Author: goldenboy

A Simple Chastity “Trick”

Introduction
Sometimes, even while wearing a “chastity cup”, I can sometimes fall-into a fantasy where I end a semen retention “run” with a female-assisted slow edging and an ejaculation. If I am not “ready” to ejaculate but do anyway, have I failed in chastity?

The Solution
While starting to listen to a nice track this morning for prostate health, I made sure that my box of tissues was completely out-of-reach. Usually, I put the box close-by “just-in-case”. But invariably (and I am now in Day 6 of SR) I could be tempted to rub-one-out. So I was sure not to have tissues or a towel or anything else nearby with which to clean-up. And guess what? It worked! Following an early-morning dream sequence, I awoke with a very arousing erection and felt like I could want to ejaculate. But still wearing my Mueller cup and feeling the pressure building-up underneath from my stiffening cock, there was nothing I could do but to remain in chastity! It was very frustrating yet at the same time so rewarding!

Conclusion
At any time, but especially in later-day SR, removing all ejaculation “assists” will greatly help to remain in your self-imposed chastity! I know from experience that having clean-up materials nearby can be very risky! So just keep them away! Remove the temptation!

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“An Easy Choice For Chastity”

Background
I write often about male chastity. In particular, the use of an athletic jockstrap with a hard cup, what I like to refer to as a “chastity cup”. It is such a part of my daily “routine” that most nights, I either wear one throughout the night or only part of the night.

Why Chastity?
Wearing these cups assists me in many ways. For starters, they absolutely prevent masturbation with a resultant ejaculation! That is a major benefit with an arousing erection, especially since I have trouble keeping my hands to myself! By keeping my “zone” off-limits, I can’t pleasure myself.

I have tried a “cock cage” for a while; I have a genuine CB-6000S and wear it from time to time. But when compared to the cup, there is much more preparation for use and maintenance required. Aside from the possibility of having a “keyholder” (which I did not do), there is not much more that I can recommend the cage over the cup. Yes, it is probably easier to “hide” a cage out in public (which I’ve done) because wearing a cup can definitely cause a “bulge” which may be noticeable. Also, the cages (whether plastic or metal) are significantly more expensive than a cup.

Another advantage of wearing a “cup” is daily management. Putting-on a cup is as easy as putting on a pair of underwear. Hygiene is simple too: for me, usually a weekly washing is all that is required. With about six cups in rotation, they all stay quite fresh and clean throughout the week. Read more »

“Ejaculation By Degrees”

Background
While lying in bed early this morning, unable to get back to sleep, I began to dwell on some basic male biology: In particular, the function of the male reproductive system and all that entails: masturbation, ejaculation and orgasm. And what I discovered was not earth-shattering but quite interesting. Male reproduction, by definition, is designed to be portable. So we are able to “service” an available female any time, any place. That is our function in this world. We are all familiar with the basic mechanics of sex. But do we realize just how powerful and portable it is? Let me elaborate….

Taking It Slower
Of course, the end ‘goal’ is an ejaculation, we all know that. But along the way, there are numerous things that can happen. Take masturbation, for example. If I want to, I can ejaculate in probably a minute or two. But if I take my time and fantasize, I can delay that ejaculation for perhaps 20 or 30 minutes. And during that time, a sexual fantasy can transport me to an exotic place where I can bask in the male pleasure of total sexual arousal until my orgasm is inevitable. Of course, with that length of arousal, I would be sure to develop the ‘blue-balls’ if I do not complete the ejaculation. So, once on that course of action, I need to make sure that I do in fact, ejaculate. Read more »

“Keeping It Out Of Reach!”

Background
Yes, only in Day 3 of SR now but still experiencing wildly arousing erections during the night! Last night, I went to bed without wearing a cup; but in the middle of the night, I woke-up rock-hard and honestly felt like I needed to ejaculate! Not wanting this, I quickly decided to put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup which is quite confining and secure. I went back to bed. After a while, I began to experience that nice, gentle stimulation on my perineum and before long I developed a full-blown erection which seemed to get me closer to the PONR. I enjoyed that feeling for perhaps 15 or 20 minutes, then it began to subside.

Listening Session
After a while, I decided to retreat to my sofa and listen to some audio tracks. The one I selected was a gentle binaural for prostate issues; this was about an hour long and I listened to the entire track. It did seem to gently ‘massage’ my prostate with the sound and I could almost feel another erection starting to develop. But the stimulation was probably not that intense and so I did not experience another erection. Read more »

“A Long Time Ago In A Galaxy Far, Far Away….”

[Thanks to the ‘Star Wars’ opening crawl (and to George Lucas and Dan Perri) for the title of this blog post]

Introduction
According to my blog posts, it has been 11 days since my last session. Why did I wait so long? Well, for one thing, I believe it is the same reason that I practice semen retention (SR). That period of abstinence only makes the sexual event more special, more powerful. Just as withholding ejaculations can make them more potent, withholding Aneros sessions (I believe) can make them better and stronger. Was that the case for this morning’s session? Let me describe the session…..

