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I know that i’m not supposed to mention traditional penile orgasms so mods feel free to take down this post if it breaks the rules.
From making progress with my aneros, I personally can now dry orgasm on demand and I can also have localized prostate orgasms from penile stimulation.
But have any of you guys been able to have a full body dry orgasm from penile stimulation?
So in my aneros sessions nowadays, my abs and body start involuntarily convulsing and contracting.
I read somewhere to relax your body when this happens.
Im trying to embrace them and let them happen but I end up becoming tenser and tenser. I tried breathing deeper but it doesnt help because tense abs make it really hard to breathe deeply to relax
Does anybody have any tips to relax fully when my body is involuntarily spasming like this?
Am I the only one that finds more progress and success using the aneros than using the njoy pure wand?
If you are using an aneros, the pencil analogy is really great for understanding how to use an aneros.
When you grip a pencil, you dont grip it with all your might, but you also dont grip it so lightly that it falls out. So there is a fine line where you’re using JUST enough energy to keep a firm grip on your pencil.
The same tip applies to you when you use your aneros.
So now I can pretty much get to the anus/pc muscle fluttery sensation with a tingly pleasure around my penis/prostate area anytime i want to.
Where do I go from here?
Holding it in the pleasurable fluttery sensation for a longer period of time
OR
increasing intensity/duration of each contraction so it “builds up”?
I do have successful aneros orgasms and orgasms from playing with the njoy wand but it just ends up making me super horny afterwards and I inevitably end up jerking off to release all that sexual energy.
I started prostate play partly because I dont want to ejaculate from penis orgssm anymore (not as satisfying), but the horniness after a session just makes it difficult to not jerk off.
Any advice on either having a session and end up not being ballsy horny after it?
Im always afraid ill end up pissing or ejaculating everywhere when im using my njoy pure wand or aneros.
either this or I just cant fully relax.
I’ve done sessions lying in my bathtub or lying in bed and i still am unable to relax when peeing feelings come.
So i was jerking off to help to try and get some sleep but I was doing it passively instead of going as fast as I can.
And my core started convulsing and I felt my prostate contract and even had some tiny p waves as I was doing this.
Has anything like this happened to you before?
I jerked off and ejaculate via penile orgasm couple hours (12 hours ish) before my aneros sessions and my sessions turn out to be good.
Some people here say to let the prostate fluid build up for an aneros session
Just weird that I find ejaculating and emptying out the fluid helps me to concentrate more on prostate orgasm (if i go on nofap for a period of time Im more tempted to penile orgasm instead)
Just curious if some of you feel the same way?
I was watching porn of a girl reaching nipple orgasm as I had an Aneros in my ass.
I made a profound and beautiful realization of how anal play and nipple play unites both genders and both girls and guys can experience the same pleasures.
Versus the narrative that girls have better and longer orgasms this realization has made me feel proud of myself (and you should be too, straight guys especially) of being open minded and trying out prostate/nipple play to experience better pleasures than the penile orgasm shoved to us by media all the time.