Tag: Relaxation

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Woke up and had another aneros free orgasm, didn't last long, nothing special this time although having said that it was as mind blowing as every one I have had so far.
Sitting at the computer I managed to have yet another )again without the aneros( which lasted about 15 minutes.

I keep getting all sorts of tingling sensations around my body now, and quite often I suddnely feel as if I am going to orgasm without any warning. I had a small one whilst standing in the kitchen unpacking the shopping. Couldn't let it go very far though as my wife was talking to me at the time.

I took my eldest child to a gymastics competions and thought why don't I try getting an orgasm somewhere else in my body and managed a lower abdominal orgasm. I had to work hard to stop it spreading to my prostate as I could have easily had a full blown prostate orgasm. As I was sitting in a row of other parents I had to stay totally relaxed and just enjoy the sensation and really control it. It wasn't as intense as a prostate orgasm but it was a new experience and something I am going to experiment with.
Shortly after the abdominal orgasm settled I suddenly noticed a tingling in my mouth. By adjusting my breathing I managed to amplify it slightly, I wonder if it's possible to have a mouth orgasm? I think almost anything is possible now.

Beginnings

I had thought about getting one of these devices for years after reading about them and eventually took the plunge. My first session was disappointing, I expected too much too fast, the second was similar and I put it aside for a week having achieved nothing more than a slightly interesting feeling.
My breakthrough came when I went to stay in a hotel overnight and took it with me. I thought I had plenty of time, nothing else to do, and would give it one more go without expecting anything magic. I inserted the device, lay down on my back, and relaxed. The feeling came quite quick and I thought 'this is interesting' and went with it being careful to control my breathing and concentrating on the pleasure, fairly quickly I started shaking and could feel something building. I was determined to allow it to build and kept concentrating and then it happened! I can't even remember exactly how it felt the first time but I remember feeling out of control and trying to catch my breath and thrashing about wildly and feeling my hands go numb, and being totally amazed that I could actually do it.
The first orgasm must have lasted 20 minutes, I noticed that I had leaked a big pool of clear fluid from my penis. I thought time for bed removed it, cleaned up and lay down. Curiosity got the better of me and I just had to do it again, and re-inserted. The orgasm grew fast this time and before I knew it I was there again and had another 20 minutes of ectasy this time I remember feeling waves of pleasure riding up my chest and trying to control it a bit more, clenching my anal muscles to move the aneros around and press on my prostate and heighten the pleasure, using breathing to control the orgasm. I think I could have gone on forever, this lasted about 30 minutes and I thought I really ought to get some sleep now and let it fade.
It was about 2am by now I tried to get to sleep but couldn't and thought why not do it once more? Again I managed to get straight into another orgasm, this time it was even more intense my whole pelvis feeling like a tingling block of pure pleasure waves of orgasm going in and out of my chest.
I must have had an hour and a half of orgasm that night.

Frustration. I fail at the contraction technique AND the relaxation technique after almost 1 year.

Here`s the deal:

The relaxing technique where you just lie there and relax your anus brings me SO close to the super O. The eletrical, warm and tingle-feeling, spasms and shaking, AND involuntaries. Last night my stomach contracted so hard that it felt like a workout : ) BUT, then it stops : (

When i use the contraction technique, i get to the eletrical, warm and tingle-fase. Then it stops. But i know why: At this fase my prostate has swelled up so that i loose touch with the muscles in my anus. The muscles gets tense and there is less room for movement.

After 1 year of practice i feel like a failure : (

Any tips? : )

Weak week, strong end

Things work well for me on Sundays. Other days, not so much.

During sessions on post-work weekday evenings, after an initial jolt and a fast spazzy run-up to a pale, weak, anemic orgasm, I didn't get much going. Any waves that came around felt like two or three dissonant notes that warbled around but never quite synced into one pure tone. When I got that far, I either couldn't relax well, or I relaxed too well and fell asleep.

That's not entirely bad. A quick early evening nap is pretty satisfying in its own way.

I don't completely understand what my problem was on this Saturday, or previous Saturdays. Figure it should have been a good time for recreational activity, especially one like this that is, so to speak, open-ended. Perhaps because I see Saturday as my day to finish the previous five days of neglected tasks, that's carrying over into areas where it's not useful.

But Sunday was delightful. I get three sessions in, starting almost as soon as I awoke, and none of them was a real dud. Each session on its own feels good enough to make me come back for more. I can't yet achieve waves consistently, but even my inconsistently occurring and short-lived ones are astounding. Read more »

Frustration, Perseverance, Success! Finally had 10+ orgasms after months of failure.

After 3 months of experimenting, disappointments, and confusion, I’ve finally had myself an experience that justifies the cost of an arenos. Through my life I’ve been anally-oriented, with a fascination going as far back as middle school, developing post-college into a love of pegging. So when stumbling across the Aneros, I figured that it would not be that much of a jump for me to achieve a prostate orgasm. Expectations, of course, are not always realized. For the past 3 months I’ve used my arenos, almost weekly in an effort to achieve the elusive prostate orgasm, and I was admittedly close to giving it up.

Sure, I had experienced a few sessions of pleasure and intrigue, and the ending of such sessions with a lubed hand made for quite the powerful penile orgasm, but it never seemed to get to the point that I’ve been reading about online. But, reading the literature associated with it, it would seem that some men take months and months to get to that fabled point, so I figured that I’d just keep persevering – the sessions were enjoyable nonetheless. Read more »

This time it did something inside my butt

After a couple lackluster sessions with my Helix Syn, which I got a few months ago, I was starting to lose motivation with my purchase. I'd always get a little but of pleasure out of it, but would always end up finishing myself off through masturbation.