Session
I selected the HIH 950 for this session, because I really wanted a “therapeutic” prostate massage session. I want to keep my prostate healthy and help with BPH symptoms too. Of course, I knew in advance how the massager would feel pressing against my prostate, but since it has been so long, the anticipation of that feeling became exquisitely erotic. I couldn’t wait. So I lubed-up the 950 with SSG and inserted it quite deeply, making sure that the perineum-tab was pressing firmly against my perineum. I went to lie-down and relax. Read more »

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“Men Get Erections!”

Introduction
Yes, I know I get erections at night. They are supposed to occur in my sleep. But……

Reality
I seem to be awakened at night by some of these erections. Just this morning, I got up about 12:30 AM and could not believe the “stick” I had in my PJs. I carefully got out of bed, visited the lavatory and crawled back into bed, still very firm.

Later-on this morning, about 4:30 AM, sure enough, a metal rod down in my groin. This time, being in Day 7 of SR, I was really tempted to rub-it-out and get more rest. But I persevered and when it subsided a little bit, I decided to don my SD Ultra Pro Carbon “chastity cup”. I immediately felt better since I couldn’t even touch it. I crawled back into bed, and the erection was finally starting to subside.

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Analysis
What is it about these NPT erections that can wake me up? I supposed that many guys just sleep through them? Or do they? And how many do I/they have after all? I believe I have at least a few more during the night that I am not even aware of. Thank goodness for that! Otherwise, I wouldn’t be able to sleep at all!

Information Box
Here is some interesting information on this subject that I found on “Netwellness.org” Read more »

“Back To Basics”

Introduction
Haven’t had a session in a while (8 days). Haven’t had an ejaculation in a while (6 days). Haven’t worn a “chastity cup” at night in a while. That is changing this morning. Let me explain…..

Nightly Activity
I awoke about 4 AM after a good night’s rest. A very vivid (non-sexual) dream too. Woke up with a very arousing erection and it was hard to keep my hands to myself. As I did not want to achieve an ejaculation this morning (I really thought about ending the run), I decided to put-on my Mueller Flex Shield cup for protection. I did and went back to bed. The cup can be very stimulating and sure enough, just enough stimulation to induce a throbbing erection. Every so often, my whole body would “twitch” in ecstasy. One thing I noticed this morning is how my prostate seemed to be “pulsing” as well. I haven’t had a session in a while and right now, I don’t intend to have one any time soon. Why is that? Like with regular male chastity, “Aneros abstinence” seems to make me very “prostate horny”. What is wrong with that? It seems that any kind of male “abstinence” is good for the libido, right? So by thwarting the ejaculations, thwarting the edging/masturbation activities, and thwarting the prostate stimulations, can I get as horny as possible? I don’t know but it sure is fun trying! Read more »

“Prostate Awareness”

Up around 4 AM; woke-up with a very arousing erection. Decided to put-on my Mueller cup for relief and control. I went to relax down on my sofa, but what to listen to? I selected “Prostate Gland Healing, Binaural Beats Healing Music” which was about an hour long. I queued it-up and started listening. Wow! This track was exactly what I wanted! Quite soothing and the embedded ‘tones’ seemed to resonate deep down in my prostate. Nice, gentle ocean wave sounds as well. Toward the end, it felt like my prostate was gently “asking” me for more stimulation. But before too long, this track ended and it was time to get up for the day. No session for me this morning.

Afterthought: It seems that I am more “aware” of my prostate within my body these days, with or without Aneros. Since the prostate is intimately involved with ejaculations, I should be aware of its role, especially with arousal and the resulting erection. I think that it is important for us males to be attentive to our prostate’s health and to “manage” our ejaculations accordingly. Anytime we are going to or are contemplating having an ejaculation, our prostates must spring-into action. As an exocrine gland*, the prostate’s function is to secrete prostate fluid as a component of semen. The prostate contains smooth muscles that help expel the fluid during ejaculation. This all happens automatically, without our direct control. The ejaculation is like on ‘auto-pilot’ once we males reach the ‘point of no return’. Read more »

“An Interesting Morning!”

Got up very early, about 1 AM and wanting to put myself in chastity. I selected my XO ProCup supporter and it felt so good to put it on. Not soon after, I got the urge for a quick Aneros session. I got the sense that it was time to take SGX for a ride. I lubed it up with SSG and started out. Now this session was not a blockbuster but I felt some rather gentle “nudges” on my prostate. I was quite surprised that this session lasted almost 30 minutes. Not much precum but I felt a “pump” or two.

Retired to my sofa and began to listen to some very soothing “deep forest” tracks which felt so nice. I am always surprised by the pseudo-refractory period I experience following a session and this was no exception. My flaccid cock remained in that state for at least an hour-and-a-half. Eventually, it waked-up and I could feel it beginning to grow beneath the cup.

Toward the end, I began to dwell on the design of the cup and how it protects not only my balls and my cock, but also wraps under my perineum and actually protects my prostate as well. I accidentally dropped a remote control on my unprotected balls last night and was surprised at the level of (brief) pain that yielded. Ouch! Fortunately, it lasted only but a minute then subsided. Read more »