Tag: Super-O

“Dissociation”

I haven’t gotten to a super-o yet, but I think I realized something interesting and was wondering if others have experienced the same.

I started using Aneros about 3 years ago. I started with the basic advice: relax and do kegels. I could feel it hitting my prostate, which felt good, but it never escalated into anything.

Then I did some reading, and found what seemed to be two contradictory techniques. One was the “do nothing” technique, which didn’t work for me, and is honestly a pretty frustrating set of instructions unless you are one of the lucky people for whom it actually works. The other was the technique that focuses on the two-different-muscle-group kegel contractions. After some practice I was able to get muscle spasms going pretty reliably, but I ran into a dilemma. Maintaining the spasms required concentration and slowly made my whole body tense up. This did not sound like the effortless, out-of-control experience it was supposed to be.

Then I tried combining the strategies: getting the spasms started, then mentally backing off and “letting the aneros do its thing.” When I did this, the spasms would keep going on their own, for a bit, but they always slowed down and came to a stop when left to their own devices. Read more »

Will this position hinder my progress?

So I’ve had the most success by far using the do nothing method while laying face down on my belly. Usually laying in this position with the toy inside me will put a slight pressure on my dick, making it get hard (I make sure to point it down between my legs). This pressure kickstarts slight pleasurable sensations on my penis, which in turn trigger pleasure waves and multiple dry o’s radiating from my prostate.

I’ll admit the sensations in my prostate are definitely mixed with some penile pleasure (let’s call it 80/20 or 70/30), but these orgasms have never resulted in ejaculation, they’ve always been dry. Since I know some people swear by the rule of not stimulating your dick in any way during the rewiring process, I’m wondering if I should maybe focus on other positions or whether I can expect to make good progress in my journey to super O’s despite the penile sensations.

The fastest way to a Super O (it’s simple, I promise)

Hi there, so first of all, this is not one of those posts which tells you of a certain technique. My advice is general. I believe it is more effective and would work for majority of struggling users here. It is a simple one, but not easy.

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Let me preface by describing my journey. I’ve been using aneros for 2 years and few month now. But only very recently I managed to git my first super O’s. And they have been worthy. Only very recently I’ve realized what has been hindering me.

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So first of all, let’s think about what an aneros session is? The way I see it, it is an intimate session with yourself, with your mind. The toy is just a tool to bring awareness. The more awareness you have, the better.

What has been the biggest distractor for me and my progress? It’s porn. Watching porn (or even listening to it) during the session completely destroys any awareness or concentration, so it will never be able to help (unless you are already super rewired, maybe).

But the problem is porn itself. Even if you watch it before the session to get aroused, it takes your brain into an overdrive, which stays during the session. That means your own brain will probably be unable to create “free flow” of fantasies and mental images that actually lead to the super O. At least for me, when the brain starts streaming images of arousing things, my body and my mind seem to align in the same frequency, which starts the super O’s. I also think that porn makes you over-aroused which basically means you block yourself from non-penile orgasms. It’s like peeing with a boner. Very difficult. If you want to feel the flow, you need to be in a natural state. Read more »

Does chastity help to achieve prostate orgasms?

Sometimes I wear a chastity so I don’t masterbait. I want to focus on only using the aneros. With that being said, does it benifit the process of finding the super o or pleasure waves in general? I don’t wear it when I have an aneros session usually cause it’s distracting but I know overtime I could get used to it. Just wondering what some people’s opinions were on it.

How many of you switched toys on your path to the super-O? Aneros toys give me pleasant, subtle sensations; Lelo Hugo (no vibe, just muscles) brought me right to the edge of orgasm. Should I stick with one, switch em up, buy something new…?

Hi all!

About a year ago, my girlfriend and I wanted to explore prostate stimulation. So she bought me some forward-curved buttplugs (FunFactory), and I bought myself a Lelo Hugo during a sale. So I’ve had some experience with prostate stimulation (wasn’t seeking the super-O – I only thought of it as a way to enhance sex).

A couple months ago, I learned about Mindgasm and the super-O, and decided to dedicate time to it. I have some experience with meditation and I’ve done strength training for years, so muscle isolation and “mind / body” connection come pretty naturally to me. I started with no toy, just Mindgasm. I started having pleasure waves, which was very nice, and I began to feel very attuned with my body and my sexuality. This was honestly a very “spiritual” few weeks for me. I felt very “grounded.”

