I got the MGX a few days ago. I have done prostate massages on myself with toys for a few years already. I have never had a prostate orgasm but loads of prostate fluid leaking out most of the time.
Anyway i wanted to try an aneros massager.
I tried it Saturday for an hour an a half no orgasm but felt nice. This afternoon i was tired and relaxed and thought i would lie in bed for an hour or two and put the mgx in to get accustomed to the feeling without any expectations, it felt good. I did some contractions while i was lying on my side. It felt really good after half an hour i was no longer tired but very aroused by the sensations. I held each contraction for about ten seconds. I felt heat waves from inside flooding my body
I strarted shaking felt really weak i was shaking like a porn acrice who is squirting i felt like i was was about to explode but had no erection. This feeling died down without any ejaculation. This happened about four times each time it was like a minute long. Ieach time hotter and shakier than one before.
I wanted to cum old school but want to seperate wet cumming from the aneros orgasm.
I dont know if what felt was an orgasm (s) but it felt amazing. I know there should de a long journey. I am not trying to rush things. I removed the mgx and finished old school with a nice wet orgasm.
Tag: Relaxation
In my session tonight I had 2 powerful involuntary contractions.
I have had a few good sessions where i really fell the nerves in my tailbone and anus light on fire. Tonight I really did not get much of that(believe i was too tired) but, at some point during my session my whole pelvic floor contracted very forcefully and pulled the Aneros in deep. It honestly scared me.
Is this normal? Should i learn to relax into it or is it something that i need to learn to suppress?
Not Hitting the Spot
Not entirely new to prostate play (wife has been helping with manual stimulation for the past few months). I wanted to see what Aneros was all about, so I ordered a Progasm Jr. I thought the shaped looked like what I wanted. It arrived yesterday and I was excited to give it a go.
Inserted and waited for the magic to begin. I was sitting on the couch relaxed and trying to just experience the sensations. Played with varying muscle contractions.
After an hour or two, I can honestly say it is not really hitting my P-spot. I did find that I can push/pull the P Tab down a half inch or so and get it in the right place, so I think it is just a bit too deep for my anatomy.
I haven’t tried other positions, but I was really hoping for the hands-free pleasure that I have been reading about.
Am I missing something?
I GIVE UP
I got my aneros helix syn trident a bit less than a week ago, so far I’ve had 4 sessions, all of them were the ‘Do nothing’ technique that lasted more than at least 2 hours. All my sessions were a failure and had to end it up using my hand to masturbate, orgasm and ejaculate. After each session my body got more and more familiar with aneros inside me but I still couldn’t tell if it hitted my prostate or not, but my orgasm and ejaculations felt better and stronger so it had to touch my prostate. The only time I was certain I could feel was when I ejaculate. Eventually I gave it a rest and kept it away for a couple if days. Now on the next night of my 5th session, I was in a very good and relaxed mood, before I slept I thought I might give it another try. I was on my side lower leg straight upper leg up to my stomach. Before minutes nothing amazing happened I was just relaxing and paying attention to my whole body. I then started to feel the aneros pressuring the prostate which faded faded gradually in 8 seconds. This feeling occured about 12 times in the span of 40 minutes. The next 10 minutes were the same thing but accompanied by warmth all over my body which grew warmer and warmer as my heart starts pounding harder and harder. It feels like the aneros was literally attached to my anus and can now feel it without losing it. I just let it happened whilst keeping my composure even though I felt like something big was coming up as my feelings grew intense. I took 2 very deep breaths that i held for 8 seconds each. The next feeling was something I’ve never felt before, I felt like cumming and the aneros pressed on my prostate harder than ever before, I felt like cumming so I intentionally use about 5 to 10% of my sphincter muscle to rub my prostate, my cock was throbbing like hell this intense feeling happened only 4 times in a span of less than 1 minute. I couldn’t feel anything anymore for the next hour so I gave it a stop and ended my session again by masturbating. I don’t know if I experience mini P wave or something like that but that feeling was better than masturbating it didn’t even compare. Now I don’t feel the need to achieve super O, I give up, that feeling was enough and I’m grateful for it. I learned 4 important things.
Constant PC muscles flex is showing some results…
Hi. Until my last session, my prostate play with the Aneros was always being performed in one of this two ways: a) keeping my PC and anal muscles totally relaxed, or b) clenching and releasing intermittently, with a rather fast pace.
Then, user u/shavedyng told me, on this same subreddit, a third approach to prostate play. Flexing my PC muscles just a bit, and holding them for several minutes. Then releasing (breathing) and again, flexing them at 10% and holding it.
A couple of days ago, I did it this way. At least, I tried. First I waited until I was really horny, and then I inserted the Aneros in my butt. To be honest, I wasn’t able to calibrate the contraction at 5 or 10% and I think I was flexing the muscles at 30-40%, but still I tried my best to not clench heavily like I used to do.
