Tag: Prostate

A Breakthrough

Laying on a bed doing kegels never did anything for me. But I had a major breakthrough over the weekend and it was incredible. Here's what I did differently:

Don't lube up the aneros. Inject a LOT of lube into your butt, maybe 2-3x as much as you think would be a reasonable amount. Then make sure the outside of your butt / anus is dry. Next, slowly work the aneros in dry. With the extra lube inside it will move very freely, and you'll be able to have much more control over it's movement because it's not slippery when you do kegels.

Next, I just forgot about it, went about my business. After about 30-45 minutes of doing chores around the house I almost couldn't feel it. About 30 minutes after that something different started happening. I started getting an intense tickling feeling from my p-spot, very different than the feeling of just pressing on or rubbing my prostate.

That's when the magic started to happen, this tickling would get stronger and stronger until it was unbearable and dry orgasm after orgasm would happen. Anytime I sucked in my stomach, tightened my abs and worked my PC muscles I would have an intense orgasm. I found that sometimes standing with one foot on top of another cause orgasms almost immediately once I reached this point.

It's been two days since then and everything is more sensitive, even having regular PIV sex without the aneros is WAY better than before. Read more »

I was skeptical, but wow

Last summer I was buying a few toys on amazon and needed an extra toy to get free shipping. I heard about aneros and came to this subreddit, when I saw the reviews of it I was so excited to give it a try! It came in the mail with a few other toys, and I got more into those than the aneros, it didn't seem to hit my prostate very well, it was a bit bi to just slip in without some preparation, and I couldn't focus or get into the mindset very well. However, tonight I had been watching porn for an hour and hadn't touched my dick at all yet, so I figured now was the best opportunity to give the aneros another try. I'm so glad I did! The other times I had tried it I had to finger myself a bit to get it to fit, and then when it did go in well it didn't give me much sensation even after an hour of trying. Tonight though, it slipped right in (I've taken some bigger toys by now) and immediately was pressing right against my g-spot, it felt incredible, and within 10 minutes I was on my bed bucking and clenching my ass right around the aneros, leaking precum and having an incredibly hard anal orgasm. I went on that way for about 20 minutes, tried to get up and couldn't feel my legs. I feel so satisfied now, and I can't decide if I should go to bed or keep on with it to see how much longer I can keep the orgasms going 🙂 Anyways, thanks aneros! I'm sorry I ever doubted you! This just goes to show some skeptical people who have bought theirs that if you go into it in the right mindset without grand expectations, it may help you stimulate yourself way more

Questions after first prostate orgasm

Throwaway for privacy reasons. So all in all, it felt amazing but I'm freaked out because of 3 things: 1) my prostate or something became monstrously, scarily huge and diamond-hard 2) I'm very confused because I ejaculated but I never touched my penis 3) I only used my fingers cuz I'm penniless until payday at the end of the month. So, basically, WHAT THE HELL does YOUR body do when you prostate orgasm? My body really confused and shocked me. Does your prostate or front wall get gigantic and hard? And was it really just my prostate getting that big? Or was it more than that? And do all your muscles down there contract super hard?? I'm still in disbelief that my body could do all those things. And I'm confused because I ejaculated. I read you're not supposed to ejaculate. I didn't stimulate my penis at all. I did my perineum, but I wasn't pulling the penis skin. I was just going for more prostate stimulation. If you have questions on what I did, you can read the story below. Sorry it's so long and… scientifically explicit.

Starting 2 weeks ago, I started seriously trying for prostate orgasm using all the suggestions on the aneros wiki and on these reddits (basically, be very gentle, still, no very vigorous movements, controlled and focused breathing, etc.). My biggest and only variation is I have no tools. Just fingers. At the end of the month on payday, I'm going to buy aneros and nexus revo. But as of now I'm just using my fingers. Read more »

Introduction

I am a 51 year old married man who is impotent [erectile dysfunction]. Erections began to fail about ten years ago but intercourse with my wife was possible. Mornings helped, as did strong coffee and the right kind of stimulation. But at the same time her libido plummeted so there was little motivation to work to get erect. In the words of my urologist, when erectile function starts to flounder, working it helps to keep it from getting too much worse.

About three years ago my wife's libido came back gangbusters. By then my erectile function was pretty much toast. I tried Viagra, Cialis. They worked, well sort of. These gave me partial erections and headaches. The problem with the partial erections is that it was not enough for penetration.

Sometimes acceptance is a good thing. I have come to accept that I am impotent and there are other ways to pleasure and be pleasured.

When my impotence was first noticeable I saw my family doctor who referred me to a urologist. The urologist performed prostate massage, or that is what he called it when I asked, what are you doing to me! I then googled the subject, found out about the Aneros, and ordered an early model. I think it was actually through High Island Health. Read more »

My Second Encounter

Last night in a chat with Brine he asked me to do an entry describing my second liaison with a guy. Brine and a few others have asked about my twice venture into male – male sexual intimacy in the last two years. It is difficult to describe the experience without putting it into context. In a recent chat Brine and few of us were explaining MMO / Super O to a newbie. Brine commented that it was an integrated physical – mental – spiritual thing. He is absolutely right.