Then I bought a Helix Syn. I had some nice sessions with it, and it did help me learn my pelvic floor in a new way. But I wasn’t getting that “oomph”/”hit the spot” feeling that I remembered from my first toys. Just some nice waves – but I could feel an itch for something with more “reach” or more forward curve. So I bought the Eupho Trident (no Syn). This one was better, for sure – the longer reach absolutely hits me in a good place, which the Helix Syn does not. But it’s still frustrating – the sensations are so light and subtle, it’s hard to get that “satisfying” feeling. Read more »

Lots of newbies here, I love it! Read this:

Love seeing so many of you exploring the magical prostate side. Hope my experience can help some of you to achieve the famous super Os:

It took me about 1 full year to achieve it, but one thing you guys need to keep in mind is that super Os are part of a process. Call it rewiring if you want, I just don’t stick to the labels. You guys definitely need to pay attention to how your body responds to it. The phases, such as shaken legs, tense pelvic area, deep involuntary breathing are all paths to the super O. I see a lot of you saying here: “oh, I think I’ve gotten there!” There’s no “I think”. When you get to get a super O, trust me, you and your whole body will know.

My recommendation is: RELAX! insert the Aneros on you and clear your expectations. Clear your mind! Explore (gently) your nipples, forget about porn (it’s often a distraction).

Concentrate on your body and have fun! It may be a long journey but I guarantee, it’s 10000 worth the wait.
Soon your legs will be up, your body will be shaking involuntary and the Aneros will be throwing you around just like there’s a magical energy inside of you ready to burst out.

Enjoy the ride!

Finally getting somewhere! Here’s what worked for me!

I finally made a huge milestone today! I had several dry orgasms back to back for hours then I had the start of what I think are super Os.

I had been trying this for over a year but have only until recently been consistent (twice a week practice, 2 hour sessions roughly) before I would touch my dick when I’d be frustrated and saw no progress and thought that would hinder my progress but for some reason it didn’t. Earlier today I had a 2 hour long session, using the do nothing method. By do nothing I mean the first 20 minutes just sit there and don’t do anything, no contractions, just breathing. After that I do light contractions with my anus (the muscle you use to pinch off a poop) they were about 20-40 percent strength, then I would do light contractions with my dick (the muscle that cuts off the stream of pee) around 20-40 percent strength until I would almost reach a balance and I’d try to hold both light contractions in place, DON’T let your body tense up all the way and fully contract, that is not how you reach it. I held contractions for about 10 seconds until my body told me it’s time to calm down and try again in a couple seconds. Read more »

Am I having a pwave or a prostate orgasm?

I also posted in r/prostateplay but am hoping for some other opinions.

I lay on my side with top leg bent at roughly a 90 degree angle and my bottom leg almost straight. This is the position I generally sleep in so I find I can get very relaxed. I’ve been using an mgx trident. It always feels good, but at about an hour in, that’s when I really start feeling great sensations.

The sensation in question lasts for about 15-30 seconds and feels amazing, but I
don’t have muscle spasms, just a hot, tingly, glow feeling that radiates
from my prostate and feels like it envelopes my ass. I have a difficult time having more than one of these as it leaves my prostate with almost a numb feel afterwards. Not uncomfortable, but feels so “hot” that I can’t distinguish the different sensations I was earlier.

One reason I’m asking for clarification is a few times when something starts to feel really good, my heart rate speeds up dramatically, but then I lose it. The sensation I described above doesn’t increase heart rate very much, doesn’t have me breathing hard, and doesn’t give me muscle spasms.

I’ve read people talking about their involuntary body twitching and
their breath taking orgasms, and can’t help but think that the thing
I’ve been thinking is a prostate orgasm is just a pwave. Or am I having
prostate orgasms, just not a super o?

Thanks for your time, any information is very helpful.

I will be using THC lube tomorrow

I will be using Foria THC pleasure lube tommorow. I have a helix trident. Later today might be the day I finally reach a super o. I’ve reached many mile stones. One of my best sessions I had a dry orgasm. It wasnt super strong but it was something. Yes. I was high from smoking a joint. I will report back tomorrow

A little closer to super o….maybe.

Just finished my session playing with my prostate. I still cannot believe the ‘do nothing’ technique works the best for me. Usually, once i put in my progasm jr, i lie on my back and stay relax while imagining sexy things.

I only concentrate on using my pc muscle, just about 5% to 10% only but very rarely. Usually, i try to get hard rock erection by nipple stimulation and this helps, leading to involuntary contraction on my pc muscle which feels very pleasurable.

That good feelings will intensified until i reach a moment where i feel my ass or my pc muscle or my prostate (i’m not quite sure which one)hug the progasm very thight inside of me and it really does feels good. I can feel precum leaking from my penis, not a lot but it is obvious.

Mostly, i use my imagination of getting sensual blowjob to help me stay rock hard, so that, that pleasurable feeling of my prostate(i guess) squeeze hard my progasm last longer. Usually, i can maintain this for almost 2 hours until i feel tired and stop.

I still have not been able to achieve the glorious super o but i think i am getting closer to it. I can feel this ‘do nothing’ technique might be the best way for me instead of clenching my spinchter muscle. For me, lightly and rarely contracting pc muscle helps me a lot in this journey. And of course, need to be highly aroused. Read more »