Tag: Relaxation

So Fulfilled

Hey guys I know it's been a while since I have wrote a blog but with work and riding my time is really consumed. But I'm back. Here to tell my new knowedge of what I have learned and the new things I do in my sessions to get me t the high peak of orgasm.

Firstly I now only ride on the weekends. That came about because I am always taking long persion breaks fro riding or cumming or doing anything sexual because of my work obligations. Yes I'm just a daycare teacher but I feel like my job consist of scopping the minds of our new children little minds that ae here with us and I try to make that exciting for them. So after work I like to relax and be so tired that I dont have the energy for nothing but a shower and a gass of wine and a deep sleep. I also found out that when I stretch out my sessions when I eventually ride there that more intense. So my negative became a plus. Read more »

Broke the Ceiling

I hadn't entirely given up on seeing where I could go without nipple stimulation, but it wasn't really on my mind this afternoon as I started a second session. The first was heavy on nipple stimulation and was very good as a result. I can't remember much else from it as it seems to have been mostly eclipsed in my mind by the session this entry is about. I do know that I got my penis involved which isn't the norm for me.

I started off this session relaxed with my legs slightly spread and bent with a cover over me and my butt resting on a pillow to get a slight elevation for handle clearance; a pretty typical setup. There was already the vague sense of pleasure I get from having one of the Aneroses inside. I felt something slightly extra, though, as I lay there relaxed. It was a more tangible pleasure from the Helix against my prostate. Maybe it helped that I had already had a session. Maybe things were still sensitive from that. Not sure.

I soon found that just focusing on this pleasure caused it to grow. I couldn't perceive any physical action from PC muscles. I wasn't trying to initiate anything. The pleasure was just happening by my thoughts. It grew and grew and grew until I was in the throes of what I had hoped to experience: a hands free Super O without even using my nipples. I was on cloud 9 and stayed there for close to an hour. Read more »

My Nipples

I was recently chatting with a friend here about my own MMO experience and the much sought after achievement of rewiring. My experience has been that it took three interrelated practices or skills for me to achieve the pleasure of MMO or Super O.

First was relaxation, or letting go of my daily worries, distractions and tension. Second was the development of mind / body awareness and mind / body control. The third and most fun aspect was learning to make love to myself. I am not talking about locking myself in the bathroom and sitting on the toilet seat and tugging feverishly on my cock untill it stiffens and regurgitates milky cum into a wadded up tissue or my palm. When I say making love to myself I mean setting the stage for an erotic experience just as I would with my wife, girlfriend, boyfriend or guy partner; as weird as it might seem this means lighting candles or having dim lights, soft music and maybe favorite scents. Read more »

Aneros And Penile Semen Ejaculation

Aneros And Penile Semen Ejaculation

As others have mentioned that when you have a penile semen ejaculation through either sex with a partner or through masturbation, you ejaculate then go through a refractory period of time where your sexual interest declines and you cannot raise an erection and you feel less than interested in sexual activity. This certainly so with myself. This period can last from a couple of days to a month or more. But give me a break fellas, I am nearly 67 years old and I know I am not the same randy rabbit that I was when I was 30.
In the last month I became interested again in prostate massage, started massaging my prostate again and purchased my first Aneros, the Helx Syn. I have only had the opportunity to use the Aneros 3-4 times but I really like the peaceful relaxing and stimulating place it gets me to. In this month, I have not felt the need to masturbate to orgasm. In saying that I think I have masturbated and touched myself more than I have in the last few years. I wake up many times during the night with a great erection that I would be proud to bury in a moist vagina or anus. I would lie awake for a while gently stroking it before drifting off to sleep. This happens several times a night. When I am anally stimulating myself with either my fingers or the Aneros I sometimes get hard for a few minutes then I subside to the flaccid or semi-flaccid state I normally am in during this anal stimulation. I feel happy and content with this flaccid state. I am content to feel the subtle vibes happening inside me and happy to feel the pool of pre-cum building up on my stomach.
What does this all mean? I am not sure, I feel that I am just at peace with my sexuality and enjoying my learning path. Hopefully it is a path towards multiple male orgasms. I know it will probably be a long path of learning but I hope I will be able to make that goal. It will be an enjoyable and pleasurable Tim I am sure.

Trying to Lose Control

I had already started trying to use less nipple stimulation in my session and wanted to discover a new aspect to Aneros pleasure. I don't know to what extent different men use their nipples in conjunction with the Aneros. I may be on one end of the spectrum in how I have tended to rely on my nipples to build up and sustain a Super O. I sometimes sneak a quick nipple rub in at work or while driving to feel a little pleasure on the side. It doesn't take very long and it has grown in intensity from where I started.

