Just sayin hi (/I’m not dead…lol)

Hey guys.

I’ve not been on the sub for a while. Covid blahs have really hit my libido.

I was initially going to take a couple of weeks away from prostate play to see if it was some kind of post cum hangover from awesome pgasms that was affecting my mood. 6 weeks later and it’s fairly safe to say that my mood was tanking from, most likely, the months of lockdown and loss of my normal routine.

So, on a positive note, that means that pgasms are back on the menu once I’ve figured out where the fuck my libido has fucked off to…lol.

U/Pantsyr made a post recently about state of mind being key to PGasm success. I totally agree with that and am living proof. You can’t fit a square peg into a round hole. If you ain’t in the right mental space then it’s really not worth the frustration of trying.

Ontario is hopefully coming out of lockdown in a couple of weeks so I could be in a gym in about a month 🤞🤞🤞🤞. Here’s hoping that the boost in endorphins, testosterone and self image will kick start my libido again.

I’ve not even been interested in porn…wtf????

Anyway, just wanted to say I’m still around. It was good to learn that it’s okay to take a break. It’s also a relief to know that pgasms weren’t responsible for fucking up my mood.

Think i might need to leave this all alone for a little while.

Hey guys.

(Very) long story short: i get fairly bad post-cum hangovers. Low energy and motivation for about 2-3 days after shooting a load. i thought that this was tied to my (very shitty) refractory period but i think that i may have been wrong.

In the 6+ weeks of me entering Pgasm Land my overall mood has really taken a turn for the worse.

This could all be COVID fatigue (god knows, i think we ALL know what THAT feels like) BUT it could also be a comedown/hangover from the unbelievable rush of dopamine and endorphins that flood our systems during successful PGasm sessions (and it really IS a rush, something that i previously could only compare to coming up on a metric shit ton of Ecstasy).

For those who haven’t read some of my other posts, i am a drug addict (16 years clean) who REALLY fucked up my endocrine system. It was a wild ride but i paid a price. My body now has a very complicated relationship with dopamine and the comedown FROM dopamine.

As i said, this could just be COVID + Lockdown + No gym + Losing hard earned muscle and looking like cold shite = no happy time feelings. I hope it’s just that.

If my mood bounces back from abstaining for a few weeks though….I think that would be a pretty conclusive result.

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First Progasm PGasm in over 3 weeks.

Hey guys.

So, managed to PGasm with the progasm for the first time in over 3 weeks.

The last time was during the 4 days of my initial PGasm success about 4 weeks ago.

Since then i have managed one session of full PGasm whilst A-Less (OMG, on many levels) and another A-Less session with PGasms that were awesome but definitely of lower intensity.

This mornings session with the Progasm though was great. it was about an hour with about 4 distinct periods where pleasure rose up to trigger Pgasm 4 times.

Over this past month i have definitely learned a lot.

When i had my first A-Less PGasm about 2.5 weeks ago it really allowed me to chill the fuck out about managing to repeat my initial PGasm successes. ever since then i have been happy with whatever pleasure cums my way during a session. Much more chilled.

I have also been able to really just experience what is happening. When i am thinking about this out of session i think a lot about that multiple orgasm graph that i am sure we are probably familiar with. The graph shows peaks and valleys of pleasure over time that eventually reach the peak of orgasm, dip down and then reach orgasm again (and again).

I can really see the accuracy of this graph now.

Was this a “calm seas” PGasm?

Hey guys.

recently i have been really enjoying ALess sessions. They have been getting really intense and the last full PGasm i had was Aless (just over a week ago, i think).

Of the full PGasms i have had the orgasms have been intense with the prostate contractions feeling like “BAM BAM BAM BAM BAM BAM!!!!!!!” etc… with this going on for minutes.

So, last night I was having a really nice ALess session and i could really feel it building with the PWaves getting higher and involuntaries really feeling more intense and focused on my prostate. It was really nice and i would have been happy just enjoying that before i went to sleep.

Anyway, shortly after that my prostate began contracting A La PGasm but this felt different. Instead of the “BAM BAM BA-BAM BAMBAMBAM, BBBBBB-BAM….” it instead felt a lot more gentle and slow. like my prostate was being lovingly and rhymically squeezed. My heart was beating harder but not like it has before for my other Pgasms.

This was most definitely my prostate contracting and it felt totally amazing but this was not the same as before.

I have heard about the “calm seas” orgasms and i think that this maybe sounds a bit like that. What do you guys think? I stopped after about 15 minutes cos i needed to sleep but i really feel like i could have kept that going indefinitely.

It was less intense for sure but not worse. Just different.

I have personally blocked a certain user

Hello guys.

As you may have noticed over the past few days, there has been a certain user on this sub who’s “feedback” leaves something to be desired.

On a personal level this user has weaponized my history of addiction against me (quote: “You are addicted” Quote: “You are obsessed’). I shared that history openly and without shame on this sub in the understanding that we respect each other and support each other. and i thank those of you that stood up to this users comments by downvoting him in such instances.

He has also been threatening (Quote: “You have been warned, I am watching!”)

