I’m sure most Aneros users have seen some form of video on the Internet – the ones where during use of an Aneros product the user is thrashing around like a fish that has jumped out of a pond. A couple of times I have filmed part of my session using my iPhone and was surprised to find looking back how still I was during an orgasm. In my mind I am moving around and shaking, but my body is doing something different….until now.
The opportunity arose to be alone on Sunday morning – the wife and kids were out and I had about an hour before I needed to be out so I made sure it wasn’t wasted. The Progasm came out, was lubed up and I was ready to go. A couple of good strong orgasms were had, but this time there felt that there was more shaking – but then along came the next one – easliy the most powerful I’ve had but then the shaking and moving and thrashing began. I had no control over my body and was actually shocked at the violence of what was occurring. The bed was shaking and moving so much that I’m sure I am going to have to tighten some of the nuts and bolts up if this continues.
I had a couple more similar experiences in the session – but what I did come to realise is that all the shaking and moving was actually prolonging the orgasms – they were now lasting at least of couple of minutes if not longer.
Every time I use the Progasm there is a different experience – Where next??
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Making use of Knowledge
Continuing the progress of the past weeks….As I have mentioned before the school holidays are somewhat hampering the opportunities to have Aneros sessions so to fill the time I have been emersing myself in the blogs, forums and Wiki that are available here. Going back to read blogs from the start of someone else’s journey, you can learn so much. There is a wealth of knowledge and information available on this website and so much to learn in terms of technique and feelings etc.
I have been fortunate that I did find the super-o fairly early one (in my third session) but since then, they are definitely changing, increasing in intestity and length as well as bringing even more new feelings.
It was two weeks between sessions, and when the opportunities have arisen, they have been in the morning. One advantage of the school holidays is that on occasion I can get a lie-in after the wife has gone to work. Even though I have had a two week gap in using my Progasm, my prostrate is alive and receptive as ever, especially as I have put to use some of the knowledge that I have gained.
One ambition is to try and achieve a super-t by means of a hands free ejeculaion. By reading info on both blogs and the Wiki, I’m kind of getting there. I’ve not achieved yet, but it’s fun trying !
Building the Anticipation
For various reasons I have not been able to update my blog over the past couple of weeks – and so much progress has been made. I’ll have to break it down into smaller entries.
At the moment I find that a planned session feels so much better and relaxing. Having that feeling inside of you knowing that a session will happen that evening helps to mentally prepare for what is to come. The anticipation builds inside of you, waiting for the moment you can begin.
With the wife away for 2 nights, I knew that I had to take full advantage. Once the time had come for my session, I could hardly make it up the stairs quick enough and get undressed before reacquainting myself with my Progasm. Immediately the familiar feelings return and the first orgasm arrives in less than 10 minutes. From that point onwards the next 2 hours were orgasm filled – I can’t say how many but it was an incredible ride.
The following night was more of the same – by using different methods of contraction and relaxation, I could almost orgasm at will. Every session seems to bring something different – whether it the length of the orgasms, the intestity or the ability to have MMO there is always something to be gained for the next session.
“MMO – 10, Ejaculation – 0”
After reading “The Multi-Orgasmic Man”, I wanted to experience edging with prostate orgasms but without ejaculation. I thought I would have to ejaculate once or twice to experience this. Was I wrong! Let me explain…….
I am now into Day 12 of SR and, as usual, went to bed with a towel tucked beneath my silky boxers. I had started to get aroused in bed with my wife but it was getting too late for any serious fun. So I just rolled-over and was headed to dreamland.
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Several hours later, I was awakened with the most INTENSE ERECTION possible. I am laying on my stomach and feel myself “pumping” my erect cock into a lover. OMG! Was this the start (or the middle) of a wet dream? Not sure now, but I realized that if I continued this for much longer, I would be quickly ending my recent semen retention challenge. With every twitch and every breath, I seemed to be inching closer and closer to the release. Yes, I wanted it. I felt completely mesmerized by this feeling and wondered if I was awake or asleep? Could I be headed for an involuntary ejaculation? Definitely, YES! (I am now feeling a twitching down in my prostate).
Ready to start…Just not sure how
So, I really want to get started with some prostate massage for health and pleasure reasons. My wife is supportive and willing to make it part of our sexy time. I’m a little overwhelmed. A quick search returns a butt-load of products. I have a very small amount of self exploration. Where do I begin?
More Milestones reached – the pleasure is getting stronger and stronger
I thought I would share some more of my experiences thus far. I have found the Wiki referred throughout this site, an extremely helpful guide and I would not have discovered this amazing wealth of pleasure without it, or the many posts on this site.
Although I have always enjoyed the pleasures of shoving things up my bum, I did not really know how deep the pleasure could go. I used to masturbate while objects were there. I knew there was pleasure in anal play, I knew about the nerve endings and the Prostate. But I did not know my body could be taught to ‘rewire the circuitry’ to achieve such amazing pleasure.
