itsthepantsparty, Author at Super-O blog

Crazy experience with new and old toys

Ok, so I had been feeling like my progress has been stagnant for the last 10 months or so, and I now attribute that to 3 things.

One being that it’s just the way things go sometimes. Progress can be slow. But I haven’t been totally stagnant, I’ve learned that there’s like 100 ways to orgasm from prostate play. But I’ve been dying to get to more satisfying, definitive orgasms.

Two being that I had been kind of fighting what my body was telling me to do rather than going with what it wanted. I know that seems obvious but I had one particularly good session by kind of ignoring what my body wanted, and ever since that session I had it in my head that that’s what I should be doing. Pretty certain now though that I was totally wrong and I should have just been going with everything my body was telling me.

The third thing was finding the right toy. Or maybe just the right toy at the right time? Which brings me to recent events and the topic of this post. Read more »

Orgasms changed mid sessions

So I was having a session last night and something interesting happened. My orgasms took on a totally different form than they normally do. Usually I get the intense sensation of being about to cum and then orgasm accompanied by an intense, prolonged contraction of the PC and anal muscles. They don’t pulse like they do with traditional orgasm, they just hold tight without letting up at all. The pleasure is focused entirely around my crotch and can come from different areas as the orgasm rolls into multiples, but it’s all centered around my crotch.

Then, last night I decided that I would try to fight against the contractions and try to keep the muscles unclenched because I’ve heard people say to relax into the orgasm. This is nearly impossible and I can only keep it up for a few moments before the sensations become too much and my body clenches up. When I fight to stay unclenched I’ll usually get a crazy vibration through my body and vision that isnt pleasurable, just a crazy intense sensation. But I kept at it and tried more and more to keep the muscles as unclenched as possible (I won’t say “relaxed” because there’s nothing relaxing about this, it’s hard as hell to keep my body from writhing and clenching). A few times the sensations built and faded away which was a little disappointing because I felt like I was missing out on some orgasms. But then something changed and I started having orgasms again, but this time there was no central focal point. My crotch was no longer the focus of the orgasm and instead it was like my whole body was orgasming. It was really strange honestly. Not having an area of focus was weird and I didn’t know what to think. Like, I can’t tell if the orgasms were as good or better or worse than the others I normally get. It was just very strange and interesting. I was still writhing around and shaking like a man possessed, but the orgasms had a totally different feel to them since the pleasure was hardly in my crotch at all. Read more »

The High Island Health 950 has been rocking my world!

Why doesn’t Aneros sell this model!?

Ok so for anyone that doesn’t know, High Island Health is the sister/parent company of Aneros. They only make 2 prostate massagers which are both shorter than any Aneros model.

Well a week ago I decided that I would buy the 950 since I had heard great reviews about it, and I have long suspected that my prostate is closer to my anus than most Aneros toys are designed for. And holy hell this toy has completely changed the game for me. I feel like I’ve gone from constantly feeling like I was right on the edge of orgasm to constantly being in a state of orgasm. No joke. My body is doing things I’ve never experienced before. I’m writhing in pleasure most of the time and my hips are bucking like crazy. And it hardly seems to matter what position I’m in. In fact, during my 2nd session with it I got the craziest urge to change positions from my side to being in all fours like if I was in missionary position, and I’ll be damned if I didn’t have crazy strong orgasms as soon as I switched. I’ve never felt the urge to fully change positions before but it was like my body was telling me what to do. Read more »

Embrace the feeling of “I’m about to cum” or ignore it in search of subtler feelings?

I keep getting very pleasurable feelings that feel just like I’m about to have an ejaculatory orgasm. They feel great and can get pretty intense sometimes but ultimately they never really lead anywhere, and I’m left I unsatisfied. Now I’m wondering if I’m actually paying attention to the wrong feelings and if I should actually look past those “I’m about to cum” feelings and into something subtler. Especially since people keep saying that prostate orgasms aren’t like penile ones, and these pre-orgasm feelings feel just like the build up to a traditional orgasm. (Except just inside my body near my balls rather than in my dick)

I once felt a small subtle tingle in my prostate that was unlike anything I’ve felt before or since, and I’m wonder if maybe I should just continue looking for that feeling again rather than letting the pre-orgasm feeling sweep me away. (The problem is I haven’t been able to find this tingle since that first time).

