Over the years I have visited and read many information resources which have helped me understand the complex variables associated with prostate orgasms and health, I thought here would be a good place to list some of those resources for the benefit of my fellow Anerosians. In no particular order you might find these worth reading and/or viewing.
On the topic of Prostate Massage in general :
Prostate Massage 101: Multiple, GIGANTIC, Shaking, Full-Body Orgasms!
Prostate Health with Dr. John Bergman
Category: Aneros blogs
“Is This A New Approach To Semen Retention and Wet Dreams?”
What Happened?
I am now in Day 8 of SR and thought that I would have to ejaculate soon. But something happened this morning that led me to believe that sooner rather than later, I will be experiencing another wet dream. Here’s the new approach…..
A New Fantasy
What I experienced this morning was quite simple. I got an ‘order’ from my urologist (like a prescription) that I should remain in chastity and thus strive to achieve a wet dream. No masturbation or porn or orgasm allowed (essentially NoFap PMO!) That means progressing a little further in semen retention and not to dwell unnecessarily on the potential for blue-balls. This approach might present my ‘ejaculatory system’ to me in a new light—-a new ‘chastity’ if you will. Since I am just following ‘doctor’s orders’, I must comply, right? Even a little bit of blue-ball discomfort should not stop me now. Of course, time will tell, but even now at Day 8, I still feel great!
What Next?
I will continue on the SR road and expect to achieve a wet dream sometime soon. Last time I remember, it happened at Day 12. When that happens again, I will have followed my doctor’s instructions perfectly!
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Coming back after almost 4 years
For a whole multitude of reasons I hadn’t used my aneros toys for almost 4 years. However, a little while ago I finally delved in to the depths of my wardrobe and freed them from their boxes. I prepped myself, had a shower and turned up the heating so I was nice and cosy. In front of me were my helix, eupho and progasm. I opted for the helix since it’s been a while, and got myself nice and relaxed before inserting. And after an hour… nothing. The feeling of having it inserted was nice, but there were no pleasurable feelings anywhere else, no buzz, no excitement.
I tried it again the next day. More of the same (nothing!) I remembered having trouble with it before, so did a bit of research and wondered if it was too small for me, or if it didn’t quite ‘fit’ right. The best feelings used to come from my progasm but it was looking a little intimidating after such a long time away. So I hopped online and bought a Progasm Jr. Best. Decision. Ever.
As soon as I got it I was incredibly excited. I’d already prepped myself and my room before it arrived in the post, I tore open the package, gave it a good clean and jumped in to bed. This toy is beautiful, black, shiny and elegant, in my opinion it’s much more attractive than any other Aneros toys I’ve had. Any of the prostate toys in fact.
“Changing Up The Session!”
Introduction
I was ready for this morning’s session. Here’s how it happened….
Pre-Session
I retired for the night only wearing my PJs. Yes, I know I am in Day 8 of SR but I really do feel like I could go farther. I awoke about 2 AM with a rather stiff erection. Rather than just grab and put-on a cup, I decided to “wait-it-out”. I just remained still in bed, probably for at least 30 minutes. After that, I rolled-over on my stomach and started to wonder: “Is this how a wet dream would occur?” I began to think about the possibility of having another erection while I was asleep and that may precipitate a wet dream? Intriguing possibility! But In the end, I decided to put-on my XO cup and just try to get back to sleep.
Session
I awoke again, this time about 5 AM and just knew that I needed a session with the MGX Classic. I had not ridden it in a while and was anticipating the pleasure it could provide. So I lubed-up with SSG and got the stem in quite deeply; The MGX has the possibility of stimulating a HFWO and so, being in Day 8, I would not mind too much if I ended this session with an ejaculation. Since there is more ‘room’ in back of the Mueller cup (between the leg straps), I switched cups before the start of the session.
“Lock Me Up!”
Credo
That’s the attitude I am taking this morning! Let me explain…..
Discussion
I am progressing towards an ejaculation (or perhaps a wet dream) and currently in Day 7 of semen retention (SR). I have worn my Mueller Flex Shield cup since early this morning and am so glad that I did. I experienced a quite powerful erection and if I were not wearing the cup, I probably would have ejaculated by now. As always, the cup prevents any and all attempts at masturbation and at Day 7, there is more of an extreme ‘urgency’ to accomplish the mission.
I know it will get progressively harder and harder to refrain from ejaculating the longer I go within SR. Two things will happen: either I will develop blue-balls (more likely) or I will experience a wet dream (less likely). Either way, I will ejaculate. How long can I last?
Attitude
PS There is a change in attitude as I progress longer in SR. There is a more ‘in-your-face’ attitude towards sex too. Guys that are locked-up in chastity (with a keyholder) experience this feeling regularly. They don’t really know IF or WHEN their next ejaculation will occur. I am starting to develop that same feeling now. It is very frustrating yet so sexually arousing at the same time.
New highs.
Things keep getting better. Tired of posting this repeatedly but, it’s the truth. This was my first session in almost a week.
