Tag: Relaxation

Experiences

Hello,

After I got the Helix Syn early this year, I thought I would share my experiences with you.

I was lucky to experience what I believe to be P-waves )or even a mini-O?( when I had only my second aneros session. I had recently discovered a video which catered to my fetish and what I did – well, I simply tried to imagine being one of the actors. With sufficient practice, you can actually convince yourself to experience the same feelings. The feeling of having the pleasure expand from my navel and wash over my whole body was amazing. I later also discovered a wet-looking spot on my sheets but I couldn't remember cumming, so that was quite some precum there.

However, as I see it, this was a mini-O brought about by concentration and especially through the help of media )porn(. Watching it, I assumed the same positions as shown in the video and my power self )"subconscious( actually produced the contractions to mimic the sensations felt in the video.
The ~10 sessions since then I haven't had the same sensations but the last few times I focused on relaxation )once with audio, and just yesteday without anything(. I found that a very relaxed state really helps to promote quite strong involuntary contractions, and it is really important for me to "let go" and assume an "observer" state – just feeling the sensations as they come, without chasing or judging, but simply appreciating them. Rhythmic breathing helps – I think it's quite important to remind oneself just to keep breathing, no matter what happens in life :-(. Stopping breathing is often in anticipation of something or a fear-based response, but reassuring myself that the right feelings will come at the right time, it is easier to let go and just keep breathing. Read more »

P wave evenings

After this session with Alana that ended in the best traditional O i'd had in a long, long time, I was keen to move on. I spent the next few days looking for alternatives to the hypnaerosession and found the I-Doser sexual simulations session. No spoken word here, just chilled out music…perfect I thought. Another new discovery that evening was instead of lying on my back which I found tended to tense up my stomach too much, I lay on my side as suggested in the forums. This I found later would be key for me. The session started. I had my progasm in and I was relaxed on my side listening to the session. That's when it started…the twitching I'd read about. I was breathing with it and there were twitches…just small but still this was a significant moment. It meant that things were beginning to happen. At one point this wave of pleasure just washed through me…wow. It felt like a wave too rolling up my body..i wanted it again and the odd twitch was there. The audio session was coming to the end and strangely my mind was taking it in and things were happening but I did think they were disconnected to the progasm. I was becomming pretty turned on and near the end of the session was experienceing I guess what i'd describe now as an edging feeling…that point a little before you cum but not a full orgasm. For me this was an amazing feeling. I hadn't touched my cock at all and it was still pretty limp but these almost orgasmic feelings were in my body. The session had ended but I just had to listen to it again. I detected twitches from the progasm but I don't think i was really focussing on them enough at that point. The 2nd run of the session ended and again although I was very highly aroused I hadn't experienced a whole series of p waves that I'd have been expecting. Still, it was progress compared to my previous sessions. I took the progasm out and slipped into a relaxing sleep. Then….something weird happened….i was awoken an hour later…wtf was that…..the progasm wasn't inserted but this intense p wave just went through me. I was taken aback but wow, just wow and then it happend again. I wasn't doing anything but another one hit again. What was happening to me..my body just seemed to take control and send these waves through me. I contracted just slightly and another wave hit…yes! I was getting there…another wave…i was lovign the feelings. I just couldn't stop the waves and the night was rapidly disappearing. Eventually I think I did fall asleep but a whole hour before my alarm went off to get up for work. I seemed to be exhausted the next day but I was in a blissfully relaxed mood all day and very chripy. Wow, I needed more, just wow.
I know it's suggested that you have a break inbetween sessions but I couldn't wait to experience these what I now recognised as p-waves again. The next night I was back again with the progasm. I put the simulation session on again and my toy started twitching but i wasn't getting any waves. I could feel it moving ever so slightly but no waves. Hmmm, what was going on? I ended the session and took it out. I didn't masturbate normally for some reason. I was just lying there on my side after the session breathing slowly and relaxed. Hmm i thought, what happens if i make a contraction, so I did. The unexpected happened..contraction then a second or 2 after, p wave! Loving the feeling i went for another contraction and again it happened. I was hooked and yet another sleepless night occurred but I wasn't experiencing this body shattering, shaking super O I'd read about. However it seemed that without the progasm in i was able to experience these p waves. I think it was around this point that I starteed realising that I was using the wrong muscles. I staarted contracting different muscle sets and realised that i was probably just making anal contractions alone and not really involving the pc muscles. I started to concentrate on working this new muscle set. It took a bit but sure enough this is where the pwaves for me were working from without the aneros inserted. My current line of thought is that the progasm was actually just that little too big to get my pc muscles really working and that a smaller model would be more appropriate. I might still go back and buy a smaller model just to see if it provides a different experience, but for now I was just enjoying the p waves. Again sleepless nights occurred as my body took over and uncontrolled pwaves went through me….how could I stop them??? I neeeded to stop but at the same time i didn't want to.
Still nothing what I would describe as a super O though.
I was still trawling through the forums looking for that final piece of the jigsaw. Was there anything there that would take me over the edge. Focus and breathing was the next thing I started working on. I still wasn't getting any great pleasure from having the progasm inserted, so I'd start off using it and get it twitching and then later take it out and just concentrate on the pw aves without it inserted. I decided one eveing that I was going to take it really slow and let things build and focus on any minute sensations that occured. Any tingles I'd try to mentally focus on and enlarge through deep breathing. I was working and the p waves were setting in. It was around this point that I started feeling anal contractions too and also contractions in my stomach muscles. My body was beginning to tense up too. The first anal contraction was amazing..just surged up through my body. I guess this was an anal orgasm? I continued on breathing with my p waves and the feelings grew and grew.
Then it hit…..bang across my whole body…..I hit this new plateau of pleasure I'd never felt before. It didn't subside like a p wave and went on for a few mins. My whole body was rigid and tense with this pleasure rolling around me, precum oozing out. No shaking though like i'd seen in some videos but then again i read that it's diferent in everyone… but yeah I think I just had a super O, my first one. I don't think it was major but it was definately different from a p wave. Pretty exhausted after this I tried to get to that point again but couldn't manage it. I settled down that night in knowledge that I'd come a pretty long way in quite a short time…weeks infact when i'd been expecting months or nothing at all.
I tried again I think the next night but I had consumed a few glasses of wine too many and I have come to the realisation that this numbs the sensation. You do need to be mentally able to focus. The pwaves came but nothing else. Read more »

