What if I masturbate before a session (without Cumming)?

Hello.

Until now, I’ve made some progressions, but I still see the orgasm pretty far away… Somehow I cannot get there hands free. Last time I had to masturbate after two hours of playing with my Aneros, in order to get closer and cum (it was quick tho). I still need the penile stimulation to get there.

Until now, all my sessions I’ve avoided touching my penis, maybe just in the last two minutes after a long session to empty my fluids. But I always avoid masturbating before and during the exercise.

But someone told me here, that it is ok to masturbate while enjoying the Aneros, or even before that. And now I am confused about it… I thought that using my penis would difficult my rewiring, also when I don’t masturbate and I caress my nipples they are really sensitive. However, only when I masturbate my prostate gets sensitive enough that I reach the orgasm.

So… I’m wondering what would happen if I masturbate and edge two or three times without getting to the orgasm, then wait a couple of minutes, and start the prostate play. Do you think it could be a good idea? Maybe tonight I’ll try this.

Thank you.

Constant PC muscles flex is showing some results…

Hi. Until my last session, my prostate play with the Aneros was always being performed in one of this two ways: a) keeping my PC and anal muscles totally relaxed, or b) clenching and releasing intermittently, with a rather fast pace.

Then, user u/shavedyng told me, on this same subreddit, a third approach to prostate play. Flexing my PC muscles just a bit, and holding them for several minutes. Then releasing (breathing) and again, flexing them at 10% and holding it.

A couple of days ago, I did it this way. At least, I tried. First I waited until I was really horny, and then I inserted the Aneros in my butt. To be honest, I wasn’t able to calibrate the contraction at 5 or 10% and I think I was flexing the muscles at 30-40%, but still I tried my best to not clench heavily like I used to do.

Then, I waited… After 20 or 30 minutes, I started to feel good, better than other times, and for just a few seconds I felt, for the first time in my life (after years of prostate play), how my anal muscles started to contract rhythmically by themselves. The involuntary movements. I couldn’t believe it was happening… but I lost my focus and after 3 involuntary contractions, it stopped.

This brought a bit of hope to my journey, honestly. Whenever I read people talking about those involuntary contractions I honestly couldn’t believe it. Now I know it is real, the only question is how long they can last…

Ordered an Eupho Trident, and an MGX Trident arrived…

Hello people, as you can read, I finally decided to purchase a new Aneros toy, and after a year using an Helyx (which leaves me sore and, yes, it’s been great as a first toy, but I wanted a different, more advanced experience now) I decided to get an Eupho.

However, the on-line retailer sent me an MGX. What a surprise when I opened the bag and the box (with the QR code and the box with magnets, I mean, it is authentic) contains an MGX. I am curious because I imagined it smaller? But now I’m not sure if I will keep it, or just return it and ask the model I purchased.

Honestly my intention was to get the Eupho because people talk very good things about it, and I wanted a less aggressive experience than the Helyx. But now I’m reading that the Eupho is super subtle and maybe I won’t notice it. So maybe the MGX is a good fit after all…

What’s your opinion about those two Aneros? Keep the MGX or return it to get my Eupho?

Next step after Helix Trident.

Well, now I’m going to purchase my second Aneros. I’ve only had one, the Helix Trident. With that toy I’ve had great sessions and joy, but also lately it was leaving me sore and with some discomfort on my low area. I think it is a bit too big.

Few moths ago I was planning to purchase the Progasm Jr. but I definitely won’t because I don’t think bigger is better at least in my case. At first maybe I don’t notice heavily the prostate but when I get aroused, my prostate grows much bigger? And I feel like there’s no enough room. And I don’t want to injure myself.

So the two Aneros that I am considering is the Eupho, or the MGX, one of them. I feel I should’ve started with the MGX but anyways the helix has been fun anyways. It’s just that I haven’t achieved great experiences, and just once I was near of what we call a “calm sea climax”, nothing more.

