Tag: Relaxation

Is breathing key to reaching the super o?

Today I had about a 90 minute session. The first 70 minutes did feel good, but I didn’t get any involuntarily and I got really close to a HFWO (not my goal). I didn’t really do anything but just laid there and relaxed. The last 5-10 minutes, I decided to try deep valley breathing. I started getting involuntaries, my body started shaking a bit and a warm buzz started to spread over my entire body. Unfortunately, I had to stop shortly, so I didn’t get to explore more.

In the 5+ years I’ve been using the Aneros, I’ve never tried the deep breathing during…have I been basically shooting myself in the foot?

My first ever Aneros Experience & some questions

First I will start off by saying I used the Aneros Helix Syn. I listened to an audio revolving around relaxing and just letting my body go with the flow. Never tried to stimulate prostate before or do anything of the nature that involved the anus.

I laid there for about 20 minutes just relaxing, then randomly boom. Waves of please started to go through my body, I started having contractions like I was orgasming, extremely powerful contractions. My body was spasming like crazy and I gave up all control. It lasted what felt like a few minutes, I was sure that I had ejaculated but I looked down and there was nothing at all. my body started to calm down, and this process repeated about 4 times each much stronger and longer than the last before I finally ended up having my first hands free orgasm. Laid there for about 15 minutes with my mind in shambles deep breathing trying to recover from what just happened.

I went in expecting nothing and had a wild experience, as most things I’ve read on here say that you either “use it or lose it” or “you have to train to achieve these things”. I want to know if these sound normal for a first time user or am I really just breaching the surface of what the Aneros can do.

Reach for the Floor! (or, An Uncommon Path to Awakening the Prostate) Part II (Cross posted from r/prostateplay

Part II – The Equipment

I have learned what types of pleasure my ass likes, and what types it loves. I have figured out through trial and error which types of toys work for me. And trial and error is really the only way to discover your toy preferences. Here are some concise reviews of the notable items in my toy drawer to help you in choosing your toys.

**Aneros Helix Trident** – This is a common Aneros to start with. The length and diameter of the Helix is a good ‘average’ and should give you some idea of what toys you may prefer based on your prostate’s location. The springiness of the Trident model helps with locating the toy on my prostate once I got better muscle control. Like most Aneros, this toy can quickly become uncomfortable to sit on for me but I can walk in it for miles. As in a 6 mile hike on uneven trails. Solid toy, would recommend if you are willing to work at it. Easy to insert and easy to clean.

**Aneros Eupho** – Thinner, longer, and more specific than the Helix. As is often commented, this toy is all about the delicate and gentle touch. This is a twitchy precision instrument and required patience for me to learn how to move this toy without overpowering it. I have days when I simply am not relaxed enough to use this toy effectively. The Eupho basically requires you to have excellent muscle tone and control for best results. Typically this is used for a gentle warm up or a long gentle meditative session. Read more »

Clamping

Hi there i am a novice at this 3 months experience,no momentous moments yet but plenty of pleasure,i have a question ,once i get the involuntries going i experience a pulling in/ Clamping of the Aneros which can be a touch uncomfortable ,is this normal and do you relax your hold on the Aneros or let it have it’s way.?

Newbie questions about use outside of arousal.

Context: I’m a mid 20’s hetero male with a very open mind. I do enjoy anal, but never reached more than leaking on occasions (and orgasms via penis stimulation) with dildos/vibrator. Got the Helix Syn two or three weeks ago on a whim after finding a video on the progasm ice in use (you know the one). I read up on most information available on the wiki, forum, and here before starting my journey. This helped a LOT. I love it! Decided to stop my almost daily penile masturbation. I think I’m at “Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions” going by the listed Milestones.

Question(s):

I understand this is not a butt plug, but would it be counter productive to have it inside when not actively concentrating on being aroused? As stated before I have pleasure and “cravings” for it outside of sessions (while at computer, video games, and watching TV. ie relaxing moments)

Is it bad if I fall asleep with it in?

What would be some expected discomforts to look out for?

First Prostate Orgasm!

I have had an aneros for a little over 3 months and I just had a 10 minute orgasm last night. Its so hard to explain until its happened, but the closest sensation would be the feeling you get right before you ejaculate, except way more intense. Almost like a constant flowing electricity all throughout your genitals and even the rest of your body becomes hypersensitive.

My keys to success were arousal. I took several days off from any masturbation, watched about 10 minutes of porn, and then inserted device and laid on my back, legs up. I didnt have to any fancy kegel pattern, I pretty much just had to be super aroused and relaxed. I smoked some really good cannabis beforehand.