A new train of thought

So the blue toy was back in my bag. Waste of money I thought and I left it for a couple of weeks. But somewhere in the back of my mind the thought of this mystical super O was still there. I really wanted it. It was at this point I started delving deep into the Aneros forums and indeed for any new member like myself I can't but recommend reading as much as you can. These forums are simply a superb resource and full of information. I really wanted to make this blue toy work for me and work with me. I started to realise that my technique was wrong and I was probably using the wrong muscles. I'd read up on relaxation and using the right lubes too. The hypnAerosession intrigued me also. I'd practiced a bit of self hypnosis many years ago when i'd had trouble sleeping and needed to relax. I'd found that i was able to fall into a trance like state and that it emptied my mind of thoughts and just relaxed me. As I knew that i was able to do this I downloaded the session and stuck it on my phone to listed to that evening when I had a free house to chill out a bit. At this point I was still using a liberal amount of lube. Happened to be liquid silk which was all I had to hand at the time without producing a batch of Jlube which is what I use for larger toy play. I read about maximus so ordered a bottle of that too. So lubed up and Alana on I setttled in for some relaxation and hopefully some new sensations. For a gay guy though, listening to Alana is a little weird. She's seductive for sure but I'm really not interested in her breasts…no offence intended, i'm sure they're lovely ;-(…however, the session itself was working in terms of relaxation. I really was sliding deeper. It came to the point in the session though where i needed to start contracting so I did. But yet again nothing really was happening. I was lying there on my back in a deeply relaxed and fairly aroused state but where were these p-waves i'd read about. I was contracting, holding and relaxing..trying to do what she was saying but nothing was happening. Again, frustration yeilded…i pulled my headphones out and just went for a traditional wank. By this point i'd usually have pulled the progasm out but i left it in this time. I was yanking away but this time it felt different…the feelings were much stronger and felt so much better. I ejaculated and wow, that was simply the best orgasm I'd had in a long time. It was at this point that I realised that something was different, something had changed or I was allowing something to happen. It was these first signs that gave me some hope that actually I might be able to get this thing to work. I was now determined to take my body to a new level. I'd read that this could take some time…weeks, months or even years so I started thinking that this will be a journey and I'll give it a chance. However, progress would come quicker than I could have imagined.

Afternoon Session

Finally had the house to myself this afternoon, which meant one thing, a session with my favourite set of toys. After 5 days of abstaining from any sexual activity I was very turned on at the thought of a session. I took advantage of this, getting myself worked up and intensely aroused this morning, looking at erotic images and some of the blogs here.

I pre-lubed with Shea butter, put a thin layer of Vaseline on the Helix and slowly inserted, taking time to tease my my anus with the helix first, it felt exquisite. Slowly I let the you penetrate me, savouring it sliding in.

I lay on my side with my knees up, and straight away felt delightful pangs of pleasure radiate from my prostate, two weeks without a session have left my prostate constantly, desperately whispering to me for attention.

My session began as usual with some meditative breathing, then eager to start, I began my first contractions, straight away the pleasure built, my cock swelled but was not fully erect, it would remain like this most of the session.

