Tag: Prostate

Does anyone have prostate orgasms without involuntaries?

Hi everyone,

I first tried using an aneros product a few years ago, I don’t remember what model I had. Long story short, I got a little frustrated with it and got rid of it during a move. I recently got back into prostate play and bought an Njoy purewand. I had some good feelings with that, which I think were p waves.

I was enjoying prostate play enough that I decided to buy another aneros product, this time the MGX Trident. I think I’ve read just about everything I can find, but I’m still struggling to cause involuntaries.

The MGX trident always feels great when inserted. I often just lay there for a good 20 minutes before I try to use any muscles. I just had a break through where I found that if I alternate my pc muscles and sphincter muscles almost in a rolling motion, I would feel the warm, tingling pressure and an amazing feeling prostate for about 10 seconds. I’m thinking this is a p wave, but I’ve read that maybe that’s the start of a prostate orgasm which get stronger in succession.

Onto my what I think is my big issue, I can’t seem to get involuntaries. Does anyone else get prostate orgasm but never involuntaries? I thought involuntaries were almost a prerequisite for a prostate orgasm. I’ve tried lightly holding my pc muscle, but I don’t feel like I will ever get tired so the muscle never fails. Maybe I’m thinking about this all wrong. Any insight would be appreciated. I’m hoping I’ll read something that will give me a mental “click”. Thanks!

Guidelines and questions

I bought the helix a long time ago but only recently started exploring it again. One question I have is can you wear it and walk around or is there risk of injury. Also, can you wear it all day? I know the defacto answer is always no more than 2 to 3 hours for toys but why? What risks do you expose yourself to with your prostate, anus, rectum for having it in longer?

Exciting afternoon

Apologies in advance for the lengthy first time post – I’ve been reading other’s experiences for some time and would like to share my own.

I’ve owned a helix for about 5 years and have enjoyed occasional solo sessions, although never feeling like I was progressing to anything like involuntary movement. These sessions always end after an hour or so with me having a very pleasurable orgasm by stimulating my penis. I suppose I’d never really found the time to dedicate trying to develop the techniques suggested by other users.

I also use the helix with my (female) partner. She enjoys watching the pleasure I get from inserting it, and we find it tends to give me a harder erection. It certainly excites me to wear it and know that she knows I’m being stimulated by it. Cumming inside her always feels great with the helix in and it’s enhanced by the feeling of the helix moving while my muscles contract during orgasm.

Lockdown over the past four months has put pay to the solo sessions (everyone at home all day), so I thought I’d dedicate the time to focusing on my pelvic muscles and understanding the feelings in my anus and prostate.Also been following the threads on here and enjoying reading about other’s experiences. Very exciting to read knowing I had to wait to get my helix back inside.I’ve been practicing clenching, holding and releasing my pelvic muscles while lying in bed, sometimes last thing at night, sometimes in the morning, experimenting with different positions. I feel I’ve come to be able to control them a lot more than before, and hold varying levels of clench. I’ve had some very good feelings after 45 minutes or so of playing around where my muscles seem to twitch and I get a warm feeling around my anus/prostate/base of my penis. This has all made me really excited to get the helix back inside. Read more »

Is edging helping you with prostate orgasms or not?

So, I wonder about something: is edging helping you reach prostate orgasms or not? I ask because it was said that a normal orgasm would make prostate-pleasure (near-)impossible? My edging-experience is that I sometimes get not close enough for any contractions at all, and sometimes I’m just at the brink of PONR but not crossing it pleasurewise, but I still get 1-2 contractions and sperm dribbles out. Does that still counts as a non-orgasm if I want to use the Aneros after?

A-less p-gasm discovery: multiple angles = multiple kinds of orgasms

I recently figured out how to get p-gasms at will and have been experimenting more. I’ve found that different sets of muscles can be used to give different p-wave/p-gasm sensations. So far I’ve found approximately 4 different “angles”:

1. Center: Almost totally relaxed. This is the first p-gasm type I discovered. Just focusing on prostate sensations and relaxing the pelvic floor triggers it.

2. Above: Pushing down from above. This creates a sensation in the “top” of the prostate (at least that’s how I imagine it). This is triggered by sort of expanding your stomach and using your diaphragm or other core muscles to push down onto your pelvic area, putting pressure on the prostate from above.

3. Below: Lightly contracting the pelvic floor. This creates a slightly different sensation than (1) and is closer to an “about to ejaculate” feeling.

4. Behind: “Contracting” the anus. I put contracting in quotes because I think there is not much contracting going on. It’s more about trying to “sense” the prostate sensations far back, and the cue I use is thinking about feeling it way back in my butt. It’s counterintuitive but it creates a very profound p-gasm that tends to radiate a lot more through my body.

Basically, there’s a lot more to discover in p-gasm land than in traditional orgasm land.

My first time experience last night! Wow!

Hey all, i wanted to share my first experience with the helix syn trident from last night.

I’m very new to anal play and prostate massaging. I had bought the love honey booty buddy a few weeks back as it seemed beginner friendly and was on offer for a fiver so it seemed a good way to see if it’s something I’d enjoy. Well I did haha.

