Round 2 – the pair of us

X came home that evening and was taken aback by what was waiting on the kitchen table. 'What's that?' he asked. 'A sex toy…you'll see' I told him.

We had a first go that night. We had been feeling romantic and were getting up to some frisky fun in the bedroom. In the middle of a blowjob session I reached over and introduced X to the Aneros.

One of the things I notice when reading entries on this site is how often guys treat this as a private thing they do on their own. Fair enough not all guys out there have a partner, but many guys who do have a partner don't seem keen on having a session with that person. Plenty of times it even sounds like they are trying to hide what they are doing.

However, I knew from experience X liked prostate massage (but only before with a finger) and I was keen to see his reaction. X had no concept of the Super-O. I had not showed him any of the videos from Xtube or entries on this site. He seemed a bit nonplussed and wanted to know 'how it worked'. I told him to try to suck it in to himself, but I think like me he wasn't comfortable with the K-tab jabbing him.

First impressions

As an introduction, I'm a gay man in my mid-30s. I am in a committed relationship with my partner (X) and we have been very happy together (and sexually active) for 10 years now.

As some straights often ask, 'Which is one of you is The Man?'. Well, sometime the stereotypes are true. In our case, X is a total bottom. He has experimented maybe 3 or 4 times over the past decade with being 'on top' but much prefers being on the receiving end. As for me, I am very happy in the active role and me being on top is our favourite way of having fun.

But it was not always so. The first time I bottomed (many moons ago), I didn't like it that much. The second time, I said to myself 'never again'. The third time, things fell into place so to speak. However, with my partner being neary 100% passive my back passage has been gathering cobwebs!

I can't recall where I first came across the Aneros and the 'Super O' phenomenon. I think it started with a video on Xtube which led me to this site and it wasn't long before I had placed my order. We have a couple toys in the wardrobe, but this looked unique and sounded the business.

de ja vu

Another session, Had some good feelings with it. Went into the session expecting nothing and was not disappointed when I was done. I am just going to be patient and keep going. I am interested in the Slightest Touch device I have read about in the forum. this hobby is getting kinda expensive. however My buddy's bass boat cost him thousands and if he catches the big one he just smells like a fish. If I catch the super O I get an out of body experience and the perception that I understand the inner workings of the universe or something like that. Ha ha ha climbing the mountains of Tibet and studying for years under moody Monks is for chumps! I'm gonna reach nirvana in my mom and dad's basement watching porn with a piece of plastic up my butt!

Success!

Great advice acakactinum! You just helped me get my first super-O! (I think)

I was on my side with knees up at my chest and I needed to stretch my legs out a little bit. So, I crossed my legs as I straightened them out and got a really nice sensation from this position. With my legs still stretched out straight and crossed I thought back to your post, I was thinking; "Wasn't that guy going on about something to do with clenching your thighs?" Literally 5 seconds later I get an extreme response and get the feedback loop in overdrive. I started shaking like crazy, my head going back and forth along the pillow and my legs still crossed and straight just moved back and forth just keeping my thighs clenched. It only last about 10 seconds but it was intense! I'm getting the shakes just thinking about it now. I'm going to have to try this again with something to tie around my thighs to get it to last longer next time.

ed's journey

i've been having sessions everyday and sometimes more than one session a day and achieving involuntary spasms almost immediately–i bounce, wiggle and rock, waving my legs and doing whatever it takes to feel that rubbing feeling on my prostate that we all like to feel–unfortunately i have not been able to get to that second super o that i'm chasing–nevertheless it feels good–last night i got a late call from overseas and when i went back to bed just before 2 am i got so much action in my prostate and involuntary quivering in my legs etc that it was unbelievable–i have not had this happen without the aneros in since i had my reaction to a medication that gave me a severe case of hives–this was the second episode since then–i used to have this happen while sitting around or when bouncing on an automobile seat–i believe it is a good sign–nevertheless it did not translate to a super o today, but i had a nice long ride–i try not to lead too much but when the feelings come on me it makes me rock and bounce, etc and this is not totally randon but directed by me–i always hope my body will take over and leave me in the dust but not so far

Another try!