After hearing about the Aneros again recently, i decided to give it another shot. I spent a good amount of time on my back, tickling away and try to relax before insertion. I couldn't get it in very far, even though I was expectant; it felt like pushing it further would be painful, so I resorted to getting on my side, and managed to push it up to the middle of the toy, after the larger of the bumps. I then focused of my breathing, trying to forget everything but that slightly cool surface inside of me. Eventually, I started feeling tiny movements, and began contracting to about 1/4th of my maximum (my PC and BC muscles are well developed so it wasn't a problem). Then I got into it and started to rock my pelvis forward, clenching around the Aneros harder until the sensation evoked the soreness of an orgasm, gradually increasing, and I kept going, definitely aware that my breathing had turned to sharp gasps timed with my rocking and contracting. I finally started shuddering all over, which I would classify as my first orgasm; it felt more like a wave overtaking me than a discharge experienced through a penile orgasm, but it still felt like it could be greater still. It was late, though, so after recuperating I finished off wth the same motion while masturbating. My penis felt completely secondary, but I still had a god damn mess to clean up afterwards. Read more »

First time in years, and first time ever

On May 3, I set to try the “do nothing” method. I lay on my back with knees up, and waited for whatever sensations might visit.

Doing nothing wasn't strenuous, but the minimal effort still got to me. My legs fatigued, so I stretched out and lay flat.

An odd, tiny tickle occurred somewhere in my abdomen. I didn't think anything of it, but it was intruding on my focus. Just to make it go away, I rotated my hips backward, raising my lower back a little off the bed. I held there for a second until the tickle dissipated, then flattened myself back out. The tickle returned, so I rotated my hips again, waited a moment, and flattened again. That repeated a couple more times. Then a most peculiar thing happened.

My hips kept up the slow rocking motion after I decided to stop. It was going at a frequency of about one cycle every ten seconds. I wasn't making it happen, but it was still happening. Of course, I could have made it stop, but I chose not to, mostly because things started feeling pretty good. The familiar tingle of early-stage orgasm had sneaked up on me, and it was growing. After a few more pumps, my pelvis spazzed and drove my cock upward, just like when a girl's on top and I'm thrusting it into her all the way to the hilt.

Holy hell! That was an orgasm! Read more »

It’s been a long journey but I finally see my destination in the horizon

TL;DR multiple_o wrote a great post about how to approach a super-o, this post is about how to get the toy into you and enjoy it, because that's step 1 in this crazy thrill ride.

First of all, I've always found that referring to aneros playtime as a journey was kind of corny. I assumed it was some jargon by the aneros marketing team or something, and discounted it…but damn! I couldn't have been more wrong and I couldn't be happier. After a long 10-year "getting to know you" with my ass and prostate, I can finally say that we are no longer in the intro phase and I'm onto some really great things.

From a young age, I've always known that there was more to this whole sex thing than just my cock. I remember getting hard-ons and never knowing what to do with them. Hard as steel accompanied by a faint "ache" from within my crotch. Sometimes it was a subtle ache but other times I could literally feel my pulse within my groin. I obviously didn't know it at the time, but I've been having A-less contractions since high school and it's taken me 10 years to fully understand It.

So why did it take so long for me to finally get a super-o if I started with a leg up? Maybe hearing my issues from the past will help those struggling in the present, and no one else will have to wade through 10 years of frustration. Read more »

Mistakes Can Have Good Results

Still catching up with the history. At this point it was the end of April and the beginning of May 2015. My sessions were still centered on deliberate deep breathing and refining muscle movement.

During two sessions, about a half-hour in, I could feel a rush somewhere behind my balls. It was similar to the feeling I get when I start gently stroking my cock head. Nothing too exciting; just a little something. The sensation evaporated and slowly returned, but slightly amplified, similar to the feeling I get when I continue gently stroking. Then it went away and did not return. I relaxed more in hopes of luring it back, but I fell asleep.

Sleep has been a real obstacle for me. Many times I've been focused on relaxing, then realized my ongoing mental narrative had wandered off into dreaming. I don't believe “alert” and “relaxed” should be mutually exclusive states, and I continue to search for the balance between them. Advice would be welcome.

The training material puts special emphasis on not touching your cock during a session. Touching at the end of a session or after a session is fine, but not during. My original interpretation of this advice was that adding penile stimulation risked setting up ejaculation as a conditioned response to rectal stimulation. I wanted to avoid that so badly that I tried to exclude erections. When I felt my cock stiffen, I slowed everything down until it went away. Read more »

Definite Progress – 2

after a lengthy day of minor progress, i decided I needed to re-read and try differently.

I was exhausted and intrigued about the do nothing method- wow. If you havent tried that, go for it.

Took a long very hot bath with eucalyptus and worked on enjoying and relaxing.
Jumped into bed steaming hot and heart racing from the bath. Remained naked on top of the bed and my prep area just resting for a few minutes.

Rolled over on my left with knees together at 90 degree bent at waist and ever-so-slowly inserted the eupho. And did nothing but deep stomach rhythmic breathing.

Really nothing but breathing and concentrating of relaxing and seeing if i could slow my pulse from the bath.

Deep diaphragm breathing… Concentrating of my spot. My pulse was way up. And within 7 to 10 minutes, a flutter. Deep and low stomach flutter. Followed by a slight roll sensation deep in stomach for one of my breathes.

Pulse was still up and picked up slightly more in anticipation and excitement. Deep breathing, do nothing else except for concentrating on my spot. No contractions- nothing.

A few minutes- then a slight deep internal tingle- incredibly small but just enough to feel it and raise my excitement once again. Focus on that, breath and nothing else but relaxing.

More stomach flutters and a greater awareness of my prostate been strangely teased- so small but there. Read more »