting my prostate or not, so I was a bit disappointed and maybe thought it wasn’t the right one for me, I was also aware that there’s a common experience of not feeling anything. So this time I did a bit more reading and tried to take it as slow as possible. I was on my side originally as it says in the user guide and just started flexing as slowly as possible. I was just relaxing and taking my time with it, then suddenly I was getting a rush of adrenaline, my dick was getting hard and my breathing was getting faster, and I started getting some horny thoughts. It was exciting but it subsided. It happened again and subsided. Next I laid on my front, and managed to get that feeling again, but my body was starting to convulse almost on its own and I started thrusting as well. I wanted to chase that feeling again, it felt like a buildup to an orgasm but nothing happened in the end. Interestingly enough I didn’t get any fluid or precum from my dick throughout the entire session, or the “pee” feeling, I got up and had a piss halfway through but didn’t know if that had anything to do with the session. Would like to know your thoughts and if this is what it’s supposed to feel like.

Finasteride and/or HRT?

I was wondering if anyone here is currently taking Finasteride, or had taken it in the past to prevent hair loss or BPH, and can achieve an anal orgasm still?

Finasteride is known to change hormone levels of both estrogen and testosterone.

Any women here on HRT and/or finasteride and have able to achieve their prostate orgasm after taking medication?

I am planning on getting on Finasteride, but wanted to know what others thought first.

Thankss!

First Full Aneros Trident Session

I have a Trident the OG Aneros for my first one.
I used it for about 75minutes and these are my results.
Lemme know if you think this is a decent first time.
23Male

Numb warm tingly feelings

A medium size build up that ended in nothing but the build up felt nice

I felt like everytime it started to feel good my body forced the aneros out a little away from prostate, normal? Or recommendations

I had a few little twitches I tried to embrace them
I laid on my side like recommended.

Please any recommendations would be nice or if you think it was a successful first full session also 🙂

Does using it during masturbation make you train and contract your pc muscle?

What the title says. I’ve only used it 3 times but haven’t used it often cause of work and school. Although it is really common to not feel anything at all for the first few tries, does using while masturbating help you build it?

Like I don’t know how to explain this but when you ejaculate, your pc muscles contract and the prostate plays a role with semen and ejaculating. If I use it during when I masturbate, will it enhance my feeling and actually make me feel something something down there and somewhat build up later on? I don’t really know how to explain it haha.

Just wondering if it will train my prostate since I’ve only started recently and haven’t felt anything yet.

Psychedelic breakthrough on edibles

A couple of months ago I purchased a Helix Trident to learn how to have a hands free orgasm. I received the Helix on a Tuesday and practiced every morning with the help of Mindgasm.net . The practice sessions felt amazing but no where near HFO or Super O’s.

On the weekends I will start my day by eating 20mgs of cannabis gummies with my morning coffee. When they kicked in I slipped in the Helix and put on the noise cancelling headphones and got comfortable on the couch.
If you are not familiar with Mindgasm.net some brilliant individual created a site that teaches you how to control each individual muscle group in your pelvic region using musical ques and a pleasent AI voice.
One of those lessons is called the Big Squeeze where you flex your base and middle muscle at the same time then relax the base slowly then the middle which causes involuntary muscle contractions.
When I was in the middle of the lesson my mind and body took over. I have been blessed to have had psychedelic breakthroughs on numerous substances but never cannabis. There is something about the prostate and cannabis that caused me to have an out of body experience. I understand why the website creator called it Mindgasm. After I came down and relaxed I laughed out loud at what just happened. I breathed deeply, closed my eyes and flexed again. I was instantly right back in. Fractals and colors that were identical to DMT or mushrooms but I could control it. I could not believe it. After my third go I told myself enough is enough.
Since that day I have tried my damnedest to get to that place while sober but just can not get there. I have since purchased the Progasm and Eupho Trident both of which are amazing.
After finishing all five lessons on the website I have become proficient and now listen to music while having a session which adds a whole nother level.

Holy fucking shit!

A got my helix trident last week, played with it a couple times, had some really great orgasms jerking off with it in me. I enjoy anal toys generally but this is my first time really going for the prostate.

Tonight I smoke some weed, put it in, and lay on my tummy on the couch. I’m enjoying it inside me, pushing and pulling my muscles, feeling some nice sensations. I take a good deep sniff of poppers, and start to figure out how to manipulate it inside me. I find one spot that really opens my eyes. I take another hit of poppers, and things get hazy here.

I’m still lying on my couch, an hour plus later. The toy is stimulating my prostate (I assume) with every tiny flick or twitch. I lost count of how many times I’ve hit my poppers, but every time I do I start having waves of what feel like multiple dry orgasms centered inside me (p-waves?). A couple even had me shaking! I haven’t stimulated my cock at all and it’s mostly stayed soft. I don’t normally like nipple play but touching them during the waves is electric.

Ideally I’ll lay off the poppers and try to get here (and beyond) on my own, but I never thought I’d feel something this amazing in just a couple days. I had my doubts about the little $55 hunk of plastic, but it’s proven itself tonight.

Is it possible to become addicted?

Is possible to become addicted to the super O? I have an addictive personality, but I would love to continue down the aneros super O path. Will this mess me up?
Will I think a regular orgasm with my wife be not as good anymore if I can start getting major prostate orgasms?
Thoughts and/or experiences?