Wife had to be out of the house this morning at 0800. Knowing morning sessions are better for me I took advantage of the opportunity and had some solo fun. Well, this was a session to beat all the others. Amazing where I’m at with SO intensity. I’ve learned to manipulate the Progasm to a small and highly sensitive area and work it back and forth. I had been tightening up and pulling it in further as the O built pulling it off this area but now I’m resisting that impulse and hitting that little spot. I was actually physically exhausted after this session today! I’m going to be sore tomorrow. I’d consider today’s intensity with my pulse elevated a good aerobic workout.
Had another twenty minute session this afternoon. Not near as good as this mornings.
Nipple O’s keep getting better too. I’ve learned to stop trying to force them and just let them happen.
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Contraction Technique Improvement
1st hour relaxation only to thunderstorm sounds of nature. 2nd hour HypnAerosession CD1. Found during the last few minutes of the CD that my contractions seem to be providing a little more intensity of the same type sensations I had been feeling before. I also felt them more frequent. I Observed that when contracting, that it makes quite a bit of difference the rate of contraction. If I contract quickly, any sensations are minimal intensity and very short lived. If I contract very very slowly, I am noticing sensations along the way not felt when contracting faster. I hope this will ultimately lead to more sensations building upon each other during the contractions. Other than a light fluttering at my opening several sessions ago, nothing has been observed during relaxation. I do believe that sensations will begin recurring during relaxation. My biggest enemy at the moment is exercising patience. The time relaxing and trying to avoid expectations helps with this!
2:18 and I wanted more
I had woken up with some pleasurable feelings in my prostate and started to encourage them, but decided that I needed sleep. I lubed up an popped in the Maximum and then lay back down to sleep. What followed for the next 5 hours until the alarm went off at 7:30 was blissful state of sleep and wakefulness, with waves of pleasure and orgasms, one big one where my prostate seems to roll itself 360 degrees inside me.
Finally at 7:30 I snoozed the alarm and let another 20 minutes of orgasms continue before I had to get up, so finished off with an ejaculation.
Wow! As has been said in the forums, every session is different. I’ve not yet learnt how to say no to more orgasms without finishing myself off with a wet one. Master it I will 🙂
“Sleeping Without Chastity Isn’t Working!”
Introduction
I am trying to sleep without a “chastity cup” most nights now. For the most part, I am getting a good night’s sleep. However, there is a problem. Let me explain…..
Nightly NPTs
I am sometimes awakened following a vivid dream sequence and discover that I awaken with a hard erection. I find it extremely difficult to keep my hands to myself. In fact, a couple of nights ago, I was only in Day 3 of SR but I “blew” it——I fell into a so-real fantasy (not wearing a cup) where I was back in my urologist’s office and this time one of his “aids” was performing a routine “ejaculation response test” on me to determine whether I had PE, DE or “normal” EJ response. The penile and scrotal stim felt entirely out of “my” control and although it was extremely arousing and pleasurable, I could not stop the ejaculation nor remain in chastity. I am now, sadly, back at Day 2.
This morning, I started to fall-into the same trap. But I decided to put-on my Mueller Flex Shield cup. And as soon as I did, I felt much better: I was unable to touch-and-feel my erection and so I was able to stay on my current ‘run’ of SR. What a relief!
Lesson Learned
The desire to remain in chastity always gets tested every night. If I want to remain on-track with chastity, I need to ‘protect’ my package from my mischievous, probing hands! If I were younger and desiring to start a family, however, these erections (and ejaculations) would be most welcome!
“Chastity, Celibacy and Aneros”
Introduction
I was browsing online this morning for ideas and definitions of chastity and celibacy (and abstinence too). And one of the take-aways was that it was important to practice regular prostate massage when undertaking these activities, particularly when combined with semen retention and resultant fewer ejaculations. It is important to prevent prostate issues such as cancer. A prostate massage (initially a few times a week then perhaps twice a month minimum) was recommended. That seemed to resound in my head, and the next thing I knew, I was headed up to my bedroom to perform a quick “therapeutic” prostate-massage session. I haven’t had one in a while.
Session
I selected rather quickly my Helix-Trident, lubed it up and began the session. And just as quickly, I fell-into a ‘matter-of-fact’ medical fantasy: I am preparing for a checkup in my urologist’s office and he wants all his patients now to ‘prep’ with a prostate massage. So I obliged.
The Helix went-in very easily and before I knew it, I had started the session. It wasn’t too long before I began to experience an ‘auto-f**k’ feeling within; very slight PC contractions which felt amazingly good. Every now and then, there was a more (involuntary) anal contraction. The doctor told me that this ‘prep’ was to be 15 to 20 minutes minimum; I stopped after 20 minutes. This was probably one of the best sessions I have had with the H-T in a while. And I am only in Day 2 of SR! I was wearing my XO ProCup during this session and several times during this ‘therapy’ I felt a ‘pump or two’ of something (turned out to be precum). An amazing feeling and an ever better prostate ‘prep’!