Then, I waited… After 20 or 30 minutes, I started to feel good, better than other times, and for just a few seconds I felt, for the first time in my life (after years of prostate play), how my anal muscles started to contract rhythmically by themselves. The involuntary movements. I couldn’t believe it was happening… but I lost my focus and after 3 involuntary contractions, it stopped.
This brought a bit of hope to my journey, honestly. Whenever I read people talking about those involuntary contractions I honestly couldn’t believe it. Now I know it is real, the only question is how long they can last…
Trying To Put It All Together: Where To From Here?
Months ago I brute-forced my way into my first prostate orgasm by using a vibrator externally along with my Helix Syn inserted, which then turned into my first full session of multiple orgasms. It was amazing. Next day I was even able to have prostate orgasms during PIV. Since then though, I went back to basics in order to try and learn how to get there *without* being so rough. I feel like I’m making progress but I can’t seem to put everything together. I have a bunch of notes that I’ve been keeping and hopefully it will help when pointing me in the right direction.
**Sensations I’m Feeling:**
*Shaking/Shivering*: Happens often, much in the lower body and sometimes in my torso. Sometimes feel like something is going to happen, but it just can’t quite get there.
*Involuntaries*: I’ll get a few seconds of feeling something like a pulse inside. Other times I get a sudden PANG that feels really nice.
*P-wave*: If I relax enough, I can get that pang of pleasure to stick around for a few seconds before it dissipates.
*Certain Contact*: Definitely have times where I feel like the Helix is sitting right where it needs to.
*A-less*: Usually I’ll leave the toy in overnight. When I wake up in the morning I’ll take it out, and typically I can get small yet nice sensations for an hour or two afterwards. Pretty consistent.
All said and done, I just can’t get everything together before I lose concentration/relaxation!
SPINNING OUT?
Ok so iv ben using the aneros syn and the aneros eupho trident models for the past four weeks and not getting much result. Last night i tried a different approach and decided i would try and meditate while using the eupho. As i was concentrating i did notice that what i was feeling was subtle but good. In that deep relaxed state i was in i suddenly got the sense i was floating on a cloud and didn’t feel like i was grounded. And that’s when the spinning sensation started. It was very violent feeling and kinda scary. It felt lile my body was rapidly spinning backwards through the air changing directions and constantly falling. I thought i was gonna have a brain anurysm or something and stopped feeling a little nausiated. I was wondering if anyone else has had this experience? Is this a normal to exoerience on the journey?
How do you deal with the urge to clench?
When things start feeling good I have a very natural urge to clench my PC muscles and hold that clench. This is what normally happens during penile stimulation, but it seems to lead nowhere with the aneros. Do you guys just fight this urge and try to stay relaxed?
Am I too short to play with aneros?
I recently bought aneros helix syn trident and had around 4 sessions. It was ok, I wouldn’t really describe as “fun” nor pleasurable, am I doing something wrong? I mostly didn’t feel anything so I was wondering if my height was the issue, you see, as an unusually short guy who is only 5’4″. It does feel good and I’ve started to get familiar with feeling my anus but not as fun. IDK man all my sessions I relaxed, breathing deeply and pay attention to small good feeling sensations, it does happen from time to time. Should I give up and try another product instead?
After a few years, MASSIVE success! I’m in heaven.
I don’t even know where to begin. I can’t even think I’m in so much bliss. I guess a quick intro, yeah? It’ll be a long read sorry boys but MY GOD I’M SO HAPPY!
So I (28M) live together with my girlfriend (25F) who is super supportive of my Aneros hobby, and always loves to hear how my sessions go. She’s a big sleeper, normally about 9 hours to my 6.5, and goes to bed a bit later than me, so I got time when I’m up to it. Well yesterday we got a little frisky before sleep but nothing came of it, until I slept and had one helluva dream. Woke up early from it feeling already GREAT! Like, warmth everywhere. My god. I wanted a session, more strongly than I ever have. I got up to the restroom and cleaned up. All lights were green, but I decided to take a nice quick shower to relax myself a bit as to not rush into things.
So, I got into bed, inserted my ace in the hole (heh heh), the Helix Trident, and just chilled. Now, my current “strategy” I use is the Try Not to Orgasm method, though maybe a bit of a weird one. So when the Aneros makes me feel good, I think to myself, “Oh no, I can’t let it make me feel any better or I might wake my GF up!” My brain loves this, and let’s my body submit more to the pleasure. Good old self-reverse-psychology I guess lol. So, I’m there, in bed, enjoying the sensations it causes me with my weird process, and then I start to let my mind drift off. Normally this is where I call it for the day since I start to lose horniness, but not today, no. This is where it gets interesting.