My Helix is not a syn version, and I’ve been thinking that, on a Syn version the P-tab will probably hurt less on my taint. With my Helix it ends up hurting after a couple of hours. And I don’t want to damage my pudendum nerves, which go through the perineum. I’ve read that Syn versions are made of a rubber coating, and the P-tab is flexible so it bounces and it doesnt hurt as much. I love the texture of the regular Helix, but anyway, I think maybe it is time to try a Syn version.

My story so far. Haven’t achieved HFO or P-gasm yet. Any advice is welcomed

So this is my story. I will sum It up because it is the first time I post on this subreddit.

I bought an Aneros Helix Trident to start practicing. Some people has, since then, told me to buy toys that cost hundreds, and I won’t spend that much money. But I purchased my Aneros Helix Trident for 35 bucks and I’m willing to buy a new one, either the Progasm Jr., or the Eupho Trident. Please, all the nJoy Wand crew, don’t try it, I wont spend that amount of money. Also I want my hands free, as for me is not confortable to manipulate the toy while trying to enjoy.

That being said, this has been my experience so far with the Helix Trident. I’ve been practicing since April-may, and I have had pleasurable sessions… that always leave me sore. They usually last 1 to 1,5h, and I try to not be harsh with my kegerator movements… But it doesn’t get me to the great sensations, and I can’t empty my prostate properly, so I end up pretty uncomfortable unless I masturbate afterwards. But even then, the soreness is there for some days…

Aside from the inside soreness, there’s this pressure of the p-tab that, after long sessions, ends up hurting me on my perineum. I’m not sure if I should, with heat, try to move this p-tab to not press so heavily on my perineum. Also I’m afraid that pressure will damage my nerves and take away sensitivity of my penis. I’ve already experienced a bit of sensitivity loss in my penis, so… Should I modify the p-tab?

Avoiding the dick or edging before a session?

I’ve been playing with my Aneros (Helix Trident) for7-8 months now, every now and then, and I never achieve a hands free orgasm. I will try new postures and maybe I’ll buy an Eupho, but I’d like to know if I should try a different strategy.

So far, what I do is refraining for masturbating for 3-4 days, sometimes even more than a week, and without never touching my dick, get very aroused with porn and go with it, playing with my Helix Trident. I never get to the point, never. Sometimes I’m more relaxed, sometimes I’m less, sometimes I get more pleasure, sometimes less… And lately, sometimes I barely feel pleasure. It depends on the day, but I never get to any kind of resolution or great pleasure. I can notice when I get more aroused, rarely my prostate swells, and I feel more pleasure. But no orgasms of any kind.

So now I was thinking… What if I watch good porn and jerk off for a while until reaching the edge… and then rest for a bit and get into the prostate play with my Aneros? Would that be more effective than avoiding my dick? Or it could be cheating in order to get a penile-induced orgasm more easily?

I’d like to hear your thoughts or if anyone has tried this approach instead of the total deprivation of penile stimulation.

Thank you.

The typical Aneros question; Helix or Eupho?

Hello everyone, I’m going to purchase an Aneros Peridise, along with one of this two prostatic stimulators: The Helix Syn or the Eupho Syn. Important: I’m not willing to purchase the two toys, just one of them. Buying the Helix and then the Eupho would mean investing almost 140€ in toys, and my idea is to buy and use just one of them.

I’ve read the Eupho Syn is more enjoyable as it moves more in the rectum, and may provide greater stimulation. However, the Helix is always recommended as a first toy, and I’ve never bought an Aneros toy. I’ve had small anal plugs, but that’s all, nothing prostatic specific.

The Aneros Eupho Syn is actually 15€ cheaper than the Helix Syn on the on-line store I’m going to purchase it, 55€ the Eupho Syn Vs 70€ the Helix Syn.

I’m going to get the Eupho along with the Periside (which is actually very cheap), unless some of you insist me on getting the Helix.

My anal canal is pretty tight, but I’m afraid the Eupho will be too thin to notice it, or not point properly towards the prostate.

For those recommending the Helix over the Eupho, please list the reasons. Same for the people who will recommend the Eupho over the Helix.

Finally: Is it true that the Eupho is only for experienced people? Will I be able to learn only with the Eupho?