I've held off longer or not even used my nipples at all a few times in the last few sessions. I can't say my dry O's are as strong or that I've reached an all out Super O, but it's definitely a different experience. The first time I reached a hands and nipples free dry O a few days ago I was left alternating between moaning and laughing. I was having sustained muscle movements from the Aneros for the first time and it was driving the orgasm. I actually had the Peridise in for this session and it turns out that I was laying on my side which is not common for me. I'm usually on my back. Read more »

First test drive

I received my eagerly awaited first Aneros, a Helix Syn yesterday. Picked it up from the Post Office so that "she who disapproves, the fun police" would not find out about my purchase. When I arrived home, I unpacked in the garage, away from prying eyes. Then I took it into the house to give it a wash before going back to the garage. I thought I would get to know my new Aneros and have a little fun before getting down to the serious business of learning how to reach nirvana and dry organs etc. Shutting the door, I dropped my shorts and underpants. Reaching for my hidden stash of Lube, I snapped back the cap and squirted some onto my fingertip. Separating one cheek from I gently touched my puckered anus with the lubed up finger before pushing it home up to the palm of my hand. Withdrawing my finger, I picked up the Helix Syn and carefully lubed it up. While it glistened and shone blackly in the light of the window I lifted my right leg and placed my foot on the workbench. By this time my previously flaccid penis was becoming interested in the event unfolding and was better than half erect. I said to myself, this is not about you cock, this is about something much bigger and better than that. ConcentrateOrientating the Helix correctly I placed my hand behind myself and gently placed it agains my anus. On recognition it was correctly placed in pushed it firmly inside of me. It slipped in easily, just as I expected. What a nice comfortable feeling. A feeling that I had been missing for so long after I had thrown out my previously owned dildos and butt plugs. Lowering my leg down I clenched my muscles and felt to Aneros move inside of me, drawing itself upwards inside and rubbing over my prostate. A few more muscle movements and my penis subsided. After about 5 minutes I decided to check for pre-cum. I found a pleasant surprise, a dewdrop had formed on my urethral opening of my once again flaccid penis. It was then I heard a call from inside the house so I had to quickly withdraw my Aneros, tidy up and go to see what I was needed for inside by my wife. Read more »

Private Penetration

I have mentioned many time in this blog that the advances I have made in my sexual journey have brought me closer to understanding the emotional, sensual and physiological sexual needs of a woman.

I have gained this understanding because the experience of a deep prostate centered anal orgasm is very similar to the g spot orgasmic experience of a woman. J has most definitely become aware of the change that occurred in me as I am a different lover. I am more mindful, less impetuous in the pursuit of pleasure and I am more patient with her experience of vaginal pleasure. I can almost read her mind and understand what she wants and needs to fulfill the craving that takes control of her body when we are being intimate.

One of the things that has come with this new sexual pathway I am on is the need I feel to be penetrated. While 90% of my MMO sessions are induced without penetration there are times that I crave the exquisite torture of deep stimulation to trigger the release of chains of pleasure waves in my core. To some people it is the need to feel the fullness of a large object; that is not the case for me. For me it is the sensation of the subtle touch of an delicate object to unlock the excruciatingly pleasurable peristaltic waves of anal orgasm. Read more »

Letting Go

This morning I didn't have the luxury of time like I have had during previous weekends. I had to be on the road to visit my parents by late morning. Still, it was a fantastic session. I have been trying out the unrefined shea butter the last two days. So far the results are good. I'll have to see about leaving the Peridise in all night with it now. I unintentionally left it in overnight earlier in the week with no trouble, but I'd rather not take a chance with the water base lube.

I started off this morning with the Peridise as usual and held off touching my nipples for longer. I'd like to see what I can achieve with less nipple involvement. I'll have to see how things progress in the future. Things still felt pretty good in the limited time I had. I had a mini-O or two before getting the nipples involved.

I've found that I can't easily get into a more meditative state anymore. Things too easily progress to a more powerful state and there seems to be no need at this point. I'll keep it in the back of my head if I run into trouble in the future, but I sort of miss the more relaxing times I've had. I don't miss it nearly enough to trump the super-O's, though. Read more »

Saturated

Things keep getting better. I had held off a day on using the Helix because of a little soreness. I was rewarded for my patience today. I got warmed up with the larger Peridise as I've been accustomed to lately. It was a little longer warmup than usual. I didn't have any dry O's; I just closed my eyes and felt a humming in my head as I occasionally added a little PC or anal movement at times. The humming had started almost as soon as I did. This lasted for half an hour or so.

After a while I needed a break to have a BM. I wanted to wait until I got that out of the way and cleaned up to switch to the Helix. I took my time in getting back to the session even then.

Once inside, the Helix had an immediate effect. I didn't have contractions or anything, but I felt a general wave of pleasure rise through my body as I got situated in bed. It was a good sign.

I've been keeping a T-shirt on during sessions so that I don't chafe my nipples and it has a side effect of limiting the amount of sensation my fingers can give my nipples. I think this is a good thing as it slows the progression a little and lets things happen more on their own. Read more »

ORGASMIC MILESTONE

I recently was thinking about the most popular topics I have written about in the various blogs I have posted. When I looked at the Word Press Analytics when I had the WP blog the top ten topics for me were cock, cum, prostate orgasm, balls, dry orgasm, anal sex, cockhead, penis and anal orgasm.

Clearly all of you here on Aneros and me as well have an interest in male orgasm and male sexuality. For me this last quarter of my life has been a discovery of my sexuality and sexual response. As it turns out it this period has been dominated by MMO and my rewiring. These popular topics are a reflection of my sexual life experience but more accurately they are a reflection of my self discovery.

Obviously J has been and still is a huge part of my sex life. What I have done in these last 18 years is compartmentalize my sex life; I have my intimate connection with her through fucking and I have my solo self directed MMO driven sex life. They exist in two different worlds. I have several entries that discuss this division in my sexual response and my sexual life. However to my great joy, very slowly, those two worlds seem to be moving closer together as discussed in a post prior to this one. Read more »