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Hello, I need some tips and some info to achieve super O. I using Helix Syn. I have a very weird and funny sensation and pleasure, its very difficult to describe the feeling but its abit tingly and warm sensation around my lower stomach area, but it always just stuck there and cant go any further, ended up I need to jerk off to finish my session
what should I do to help improve to achieve prostate orgasm? thanks alot!
(sorry for my English)
I first got the Aneros because I feel like my penis is getting less and less sensitive due to jerking off too much so I want to experiment with prostate orgasms (i heard of it from somewhere). Little did I know, I stumbled upon a tool to get MMO (Im already aware of this from Mantak Chia but I never thought a toy could enhance/facilitate the process)
My first session was great. I felt the peeing sensation and even had a bit of precum.
My second session I dripped a lot of precum while humping something.
My fourth to sixth (session today) have been stagnant.
I want to know if maybe my sphincter and PC muscles are too strong hence it takes forever for them to quiver and tire out?
Ive always had some good feeling, even small orgasms from urinating way before my purchase of the Aneros
Today in my 6th session, I turned on meditation music and tried clenching 60 seconds at a time. But my muscles never seemed to tire out.
I tried the relax and do nothing approach and breathe deeply but I end up losing my grip of the Aneros.
Im not frustrated, I might be chasing the orgasm too hard maybe. But I’m getting increasingly frustrated not just because I cant get to the orgasm, but it seems like my first few sesssions were good and my progress is reversing.
So yes, I’m fairly newish at this and prostate stuff. That said, I feel like I ought to feel… something? I pop the helix in and just don’t feel much of anything at all. I’ve tried doing the PC / sphincter flexes and all, and while I still have trouble getting consistent involuntaries, I just feel like this must not be the right shape for me or something. I feel like I ought to feel *something* just to let me know it’s hitting the right spot, right? Do I need to maybe change to a different toy? Or is this really just inexperience?
I’ve heard this “rewiring” to make yourself used to orgasming through prostate massage. But how do I rewire myself?
Do I just keep using the aneros even though I haven’t achieved orgasms with it yet?
Also does masturbating traditionally ruin the rewiring process?
I’m asking these questions because I feel like my aneros is working well, but maybe I need to build up the rewiring process to be able to achieve anything beyond p waves.
Hello everybody!
As the title says, I’ve been at this for almost a year. During that time I’ve learnt that my body is capable of a decent bit more than I ever expected and that is amazing, but I’m wondering where I go from here.
My sessions go like this – I try to get aroused, but I don’t touch my penis beforehand, I use a lube applicator about three times, then use plenty of lube on my toy (eupho syn trident).
I essentially try to follow the do nothing method – conscious clenching doesn’t seem to do much for me. My muscles down there are quite twitchy in response to arousal or even just the presence of the toy, so that usually kicks things off. I try to follow those contractions, I used to let my muscles clamp down, but I realised that was a mistake and killed the sensitivity. So I allow the clench then back off on clamping down, this results in a light teasing of my prostate – building the sensitivity up. It can really feel nice after an hour or more of this. I don’t know if this sounds like I’m interfering with the process, but I feel like I’m actually encouraging a more passive approach ironically, stopping my body trying to clamp down. It definitely feels better to do this, so I feel a bit like following _exactly_ what my body ‘wants’ isn’t necessarily the answer for me.
I’m a newbie to Aneros and to anal pleasure in general, but have been frequently exploring for a few weeks now. I’m in a strange place and I was hoping the wonderful butt sherpas on this sub might be able to guide me forward.
My journey started when my wife and I decided to spice things up with a rimming plug for me last Valentine’s day. After a not very successful session, I gave up and it sat into the box until I decided to try again solo a few weeks back. Who would have thought that actually following all of the advice online (lots of lube, loosen things up first, relax, etc… ) would make such a difference. It felt great and I started using it fairly regularly, but every time it felt a little like something was missing from the experience.
Eventually I pinpointed it to a feeling I was getting when I would sit on the plug and rock/bounce. That would make me feel a bit like I needed to pee, but also *really* good. I started thinking of it as my “pre-cum” button because hitting it would make me leak like a sieve ( I know it was my prostate though). After doing this for a bit, I realized the plug was the wrong tool for the job and determined to explore the feeling further, I purchased a vibrating prostate massager with one of those “come hither” rocking arms (this one to be precise: [https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator](https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator)). This one felt good, but I found the best feeling was again if I were to turn off the “come hither” motion, and rock/bounce on it myself. Whenever it did that I would get that “needing to pee sensation”, but at this point I’d experienced it enough to differentiate it and it started to feel more like a buildup of pressure similar to a penile orgasm.
Are there any podcasts about prostate massage and orgasms etc. I don’t mean sex podcasts that have an episode or two about prostate play or pegging. I’ve listened to many of those and those are all about beginners or people asking if it’s gay to put things “up there”. I’m sure most of us are far past that point by now. I’m surprised there isn’t a podcast about this. I know I don’t have the time to read all the posts on the aneros forums but I have plenty of time to listen to podcasts at work and the drive to and from. I think a podcast could be very helpful to our community and help people find their way.
History: I bought 2 aneros toys. the white sgx and the progasm jr. I’ve had it for a couple weeks now.
My problem? I don’t get anything NEAR the feelings that some people here are getting. I’ve tried laying down on my back, on my side, sitting in a chair, everything short of upside down. I think my kegels are in the best shape ever. >>> I get nothing. I don’t feel a THING. ZERO.
So people here have been saying “oh it takes lots of time”. but then I read this from another poster here:
“I got the new Progasm Ice 3 days ago. Incredible feelings from that toy. Tried it out with my wife last night. I was literally in heaven. Every feeling was enlightening like 10 fold.”
A guy on the aneros forum writes; ” A big surprise during my first time ever”
I’m sitting here thinking WHAT ???
When I use it? I don’t feel anything at all. nothing. And those bead things sticking into me don’t feel good. After awhile with the sgx in there? my perianal area feels sore.
When I use the Progasm jr- it won’t stay in my ass. No matter what I do, unless I sit down? it comes out quickly. So that means I’m limited to the sgx which is smaller.
Am I supposed to feel that “pee urge” feeling? IS this thing even contacting my prostate?
Some background: I’ve been using Aneros on and off since November. I’ve been practicing kegels regularly since then, too. In that time, I’ve had one strong prostate orgasm, a few weak ones, and a lot of “close but not there” frustration. The strong orgasm I had happened maybe a month in while drunk and I had very little idea what I was doing or what was working. I couldn’t replicate it at all.
I was frustrated that I had to fantasize hard or really focus on porn to feel like I’m getting “close”, or that I had to drink or be on some other substance. The former is a bit of a strain and the latter is not something you want to make a habit.
Now, I’ve been spending a few hours on Aneros each day since Friday, and I haven’t masturbated since last Tuesday. I think that helped. I use the Aneros Helix Syn with a fairly large amount of lube (I use a lube shooter). I didn’t do any special relaxation technique, nor did I try any nipple play.
What finally worked for me was:
1. Sitting on the bed, knees bent and up, legs kind of spread outward so your knees can be together without them tipping over
2. Listening to music. Any music on youtube that claims to be good for meditating, relaxing, or focusing should be fine. I think it helps keep part of your brain occupied
Well im confused now. Im now almost a year into my journey and about a month ago i started having almost constant tingling,very mild p-waves but nothing more. I haven’t experienced any prostate induced orgasm yet. Do you guys can give me advice on the issue with the constant butterflies in my prostate. Thanks