Musings and Tempo

Over the last 5 weeks away, I’ve been travelling overseas and, during that time, along the Aneros road, learning about my different friends, Helix, Maximus and MGX. Eupho got to hold the fort at home.

It’s been a mind blowing road so far and although I dabled with Tantra, some 30 years ago, I would have liked to have discovered the Aneros ‘training wheels’, which have rewired me in an amazing way.

Seeing my wife for the first time in 5 weeks, our sex was pretty magical. I reaquainted myself with the Eupho while she was out in the morning and I found new pleasures within minutes, which set me up with that familiar buzz all day long. I had bought my wife a new Lelo wand, so in the afternoon we got to try that out. Apart from the fun that generated, I also found that my orgasms were more intense and I was able to last longer before ejaculation. In addition, I had a beautiful dry-O with my wife lightly tonguing my frenulum. What was most apparent was that the ability to relax into the sensations made the feelings far more intense and I could understand that the mental connection with my wife is a major factor in feeling. Before, it was always more physical.

latest encounter with Miss Helix

So I got my new cock ring in. That 1/8″ in diameter made all the difference. It is still small enough to keep my cock chubbed up some, my balls pushed up and out for a wonderful presentation but large enough to keep from getting cock locked when fully engorged and still helps to maintain that throbbing sensation. A side benefit I found is when I stack them the new one pushes out the smaller one enough to also keep from getting cock locked. I adore the way it feels. They are so comfortable that I forget I’m wearing them till I see, read or think of something that excites me and my cock comes to life with a wonderful tingle as the rings tug on the skin of my perineum when my cock grows. I can see myself wearing these all the time but most likely won’t wear stacked as the pleasurable sensation can be distracting and I must pay attention at my new job.

Using the aneros

So I just bought an aneros and I wanted to clarify how to use the it. My understanding is that you basically insert it and use your kegel muscles to make it massage your prostate. Is that correct (in the simplest terms)?

Just got a Helix Trident, no sensation?

Finally decided to go for the Helix Trident after reading a lot of reviews & comments online.

I put it in and i just don’t feel anything at all, like it’s not even making contact with my prostate or something?

Is this normal or am i doing it wrong?

I’m used to getting fucked – should i have gotten a bigger model than the Helix?

If so, is there any market for “gently used” sex toys (as in, “little old lady only drive it to church οn Sundays”)?

“Coming Back Into The Fold”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Introduction
I have ended my absence of Aneros sessions to see if I could extend my NoFap ‘streak’. I got as far as 11 days. My old nemesis, blue-balls, did me in again! But I did have an interesting ‘journey’. Here are some details…..

NoFap Porn (P) Abstinence
I have abstained from porn for the past 22 days. There are some benefits. One seems to be more random erections throughout the day. I have experienced them. My night-time erections are just as strong as ever and I am quenching some of them by wearing a ‘chastity cup’ in the early morning hours. I thought I was building-up to another wet dream. Oh well……

Theoretically, I can continue PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm) abstinence while on NoFap; it’s just that I need to rub-one-out every 10 days or so (or have my wife give me a handjob) to keep the blue-balls under control. I’m not getting prolonged pleasure from this, although I must admit I do like the feeling!* I still am not edging at all.

Blue Balls
I cannot seem to progress more than 10-12 days of SR without a good case of blue-balls. However, two things I have tried (recently) are ice packs and, just today, cool-to-cold showers. The showers seem to cause an almost immediate erection, but they do ease the discomfort, if for a while. Perhaps I’ll continue them; no harm here.

Long time since my last entry

Been a very long time since my last entry. Some really good some really bad.

I have been going through lots of stress at work for the last 2 months so my sessions have been lacking explosiveness and full body involvement but felt good none the less. It didn’t matter if I was joined with Miss Helix, her best friend Miss Mgx or my boy Progasm Jr. I did take some solace in feeling Jr snuggled up against me, filling me and sometimes making slow love to me even if there was not much in the way of pleasurable sensations. Miss Helix didn’t really want to play in my current state but Miss mgx tried like hell to make me feel better.