I quickly felt that lovely sensation of the fist drop of pre-cum make its way up my urethra and out onto the tip of my cock, where it tempted me to play with it. I left it desperately wanting to see it drip and string off. Read more »

Product Review: Progasm Jr

So as I promised so many people in chat, this is going to be a personal review of the Progasm Jr. I say personal, as I understand that everyone is unique, and each person reacts to particular models differently. As such, I'm starting with the disclaimer that these experiences may or may not apply to anyone else. This was purely my impressions, my feelings, and my sensations from using this devices.

First, a material description of the Pro Jr. It is made of the same material as the Progasm Black Ice, so those familiar with the "soft" plastic should know it's a bit more comfortable than the classic plastic. The almost glass-like feel enhances the slickness when coated in lube, which promotes movement in the rectum. Overall, has a very polished look, while still being surprisingly soft.

Next will be a discussion on design. While many are wondering about the differences between the Pro Jr and the regular sized Progasm models, I don't feel I can give a fair or accurate comparison since I don't have any other Pro models. Instead, I will compare to features of the Helix and MGX, as those are the models I have and am most familiar with. Read more »

Double the Pleasure

Hello,
I had the house to myself before I had to go to work, so I decided to use my free time wisely. I took a nice hot shower to relax, then I prepped my helix and myself with some KY and Vaseline plugged in and climbed into bed. I started off on my left side with my left leg straight and my right knee bent. I just laid still and relaxed. I started to slowly rub my nipples with my fingertips and soon the sensations started to grow. I could feel my ass starting to follow my breathing patterns either fast or slow. I just lay there as the contractions started to intensify and my helix do its magic.
My cock was starting to get hard and engorged as the ptab and helix really started to hit the spots. But the constant rubbing of the sheets on my cock were starting to distract me. So, I decided to try to roll onto my back with my knees raised and my feet flat on the bed. I just lay still to allow my body to adjust to the new position and did some relaxation breathing and caressed my chest, belly and nipples.
The more I played with my nipples, the more intense my ass massaged the helix. Once again, my cock was hard as a rock and engorged sticking straight up. I had the resist the urge to rub and caress it. An extremely strong contraction helped to produce a spurt of precum to ejaculate from the head. A small yet steady stream leaked out.
I closed my eyes tight as I started to feel my legs starting to quiver. My breathing intensified as I could feel my heart pounding throughout my body from head to toe. My cock was absolutely aching. I started to pinch and squeeze my nipples harder as the feelings grew more intense. I started moaning and groaning longer and louder with every intense stroke of the helix deep inside my ass.
Now, my entire body was starting to shake and shimmy all over the place. the feelings were so intense and beautiful.
Finally, the music had reached it final crescendo and I had reached the promised land. My cock was still quivering from the intense dry O I had. I cleaned off the precum on the head and slowly massaged along the shaft. I needed more.
I removed the helix and pulled out a 8" x 1.5" dildo and lubed it up.
I placed it's base on the edge of the bed and faced the dresser mirror as I straddled myself over it. I grabbed the base with one hand with the other helped to guide it in my hungry ass. I got the "head" in and let my body adjust to it before going in deeper. I let go of it and slowly slid it deeper within me. I watched as it slowly disappeared into my ass. I placed my hands on my knees as I started to glide up and down,and side to side. I started to do some contractions as head hit my prostate. This was entirely pleasurable, as I started grind away faster and faster. The deeper I went, the more precum started to release.
I was able to come right off it and then slam my ass down to the base driving myself hotter and hotter with every stroke. I started to twist and pinch my right nipple with my left hand as I ran my fingers around and underneath the head to try to produce more precum. A spurt of precum released. I globbed it up and licked my fingers clean.
I started to stroke my cock harder and faster as I did tight circles with my hips around the dildo.
I couldn't take it anymore. I used my left hand to rub my p-spot and balls as I feverishly rubbed my cock with my right.
I watched myself as I finally had spew a massive load of cum onto the towel on the floor beneath me. Cum was dripping off my hand and from my cock as I headed for the shower…
AHHHHH!!! Read more »

Drifting through deeper levels of relaxation

I have been getting back into Anna Coy's Breathe for the Health of It mp3 series. She guides you down through the body as you consciously breathe into different parts of your body and relax your muscles. It's very soothing and I often fall asleep and wake up energized and renewed.

A couple of times now I have slipped briefly into a deeper trance or perhaps sleep but have been woken up by my entire pelvic and leg region vibrating and shaking uncontrollably. It feels like a sweet release of energy that has been locked up. It only lasts for a few seconds. It wakes me up and it doesn't come back in waves like so many of you experience in your super )active( O's. It reminds me of when I would get cranial-sacral massage therapy done and my muscles would shake randomly as trauma/energy was released from the muscles.

