Some updates since my last post a long time ago.
4/18 I reached my first nipple stimulation only orgasm.
Tag: Relaxation
new toys
New toys in my box.
I’ve been finding my sessions in the last few weeks to be lacking something. I’m unsure if it is related to the fact that I have a new job or the fact that I’m now working 2nd shift. On the flip side of this I now have a few hours of “ME TIME” that doesn’t involve just being in the shower.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’ve not had just duds, although there has been some, but for the most part my sessions have been just lack luster. Perhaps it’s the fact that since I now have me time time I’m pushing myself to reach the previously acquired pinical levels, or the fact that I’m not used to having me time and I’m unable to let go?, or maybe my body is still getting used to a new normal.
Lately during my sessions I’ve been spending more time being active performing clenching (kegels) trying to increase sensations even though it never got me very far in the beginning, thus I adopted the do nothing approach that has given me several super o’s. So in review of these findings I feel that I need more pressure on my prostate but still retain the do nothing approach. So I purchased the NJOY Pfun Plug. I have used this a hand full of times. What a wonderful piece of kit this is. So smooth and shiny, and incredibly heavy. The first time I went to join with this I was concerned I would have problems getting it in as it is larger than the progasm jr, but because of the shape it slid in so easily. I absolutely adore the cold of the steel at room temp once fully inserted. But all this comes at a price. Because the shaft is not a rapid taper and the fact that it is 3/4# in weight, this thing is almost impossible to keep in when standing. Now to the meaty part.
Can we lose the magic?
I’ve started the journey there is about 3 months. The beginning was very encouraging, I started to have super pleasant feelings after 3 sessions.
I got to the point where I had amazing, super sweet, very long (like 3 to 5 min) orgasms every sessions. I don’t know if it’s what you guys refer as a super O but anyway I was very happy with it. I tried things like thrusting and touching very slowly my cock and I got some of the best penile orgasms of my life (like crying intense).
The things is all sensations started to fade away at a point where each sessions were less intense than the one before. I’ve read forums and all and learned that thrusting, touching my cock and watching porn could be detrimental. So I stop all of this and tried techniques like the relaxing a lot and “do nothing”, I tried to lower my expectations and enjoying the present moment. It is most of the time kind of enjoyable, I have involuntary contractions and trembling very quickly, but nothing comparable to what I had before and I feel quite frustrated.
Did anybody go through a similar situation? If so, how did you get the magic back?
“It’s All For Prostate Health!”
[This blog was inspired by @Lth0ms0n, thanks!]
Introduction
I had read an interesting question on the Forum from @Lth0ms0n this morning, having to do with involuntaries. What are they? And that got me interested and intrigued. So the next thing I know, I am prepping for a ‘therapeutic’ session with the HIH 950. Here are the details……
Session
I am currently in Day 9 of SR with no hint of blue balls (yet). I am also into Day 49 of NoFap ®. I’ve only had an occasional ejaculation, about every 10 days to control my blue balls. Other than that, no masturbation for me, period. And no porn, ever again. But I still need to keep my prostate healthy. So this morning, I got ready for a nice session with the 950. I was already wearing my Mueller cup to prevent an unintentional ejaculation; it worked. I lubed-up with SSG not only the massager but my opening as well (it made a big difference!)
I started-out on my side. Before too long, while just relaxing and performing the ‘do-nothing’ technique, I began to feel a ‘twitch’ deep-down in my prostate. No, it did not feel like a fatigued-muscle spasm since I had just started the session. But it was something I just could not control. Around the same time, I remember, I had this erection develop as well as an uncontrollable whole-body ‘shudder’, almost like a jolt of electricity running all through me. Let’s not mince words here; these actions were ENTIRELY out of my control! And that IMHO is the essence of involuntaries—-by definition*, you do NOT CONTROL them! Just as you are ‘forced’ to excrete waste by involuntary muscular contractions in your colon, you are likewise ‘forced’ to experience the nuanced ‘pleasures’ of a prostate massage.
Super-Os on a plane
I posted an earlier thread about me having a session where the intensity ramped up so much it made me feel queasy. This same day I was scheduled to travel that evening.
Full disclosure…I did take 10mg of THC one hour before my flight. The flight was only 40 mins.
So I’m sitting in the airport quite relaxed and I start to get the but buzz. Nothing crazy but enough to get me going. For the last 30 mins before boarding I stood up…basically this stopped most of my sensations. Then I boarded and sat down.
Aless kicked in and we hadnt even pushed back yet and I was having a full blown super-o right there next to someone (he was absorbed in some book on his ipad). We start to taxi to take off and as the engines are revving up so is the super-O. I was soooo focused on the sensation it felt like heaven. The plane revs up more and we start the takeoff sequence and I kid you not its like my super-O was affected by the whole takeoff sequence. I dont know if it was the pressure change on my body but it was so exquisite i didnt care I was in the middle of 100+ people and for someone that doesnt leak I felt a wet spot. I would have had zero issues cumming all over myself if it had happened. The entire flight was a blur and just when I thought the best was there we started our descent and a whole other intense feeling washed over me as we touched down.