Within a few minutes, I was in pure ecstasy. I was breathing heavily, moaning and was full of warmth. I had an erection the whole time. It lasted about 10 minutes before my AC and fan kicked on which made me feel like I was freezing. I had to get up and turn it off. I laid around for another 20ish minutes before getting super tired (had been up all day long). I wasn’t able to get back to that point but I needed to go to bed anyways. Total session maybe 40 minutes total.

Just got to chain multiples together now but HOLY SHIT. Mindblown!

Super-O

Reeling right now, barely able to think or type. For a few hours, I definitely did almost nothing except for scream into my pillow.

Maximus trident. I was on my back l relaxing and really enjoying things. Then I let one leg fall to the side but kept the other up which was very unsual for me. That quickly became an unstable yet stable (weird right) realm of feeling the head of the maximus ram into and over my ultra-sensitive prostate. I actually heard loud squirting noises during my nonstop orgasms. A large amount of fluid was found inside the condom. It tasted much stronger and better than normal prostate orgasms. It was much thicker and a little cloudy.

Edible THC oil and occasional use of a nicotine e-cigarette really amplified things. After the hours of orgasms, my vision was a bit… weird. In like a trippy way. I just realized may be due to me clenching my eyelids so tightly as I orgasmed repeatedly.

Important factors:

Hadn’t cum in over a week; this significantly improved physical sensation and also sound while having prostate orgasms that lead to the super-0. Being able to hear prostate fluid spurt out of my penis was a huge turn-on and only made me cum harder. Read more »

Rotating Prostate Massagers?

I have been using aneros (various models) for 8 years.

I never had super O but had some dry os although they’re super rare for me. I suspect my low sex drive is the reason why most of the time nothing happens to me (I use the do nothing method almost every time).

I have hfwos occasionally when things get intense (paradoxically intense many times doesn’t necessarily mean pleasurable). I have premature ejaculation and I think even with the penis not being touched it may have an impact here.

I also have the njoy pure wand and I don’t get much from it, I feel the contact with the prostate but it’s not very pleasurable. I had a lot more success with aneros (I don’t know why).

So I’ve been thinking that maybe a more proactive (but relaxing) toy could help, something like those rotating head’s prostate massagers. I don’t think they will be successful than the aneros but I think I’ll try.

My question is if any of you uses / used this rotating toys what kind of orgasms do you get from it? (Dry or Wet)

And if you tried different models what is your favourite?

I am looking to get dry os more frequently but if it is mainly to get wet orgasms then it doesn’t interest me much (despite the pleasure of wet prostate stimulation orgasms).

Everyone’s Body Is Different

That’s all I came to say.

I’ve spent a few months in this sub and have noticed quite a bit of toxic “THIS IS THE WAY TO DO IT NOT THAT WAY YOU IDIOT” energy so I came to just add some energy in the other direction.

Everyone experiences feelings and sensations differently. What might be someone’s “P-wave” might be your “Super-O” and you can call it whatever the fuck you want.

I just am a human who likes sex and enjoys seeing others enjoy sex and their bodies in ways that sometimes weren’t prescribed to us which can be very difficult and feel vulnerable for some. Don’t let what might already be a sensitive area or activity for you be ruined by a bunch of anecdotes from people who like to think of themselves as the Lewis and Clarks of butt play.

You are exploring your butt like many men have done before you for generations. It’s normal. We just don’t talk about it a lot. I would just say breathe, relax, and explore. Find what feels good for you.

Finally I Have Some Intense Feeling, No Super-O yet

I have been in prostate play for about 2 years now. Having Aneros for 1 year already.

So last weekend, my parents got out of town for three days. I’m preparing for this moment, no wanking 1 week prior.

On the first day I spend about 10 hours on session with my Helix Trident. Most of the time I just lay back listening to erotic hypnosis (KinkyShibby). Sometimes I fell asleep. And resting in between, either to pee or to eat. Not much is happening, sometime I feel the pleasure, most of the time didn’t. But I just keep nudging the aneros against my prostate.

Oh, I made a fault on the first day. I kinda plug in carelessly, so it hit my hemorrhage and that really stings when I plug in and plug out when I want to re-lube. And it just irritate.

After the first day, I can feel my prostate definitely swollen up.

On Second day, I do another 10 hours session. On the last session, I listened to Hypnaerosession first track. I already listened it multiple times in the past with not much success. This time I try to really relax, let go, give in, and follow the given instruction.

OMG, this time it works. When the recording start telling that I feel pleasure, I definitely feeling it. And it grows into euphoria, good intense feeling. I am moaning like a bitch, I didn’t even care anymore, I just moan in ecstasy. My dick just becomes harder and harder as it can. Read more »