Has anyone else experienced this shaking occurring right as you descend into a deeper relaxation or sleep. I am aware of the jolts that can happen as the body prepares for sleep, but this is much more intense. I feel like my body hits the reset button and my energy is re-balanced.

The human body is such an amazing creation!

~NeurO

Final Thoughts of Peridise

For those that have been following my progress, I apologize for not taking care of this sooner. I had finished up my Peridise training about a month ago, and haven't really used it much since then. However, I figured now might be the best time to go over my usual training sessions with these wonderful little training tools.

For the most part, I would insert anywhere from the moment I get home (between 6-7pm) to about an hour before bedtime. On the days I insert upon getting home, I'll give myself a short half-hour to an hour session in bed or on the couch, just to get the blood flowing. This is always the same regimen, with 5-10 minutes of relaxation, followed by 20 minutes light exercise (inhale and contract, exhale and relax). If it goes to an hour, then I'll try and maintain medium contractions (minimum 50%) for as long as possible (usually between 1-3 minutes per) while keeping the rest of my body relaxed. These are straight PC contractions, mind you, as I don't involve any other muscles until I can really focus on not only the sensations, but also the muscular fatigue. Read more »

Pleased that progress is resumed

For the last few weeks sessions have been quite low key and I seemed to have reached a bit of a plateau, if you define progress as an upward journey. I was beginning to get a bit despondent, wondering whether I ought to get another model to try and move things on. Last night I decided to have a session, just for practice;it was several days since the last one which was pretty unproductive. No session produced a complete failure; there was always some movement and sensations but only weak waves of pleasure.
When I prepared for the session last night I determined that I was inserting the MGX to keep my prostate on its toes and would just limit the session to an hour for practice with no expectation of any great event.
I also decided that I would lie on my back with a pillow under my lower back to keep the MCX handle free of any surface contact. For most of the latest sessions I had positioned myself on my right side with one leg straight and the other bent up to my stomach. I was convinced that the side position was not allowing me to concentrate intently enough on the sensations and movement in my anus and prostate area and even hindered the contact with the perinium.
Within ten minutes of starting the session I felt movement of the device and also started to feel pleasure sensations. There followed mild orgasms and a feeling of positive development that were leading to something. At this point I felt quite content that I was back on a path of progress and I was wrong to get despondent.
After an hour and a half of good sensations and at the end of a nice orgasm there was a tingle right in the centre of my anus which started building and seemed to be climbing upwards externally but giving me feeling internally. The image is confusing but that is how it felt to me. The sensations were incredible and I wondered how far upwards it was going to take me and how intense the feelings were going to get. I was gasping at this point and breathing very heavily and quietly moaning.Momentarily as things were going upwards I almost felt as if I was going to lose conciousness.
After that there were some further nice waves of orgasm but nothing on that scale. I decided to end the session feeling very pleased to have obviously made progress with an intensity of sensation unlike anything previous.
I am not going to claim to have had a super O but I certainly feel I am on the path to that zone.
I am now convinced that lying on my back is the best position for me and that no expectation is vital to a positive session.I have to beware even of subconcious expectations! I am in the "do nothing" school of thought other than diaphragm breathing at the beginning until things get going; Then just lying relaxed and concentrating intensely on the sensations in the pelvic area and being aware of odd sensations in other parts of the body. For example my lower lip twitches when I am about to start mini "O's. Before the major orgasm started I had a massive tingling in my right thigh.
I have managed to stop myself from overdoing the activity and to have a day gap before the next session and have used writing this blog as sublimation!
Its a wonderful journey!
Taffy

I treated myself to the beginner Peredise set… amazing!

I ordered myself a Peridise set about a month ago. I've only had chance to properly use it twice due to work commitments but both times I've used the set it has felt AMAZING.

I read that some people weren't stimulated by the Peridise at first, and that it took a little bit of getting used to so I wasn't expecting anything the first time I tried it out.

I pre-lubed and relaxed myself, lubed up the larger of the four models and popped it in. Just the tip. I followed the instructions and contracted to pull the Peridise in to myself. I was greeted by a lovely feeling in my anal canal. I continued these contractions maybe ten or so times until I was sure the device was properly inserted.

I relaxed myself and started deep breathing. I was greeted by more of these pleasurable feelings in my anus. It was working for me! It made me really happy. I relaxed myself further and enjoyed these feelings. Pretty soon my legs started to vibrate, and my anus started to twitch. It felt so so good. My PC muscle was contracting all by itself and I kept having short subtle bursts of pleasure in my anal canal. The peridise was also 'tickling' the outside of my anus and this felt great too. I ran out of time so I had to stop the session, but I'm pretty sure I found my new favourite toy… I didn't even have chance to switch to one of the smaller models I was enjoying it so much. Read more »