I ended up loosing my job 2 weeks ago and had to get another but once this happened almost all the stress I had been under dissipated. A few days later after loosing my job I joined up with Jr, he gave me a night full of wonderful full body orgasms for several hours. My head swimming in bliss, my body tingling like a vibrator and my cock straining for release that never happened even though it felt like I had cum a gallon but not a drop came out. I was relived to return back to this place of intense pleasure that I hadn’t been able to reach for what seemed like decades.

“NoFap By The Numbers”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Introduction
I am progressing with NoFap. It isn’t easy but it does seem to be working. Although I had to “Reset” once so far in Day 12, I have progressed in other areas. Here is my current NoFap “scorecard”:

No P – 20 Days!
No MO – 12 Days, Reset (control blue-balls), 8 Days; Total of 20 days!
No PM (prostate massage) – 8 Days!

Here are other areas within NoFap and my current experiences:

Blue-Balls
Technically, I masturbate now ONLY to control my blue-balls. In my mind, this is different than just rubbing-one-out just to experience the pleasure of an ejaculation. If I were able, I would continue my NoFap streak much longer. probably for 90 days. But an occasional MB (or handjob) will keep my blue-balls under control and allow me to progress much further in NoFap.

Random Erections
I am developing some random erections throughout the day now; I understand that this is considered a “normal” occurrence while practicing NoFap. One especially strong one occurred yesterday while in the shower! It takes a lot of diligence not to act-out upon these erections!

“Flatlining”
I don’t believe I have yet encountered the so-called “flatline” while in NoFap. I think it is too early to see any effects in this area. But I will be prepared if/when it happens. I have to be careful, however, not to “test” to see if my “ejaculation apparatus” is still working! My understanding is that quite a few NoFap guys relapse during this phase.

This feeling

During the use of Aneros , suddenly there is a pleasure in the climax before ejaculation , lasting more than 5 minutes and very comfortable

Is this prostate orgasm?

Incredible A-less session today

I just had an a-less session I never imagined was possible.

Woke up this morning to breakfast. Put on some nipple suckers I bought and had them on for thirty minutes or so.
I REALLY like these things. They make my nipples SO sensitive. There’s some pain involved using them but it’s
a good pain! Finally, it was time to get ready to head off for work.

My nipples were unusually sensitive and I was playing with them on the drive to work. Actually had three or four
nipple orgasms on the way in. Long, wide, empty highway so there wasn’t a lot of danger.

After I got off this afternoon I was playing with my nipples again on the drive home and had the same. Few really
intense O’s.

Got home and decided to take a nap. Woke up and resumed playing with my nipples while still on my back in bed. Didn’t
take long for things to start really rocking and rolling. I’d had great pleasure in my groin before while doing this but nothing
ever like today. This pleasure sensation started at my prostate and spread down my perineum to my asshole, up my butt
cheeks, down the inside of my thighs, even had some penile twitching. It finally started building in my lower abdomen
before the O would hit.

Right before work!

The last few weeks I have been having a fairly consistent schedule of sessions.

One day out of the weekend I have an Aless/Aneros session. Its typically 4-6 hours of pure orgasmic pleasure. Every 2 weeks I would couple that with a traditional ejaculation.

Typically every other day I go to Crossfit. I looked at this mornings workout and did not feel up to it. So I stayed home and decided lets have a mid week session.

I decided to go with the Helix Syn. I slid this bad boy in…it made contact with my prostate and away I went. About 10 mins in everything started to rub the right way and for the next 50 mins I was basically having a super-O. It went in peaks and valleys but the orgasm never really stopped. This is where I am at with my training. Its now all encompassing. My cock is typically rock hard and there is now a consistent bead of precum that forms. In fact today as I went to the reatroom at work I noticed my underwear was stuck to my cock head. I looked down only to find a massive spot where some precum after the fact came out.

Its such a pleasure to know of this pleasure.