Tag: Trident

Is too much lube a problem for anyone else?

I have a Progasm. It was my first prostate massager.

Every post I have ever read on any anal play always starts with something to the effect “Apply plenty of lube early and often.”

I find if I use very much lube I can’t keep the Progasm in position. When I exert very much pressure it tries to squirt out. Even when it stays inside it isn’t in the correct position and there doesn’t seem to have enough friction against the prostate.

If I take it out and wipe off most of the lube it works much better.

Would a different style of Aneros be better? Maybe the Maximus Trident which has a narrower neck?

Just ordered my first Aneros…

After extensive reading, I went for the Helix Syn Trident. I have a little experience with a vibrating plug but it hasn’t really done much for me. Should I expect more from this?

I suffer with chronic prostatitis so, whilst I have bought this as I really would love to explore what the is toy can do, I’m hoping it can bring some relief to me to.

Any first time use tips?

Helix Syn Trident vs Helix Trident

Should I go for Helix Syn Trident (the black one with two dots), Helix Trident (the white one), or a different model? Also I noticed the price difference on the official website, but in my local sex shop, the more expensive Syn Trident is cheaper. It would be my first “real” prostate toy, the previous one is a weakly vibrating plug, which does not do much for me, and I’m not sure I want to spend my time learning to use it, I’d rather use something good from the start. Also, I was thinking about njoy pure wand, or multiple vibrating massagers, but currently I would like something normal sized, and not over complicated, like the Aneros brand.
Thanks for you help!

Real headway: hold it steady

Hey all, first time commenting, but I’ve been lurking for a while. I hit a new level this evening.

My wife was talking with a relative on the phone so I figured I’d have a good hour or so I disturbed, so I put in my helix syn trident. I’ve been trying various things, but tonight I think I finally figured out the key. While in the past I focused a great deal on intentional contractions, tonight 90% of my focus was just upon maintaining the position of the device. Once I felt the tingles begin in my prostate and I could tell I was hitting the spot, I focused entirely on keeping it there. If it shifted, I immediately shifted to put it back (and I think it’s beginning to become muscle memory).

While holding in place, I tried to very lightly contract my outer sphincter—like the lightest I could. Again, keeping the device in position was my focus. But then everything involuntary started happening: many small contractions, legs shaking, harder contractions, tingling everywhere, eyes rolling back in my head and twitching, feeling my pulse throughout my body which also seemed to help the sensations, and, I just tried to hold it there and ride the waves.

Eventually I became aware that my dick was leaking, got the need to pee sensation, and it kept going. Eventually I had to let it go simply to get a moment of rest. Read more »

HOURS of ecstasy, the rumors are true

Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy shit.

Long post. Reading some of the user posts here helped me, so maybe this will help someone. It’s also a way to process the experience for me.

I’ve been reading about the benefits of prostate play for about a month now and, truth be told, I took everything I read with a grain of salt. I assumed some men might achieve these waves of pleasure and super-Os, but most would need years of practice and even then, maybe not experience as amazing as some made it sound. Well after some time on Sunday, I can say I’m a true believer.

As a way of background, I’m 31, gay male, in a long term relationship. Ass play is not something i’m a total stranger to, but it’s never been my cup of tea. I’ve bottomed plenty of times and found the experience to be enjoyable, but topping was always better. (My partner and I are more “sides” and anal sex is kind of rare. I’ve had plenty of anal sex with prior partners to know what i’m missing.) Over the years I’ve bought a couple of dildos and prostate massagers and played with them on and off, but to me they were never better than recieving anal, and the toys would be used a couple times then forgotten about and thrown away. Read more »

How do i get started?

Hello lads, recently I bought an Aneros Trident MGX, I already have like, 5 sessions under my belt with a few days of break between them, and didn’t really get any results. What am I even supposed to do? I tried the ‘do nothing’ method once and actually slept with it inside me for around 5 hours, nothing happened. I suppose I should be contracting my anus, but do I squeeze it for as long as I can or am I supposed to let go quickly and make the contractions more frequent?

The beginning

I purchased the MGX Syn Trident, my first Aneros, while on vacation last week. Yesterday was the first attempt, and as expected, not much…. There was some warmth radiating down there at one point, but mostly just felt like something inserted. I haven’t completely mastered and isolated the muscle groups but alternated between clamping and pushing at various strengths and lengths of time, trying to get into a “rolling” wave of motion. I can feel the Aneros moving in and out but not really a rocking pivot about a fulcrum. I know that I need to try different positions and really focus and relax, but obviously it sounds like my first experience was normal. So I’ll be lurking, practicing, maybe asking more questions, and hopefully rejoicing soon enough. That said, I was pretty confused by the different models and descriptions Is it as simple as they’re just slightly different in shapes to accommodate differences in human bodies? Thanks in advance.

Just had my first session. Pleasurable but not sure I felt the right sensations or not. Am I on the right track?

I bought a Helix Trident and used it for the first time tonight. It’s the first time I’ve ever done any sort of anal or prostate play. I just had the urge, and I’m glad I splurged a bit. But considering I’m new, I wanted to see if I’m on the right track. I tried my best to follow the tips I’ve seen online.

I started by taking a warm shower to try and relax a bit. Once I was all clean, I laid down in bed and did some breathing exercises. I then watched some porn for 15 minutes or so and stroked myself a bit to get extra turned on while still focusing on breathing and making sure I’m relaxed.

After 15 minutes or so, I lubed up the Aneros as well as my asshole. I gently rubbed my asshole and fingered it slightly before slowly inserting the toy. It was a brand new feeling for me but I tried to breathe and just focus on the sensation. Once it was in, my asshole began to contract involuntarily, maybe once every 10-15 seconds or so, like I was flexing my PC or sphincter muscles or whatever. It was a nice feeling, though I didn’t get the urge to pee right away like some people say. Read more »