For the last 20 years I have been engaged in a discovery process to understand my sexuality. I dipped my toes into Tantra, Zen, Kundalini, edging, anal penetration and erotic massage to name a few. There were also workshops, strip clubs, gay bars, books, pod casts and myriad toys and porn. The frustration of all of them was that they all seemed to fall short or they required a life change to really engage. I was not ready to become a monk or a sex worker LOL.

Then 8 years ago quite by chance I was surfing the net looking for porn when I wound up on the Aneros site. I ordered my first toy exactly 8 years ago this month. That following year was dedicated to learning to use it. When I had ben successful for 8 months or so the rewiring process started. I am guessing that by the end of that year I was rewired. My sexual response, spirituality, physical – sexual capability, and mental state were all synched and in a sense I was sexually reborn. Read more »

Launching an A Less Session

I am in my 8th year of Super O – MMO practice. The progression of my experience with super o has been like walking through a carefully contorted maze. Each turn brings me to another unknown place; that place opens to endless other places to reveal kaleidoscopic orgasmic pleasures that flow in torrents. It has been a never ending journey of discovery. Through it all, the most delightful discovery was the realization of my ability to use my mind to drive mmo and generate extreme pleasure. That pleasure is so intense it tests the limits of my body’s ability to cope with intense ecstasy.

Each session I do I learn some new technique or trick to amplify the erotic pleasure I feel. Often during a session I will drive orgasmic pleasure to a new spot in my body or I will use my mind to guide that pleasure to express itself in a new or intriguing way. However, one of the things that has been really positive for me is the ease in which I can initiate trembling pleasure spasms from a less or inserted sessions.

Last night was one of those A less sessions that followed two days without mmo. Two days of denied mmo pleasure results in torrents of orgasmic spasms that make my legs tremble when I eventually do a session. So last night when J came to bed with a tee shirt and slinky panties clinging tightly to the smooth soft skin of her derriere, I knew that my session later in the soft quiet night of our bed was going to be juicy and sensually surreal. Read more »

COMPLETE BREAKTHROUGH: TIFU by trying to relax at home, after overeating at a New Year’s Eve party

The best I can do about describing this is going to be simple and a little bit clinical, and graphic if you don’t like toilet humor. (It’s essential for the plot though.) I’m still incredibly turned on and a little embarrassed by remembering this, but I want to be exact so that I can remember it properly. Is it weird to want to start tracking this stuff, the success stories? Here we go…

I’m a huge introvert. Small gatherings are easy – family dinner or whatever. For larger things (parties, formal occasions, etc.) I can do fairly okay, but I need to decompress afterwards. I’ve always loved having a day off. My home is small and cozy and a place to be safe.

When I’m finally home from an exhausting social event I like to take the rest of the night off (or the next morning, or whenever I can set this all up) for a "spa day" sort of thing, doing things I like to do to relax, and usually doing as much of them together as possible.

The usual: shower, settle in pajamas on the couch or at the PC, maybe order takeout or make something to eat, maybe have a drink or light up, and enjoy myself. Sometimes I watch porn, and I put out towels and masturbate or use sex toys, and clean up after. Read more »

A few questions about using an Aneros.

I posted this in /r/pegging and someone suggested that I would have better luck here.

I just bought a helix syn and I've had 3 sessions so far. I've read up on the wiki and done a bit of research but I'm still unclear on a few things.

  1. What exactly should I be thinking about during my sessions? Should I work on having a clear mind and just relaxing or should I be fantasizing and thinking naughty thoughts? If I'm suppose to be keeping a clear mind and just relaxing then what's the point of being aroused prior to the session? Doesn't the prostate only swell when while you're being stimulated mentally/physically?

  2. Should I be flexing my pelvic floor muscles as I breath or just breath and relax? If I should just be relaxing, then when should I start flexing my pelvic floor muscles?

  3. I don't feel the peeing or tingling sensation most people describe. I know people have said it takes a while to "re wire", but at what point should I try a new toy? I should also note that I don't feel it when fingering my prostate either.

  4. The location of my prostate. I stuck my finger in and I think I found it about an inch and half in, however, when I compare this location to the helix syn it doesn't seem to match up. Should I be stopping at the first neck? So far I've been pushing it all the way in to the final neck. Read more »

Need some guidance

I have been experimenting with prostrate stimulation for around of year and been using this…

http://www.docjohnson.com/men-s-pleasure-wand.html

Sometimes even getting my wife to use her fingers, and to use a small dido, but haven't experienced the super o.

I feel like it's gotten me to cum, but nothing beyond that type of pleasure.

I am just looking for the right one for me. I know that's hard, but just some help.