After some research online I came across Aneros and settled on buying the helix syn trident, which I had gotten a 25% discount on too which sweetened the deal!

So last night I decided I’d give it a go, it was slightly larger than the first toy I had bought, which kinda worried me as I spent a good 20 minutes trying to insert it! The aneros was no different, it took me about 10 minutes to find the right angle and relax enough to get the wide tip inside. Once I did though the rest just kinda slid in and fit perfectly!

Now I had read about not having high expectations and how it can take a very long time to learn to use and feel it working, many sessions over months or years. So i just kinda lay there and relaxed a bit, watched some porn to get my mind going again (I had already done this prior for about 20 mins). Read more »

Auto Orgasms

I drive a lot of solo highway miles, up and down I-5, over the coast range to the Oregon coast, and throughout Oregon’s high desert. A few months ago, on a long stretch of lonely highway, I thought WTF, lets put in my MGX Trident. I pulled over, lubed up, inserted the MGX, and drove on down the road. With the Aneros pressed in to the hilt, my firm leather bucket seat seemed to send every vibration and bump in the road straight to my prostate, and within a minute or two I started having prostate orgasms.

Over the last few weeks I’ve continued this practice, and it has turned out to be the most dependable way for me to have a good session. My solo play sessions out of the car are hit and miss, sometimes hours of amazing super/Os, sometimes not so much. But every car session has been amazing. They have become so powerful that once the prostate orgasms start, I have to pull over and park the car. I’ve started carrying a bottle of poppers in the glove box, and once parked, I’ll hit the poppers and will be in super-O space for the next half hour.

Now on my regular road routes, I have my favorite pairs of private turn-outs memorized, and the anticipation builds as I get closer. The process: pull over in a nice quiet spot, lube and insert, drive a few miles to let the p-waves start, then pull off at my favorite spot and enjoy 30 minutes of pure orgasmic bliss. Auto Orgasms!

Prostate orgasms for HOURS everyday for a week in a hotel. Here’s what I did…

About me: I’ve posted on Reddit before about my experiences, so feel free to read through those. I’m <30 y/o. Gay male. Bought my first Aneros SGX in 2009, forgot about it for a few years, and then in 2013 started picking up more Aneros models until now. My new fav models: Eupho Syn Trident, Progasm, and Peridise.

**tl;dr:** I used my Aneros everyday for a week in a hotel room and orgasmed for hours everyday. I did some great things and learned some great things. Sessions are only getting better with each use. Life is great.

A few weeks ago, I was away on business and stayed in a hotel for a week. I brought my Aneros ended up using it every night with incredible results (I have videos that I will upload at some point). It was during this time that I really had a chance to discover myself, my body, my prostate, and how to really use the Aneros to its fullest potential. I had back to back dry orgasms lasting 1-3 hours every night, and finished off with hands-free wet orgasms every time because I get really bad blue-balls if I don’t cum. I alternated between Eupho Syn Trident and Progasm.

What I did:

1) Got myself really horny throughout the day by watching porn and surfing Reddit, but never touched my dick

2) Practiced kegels throughout the day Read more »

Am I on the right path here?

Hello everyone,

I bought my first Aneros, a Helix Syn, about 1-2 years ago. In the beginning I was very unfamiliar with anal play (straight guy in 20s) and was just fooling around a bit. I remember that inserting into my butt made me uncomfortable. I also didn’t really get any good feelings from it at the very start.

After a few sessions I bought a different model (can’t remember which one exactly) and ordered poppers, seeing that many people have had better results with them. In the next sessions I had a nice feeling of pressure inside me, especially after a sniff of poppers (I guess that was the aneros pushing onto the prostate). I also felt some very slight involuntary contractions: I involuntarily contracted some muscles down there and it felt nice, but after a few seconds the contraction would stop and that was the end of it. I only got those contractions with the MGX Trident and Maximus Trident.

After that, I didn’t get any further for a long while, I even tried using the Aneros while on a light-medium dose of LSD, but the experience with the Aneros didn’t change while tripping, it was the same as sober. Because of the lack of progress, I stopped using the Aneros massagers for a while. Read more »

I feel like the most difficult part is getting/staying aroused

Just wondering if anyone has similar experiences, or any thoughts and strategies to share…

I find the Aneros enjoyable to various degrees almost every time I use it, but I’ve had very few sessions over the years that felt “different.” There was only one where I really felt like it took over and I had something akin to multiple super-o’s. That was probably a year ago and, if anything, I feel like I’ve gotten less pleasure from it over time. I think that’s because it requires a kind of unique and sustained arousal to make the prostate swell, become more sensitive, and have more contact with the toys. Earlier on, I think just the excitement and anticipation of using the Aneros was enough to keep me more aroused, which would account for greater results in the past.

I’ve tried various visual porn, just erotic audio, erotic stories…all of which I enjoy during “normal” masturbation. But with the extended time of the Aneros, not stimulating my penis at all, not really doing anything physically to maintain my arousal, I just seem to kinda get bored and distracted and can’t keep up the intensity.

Eventually (say, after 45 minutes up to as much as 2 hours), I give up and masturbate to orgasm with the toy in, which always feels really good. I’d still like to progress toward the prostate orgasm in the future, however.

So, any comments?