I feel like Ive been stuck at this stage for months now and I don’t know what to do to get further.

Anyone have experience with hybrid lubes?

I bought a hybrid lubricant which is supposedly safe for all toys, but I’m skeptical to use it with my syn. Has anyone tried them? Are they really safe for syn models? The brand I bought is Wicked.

Do Nothing. How much nothing is the right amount?

So I’ve been trying the Do Nothing method a lot lately and I’ve had some great results, but I know there’s more, and I also know that I’m constantly over analyzing what’s happening while it’s happening because I’m not sure what contractions I should let happen versus which ones I should be fighting.

For me once the pleasure starts to build at all a number of different things start going on. My PC muscles will try to clench as well as my anus, my left leg/butt tenses up, and my hips start to thrust more and more forward. These are all somewhat involuntary in that they just happen automatically, but I can try to fight them off and relax. But I don’t know if I should.

A lot of the advice is to surrender to the experience, which to me means that I should let these things happen. But a lot of advice also advocates being totally relaxed, which to me means that I should try to keep my body from tensing at all. I’m ver confused.

Is there some tensing up that’s ok? Or should I fight to keep every muscle relaxed? What’s the right way to do this?

Experienced a Dry O but can’t repeat

About a month ago I experienced a true Dry O. It felt just like a penile orgasm but was totally dry. I even posted about it here.

I really enjoyed it because the “regular” orgasms I get with my Aneros never feel like I’m going over the edge and alsways leave me desperate to cum.

I usually get those regular orgasms by clenching more and more as the pleasure builds. But I got the Dry O from more of a Do Nothing method. (I tried to do nothing but some contractions couldn’t be helped).

Ever since then I’ve been trying to have another dry o but it’s just not working out. I’ve been employing the do nothing method and I’m getting good feelings but they aren’t getting me there.

Any advice would be great

Questions About Edging

Do you find that edging before a session helps? And do you edge before you insert the Aneros or after it’s already inside?

Considered myself orgasmic, then got a new toy and had a brand new experience

A few months ago I started having what I consider to be orgasms while using my MGX and Eupho. It’s been glorious and I’ve been playing almost every night. The feeling I get is basically the sensation that I’m right on the edge of orgasm, then everything clenches up and I feel pleasure in my internal muscles that lasts for like 15-30 seconds (I can’t tell) and usually rolls into another orgasm in my PC muscles if I give them a few squeezes during the previous orgasm. During my PC orgasm it almost feels like I’m cumming but not quite. And during the height of my sessions these orgasms can continue rolling into each other. In the end though, I still feel the desire to cum and like I never really “got over the edge.” It’s strange to feel like I’m orgasming but also not satisfying that itch to cum. (Because the orgasm is a totally different type than a traditional penile orgasm). Overall the sessions are wonderful and I’ve been really happy with how things are going, while also knowing that there’s more out there.

But then…

This last week I decided to get a new toy. The Maximus trident. I wanted it because it’s shorter but also thicker than the Eupho, and I thought it would put more pressure in the right areas. Read more »

I don’t feel anything unless I clench

My sessions in the last few months have been nothing short of amazing, and I would say that what I’m experiencing are orgasms. But with each one I’m always in a state where I never really feel like I’ve gone “over the edge” like in a traditional orgasm. I get intense pleasure, a hard involuntary clench that can least for 30s or so and build into another one, but I never have that same feeling of satisfaction I get from a normal penile orgasm or that feeling of going passed the point-of-no-return. And I don’t really get the pulsing feeling that I get when I ejaculate (I keep reading that people feel like they are cumming even though they aren’t). I get some pulsing but it’s not the same. At best it “almost” feels like I’m cumming but not quite.

So I did some reading and what I keep hearing is that people are staying relaxed and not clenching, and that’s what gets them over the edge. But in my experience I don’t feel anything at all unless I clench a bit. And then once the pleasure starts I start clenching even more. It’s almost involuntary. I can force myself not to clench if I try, but it’s not what my body is telling me to do. My body wants to clench harder and harder as the pleasure builds. I’ve tried forcing myself to relax and let go of the clench in these moments but as soon as I do the pleasure stops. Read more »