He has also been sexist and misogynistic (Quote: “You would write great chick-Lit”)

On a general level he has been trying to scare other users with something called “Kundalini Syndrome”, which, as far as i can tell, is something to do with the East Indian Mystical Tradition. This sub is about the Aneros Prostate Massager and Prostate Orgasms and has nothing at all to do with ones spiritual awakening.

Do not get me wrong, i am not discounting the truth of “Kundalini Syndrome” or of any spiritual practice. we are all entitled to believe whatever we choose. But, to state it again clearly for the record: THIS SUB IS ABOUT ANEROS PROSTATE MASSAGE AND PROSTATE ORGASMS.

I DIDN’T BREAK IT! (+A-Less)

Hey guys!

So, quick recap: first PGasm about 2 weeks ago. went at it hard for several (mind-blowing) days and then lost the mojo (thanks to all of you who talked me off the ledge…LOL)

For the past several days i have been focusing on Aless sensations so that i wasn’t putting any external pressure on my prostate. The sessions were great and i was getting some awesome involuntaries, PWaves and the occasional Mini-O. Was also working on the mindset of letting go and releasing my body to whatever wanted to come.

Anywho…I was chatting with another bud from this sub last night and when i finished (with the full intention of going to sleep) i felt an involuntary flutter of the P Spot so i thought, why not. a quick session whilst i’m all dopy and half asleep. From the outset though, i was trying to keep everything in my lower body totally loose and relaxed and just focused on the tingle and let that build. Every time i noticed any slight tension i let it go and brought attention back to the tingle and nurtured that mentally.

Really soon into the session (about 20 minutes?) i felt the familiar buildup of energy as the tingle increased and got stronger. again i was gently mindful of not becoming tense in any way.

Long story short, this all built up into a full PGasm! prostate contracting, cock-bouncing, precum leaking PGasm.

Feeling like you need to pee in a session? (or is it precum buildup and pressure?)

Hi guys

So the post title pretty much sums it up. In most of my recent sessions i have had a real urge to pee.

I know that this is listed as a common thing but it find it really distracting (which, of course, kills a session). i take a leak before the session so i know that there is nothing there but when this happens mid session i stop, go the bathroom and manage to squeeze out more pee.

In session this makes me tense up cos i really feel like a can’t relax cos, y’know, the whole “i don’t want to piss the bed!” situation.

I guess my question is: Is this really an urge to pee or am i misreading this as a more positive sign of something else? Is it something that i should just allow to carry on cos it’s a good thing?

I read in another post way back (sorry ,can’t remember the poster) about another brother who had this and it ended up being a massive release of precum. He was into a session and had the same thought of “i really need to piss” but was soooo caught up in the session that he just thought “fuck it, if i piss the bed i’ll just clean it up, this is too good to stop” and he ended up shooting precum instead of piss.

Helix Trident feels like it’s vibrating

Hey guys.

I’ve been having trouble replicating my initial PGasm success that i had about a week ago with the progasm so thought that i would try the Helix Trident last night. (the last couple of times i tried to progasm it just felt to be really aggressively going for my prostate).

No PGasm with the Helix but i did get to the point where it honest-to-god felt like the thing was a powered vibrator. i felt vibrations in my arse, balls and entire dick.

I have used vibes and this really felt like that. not talking about “tingles” here. It felt like the thing was plugged in/powered.

It felt really good and it could probably have got me over the edge if i wasn’t being distracted by the “i don’t want to piss myself” thing.

Is that a known thing?

EDIT: i started my journey with the Helix but didn’t have a breakthrough until the progasm. this is the first real time i’ve gone back to the Helix and this is the first time the Helix has given me this sensation.

A mental trick?

Hey brothers!

I’ve responded and commented a couple of times to others about how the journey to prostate orgasms and discovery of prostate pleasure in general can seem difficult at the start because we, as men, are not taught about this as we grow up. In those posts i compare it to regular masturbation, an experience that we all pretty much had no problem at all figuring out.

Stick with me here…

We all know what to do with our dicks. We figured out at (most likely) an early age that it feels REALLY good when we touch, tug on, stroke and caress our dicks and when you do that enough you get to the really good bit and cum!

We do this for years and we build up our arsenal of various techniques and know what we need to do to get the job done quick or done slow. We are probably soooo familiar with this that we can mentally recall ALL of the sensations from our various techniques.

Stick with me…

With prostate play and prostate orgasms we are learning how to masturbate a totally new sex organ. For me i think i have just realized that it helps to think of the PWaves generated by kegels like you would think of stroking your dick when jacking off. This seems especially helpful at the start when things are more consciously controlled (until the involuntaries start). For the last few days i have just been working on ALess sessions to hone in on the sensations and i found that i could really amp up my arousal by really, literally, thinking of it as masturbating my prostate with my PC just as i would focus on my helmet and shaft if jacking off.

I can’t get back to PGasm Land! HELP!!!!!

The last couple of times i’ve had a session i just can’t seem to get things started.

I’m about only 2 weeks into my success with PGasms but i initially had several really great sessions and thought i had it down until my prostate felt a bit tender and i gave it a couple of days break.

Now it’s like i don’t know how to get it back!

Has anyone else had this happen and gone through this fear and dread?

Now, admittedly, i have jacked off normally this past week and, as i have commented on previous posts, my refractory period is awful, so maybe i am not horny enough?

I need some reassurance and advice!