Author: casual_handle

Tight butt requires a smaller toy

I'm getting Eupho and worry that it's still too big, bulgy, long or whatever as I can get very ecstatic with this.

I inserted it about 2.75" (index finger size) in with brush part upwards (brush side out of course!) and it turned sideways right away so I let it. If it didn't fall out when the intensity ramped up (involuntary) I'm pretty sure I would orgasm. It's 0.5" thick and it wobbled up and down and it fueled my arousal extremely, I was dripping precum more than ever.

This is a final proof that Helix, SGX or anything of similar size is a waste of time for me. The idea was that didn't know what's wrong with them – each didn't work in their own way. I was thinking about how MGX could make things better and the other option was Eupho but I worried that it looks too much like Helix except size – and so I had an idea.

Refute people who say you need to stick with it, there is a technique but you can't do it with a wrong tool. Even if you don't orgasm it should feel so pleasurable that you don't want it to stop! It feels like your prostate is tickled by a feather and not pounded.

I was considering Peridise too but I'm not sure how much the design is important to mobility and if it would be enough. Please let me know If you know about other products that are not as big or you use them (information which Aneros you are successfully using regularly and how it compares would be great). Read more »

Sessions without toy

As it appears I have much easier time in session without any toy. I recommend it especially to beginners because it's so easy to recognize the good kind of feelings.

With help of porn I can push it to incredible heights, but not into orgasm so far. This isn't entirely new to me, before my prostate journey I've experienced those when I was viewing porn for other purposes than masturbating and I actually like to let it build like this when I masturbate (I always assumed this would escalate into ejaculation because it's just a few strokes away but maybe not without penile stimulation).

This time I also quickly tried to insert Aneros when I got tired of it (I was still comfortable), it was going on for a few minutes but then I lost it. Overall I could say that this level of arousal was fairly ecstatic and the whole episode left me shaky, but there were no orgasms like before. This is about the same level that I can achieve with Aneros but it's much easier without it. This left me wondering if that which I'm chasing isn't some rare event, rather than the norm.

BTW tongue movement is incredibly erogenous. If you don't have a partner to do it with you can just imagine whatever you like (french kissing, pussy, dick).

I’ve just had the strangest session yet

I spent almost 80 minutes aroused, about 55 minutes in I added some lube and was back there very shortly, maybe even a bit higher for brief moments.

There was no orgasm though, not even a glimpse of it. I'm getting more confident in how to do this but still don't know how to push it past the threshold (I tried some contractions and angles but nothing worked).

It felt nice, I feel relaxed and soft now but also understandably unsatisfied. I don't want to ruin it by masturbating either. I'm not worried that it would prevent me from doing it again soon as my orgasms were always about a day or two since traditional orgasm so my worries are actually exactly opposite (now is day 3).

How often do you masturbate or have sex and how do you think it affects your prostate orgasms? Do you experienced people ever have such sessions or you just learned how to turn the intensity up?

One size does NOT fit all

My extensive experimentation yielded an epiphany. I tried to hold my Helix so it does not come too close and that's what made the damn thing work. I feel so stupid because I was complaining that it goes too far all the time.

Alas, I did not come, it was at the end of a very long session and I felt tired too. What I did was that I quickly made a P-tab extension. I cut off a cork from a Port wine stopper, made a cut wide enough to hold on and a quick try felt pretty good.

In my next session I continued where I left off, I was trying to lie on the floor (the hard surface does seem to make positions on my back not interfere with the handle). I tried various positions, unfortunately I got to pee after 30 minutes but I tried again. After another 30 minutes I tried my trusty chair position and that has caused me the most intense sensation, once I thought I am close to orgasm but the extension was pulled downwards from P-tab. I tried again and almost got on the same path but after 70 or more minutes total the lube was all dried up (I didn't use much by the way and it still worked!).

So what did I learn from this? Read more »

  1. It should at least feel nice all the time
  2. It isn't something you do, it's all about the position, angle and pressure (even all kinds of contractions suddenly felt good).

Trouble getting aroused with Aneros (Helix)

Ok, so this seems to be my biggest issue or blocker. I am comfortable with it but any erection soon goes away. There's a short period of time when Aneros itself can get me hard and going but then it stops working.

I had some successes but they are quite elusive even when I do the same things. I had a pretty good series of P-waves (early in the session), this was what I was going after when I discovered it with another toy. Most notably I had woken up to a REM sleep boner and pretty serious involuntary contractions but it didn't lead nowhere. That was also my only success by lying on the bed.

Looking at porn doesn't seem to work but I had biggest success and hints of success while watching it. I could easily jerk off to it but it'll be 7 days since my last real orgasm. I don't get aroused easily throughout the day either which I would expect (maybe it's because of release by massaging?).

Any thoughts? I've been doing "do nothing" but sometimes I feel that I should pull my sphincter muscles together and hold to increase the intensity. On the other hand I worry that it actually might be too aggressive for me since I got it going at night with nothing inside and that's what prevents/stops my boner.