I don't know what part of use lots of lube repeated throughout the forums and the directions on the device itself I failed to understand. I used what I felt at the time was way too much lube and was amazed at the movement in the device. It came alive. Big change!!

However! NO super O during this session. (I'm setting my goals too high too quick I'm sure)

I do want to include my delight with the Peridise. This little thing is maddening! I can't explain the feeling and do it justice. It is as if it creates an itch that you cannot satisfy, but the itch itself is so satisfying. I could just stay on this slow burn all day. Wow.

Wooo!

My experimentation with having a session on my side was a success!

Things didn't start out so well and I was having difficulty concentrating on the helix making contact with my prostate. When I was on all 4's I noticed that the helix moved more compared to other positions and I thought that lying on my side it would mean less stimulation. Well after some practice I found it just requires a little more concentration to realize there is plenty of stimulation for the prostate!

It took more time but with some effort I was having mini-O's again on my side, and since I was already lying down I was able to concentrate more on the feelings it generated rather than concentrating on staying upright like before. I was also able to stay shaking for longer periods of time than before, as in minutes vs seconds.

It was quite different from my previous experiences on all 4's because before I only started the shaking when I felt the helix moving on its own quite noticeably whereas on the side it felt as if the helix wasn't moving at all, but I was shaking more drastically than before.

I also think I may have come close to a super-o.

ed's journey

had a very enjoyable session with various models–was interrupted once by phone call but able to get back to it after–action starts in a short time, several minutes, and progresses to involuntary shudders of the legs, when i start to rock and wave my legs to feel the aneros rub inside me–it feels good and sometimes very good and occasionally very, very good–almost progresses to super o but not quite–i can feel heat building and sometimes the aneros seems to go in deeper and almost locks on–maybe it knows that i am after the super o and so i can't get there–i think i should just do what it wants and not point myself towards anything more–i may be pressing without knowing that i am– i can't consider that i have this thing under control until i am able to produce super os at will, or at least several in a row–so far the one that i have had was just dumb luck, i guess, but so much fun that i will continue chasing it until i get it–wonder what those supper achievers feel when they get it in a couple of weeks, or tries?–do they value it or is it too simple for them?

Sweet Sensations

The last week has brought me a lot of progress in my exploration, starting with the fact that my body has developed a sweet spot that can give me pleasure – without the Aneros! Rubbing or gently pressing on a small area behind my scrotum while contracting my PC muscles produces a nice, low level tingly sensation (not always, however). One night I decided to try playing around with this, and the building sensations brought me to a nice and powerful penile orgasm.

This new sensitivity has been a nice development – it even brought me towards what was the best session ever last Monday morning. Backing up, a couple of nights earlier I brought out the MGX for a little try. Even though I wasn't feeling super horny, I thought it would be worth it to get some practice in. Well, I had it in for about an hour, doing the usual motions, and I wasn't feeling anything at all. Nada. It didn't make me feel bad, though. Mostly it proves that you have to be at least a little aroused going in for it to work.

ed's journey

did session after 2 days off–started with helix for about 50 min–got right to it in hardly any time, about 5 minutes–can get to point where i feel it rubbing in the right place and i can get pleasure from rubbing by bouncing on the bed on my ass and waving my legs–this is extremely pleasant but not the super o–i can keep this up for as long as i want, trying for my body to take over and do what it needs to do for a super o–it was very good but i finally stopped for a mega piss–switched to the 16 mm after the piss and got right to it again, but after a very long time enjoying the rubbing, i didn't get to the super o and i had to take another mega piss–i don't know where it all comes from but it's not just a feeling that i have to piss because i piss a ton–switched to the 20 mm next and did what i had done so far today–you know i say rubbing on my prostate but it seems like it grabs onto the prostate and moves in perfect rhythm with my motion so that there is probably no motion between the prostate and the massager, or very, very little– they go hand in hand and i can enjoy the feeling as long as i want to rock and/or bounce–i'm still waiting for that second super o–as i said for the first it felt hotter there and like they were welded together and that it knew what was required with no input from me–my whole body jerked in the right rhythm by itself, whereas the bouncing before the super o, like the last few sessions, i consciously make myself bounce, although i am completely relaxed otherwise–this thing takes some getting used to before i can do it whenever i want–it's still very much in control