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I have recently come to learn about my prostate as I have an enlarged one and don’t like taking meds. I tried another brand and returned it after several 2-3 hour sessions. I received the Syn Trident yesterday 7-21. I had a 5 hour session off an on. After 2 1/2 hours nothing much happened and I fell asleep. I woke up at 3:30 with the Trident still in place and began another session which lasted till 5:30. I had a few tingles but nothing fantastic as I read from the blogs. I understand this takes patience and time. Looking for whatever suggestions anyone might have.

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Recently, I became aware of something I can do for my prostate without taking prescription drugs; and as a bonus have orgasms. I tried two products by other companies that vibrated. They only made me sore from 2 to 3 hour sessions during a ten day period. Then I thought I would a Helix Syn Trident. I had my first session last night from 10 till 1230; not much happen and I fell asleep; woke at 3 with the trident still in position. Started another session till 5:30. I did get a few tingles, but nothing fantastic like I have been reading about. I know this takes time and patience. Does anyone have any helpful suggestions from your own experience?

Advice for my first Aneros

I just got the Aneros Eupho and have very limited experience with prostate massages.

What is the best way for me to use it? Should I use my hand to massage it or should I be using my muscles hands free?

I got the Super O four times tonight

So, I’ve been messing around with my aneros for years. I remember laying in my bunk in my freshman dorm, with my toy inside of me as my roommate toss and turned in his sleep. But I got nothing!! I tried over and over and over again for the past 9 years. I pick up the toy when I was feeling adventurous, only to put it back in the drawer for a couple more months. About a year ago I finally gave up.

Until recently, I stumbled upon this subreddit and decided to give it another go. I bought a Program towards the middle of May. That night after work I was so excited I unboxed it and suck it directly in. I think the excitement got me to my first p wave. I am beginning to twitch, and breath heavy. My whole body headed up and I was filled with a how! Then I started moaning (and voice recording – kind of want to post), and the convulsions became involuntary. IT HAD FINALLY HAPPENED!! I just had my first Super O.

I’ve had a few p waves but no Super O’s until tonight. But I started to learn how to control my PC muscles and that was the game changer.

I stuck in my Helix. I instantly started to feel contact. But this time I wasn’t touching my dick. My mind started to wander, but I brought it back to the my sense of touch. My prostate sensations were almost unbearable, it actually felt like it was stinging. But I was determined so I let my my wander to the old spank bank.

How much movement?

Hey guys,

I have a Eupho Trident and Helix Trident/Helix Trident Syn. Haven’t had much luck getting any real pleasure from them, and I’m trying to figure out why. I’ve been reading people referring to the aneros as “dancing” once the involuntary contractions hit (which I still haven’t been able to trigger yet…).

So my question is, exactly how much movement does the aneros have when you guys contract? I noticed that even with a lot of lube (silicone), the toy does not move in and out when I contract as if something or someone was controlling it. That said, I definitely do feel it pressing against my prostate whenever I contract, but that’s just because my muscles push everything in. The toy doesn’t move independent to the anus, if that makes sense?

The thing is, I have fairly large internal hemorrhoids, so my guess is that is stopping the “movement”? It’s either that or there’s no actual movement beyond what I described of the contractions pushing everything in?

Helix too small?

So I took the plunge on a aneros and picked up the Helix Trident a couple of weeks ago. I have to admit I really did enjoy it the first couple of times, no orgasm but definitely mass amount of p-waves.

I learned my PC and anal muscles needed some exercising so I have spent my time with it focusing on kegals and building up the muscles around the area.

I had issues with it slipping out when I would get right on the edge but focusing on keep my anal sphincter tight has helped. My problem is focusing on that muscle ruins the experience, yet it seems to pop out when I get ‘close’ in the positions that feel the best if I’m not squeezing to hold it in. The position that feel best for me are mainly doggy and on my back legs straight up or bent with a pillow under the small of my back.

I also noticed that the aneros doesn’t seem to “fill” me. I can feel lots of space between the toy and my prostate. I do play with larger toys from time to time so I’m wondering if maybe I’m just to “stretched” for the Helix?

Anyone else figure out they just needed the XL model and that solved their issues? Will the bigger ones stay in more firmly or do I need to just keep at it and eventually it will become like autopilot?

Can you forget your Penis? I struggle.

Honestly I can say I have been a serious user of the Aneros products for several years and still struggle to forget about my Penis during my sessions, and to not have expectations of orgasmic bliss. Early in my experiences I struggled complete a session without grabbing my penis and giving it some good old jacking fun. I struggled with expecting some amazing crazy full bodied orgasm only to end up blowing my load all over my naked body.

Focus on what my prostate is feeling. It took a while. And many different methods of experimenting until I got it. Focus on the prostate sensations in the mid section and the feeling of the prostate being touched. Focus on that, not the penis, not the erection that you may or may not have. The only sensation you should be looking for in your penis is, does it feel like it’s leaking. And if so your on the right track.

Need some advice

I am quite familiar with anal play, and have been doing so 2-3 times most of the weeks during the last 6 or so years.

I have been able to get (what i believe is) anal orgasms with manual stimulation. Yes they are good, but not mindblowing. It feels like you are pushing out with your entire body. It was not long ago i got my first.

Anyhow, i have been playing with the aneros for about a year, maybe more. It is always my foreplay to anal sessions nowadays. I have had some p-waves every now and then, where i do feel good, and feel a pressure in my stomach (a bit higher than the prostate, i believe).

I have been trying different teqhniques for a prostate orgasm, but no luck. I dont seem to get a lot of contractions going on. Neither with manual or static stimulation. Fast strokes, slow strokes, shallow, deep. My prostate/asshole just wont start the unvolentaries. Binaural beats, porn, no porn, instructionals and so on.

And yes, i am trying my absolute best to relax. I also believe i do manage to do this.

Any pointers for a guy who have plateued after trying anything i can think off and more? It would be much appreciated.

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