Needs help
I have been using Aneros products for about two or three years.
Used relaxation, breathing, PC contraction, listening to erotic sounds, no feeling after 2 hourss.
Later,I started playing with the nipples, and the lower part of the body felt a little tickling.
After a long time, I didn’t anything feel and back to traditional ejaculation end.
Later used to watch porn videos,slowly there will be a feeling of sexual excitement,Aneros also continues to PC contraction and relax.
I have the feeling of climax before ejaculation,then start playing nipples.
The climax before ejaculation continues to increase and is very comfortable.
I will continue to speed up the PC contraction and relax Aneros,Keep the feeling of comfort.
Js this the prostate orgasm?
“What’s In My PMO Kit?”
Scenario
I seem to have settled-in to a nice, relaxing sexual routine. This routine does not include any Porn, Masturbation or self-pleasured Orgasm. It can occasionally include an ejaculation to relieve my blue-balls. I now regularly practice semen retention (SR) and usually go about 10 days in-between ejaculations.
I experience some night-time erections (NPTs) now quite regularly. One this morning was quite strong (about 35-40 minutes) and when it ended, I put-on my Mueller cup because it just feels good. Also, while wearing it, I am prevented from masturbation and that is a key component of no PMO. So, that leads me back to my blog title: What’s In My PMO Kit? I ask this not necessarily as a list of kit contents, but rather as a guideline, a credo if-you-will about the current path on which I find myself.
Kit Contents
Of course, my PMO kit would not be complete without some basics: a cup jockstrap or two, a box of tissues for cleaning-up an eventual wet dream and a prostate massager & lube for an occasional session. My sessions now are rather sparse (possibly one every 2 weeks or more frequently if I feel the need. Anything else in the kit? No, that seems about it!
Long time listener, first time caller
So I’ve been a user for a long time, with mixed results. When I first started out, I hadn’t learned that brute force contractions did not lead one to the path of the SO or anything even near that. Instead, I’d basically wear my MGX or Helix and masturbate furiously while my ass enjoyed a little tickle. I then gave up, took a hot lover with a huge cock and let him work his magic on me instead. I hadn’t yet figured out that Aneros was a great complement to a sex life, not a replacement.
Fast forward to now. I’m older, hopefully wiser but still struggle with my journey. For a while it was HFWO because I was jerking around too much in ecstasy, then it was not being able to relax, then focusing too much, etc. Most recently I’ve taken up smoking pot and it’s had the best results yet with my Maximus as a guide. I’ve learned that a little pot, plus some focus on just riding the wave has really helped me reach a good place where I have some amazing waves of pleasure, dry Os, etc. Eupho has also been a good tool. I’ve learned to love my body, my ass, etc.
I guess what I’m getting at here is that it just takes a lot of patience and kindness to one’s self. As cliched as it sounds, it really is about the journey, not the destination.
Musings and Tempo
Over the last 5 weeks away, I’ve been travelling overseas and, during that time, along the Aneros road, learning about my different friends, Helix, Maximus and MGX. Eupho got to hold the fort at home.
It’s been a mind blowing road so far and although I dabled with Tantra, some 30 years ago, I would have liked to have discovered the Aneros ‘training wheels’, which have rewired me in an amazing way.
Seeing my wife for the first time in 5 weeks, our sex was pretty magical. I reaquainted myself with the Eupho while she was out in the morning and I found new pleasures within minutes, which set me up with that familiar buzz all day long. I had bought my wife a new Lelo wand, so in the afternoon we got to try that out. Apart from the fun that generated, I also found that my orgasms were more intense and I was able to last longer before ejaculation. In addition, I had a beautiful dry-O with my wife lightly tonguing my frenulum. What was most apparent was that the ability to relax into the sensations made the feelings far more intense and I could understand that the mental connection with my wife is a major factor in feeling. Before, it was always more physical.
latest encounter with Miss Helix
So I got my new cock ring in. That 1/8″ in diameter made all the difference. It is still small enough to keep my cock chubbed up some, my balls pushed up and out for a wonderful presentation but large enough to keep from getting cock locked when fully engorged and still helps to maintain that throbbing sensation. A side benefit I found is when I stack them the new one pushes out the smaller one enough to also keep from getting cock locked. I adore the way it feels. They are so comfortable that I forget I’m wearing them till I see, read or think of something that excites me and my cock comes to life with a wonderful tingle as the rings tug on the skin of my perineum when my cock grows. I can see myself wearing these all the time but most likely won’t wear stacked as the pleasurable sensation can be distracting and I must pay attention at my new job.