My journey started a few months ago when I decided to buy some sex toys. I had always wanted to buy these things but I was too embarrassed and didn’t really know where to get started. The change for me came when my wife was planning a business trip away for a few nights. I organised one of those Postal delivery services so I could go on-line, order what I wanted and have it waiting at the post office rather than delivered to my home. I was all set, so I went on-line and purchased a few toys – I chose the cheaper rubbery things and a plastic prostate massager – it looked like an Aneros but it wasn’t a genuine one. The stuff arrived and my wife went on her trip and I started to play.
Wow is all I can say!
I can only write a quick blog this morning as I’m pressed for time.
I had a session Wednesday night and tried a different internal lube (inspired by @BigGlansDC). I injected 3/4 of a cc of Pure Virgin Olive Oil instead of my regular water-based liquid lube. I lubed up my Helix-Syn as usual with water-based jell and went to work. I should say, the tool went to work almost immediately. This thing was floating and providing sensations I never experienced before. Was it the lube or just natural progression of my rewiring process? At this point, I must add that I performed a lot more Kegel exercises during the day, again inspired by my friends @BigGlansDC and @goldenboy. Who knows but it was great!
Last night, I repeated the process but with 1 cc of the oil and my Progasm Ice. Again, the session was beyond any other I had before including the Wednesday one. No Dry-Os but very very strong P-Waves where I thought ‘this is it, this is the night’. Thinking about what @rumel wrote recently about over-analysing situations, I backed right down and used only very very very slight PC and Sphincter contractions and tried to relax as much as I could. I finally had to end the session but my innards were objecting strongly. They wanted more!
One Step Closer – Involuntary Convulsions.
Since my Progasm Ice arrived 10 days ago, I haven’t really slept that much. Every night, starting around 11:30, I have inserted the beast and tried for the Big O. I know I am not supposed to chase it, but I can’t help myself. Reading all the experiences on this site have made me determined to try. So, I insert it every evening, I have practiced the breathing and PC muscle contractions – this I have learnt to do now and my muscles down there seem strong and responsive. I usually leave the Progasm in all night, which causes me to wake up several times and start the PC exercises again.
A few days ago, I left work early and went home. As I was alone with several hours up my sleeve, I thought I would do everything right. I bought a douche when I purchased my Progasm, along with some gel type lube. I had never used a douche before and found the experience interesting, but I was nice and clean. I lubed out, syringing heaps right up in-side me. I inserted the Progasm and spend several more hours, learning and enjoying – but no Big O.
Last night I continued again, lots of lube, (I am still clean from the douche a few days ago). I have read on this site by many successful members, that the Big O usually follows the anal muscles doing involuntary contractions and that this is out of the persons control – like the body takes over and knows what it needs to do. I had not experienced this, so last nights mission became – ‘I want to experience Involuntary contractions”.
“Semen Retention: No-Spill Zones”
For those of us navigating through “Semen Retention”, know that it requires a great deal of discipline and focus. As noted in previous blogs by myself and others, one needs to “channel” the sexual energy (fire) into other parts of his life. We males do not live in a sexual vacuum, most of us are not celibate and we must cope with sexual stimulation every day of our lives.
Here are some examples how, when practicing SR, we must navigate through the “No-Spill Zones” —-
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First, as most of us males know, we have an average 3 to 5 erections every night. That means that usually at some point in time (in the middle of the night or early morning) we will awaken with a boner. How we manage these erections while practicing semen retention becomes the first test of our focus and discipline. Do we feel the need to masturbate and ejaculate? Do we want to have sex? You bet! But semen retention requires a more focused approach, a rejection of the normal male sexual response if you will, if we are to progress along the path. In time, the erection will subside and we will return to normal.
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“I Am Feeling Amazingly Sexual Today!”
I am feeling amazingly sexual today. Hard to describe exactly. But several things “came together” that have really skyrocketed my sexuality as a male. Let me explain…..
First, I am continuing my practice of semen retention and it is one of the reasons that I am feeling this incredible surge in well-being. I am “connecting” with people more than ever (men and women) and have a seemingly endless energy probably due to the increase in my testosterone. My wife has noticed this energy as well.
I have recently updated my resume and have begun a job-search in earnest. Had a very strong lead yesterday and applied. Hoping for at least an interview! My mood has increased ten-fold!
Listening to some relaxing music this morning and just had the urge to remove my boxers and place two fingers of my left hand on my perineum. Pressed in a little hard and just chilled this way for a while (perhaps 20 to 30 minutes). Oh my! The energy I could feel circling my body into my fingertips, into the lower groin and back around was incredibly stimulating. There was a distinct “pulse” that was not my heartbeat!
All-in-all, I am thankful I was created a male! There is this sexual “energy” pervading the air as well as myself now. If you can tune-into it, it is incredible! Combine this with the 24/7 sexual energy which is inherent in all males (and females for that matter), makes for a world that is “rocking” with sexual enchantment!